Losing Your Virginity/Virginity


Hi, I recently had vaginal sex with a girl without a condom. I didn't 'finish' inside of her but pulled out and 'finished'. Am I still technically a virgin?


You are no longer a virgin.  You haven't been one since you entered your partner's vagina.  There is no requirement that you have to have an orgasm to lose your virginity.  Most males enjoy being non-virgins, so good for you.  Better luck at having an orgasm inside her next time.  To learn more about questions of virginity and non-virginity, please see http://www.healthystrokes.com/virginity.html.

Losing Your Virginity

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