Expert: Maggie - 10/6/2007

Question
okay. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half but we've been on and off. last month we got back together and so far things are working out. we sit and talk in front of my house.to weeks ago we were making out  and he got real turned on he started to rub me against him. (this is wen we are out side talking at night).he rubbed and squeezed my butt. he even started licking my brest.ive never been with him .I've never been with anyone. i do want to have sex with him because i get turned on to. i have feelings for him.but I'm scared  to have sex. I'm not going to know what to do when that day comes.can you give me some advice

Answer
Hi Mayra,

It seems to me from what you told me, that you just doen't seem ready for sex yet. And really, there is nothing wrong with that and your partner should respect that.

But here's a few articles for you to take a look at and that might help. They describe pretty much everything you need to know :
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/boyfriend/ready_or_not_the_scarleteen_sex_read...
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_intercourse_101
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/safe_sound_sexy_a_safer_sex_how_to

Take care,
Maggie.