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ok well me and my boyfriend had sexabout a week and a half ago.we were both virgins.he was wearing a condom and it did not slip or break.he only went half way in and he did not cum because it hurt alot so we stopped.now its fifteen days after my last period and i have been having alot  of vaginal discharge.and my stomach hurts in a weird way and its been lik this for about a week.any chance i could be pregnant?he did not go any where near my vagina with out a condom on.pleasepleaseplease help.im freaking out.im fifteen.

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Dear Aubree,
    It is possible, however if everything is as you describe it also sounds unlikely. The fact that you have vaginal discharge could be a sign of a yeast infection, and the stomach pain, if lower than your bellybutton could be a bladder infection or UTI. My advice would be to go to a friends house, someone you really trust, go to a gas station, buy a pregnacy test and see. If you are pregnant there are many options that will not cause too much of an upheaval in your life. Some are easy and some not so much. Once you come up with a plan you can confront your parents with a mature and responsible decision. If you're not pregnant then it is probably something more like a small infection, in which case just let your mom know you think you have a yeast infection or a bladder infection and explain your symptoms. It is very important you understand that since you JUST had sex about 2 weeks ago, if you ARE pregnant it will probably NOT show at this point. You should test for pregnancy as early as 5 days after your missed period. So 5 days after you SHOULD have started your next cycle. Please message me back if you have any other symptoms or questions and I will help you all I can.

Good Luck Aubree!
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Every girl at some point in her life has the desire to "Lose her virginity". My wish is that I can answer any questions they might have about the experience. I can answer any question I am given, but how much advice I can put into that question will depend on the question itself.

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I am a woman who went through a very unique "loss of virginity" and I have advised three of my younger siblings on their virginity loss and what to expect, what is okay, and what they probably should avoid.

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I am a high school graduate. I also have some college credits and too much free time.

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