Marriage/Questions
| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| child support | 2/6/2012 | Samantha |
| Q: I know this is going to sound like a silly question, and I feel like I already know the answer. But ... A: He's sadly mistaken. No, CS does not stop when one of the parties gets married. He'll still have ... | ||
| Abuse? | 2/3/2012 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
| Q: My question is am I crazy? Why would my husband scream and call be hateful names? Why would he say ... A: Sorry you are are having difficulties and are feeling confused. It's really difficult to answer ... | ||
| Getting my wife to engage | 2/2/2012 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
| Q: A little background first. My Wife of less than one year, and i were together for 16 months back in ... A: I can see you are having difficulties in your marriage, and you have my deepest empathy. The first ... | ||
| Insecurity | 1/28/2012 | Samantha |
| Q: I have been married for 9 years, and it has had its ups and downs. I have gone through 2 abortions ... A: What is it that you want out of this marriage? She's taken advantage of you for long enough. As ... | ||
| marriage on the rocks | 1/27/2012 | David Simonsen |
| Q: My marriage is in trouble,my husband and I fight all the time.we have been married for almost a year ... A: Kate, You are right that you can't change him, but you can change yourself. You are viewing this ... | ||
| Marriage, Family and Moving | 1/22/2012 | Samantha |
| Q: I am hoping you can help me sort things out. I am newly married to a man I have been with for 8 ... A: You should sit down with your husband and see what his suggestion would be on this issue. Go ... | ||
| Broken first marriage | 1/10/2012 | Samantha |
| Q: My problem is simple. We married young. The first time we married. She got in the trunk of a small ... A: Sometimes finding forgiveness is not that easy. And there are some that can forgive easily than ... | ||
| Unbelievable | 1/9/2012 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
| Q: My wife refuses to iron my clothes. She washes them and piles them up on top of the dryer for ... A: John, John .... Thanks for writing me. I must say, your letter isn't really clear -- doe your ... | ||
| Ironed out | 1/9/2012 | Samantha |
| Q: My wife refuses to iron my clothes. She washes them and piles them up on top of the dryer for ... A: That might make it a little chilly or awkward going to work in your boxer shorts. If you don't like ... | ||
| Court Ordered Insurance | 1/5/2012 | Samantha |
| Q: My fiance has been ordered by the State of AZ to pay Insurance on a child that is not his, and the ... A: You first have the burden of proving he is not the father. And the only way you can do that is ... | ||
| Married | 1/2/2012 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
| Q: I'm 26 five been married to a 29 yr old for 3yrs been together for 5 yrs on and off before n after ... A: I am so sorry you are having a hard time with your reconciliation. It must be really disappointing ... | ||
| Kissing | 1/1/2012 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
| Q: We've only been married 3 years.For the last 2 years he doesn't kiss me anymore.When I ask him about ... A: I understand what you're saying, but do you? You say, "We are SO happy, BUT ..." AND "He is so ... | ||
| Kissing | 1/1/2012 | Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. aka "Doctor Becky" |
| Q: We've only been married 3 years.For the last 2 years he doesn't kiss me anymore.When I ask him about ... A: I can't imagine how lonely and sad it is to be married to someone who does not want to kiss. In ... | ||
| Short Tempered hunsband | 12/29/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: We are married from 5 years and have a 2 years old boy. Its all going good except my husbands very ... A: He has an anger management problem. He's being irrational by expecting you to smile and take all ... | ||
| Being inconsiderate. | 12/26/2011 | David Simonsen |
| Q: I think my husband is great. However, sometimes he does things that I feel are really inconsiderate. ... A: Jennifer, Marriage is about making life easier for the other person. He is not doing that. It seems ... | ||
| Not a Good Start | 12/15/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I'm a newlywed of only three weeks and already my husband makes me feel that he loves his computer ... A: His addiction to gaming is truly an addiction just like gambling is to a gambler and drinking is to ... | ||
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: That is a very strange fantasy for you to have, it's definitely not typical either. It's more taboo ... | ||
| My husband is jealous of our kids | 12/12/2011 | Daniel Keeran, MSW |
| Q: My husband is 57 and I am 43, we have been married 22 years. We have a solid marriage but his ... A: You need to have this conversation with him and get his promise to stop bullying. He may be insecure ... | ||
| Any advice..? | 12/12/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: So my husband (22yrs old) and I (24yrs old) have been together for 5 years married for 2 of them, He ... A: There is probably nothing you can say or do at this point to get him to listen to you and take you ... | ||
| unhappy marriage | 12/11/2011 | David Simonsen |
| Q: I'm sure it seems common, but I feel so alone! I have been with my high school sweetheart for 23 ... A: Marie, You continued having kids with this man even when he was doing all these things you dislike. ... | ||
| Husband and his computer | 12/7/2011 | Dr Tim Gladu |
| Q: I love my husband and we have alot in common, except I'm much more cleaner than him. He works 2nd ... A: Lisa, This sounds like he is addicted to porn and you would like it to stop. This has become a very ... | ||
| marriage | 12/2/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 3 AND HALF YEARS.EVER SINCE WE GOT MARRIED WE HAVE LIVED WITH OUR ... A: You are very stressed out right now and have a lot of responsibilities and things that are expected ... | ||
| Marital issues | 11/30/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I am a mother of an 8 year old. Mine was an arranged marriage like most of them in India. I am city ... A: No, you're definitely not at fault for this relationship/marriage going awry. He's the one that's ... | ||
| Can this marriage work? | 11/30/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I have been married for 4 years. For the past 2 years I feel like our relationship has been going ... A: At the rate this marriage is going, no, it's not going to last if you allow this to keep happening. ... | ||
| Marital issues | 11/28/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I am a mother of an 8 year old. Mine was an arranged marriage like most of them in India. I am city ... A: The most obvious choice would be to not go back to your husband b/c he's abusive to you in many ... | ||
| No Inimacy for a year | 11/23/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I have lived with my domestic partner for just over a year now. Before we moved in together he was ... A: Something is just not adding up here. I would think that something is up somewhere and that he's ... | ||
| Separation | 11/22/2011 | David Simonsen |
| Q: My husband of six years (we have been together for 16 years) wants a divorce. He had an emotional ... A: Helena, You can only be in charge of yourself. So I would suggest you focus on doing loving things ... | ||
| intimacy | 11/16/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: My partner initially was quite intimate with me however, after marriage he does not kiss me; on the ... A: Anything that's not marked private (in asking questions) is public. That means it'll show the ... | ||
| Should I stay or go? | 11/16/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: This is a long story so bear with me. My ex-husband and I have been together 15 years. In the ... A: Just b/c you love him and have been with him for 15 yrs is not a reason to stay with him. And it's ... | ||
| intimacy | 11/16/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: My partner initially was quite intimate with me however, after marriage he does not kiss me; on the ... A: That's definitely not normal behavior in a marriage or in any relationship for that matter. He's ... | ||
| can our parents behavior in marriage, effect our own marriage? | 11/9/2011 | Mr. Sharma |
| Q: Sharma. i would like to ask you a question regarding the marriage pattern that runs in a ... A: If someone has been neglected in childhood then some people take learning from past & try to improve ... | ||
| Relationships | 11/6/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: So I have had realtionships with guys in the past and they were long lasting and good. They all ... A: What is it that YOU want? If this other woman turns out to be the love of your life, and you let ... | ||
| Engaged: Jealousy creeping in | 11/3/2011 | Daniel Keeran, MSW |
| Q: I really need some advice. I am engaged to a guy that I love very deeply. I am 20 and he is 24. My ... A: Does he look at porn? If so, he may be addicted to it, and it arouses his interest in other online ... | ||
| is my husband a baby or just controlling? | 11/3/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: My husband is a big baby and mamas boy.We live three hours away from our parents and see them often, ... A: Maybe he's being a bit of both. It's unfair that he's acting the way he is. He's being immature ... | ||
| wife unfaithful and now wants out of the relationship | 11/2/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I recently found out that my wife was having an affair with a co-worker. This had been going on for ... A: That's just it you can't control how she acts, you can only control how you react to her. I know ... | ||
| Engaged: Jealousy creeping in | 11/2/2011 | Daniel Keeran, MSW |
| Q: I really need some advice. I am engaged to a guy that I love very deeply. I am 20 and he is 24. My ... A: Your fiance needs to have clear sexual boundaries, and you are right to be concerned. Do not marry ... | ||
| husband too tired for intimacy/sex | 11/1/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: Any suggestions on how to get more sex into an 18 yr marriage? (We're 50.)My husband works long, ... A: He's taking on too much and not giving enough time for you that you so desperately want from him. ... | ||
| wife unfaithful and now wants out of the relationship | 11/1/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I recently found out that my wife was having an affair with a co-worker. This had been going on for ... A: First let me say that I'm sorry that you have to endure all this, but it can and will get better as ... | ||
| IL issues and Hubby believes them... | 10/31/2011 | Samantha |
| Q: I am having some problems in my married life. To give u a little background to my scene, I have been ... A: I'm sorry that you're having to go through all of this stress between your mom and now your husband ... | ||
| marrying a women doctor | 10/28/2011 | Dr Tim Gladu |
| Q: Am a S/w professional got a proposal to marry a women doctor and the age gap between me and her is ... A: I sure that you are aware that most doctors are very busy. You would most likely not have children ... | ||
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I can answer most any type of questions relating to marriage and relationships. I have been divorced and I`m happily remarried. I have been through many things throughout the years. I will try to offer solutions to a problem you have whether it be; divorce, adultery, advice on a spouse, etc. I`d be happy to answer, to the best of my ability, any questions you might have. I promise to be unbiased and non-judgemental. As I like to remain neutral and try to see things from every angle possible and keep an open mind.
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I have been a volunteer for all experts for over 10 yrs now. I volunteer in 2 catagories/topics involving marriage type issues. I have helped a lot of people.
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