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Hello if I lose my virginity will it hurt bad?  I have a girlfriend and she said it hurt her bad but her sister said it doesn't not hurt.  What will it be for me?

Some women say it hurts and some say it doesn't.  Sometimes it depends on what they've done before their first intercourse.  Women who have a history of masturbating vaginally have probably primed their vaginal muscles so they won't spasm and try to close upon first intercourse.  Whatever your vaginal experience, it can make it easier to lubricate the opening first.

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