AboutPastor Kimberly Lemler Expertise As an ordained minister, life coach, and counselor, I can help you answer questions related to marriage based on the Bible. I have been through a divorce due to adultery and know the pain of losing a marriage and having to rebuild my life. I have been happily remarried for 16 years.
Outside of AllExperts I can be reached at:
Walk By Faith Counseling Center
www.GodsHealingPower.org
Experience
Experience in the area I have been happily married for 16 years. I do street ministry, phone ministry, e-mail ministry, in-office and home ministry and have ministered on a worldwide prayerline. I am a life coach as well and I have a weekly radio broadcast.
Publications I have a Healing CD ready which is available on our website, along with our other CD's.I also have a weekly radio teaching broadcast.
Education/Credentials I am a former school teacher, a graduate of Indiana University,1984. I have received biblical instruction at Victory Bible Institute and am currently working on a PhD in healing through Christian Leadership Seminary. I have also completed studies under Art Mathias of Wellspring Ministries in How TO Minister To Others. In addition I have taken classes through CHarles and Frances Hunter on How To Heal The Sick
Past/Present Clients I have ministered to many, many clients over a 15 year period.
Education/Credentials
I am a former school teacher, a graduate of Indiana University,1984. I have received biblical instruction at Victory Bible Institute and am currently working on a PhD in ministry. Past/Present Clients I have ministered to many, many clients over a 15 year period.
Question Hello. Me and my husband have been married for 2yrs and have struggled. We filed for divorce after 1yr but them we got beck together, felt that GOD wanted us to stay together. Now my husdand is on this trip again about he dont want to be married because I dont care about him. we got into a agruement and I thought he had called his 1sgt (military family) so i talked to him too.My husband says that I put him in our business, so i dont care about him. My husband has cheated on me, lied to me, disrespected me, left me. But yet I have been by his side dispite everything. I love him and really want to be with him but he is not hearing that. I am a chrisitan and i'm not suppose to give up on my marriage. I am so stressed out. I dont know what to do. I need help on how to deal with all of this, while we still living in the same house.
Answer Hi Adrienne,
Is he still cheating on you and lying, etc? Or has this all been forgiven and put behind? Is he still disrespecting you? Is he a Christian or only you?
Divorce is not against God's will in certain circumstances. If his behavior is this bad and you don't see it getting any better, then I would suggest counseling and a separation. You are not called by God to stay in a marriage where he is having sex with other women or being disrespectful to you. This is abuse and God doesn't want to see you abused. Do you want to allow your husband to keep abusing you??
Do you have a church? I would suggest finding one if you don't have one, start going and then do some counseling with the pastor. I don't know a lot about your marriage and background to give you a lot of help in just one letter. You need ongoing help to get your problems worked out.
Do some reading at this website and get the books. They are extremely helpful to Christian marriages...
