Male Masturbation/masturbation control


Hello, its very kind of you to advise people. Im young and recently married. Ive been having trouble in ned because, unfortunately, I still masturbate. And then my sex drive is much lower and it really affects our sexual relationship. (My wife has a very strong sex drive.) Masturbation, as hood as it feels and I believe it is healthy, is against my religous beliefs.  Ive tried but I cant seem to stop. Any advice would be great.( I donr know if it makes a difference but i was a virgin before I got married)

Hi Charles -

The best way to stop masturbating is during the times you want to, do something else. Reading is a good way, or going for a walk. Doing house work instead of sitting their masturbating will both take up time and energy.

You just have to find other outlets :)  

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I can answer any questions related to male masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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