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| marriage ending | 11/21/2009 | Samantha |
Q: whew, where do I start. Well I have things on my mind and I have no one to talk to except my 16 year ...
A: Sometimes the hardest part is taking the first step and then actually going through with it. And ...
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| marriage | 11/21/2009 | Samantha |
Q: i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ...
A: That's very noble and respectable of you, not many men could do this and be as patient as you ...
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| marriage | 11/21/2009 | Donald Bosch |
Q: i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ...
A: I think that you are going about it the right way. I would simply ease into it and see how she ...
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| Marriage | 11/21/2009 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: Joseph. i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ...
A: Chris, ...im in no rush. like i said i didnt marry her for the sex... You are very wrong; the issue ...
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| joint residential custody | 11/21/2009 | Samantha |
Q: will a judge grant joint residential custody if both parties agree before the finalization of the ...
A: Typically the judge makes a decision in the divorce if the parties can't decide for themselves and ...
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| marriage and relationship | 11/21/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: ..i m in big confusion...i m in a relationship with my girlfriend since 2 yrs....let me explain what ...
A: My answer this time is the same as last time. This woman will make you miserable if you marry her. ...
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| Question | 11/20/2009 | Samantha |
Q: What do you thing about underage marriages? Do you think it should be illegal or legal? The reason ...
A: I totally agree with you for many reasons. Most of the reasons being that when a person gets ...
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| woes | 11/20/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: We're an 8 yr married couple, 3 young children, one parent works, the other stays at home raising ...
A: It sure does sound like you both have the woes, and I am sympathetic to you. Many of us reach a ...
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| relations | 11/20/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: we hv bn married for over 25 yrs now. 2 grownup daughters.wife is a housewife. relations with wife ...
A: BPD is both genetically and environmentally caused. I really believe the genetic piece to be very ...
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| i don't know what to do... | 11/19/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I've been married for two years now. I have no kids and, unfortunately, no job since i got laid off ...
A: Sometimes a person marries for the wrong reasons and it can end up coming back to haunt them. Me, ...
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| Wife does not want me joining any clubs / orgs | 11/19/2009 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: My wife and I have different backgrounds and grew up differently. I'm white and she is African ...
A: Pat, There is no generic and simple / one time remedy answer for your issue(s). Generally ...
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| School | 11/19/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: We're engaged at this point. He has finished his PhD and I'm finishing up my masters. He has managed ...
A: Congrats on your education. I have gone that route as well, and have significant debt. If I waited ...
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| In need of some advice | 11/19/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: I am in desperate need for advice on what to do in my current situation. Its a little unusual but ...
A: James, Based on the story to tell, you are too immature to marry, and apparently your fiance knows ...
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| In need of some advice | 11/19/2009 | Donald Bosch |
Q: I am in desperate need for advice on what to do in my current situation. Its a little unusual but ...
A: I'm afraid you screwed up with great distinction. If you hadn't mentioned your age, I would have ...
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| In need of some advice | 11/19/2009 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: I am in desperate need for advice on what to do in my current situation. Its a little unusual but ...
A: James, This issue is too complicated to be solved by a few lines. There is no generic and simple / ...
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| We are doing well but now my husband decided we would move to Los Angeles and "make it big". How can I convince him that we should stay where we are now? | 11/19/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I'm 25 and my husband's 26. I've got a 5-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter. from a previous ...
A: He's living a pipe dream, very, very few people that go out to LA actually make it to show business ...
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| My husband suddenly decided to become a down-and-out and I don't know why... | 11/19/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I'm 32, and my husband's 34, we have two children aged 5 and 8. I came home from work, just before ...
A: Wow! He just up and suddenly w/o warning decided to leave everything behind and go live like a ...
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| what going on here | 11/18/2009 | Samantha |
Q: mike and I have been living together for 6 years a seperations hear and there for a few days.we just ...
A: Why is he constantly on your case about every little thing?! His behavior is really unnecessary and ...
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| relations | 11/18/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: we hv bn married for over 25 yrs now. 2 grownup daughters.wife is a housewife. relations with wife ...
A: I am sorry for your distress. There are all sorts of things that could be causing your wife's ...
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| My husband and son are in this cult and it's worrying me... | 11/18/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I came home from work one night and found my husband and 17-year-old son with a group of five other ...
A: Wow! I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through right now. This certainly isn't a ...
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| My husband spends too much time with a close male friend... | 11/18/2009 | Donald Bosch |
Q: I'm 30, my husband's 32, and recently he's been spending all his free time with a close male friend ...
A: Invite Jeremy for dinner and ask him to bring his girlfriend (if he has one, but I doubt it), and ...
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| My husband spends too much time with a close male friend and I don't know what to do... | 11/18/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: I'm 30, my husband's 32, and recently he's been spending all his free time with a close male friend ...
A: I am sorry for what you are going through. It certainly sounds like your husband is having a gay ...
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| My husband spends too much time with a male friend who I've never met and he claims is a very close friend... and I'm not sure what to do. | 11/18/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I'm 30, my husband's 32, and recently he's been spending all his free time with a close male friend ...
A: If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then it's a duck. If his behavior is odd and ...
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| newlyweds living in with her brother | 11/17/2009 | Donald Bosch |
Q: here is my story.My fiance' and I met in germany when she worked at a military base.I'm french and ...
A: NOW HERE IS MY---is it healthy for our new married life together having to share our place with her ...
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| lack of communication? | 11/17/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: I know you have a lot of other questions to answer,;) so I'll get right to the point. I have been ...
A: You certainly have my sympathy for what you are going through. Yes, I guess the cousin would be ...
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| My husband thinks he has erectile dysfunction... | 11/17/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I'm 25, my husband's 27, and recently our sex life has dried up completely and I don't understand ...
A: It seems that he has a very distorted view of his penis size. For most men the size of their penis ...
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| Very confused about the state of my marriage | 11/17/2009 | Samantha |
Q: My wife and I have been married for just over a year now. No kids. We had a disagreement that blew ...
A: I'm a firm believer in doing everything within your power to make a marriage work. So that's what ...
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| I think my marriage is over | 11/16/2009 | Samantha |
Q: Although living in the same house my husband has ignored me for two weeks, he communicates through ...
A: If the UK is anything like the US (where I'm from) you probably can't kick him out of the marital ...
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| My wife wants a sex-change... | 11/16/2009 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I ...
A: First Greg, please do not expect that this e-mail would provide a simple and quick remedy for your ...
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| My wife wants a sex-change... | 11/16/2009 | Donald Bosch |
Q: Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I ...
A: I'm also not quite sure how to deal with this type of situation. I do sense that your wife seems ...
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| My wife wants a sex-change... | 11/16/2009 | Samantha |
Q: Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I ...
A: Well, I can understand what a shock this was to you when she broke this news to you, and rightfully ...
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| My daughter is having an affair with her grandfather... and I don't know how to cope with this. | 11/16/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I'm writing in, not about my own marriage, but my parents. I'm 43 years old, my husband's 44, and ...
A: What they are doing is called "incest" and yes it's illegal. I don't know what the legal age of ...
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| which girl will be suitable for my marriage | 11/16/2009 | Samantha |
Q: I am 27 year old male . working in IT. I would like to know what qualities I should look in a girl ...
A: You should look for someone that has similar qualities like you. Someone who can relate to you and ...
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| divorce. | 11/16/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: My wife and I have been married 15 yrs and have had our trouble. I'm from Mass. and she Ohio. We ...
A: I can really tell that you want to find a way -- almost any way -- to save your marriage. I feel for ...
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| divorce | 11/16/2009 | Samantha |
Q: My wife and I have been married 15 yrs and have had our trouble. I'm from Mass. and she Ohio. We ...
A: If she's already made up her mind, you can't necessarily make her change it if she's determined to ...
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| getting over it. | 11/14/2009 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: 'll keep it short. I m 21 and I met a 28 year old guy last year during a vacation. We're the kind of ...
A: madhu, I want you to be clear before I answer. I do not understand your culture so I can only ...
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| getting over it. | 11/14/2009 | Samantha |
Q: 'll keep it short. I m 21 and I met a 28 year old guy last year during a vacation. We're the kind of ...
A: If you have to wait until you get married for another 3 yrs anyway, why bother waiting on him. ...
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| getting over it | 11/14/2009 | Donald Bosch |
Q: 'll keep it short. I m 21 and I met a 28 year old guy last year during a vacation. We're the kind of ...
A: Pretty simple really. Just reading you message to me would be enough to get you over it. The last ...
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| My husband has become judgmental, and our son has too... | 11/13/2009 | Samantha |
Q: My husband has recently started becoming judgmental about everything, and it's now started to spread ...
A: That's truly awful that his attitude is crappy and disrespectful like that, not to mention it's very ...
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| My husband WANTS another man to make me pregnant!! | 11/12/2009 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
Q: Me and my husband both want kids, but my husband does, albeit in a slightly odd way... he wants me ...
A: I thought I had heard everything until I read your letter. You have my deepest sympathies for having ...
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