Why doesn't God love me?


I'm sorry to hear that you are under the impression God does not love you.  

Because this question is so personal, and so broad, it could really only be answered properly in a conversation, and I could never do justice to it in a forum such as this where I cannot interactively communicate with you.  

However, I will tell you the Bible reveals that God loves "the world" in John 3:16, which I would conclude also includes you.  Even though we all anger Him by our sins, he desires to forgive them, and offers that forgiveness to all who trust that Jesus is their substitute in suffering God's wrath by His crucifixion, regardless of how many or how sever those sins are.  

The troubles and tragedies we face in this life are not evidence that God does not love, but that the world itself (including relationships, nature, and our own bodies) has been broken by human sin.  God does not punish sins with direct earthly retribution, but rather we all suffer under the weight of sin's burden and its consequences on this life and world.

I would encourage you to find a Biblical pastor near you or a Christian friend and discuss this in person for a more thorough and personal exploration of the answers to your question.  


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Rev. Jason P. Peterson


I welcome the opportunity to answer questions regarding the beliefs and practices Lutheran Christians, especially questions comparing Lutherans with other Christian denominations or questions which contrast between various kinds of Lutherans. I am especially familiar with the more conservative Lutheran denominations (LCMS, ELS, WELS, etc.). I also take a great interest in examining new Christian movements and popular trends in Christianity from a Lutheran perspective. In addition, I can answer most questions about the original Greek text of the New Testament and its meaning, as well as questions regarding liturgy, evangelism, and preaching. A special area of interest in my ministry is race track chaplaincy/ministry, and I would love to provide information and guidance for anyone interested in this area.


I have been a pastor in the Lutheran Church--Missouri Synod for the past six years at St. John's Lutheran Church in Burt, IA. I currently serve as chairman of the Commission on Ministerial Growth & Support of the Missouri Synod's Iowa District West and as Track Chaplain at Algona Raceway in Algona, IA. I also write as a religion columnist for two local newspapers.

Lutheran Church--Missouri Synod

Algona Upper Des Moines (newspaper) Bancroft Register (newspaper)

B.A. Concordia University - Ann Arbor, MI (Biblical Languages) M.Div. Concordia Theological Seminary, Fort Wayne, IN (Exegetical Theology, Pastoral Ministry & Missions)

Past/Present Clients
Zion Lutheran Church (Columbia City, IN) Zion Lutheran Church (Altamont, IL) St. John's Lutheran Church (Burt, IA) Zion Lutheran Church (Lu Verne, IA) Algona Raceway (IA) Fairmont Raceway (MN) Hancock County Speedway (Britt, IA) Clay County Fairgrounds Raceway (Spencer, IA)

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