Male Masturbation/Virgin


Hi am 14, female.

I was just wondering if am still a virgin, after i fingered myslef a lot of times, and i also used toys, and how do i know if am having an orgasm?


You cannot lose your virginity by fingering yourself or using toys.  Those are ways of masturbating.  The only way to lose your virginity is by having sex with another person.  Masturbating cannot make you lose your virginity.

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