Expert: Maggie - 7/30/2007

Question
Hi Maggie,
Oh god i am so freaked out i just learned about what masturbating is!!! with a pillow??????? Please i really really really need to know about it.
What happens when you do it with a pillow? i mean like then you are not a virgin? How do people know if you have masturbated???? Please you must answer me. It would greatly be appreciated.

Answer
Hi Marry,

People can't really know whether or not you masturbate unless you tell them you do or they see it by themselves, really. And while some people might masturbate with a pillow, it's not the only way to do it. There are plenty of others. Just experiment and use your imagination !

As for the virginity thing, it's definition can easily change from one person to the other although most people agree that one looses her virginity the first time she has intercourse. So that means you don't loose your virginity by masturbating.

Feel free to follow-up,
take care,
Maggie.