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| my marriage is ending and i don't no if i want to save it | 7/22/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: i am 25, a mother of 2 boys in a wife, i have been married for 5 years in i feel in my heart that my ...
A: It is possible that he is having an affair. That is something you need to investigate further, if ...
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| I need advice about my husband | 7/22/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: I've been married for 4 years and my husband doesn't pay much attention to me or our girls they ...
A: He very well could be being unfaithful to you. Or he could be just preoccupied with things going on ...
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| jealousy | 7/22/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: I have several problems but I think they may all be related. I have been with my husband for 4 ...
A: I’m not sure that my reply is according to your expectation… I do not have a “real” answer for you. ...
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| Annoyed newlywed | 7/21/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: My question is: I feel like my husband doesn't understand me. He says things that hurt my feelings: ...
A: .. Welcome to the world of marriage!! You will find all kinds of things that are going to annoy ...
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| his change of heart | 7/21/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years now. We have been together for 8 years. We share the ...
A: … I love him, but there has never been any passion between us… his body language is very closed off. ...
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| Jealousy | 7/19/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: My wife has a very strong jealous of her cousin who is living with us in the same house (but ...
A: Jealousy may be dysfunctional, once it origins from a paranoid personality. Usually, however, it is ...
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| Husband wants to be a rock star | 7/18/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: We've been married 3 years, and have been together ten. After returning home from a business trip ...
A: You both do need a professional help. Do not use the 'do it yourself' method. Offer my online phone ...
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| What should I do? | 7/17/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: Just to give a summary of what happened, I had a 2 mo. relationship outside of my 10 year marriage ...
A: I think that the main issue is not her attitude, but yours: ...I'm having trust issues with her ...
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| What should I do? | 7/17/2008 | Donald Bosch |
Q: Just to give a summary of what happened, I had a 2 mo. relationship outside of my 10 year marriage ...
A: Sorry for the delay. I forgot to set up my vacation period. I'm sorry to hear that you are having ...
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| Marriage | 7/14/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: We were high school sweethearts and have been married for 18 years this month. We have 3 great kids. ...
A: Tod Hall, Just to make you feel better I think we have all felt this way at times. I have always ...
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| lazy husband | 7/14/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: well lets start off with that i am a young gay proffesional, i had traveled to massachusetts with ...
A: There are two alarming statements in your letter: ...even had a few physical fights... and ...now ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: You have to stop letting your ego get in the way of things. You can't control how he acts (or ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 | Donald Bosch |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: His words were not backed by truth, and you have stated that in your own message. When you love ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: I think it's normal for you to wonder about him from time to time. After all you did have a fair ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 | Donald Bosch |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: Let's assume you were sitting on the sidelines and heard a story similar to the one you are telling ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: It is usually most advisable not to look backward, but to step forward. Concentrate on your social ...
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| Big Age Gap, I am talking HUGE, WOW? | 7/12/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: Searching the WWW and finding many many sites on the subject I am compelled to ask anyone with ...
A: I'd say you have over a 50-50 chance for everything going in your favor with her staying with you ...
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| under age marriage | 7/12/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: can my mother have my marriage annulled? I am 17 and my husband is 18. She took us to get our ...
A: The answer to this is most likely no. In most states the age of consent is 17, with 18 being ...
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| arranged marriages vs love marriages | 7/11/2008 | Donald Bosch |
Q: i am hoping to find a statistic which shows the different success rates between arranged marriages ...
A: Arranged marriages tend to have a better success rate then the U.S. love marriages so. Arranged ...
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| Heading into a separation | 7/11/2008 | Donald Bosch |
Q: I don’t really know where to start but here goes. My wife and I have only been married for a year; ...
A: I'm happy that you see that you need to step back and allow her to find out what she wants. ...
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| Big Age Gap, I am talking HUGE, WOW? | 7/11/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: Searching the WWW and finding many many sites on the subject I am compelled to ask anyone with ...
A: If you truly love her and she loves you, then what is stopping you from marrying the love of your ...
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| Heading into a separation | 7/11/2008 | Donald Bosch |
Q: I don’t really know where to start but here goes. My wife and I have only been married for a year; ...
A: I hope that you will be open minded and that you will fully understand what my opinion is on this ...
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| 2 1/2 yr of marriage | 7/10/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: Me and my husband have been married for 2yrs and have struggled. We filed for divorce after 1yr but ...
A: Is he still cheating on you and lying, etc? Or has this all been forgiven and put behind? Is he ...
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| Marriage | 7/9/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: I've been married for 22 years now.We have been together for 22 years total.This is my first ...
A: It's not uncommon for a couple that's been married for many years or as long as you have to have ...
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| how to not feel resentful towards future spouse | 7/9/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I recently moved in with my fiance as well as my 2 children. I've known him for 8 years. I feel like ...
A: I am getting HUGE RED FLAGS as I read your letter. I don't think you are ready to get married to ...
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| Wondering if it's the beginning of the end for our marriage? | 7/8/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I found this website online and I'm not sure where else to turn. My husband and I have been married ...
A: You can belong to God without going to church. I hope you know this. But it is a good idea to go and ...
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| Taking my name after marriage | 7/8/2008 | Kiya Sakaris, C.P.C.C. |
Q: I'm thinking of asking my girlfriend to marry me and i've come across a bit of a problem. We're both ...
A: There is not too many options in this situation, and it becomes even more limiting without ...
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| Trial Separation | 7/6/2008 | Kiya Sakaris, C.P.C.C. |
Q: I have been married to my wife for a little of four years now. We have two beautiful little boys ...
A: Yes, I do believe that there is hope for this marriage. It sounds like you truly want to be with her ...
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| engagement | 7/3/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: I am living with my boyfriend and we are planning marriage. M question is... is it OK for me to wear ...
A: It's whatever you're comfortable doing. Since he's going through a divorce, it's probably okay to ...
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| Separation involving children | 7/2/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: I was to separate from my husband. We have been married for 10 years now and I have had enough. We ...
A: He has to learn to stop being so critical of you. Otherwise, he's only going to end up driving you ...
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| Separation involving children | 7/1/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: I was to separate from my husband. We have been married for 10 years now and I have had enough. We ...
A: The problem is that he doesn't respect you as his wife, and he has a major drinking problem. You ...
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| Filing child support after a new marriage | 6/28/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: my name is Beth and my two friends are planning on getting married. One of my friends had a baby ...
A: No, it doesn't effect her chances at all, whether she's married or not, she needs to file for child ...
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| What The Heck Is Going ON??? | 6/28/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: My wife of 19 1/2 years suddenly and without warning decided to separate from our marriage. She ...
A: There is no ‘cook book’ answer, ‘to do list’ or a ready made Q-A type of a respond to your current ...
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| abuse and drugs | 6/27/2008 | Dr. Joseph Abraham |
Q: My husband I have been married for just over a year. I went through a spell in our 3-year ...
A: Your description of your marital mental and emotional state allows me to advice that the two of you, ...
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| marriage | 6/26/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I am married to a wonderful husband and have 2 precious kids. We are both Christians. We have a good ...
A: Natasha, I have not heard back from you and I want to help you. Please contact me through my ...
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| I have tried everything!!!!! | 6/26/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 2yrs 2mths and have been together 11 yrs total.Well first we ...
A: Sometimes you just have to throw in the towel. He doesn't want to work, has been abusive to you, ...
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| Husband Not Working | 6/25/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: We've been married for three years, second marriages for both of us. Out of the three years, my ...
A: I am concerned that he is not willing to hold a job in order to support his wife. This doesn't show ...
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| annulment | 6/23/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: why is is that when im in an argument with my wife that she always thinks about the end...I dont ...
A: She could be doing this b/c she regrets getting married (for whatever her personal reasons might ...
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| goes away for weekend once a month | 6/23/2008 | S.Kessler |
Q: This is a difficult issue. First my husband and I have fought about going out too much over the ...
A: This is a huge issue for you to deal with. You need to sit down and have a serious heart to heart ...
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| marriage help | 6/22/2008 | Bill |
Q: I have been dealing with my husband's co-worker calling him on his cell phone for 4 years. I have ...
A: Well you've probably suffered with it long enough. People that like to make their spouses angry or ...
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