About Maggie Expertise I can answer whatever question you may have about losing your virginity and all that comes with it. I've been helping different people when it comes to sex matters since a few years.
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Question i am 16years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 month and he knows he i am a virgin but he isn't and we have been talking about me losing my virginity to him he said that if it hurts to much he will stop but i am scared incase i bleed and then he says we are finished
Answer Hi Victoria,
There doesn't have to be pain or bleeding on first time sex, really. Some women will experience some of both while others simply won't. If you make sure you are 100 % ready to have sex (Which you can determine with the help of the article I linked you below), if you do lots of foreplay before attempting intercourse in order to make you really aroused, if you have a caring partner, if you use lube, if you go at it slowly, if you are totally relaxed, it all decreases your chance of experiencing pain or bleeding. But if you happen to still experience pain, then it is mostly a little discomfort, no big big pain. As for bleeding, it shouldn't be profuse (nothing that looks like your period) and shouldn't last more than a couple of days (around max 2 days). So jus put your mind at ease. It's also worth remembering that when we are sometimes too worried about something, it can just mean we aren't yet ready for that thing and you know, that's okay.
