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QUESTION: When I masturbate I get the feeling I have to pee. When I can't hold it any longer this clear sticky liquid comes out of my penis and covers it. I have not ejaculated or have had a wet dream befor am I doing some  thing wrong?

ANSWER: It's a good idea to urinate before you masturbate.  Then you won't have to worry about getting the feeling in the middle of your session.  The clear sticky liquid is called bulbourethral fluid, or pre-cum, and it means you're about to ejaculate.  Keep doing what you were doing at that point, and you ought to ejaculate in a minute or so.

To learn more, see http://www.healthystrokes.com/mast.html.

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QUESTION: I do go pee before. The hea of my penis becomes very sensitive to touch. I physically can't keep going. And tips?

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Stay off the head.  Work on the shaft and lightly brush against the edge of the head, called the coronal ridge.  If you learn to use a water-based lube, it will make it possible for you to touch the head while masturbating.  See http://www.healthystrokes.com/lube.html.

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