About Courtney Floyd Expertise Every girl at some point in her life has the desire to "Lose her virginity". My wish is that I can answer any questions they might have about the experience. I can answer any question I am given, but how much advice I can put into that question will depend on the question itself.
Experience I am a woman who went through a very unique "loss of virginity" and I have advised three of my younger siblings on their virginity loss and what to expect, what is okay, and what they probably should avoid.
Education/Credentials I am a high school graduate. I also have some college credits and too much free time.
Question ok here's the profile...i'm 15 years old with a boyfriend a little older than me...he is experienced in the category while i am a virgin...we have talked much on the subject and i am sure i am ready to lose my virginity...he's the man i love and i am asking these questions.
Will i bleed on him during intercourse?
How badly will it hurt?
what are some things i can do to maybe avoid tremendous pain?
PLZ help me i'm stressing out =))=
Answer First, CALM DOWN! The more tense and worked up you are prior to and during your first time, the more pain you will be in. The more you relax, the more comfortable you will be. If your boyfriend is older, he should be mature and understand bleeding is VERY likely to occur, and it's natural. He will most likely get some blood on him, but it's nothing to be a baby about. As for how bad it will hurt, well that varies from woman to woman, but I can assure at least SOME discomfort. If he's slow and gentle with you, you're relaxed and LUBRICATED!!!! then it shouldn't be something too awful. Understand though that you will be sore for a few times after losing your virginity as well, but once the first time is over, it becomes more pleasure than pain. :) Good Luck!
