About Courtney Floyd Expertise Every girl at some point in her life has the desire to "Lose her virginity". My wish is that I can answer any questions they might have about the experience. I can answer any question I am given, but how much advice I can put into that question will depend on the question itself.
Experience I am a woman who went through a very unique "loss of virginity" and I have advised three of my younger siblings on their virginity loss and what to expect, what is okay, and what they probably should avoid.
Education/Credentials I am a high school graduate. I also have some college credits and too much free time.
Question so me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex 2 times already but we couldnt, well i couldnt! when he was about to go in, it hurted me soo badly that i told him to stop,it just hurts.. is there something wrong with me?? what could he do or i do so that it will be less painful??
Answer No, nothing is wrong with you. The pain is natural. You could experience more if you have a smaller hymen, but it's going to hurt and be sore for a few times. Make sure you are well lubricated, that he goes slow, and that (despite the pain) you try and relax. The more relaxed YOU feel, the less it will hurt.