Male Masturbation/lube question


Hello, I have some more questions.  Thanks for your help in responding quickly to my others.  Here is the first one.  

I am trying the lube you suggested and think it feels different.  It doesn't immediately feel good or better.  Would you have any suggestion for making it feel better?

Congratulations on taking a step into the wonderful world of lube.  Since it doesn't immediately feel better, I'm guessing you weren't masturbating with too much force without it.  That's a good thing.  If the lube feels more different than good, maybe it's too thick.  Squirt some into a small container, perhaps a pill bottle, and then add water and stir it in.  That will change the viscosity of your lube, and maybe you would like it better watered down.

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