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About Courtney Floyd
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Every girl at some point in her life has the desire to "Lose her virginity". My wish is that I can answer any questions they might have about the experience. I can answer any question I am given, but how much advice I can put into that question will depend on the question itself.

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I am a woman who went through a very unique "loss of virginity" and I have advised three of my younger siblings on their virginity loss and what to expect, what is okay, and what they probably should avoid.

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I am a high school graduate. I also have some college credits and too much free time.

 
   

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Losing Your Virginity - I dont know if Im over reacting..


Expert: Courtney Floyd - 4/8/2009

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Ok so like I'd say a month ago I got drunk and ended up sleeping with a guy I met that night well it was my first time...Im only 15 and I was almost kinda relieved it happened just u know got it over with but ever since then I've been kinda upset about it and like almost craving to have sex with someone that Im sober with and want like really want to but then 2 days ago me and that guy met up and hooked up and I feel shitty all over again and I have that same urge. I mean am I like totally over reacting and being stupid?

Answer
Your hormone levels could be a little out of wack due to the change in your body and the new experience. I would recommend you stop hooking up with anyone until you have calmed yourself and no longer feel upset by the act of intercourse. It could possibly be that you feel you are cheating yourself by just hooking up. Try meeting a guy you like and getting to know him well and talk to him about the way you feel first. Just because you FEEL like having sex, doesn't mean you HAVE to. Masturbation is always an option. Although not my expertise, that's my advice. :)

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