Male Masturbation/Orgasm

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QUESTION: Hi
I am 17 and I can't achieve a full orgasm anymore.
I have asked my doctor and she said that watching porn and taking extra time should give me a deeper orgasm but it was unsuccessful, when I first started masturbating I had the deepest orgasms I can remember. I have tried not masturbating for a month and that didn't help either, I have attempted to try and touch my prostate whilst masturbating but that has been unsuccessful. I am single and a virgin and I desperately need you advice.

ANSWER: Take your time and enjoy yourself.  Your doctor even wants you to.  I advise against giving up masturbation for a month.  Most males your age masturbate daily and enjoy it daily.  I also advise against trying to touch your prostate.  You might enjoy masturbating with a lube made especially for sex, like Astroglide or K-Y Liquid.  Many males claim to have more intense and copious ejaculations when they use lube.

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QUESTION: Is there anything else i can try? losing my virginity anything i am so desperate for a deep orgasm, any positions any medication, i have used a durex play ultra to pleasure my balls. Please dr!!

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Maybe your problem isn't masturbating but just not relaxing enough.  Find some activity that makes you calm and relaxed.  After that is a very good time to masturbate.  It also helps to find visual aids that help you keep your sexual focus.  Using lube can also help you keep masturbating for a few seconds more at the point of your orgasm, which can prolong it a little bit and possibly create a deeper orgasm.

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I write from the point of view that masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary to sexual health. I am able to answer questions in all areas of sexuality.

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