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Hello Dr. Adams I was hoping you could help me out with a problem I have been having recently. I used to really enjoy masturbating and touching myself, but lately it feels like a chore to get myself to ejaculation. I still love the way it feels when I orgasm, but no longer like getting myself there. I also do not have a woman to help me with this either so I do not know what to do. I want to cum but I have no desire to go through the process of stroking myself.

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Most males feel that way occasionally.  Please see this web page for some tips on how you can add variety to your masturbating sessions.  There are lots of things you can do to help tomorrow's session feel different from today's and from yesterday's and from the day before that.  http://www.healthystrokes.com/variety.html

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Doug Adams, Ph.D.

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I write from the point of view that masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary to sexual health. I am able to answer questions in all areas of sexuality.

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I am the author of the web site HealthyStrokes.com and have been answering questions about sexuality (especially masturbation) from both males and females for over 13 years.

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I have a Ph.D. in a field unrelated to sexuality from one of the leading educational institutions of the world.

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