About Courtney Floyd Expertise Every girl at some point in her life has the desire to "Lose her virginity". My wish is that I can answer any questions they might have about the experience. I can answer any question I am given, but how much advice I can put into that question will depend on the question itself.
Experience I am a woman who went through a very unique "loss of virginity" and I have advised three of my younger siblings on their virginity loss and what to expect, what is okay, and what they probably should avoid.
Education/Credentials I am a high school graduate. I also have some college credits and too much free time.
Question okay so I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex, were both virgins... we've read all the facts about safe sex and stuff and were being cautious, but doesn't sex bring you closer together in like every way? what kind of emotions should i be expecting after we have sex?
Answer This is a bit difficult to explain but I will do my best. Sex can be a very good feeling experience, although generally for the first few times it can be discomforting and cause soreness, eventually that goes away. However, many people put sex up on a pedistool. They believe that once they have sex fireworks go off, the world is seen clearly, and there becomes this bond with each other that can never be broken. While I tell you, you probably won't ever forget your "first", sex isn't really as hollywood spectacular as people build it up to be. Sex is natural and normal. As long as you're safe about it, the only things that changes is that his penis has now been in your vagina. But some people feel a slight sadness afterwards due to the let down of the build up. Other people are overwhelmed and cry. Some just laugh it off. It really depends on if you turn out to be as ready for it as you think you are or not. It's hard to say what you will experience but if you're sure you are ready then go through with it SAFETLY! And message me back after, tell me how your feeling etc and I can help you further.
But take time alone, think about it, and make sure you feel ready. There's no rush.
