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| What do I do about my wife's dad and his sexual attitude towards me? | 11/23/2009 |
Q: I'm 26, my wife's 25. We've been married for just over 4 months now, and everything's great. ...
A: You really must tell your wife what's going on here, even if you don't think she'll believe you, ...
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| pedophilia | 11/23/2009 |
Q: 4 days ago I discovered that my husband had a secret email address/website where he kept pictures of ...
A: What he's doing it illegal and he will likely go to jail for. Porn that has minor children in it, ...
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| My husband does not want sex... | 11/22/2009 |
Q: I'm a newlywed, been married for 3 weeks now, we've got our honeymoon in 3 weeks, all's been good, ...
A: That's horrible that your husband had to endure something so traumatic with his father. I'm sure ...
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| diferent age | 11/22/2009 |
Q: I dating my coworker for 5 months, he is 36 italo-americano i am 45 latin lady,we see each other in ...
A: You left your old BF for a very good reason. He's been dishonest with you and lying to you about ...
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| marriage ending | 11/21/2009 |
Q: whew, where do I start. Well I have things on my mind and I have no one to talk to except my 16 year ...
A: Sometimes the hardest part is taking the first step and then actually going through with it. And ...
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| marriage | 11/21/2009 |
Q: i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ...
A: That's very noble and respectable of you, not many men could do this and be as patient as you ...
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| joint residential custody | 11/21/2009 |
Q: will a judge grant joint residential custody if both parties agree before the finalization of the ...
A: Typically the judge makes a decision in the divorce if the parties can't decide for themselves and ...
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| Question | 11/20/2009 |
Q: What do you thing about underage marriages? Do you think it should be illegal or legal? The reason ...
A: I totally agree with you for many reasons. Most of the reasons being that when a person gets ...
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| i don't know what to do... | 11/19/2009 |
Q: I've been married for two years now. I have no kids and, unfortunately, no job since i got laid off ...
A: Sometimes a person marries for the wrong reasons and it can end up coming back to haunt them. Me, ...
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| We are doing well but now my husband decided we would move to Los Angeles and "make it big". How can I convince him that we should stay where we are now? | 11/19/2009 |
Q: I'm 25 and my husband's 26. I've got a 5-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter. from a previous ...
A: He's living a pipe dream, very, very few people that go out to LA actually make it to show business ...
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| My husband suddenly decided to become a down-and-out and I don't know why... | 11/19/2009 |
Q: I'm 32, and my husband's 34, we have two children aged 5 and 8. I came home from work, just before ...
A: Wow! He just up and suddenly w/o warning decided to leave everything behind and go live like a ...
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| what going on here | 11/18/2009 |
Q: mike and I have been living together for 6 years a seperations hear and there for a few days.we just ...
A: Why is he constantly on your case about every little thing?! His behavior is really unnecessary and ...
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| My husband and son are in this cult and it's worrying me... | 11/18/2009 |
Q: I came home from work one night and found my husband and 17-year-old son with a group of five other ...
A: Wow! I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through right now. This certainly isn't a ...
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| My husband spends too much time with a male friend who I've never met and he claims is a very close friend... and I'm not sure what to do. | 11/18/2009 |
Q: I'm 30, my husband's 32, and recently he's been spending all his free time with a close male friend ...
A: If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then it's a duck. If his behavior is odd and ...
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| My husband thinks he has erectile dysfunction... | 11/17/2009 |
Q: I'm 25, my husband's 27, and recently our sex life has dried up completely and I don't understand ...
A: It seems that he has a very distorted view of his penis size. For most men the size of their penis ...
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| Very confused about the state of my marriage | 11/17/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for just over a year now. No kids. We had a disagreement that blew ...
A: I'm a firm believer in doing everything within your power to make a marriage work. So that's what ...
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| I think my marriage is over | 11/16/2009 |
Q: Although living in the same house my husband has ignored me for two weeks, he communicates through ...
A: If the UK is anything like the US (where I'm from) you probably can't kick him out of the marital ...
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| My wife wants a sex-change... | 11/16/2009 |
Q: Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I ...
A: Well, I can understand what a shock this was to you when she broke this news to you, and rightfully ...
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| My daughter is having an affair with her grandfather... and I don't know how to cope with this. | 11/16/2009 |
Q: I'm writing in, not about my own marriage, but my parents. I'm 43 years old, my husband's 44, and ...
A: What they are doing is called "incest" and yes it's illegal. I don't know what the legal age of ...
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| which girl will be suitable for my marriage | 11/16/2009 |
Q: I am 27 year old male . working in IT. I would like to know what qualities I should look in a girl ...
A: You should look for someone that has similar qualities like you. Someone who can relate to you and ...
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| divorce | 11/16/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been married 15 yrs and have had our trouble. I'm from Mass. and she Ohio. We ...
A: If she's already made up her mind, you can't necessarily make her change it if she's determined to ...
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| getting over it. | 11/14/2009 |
Q: 'll keep it short. I m 21 and I met a 28 year old guy last year during a vacation. We're the kind of ...
A: If you have to wait until you get married for another 3 yrs anyway, why bother waiting on him. ...
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| My husband has become judgmental, and our son has too... | 11/13/2009 |
Q: My husband has recently started becoming judgmental about everything, and it's now started to spread ...
A: That's truly awful that his attitude is crappy and disrespectful like that, not to mention it's very ...
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| My husband WANTS another man to make me pregnant!! | 11/12/2009 |
Q: Me and my husband both want kids, but my husband does, albeit in a slightly odd way... he wants me ...
A: Well, I can definitely see why you would have a huge problem with this very scenario! For one this ...
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| not in love | 11/10/2009 |
Q: presently I am with a great guy with whom I have been friends for many years, but nothing more. I ...
A: Maybe you're idea of love isn't really love with these so called bad boys, maybe it's just lust, and ...
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| My daughter ran off with her husband's father and is now trying for a baby with him. | 11/6/2009 |
Q: Last week our daughter (she's 25, with a 4-year-old son, and her husband's 26) came down to see us, ...
A: She made it your business when she invited you into the conversation to begin with. You're right ...
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| Husband ranting about everything... no matter where we are or what we do! | 11/5/2009 |
Q: I've been married to my husband for a month now, and things have been great so far... until now. ...
A: A person changes after they get married, don't ask me why that happens, but it's so true! It can be ...
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| My husband's odd behaviour with our son-in-law... | 11/5/2009 |
Q: I was checking our email last week (me and my husband have a shared email address, e.g. ) after I'd ...
A: My goodness, you have every right to be stressed out and very concerned. You need to print out that ...
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| marriage ending | 11/3/2009 |
Q: whew, where do I start. Well I have things on my mind and I have no one to talk to except my 16 year ...
A: You know that this has absolutely nothing to do with your daughter or her moving out, right? He's ...
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| Do all guys do that..??? | 11/1/2009 |
Q: I really hope you can help me to decode my man. I know, you might think its pretty clear,but its not ...
A: I have to say that baby talk and all the compliments he's been giving you are a good sign. However, ...
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| marriage | 10/31/2009 |
Q: I have a bit of an odd problem and yet I think it is common. I am a muslim girl living in a muslim ...
A: I'm from a completely different culture than where you are. It's hard to not really get to know ...
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| wifes affair | 10/30/2009 |
Q: Where to start, well my wife and I have been at odds for awhile now, and it came to a head about 2 ...
A: I don't know about Canadian laws, but in the US (which is where I'm from, and I'd assume Canadian ...
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| Marriage | 10/20/2009 |
Q: .i have been looking everywhere for the order of the Marine Corps on marriage and i cant find ...
A: There are some states (but very few) that actually permit a 16 yo to marry. In other states you ...
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| ending my marriage | 10/19/2009 |
Q: i have been with my husband for nine years been married close to 4 and have 2 children 6 1/2 and 4 ...
A: You need to be up front and brutally honest with him. You don't have to be mean and disrespectful ...
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| seperation | 10/17/2009 |
Q: I've been married for 5 years and have two young children with my husband. I feel as if we've had ...
A: All of these thoughts and feelings that you're going through are normal and to be expected. You, of ...
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| marrige | 10/11/2009 |
Q: Me and my wifes been married for 12 years now and she has a complaint that im not a man i dont ...
A: Do not listen to her and take what she says personally. Any woman would be envious of what you do ...
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| What should i do about the woman i want to be with? | 10/10/2009 |
Q: Ok, I met a woman last yr in work who is 8yrs older than me and i was just 21. I began to like her, ...
A: It seems that she does not return the feelings you have for her. She sees you as more of a friend ...
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| marriage torn by ciggrettes | 10/9/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have only one real problem. My husbands addiction to ciggrettes is comparable to ...
A: He's putting poison in his body and exposing you and your unborn baby to it too. He's not only ...
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| Marriage | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I was wondering if i get married to my fiance and we happen to get a divorce will he be in titled to ...
A: That information from your friends is incorrect. Generally speaking anything that you enter into ...
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| Husband Says He Doesn't Know What He Wants | 10/1/2009 |
Q: Samantha, I am at a complete loss on what to do. My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs and 1 ...
A: The drop dead deal breaker that would seal the deal for me would be him not having contact or ...
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| Approaching 10 years and concerned | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Ok so if anyone was to look at our relationship they would think it was great, and for the most part ...
A: You need to sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart talk with him. He needs to know ...
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| Remarrying w/ child...can ex go after new husbands income | 9/22/2009 |
Q: I live in Wisconsin and have been divorced for 3.5 years. I have a 6 y/o that I have primary ...
A: Do you mean will they (meaning the law) take into consideration what you're husband income would be ...
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| Remarrying w/ child...can ex go after new husbands income | 9/22/2009 |
Q: I live in Wisconsin and have been divorced for 3.5 years. I have a 6 y/o that I have primary ...
A: NO, absolutely he can NOT come after your fiancee's income. He isn't responsible for your child, ...
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| married with children | 9/12/2009 |
Q: i am the father. i live in Florida. i am still married to my wife and living in the same house. can ...
A: Yes, you can legally take them out of state while you're still married and there's nothing she can ...
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| Huge waste | 9/11/2009 |
Q: This is my story, as catastrophic as it seems : I am a 40 years old divorced, and so he is. We met ...
A: He can't keep running away from his problems when he feels he can't cope with them or if something ...
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| Huge waste | 9/11/2009 |
Q: This is my story, as catastrophic as it seems : I am a 40 years old divorced, and so he is. We met ...
A: What do you want to do? Why do you want to keep wasting your life with a man that keeps running ...
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| should I go or stay | 9/10/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I have not been able to get him to met or even want ...
A: Because, Ayisa, it's hard to hear something like this when it's someone you love and you really and ...
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| should I go or stay | 9/10/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I have not been able to get him to met or even want ...
A: If you feel that you must leave then by all means do it. You've made no progress with him in the ...
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| girl loosing hymen | 9/10/2009 |
Q: i want to explain more for u,i musterbated by rubbing my clitoris and vaginal oppening from outside ...
A: The hymen is a piece of skin that goes over the cervix. And the only way to break the hymen is to ...
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| Sister's Marriage | 9/8/2009 |
Q: I am stuck in the middle of my sister's marriage. My brother in-law is asking me for advice and I ...
A: He needs to know that she's cheating on him. Of course, it'll crush him when he hears this, but he ...
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| married, but in love with someone else | 9/4/2009 |
Q: Hey. I really need some advice. Please try not to judge me, I know this is a horrible situation, and ...
A: This is what I suggest you do. 1--You must come clean to your husband of what you've been doing, ...
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| Will I ever get there? | 9/3/2009 |
Q: I really hope you can help me here. My bf and I have been dating for ALMOST 2 years. We talked about ...
A: I wouldn't agree to marry someone that smokes weed, a drug is a drug, is a drug, weed or not, ...
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| relationship/children | 9/1/2009 |
Q: I guess I am only asking for an opinion here since I have already made my choice. I am 38 he is 49. ...
A: You know you are absolutely right, if you see yourself with a child at some point in your life and ...
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| Problem | 8/31/2009 |
Q: Hey !! I don't know how to start but I've got this serious and biggest problem in my life, I am into ...
A: I assume this would be a love marriage. I'm very familiar with India cultures and the marriage and ...
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| ex wife drama | 8/25/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and his ex wife have been divorced for 3 years and she remarried soon after. i am his ...
A: If you want to you could tell her to put up or shut up, by giving you absolute proof that he's ...
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| Cousin Marriage : Pros and Cons | 8/24/2009 |
Q: .. what are the pros and cons of cousin marriage? I am 23 years old and might be marrying next year. ...
A: Do you love her and want to marry her b/c you love her? If so, and you do love her that would be a ...
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| ex wife drama | 8/24/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and his ex wife have been divorced for 3 years and she remarried soon after. i am his ...
A: He probably already know how she is and that she's only doing this to cause drama for you and her ...
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| Legally? | 8/10/2009 |
Q: If a 22 year old guy and a 17 year old girl are in a relationship and the girls mother approves of ...
A: In most states 17 is considered of legal and consensual age for sex. Not sure about marriage, as ...
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| Eloping | 7/26/2009 |
Q: Hey! I have a lot of dumb questions but I just can’t seem to find any answers anywhere else. Maybe ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your questions with my answers put directly below them, this is out of ...
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| Jealousy | 7/25/2009 |
Q: and I thank you so much for your time, Obviously, the title of my message here is jealousy. I am ...
A: It's a bad habit that you've gotten into. You have to change your way of thinking of things, this ...
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| Jealousy | 7/25/2009 |
Q: and I thank you so much for your time, Obviously, the title of my message here is jealousy. I am ...
A: But, of course, you ARE feeling this way for a reason. You just don't know that reason. Typically ...
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| Discontent Wife | 7/22/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Two years ago, she was feeling discontent and was ...
A: There's really nothing you can do for her to help her decide what she wants in life. She's the one ...
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| my husband thinks im cheating | 7/22/2009 |
Q: can you help me im very upset with my husband, 6 mths ago i started a new job with two male bosses, ...
A: He's likely saying this out of jealously and he could be a little bit depressed that he's not been ...
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| child support | 7/18/2009 |
Q: My question is can my paychecks be garnished? My fiance owes back child support and we have been ...
A: No, they can NOT take your wages at all. There are laws in place in every state that protect ppl ...
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| marrage | 7/7/2009 |
Q: I AM A UK CITIZEN MY HUSBAND DIVORCED ME ON THE GROUNDS OF ADULTERY,MY NEW PARTNER IS AMERICAN AND ...
A: Who told you this?! That is untrue, and false information they are giving you. Adultery is NOT ...
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| marriage help | 7/6/2009 |
Q: Can a court order you to seek marriage counceling eventhough you do not have any children together ...
A: Yes, there is a slight chance that can happen, but if your wife doesn't want to stay married, you ...
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| marrage | 7/6/2009 |
Q: I AM A UK CITIZEN MY HUSBAND DIVORCED ME ON THE GROUNDS OF ADULTERY,MY NEW PARTNER IS AMERICAN AND ...
A: Nope, not at all. The courts, states and laws do not care about adultery here. It's hard to prove ...
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| Not sure what is wrong with me or what to do | 7/6/2009 |
Q: Kessler, Thanks in advance for your help. I am very confused about a problem in my life and ...
A: The two problems that I can clearly see here are on both sides. Her's is some form of depression ...
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| marriage help | 7/6/2009 |
Q: Can a court order you to seek marriage counceling eventhough you do not have any children together ...
A: Yes, every divorce has to go through a court or at least in front of a judge that can make the ...
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| marriage help | 7/5/2009 |
Q: Can a court order you to seek marriage counceling eventhough you do not have any children together ...
A: Yes, so long as you can convince a judge that the marriage has a fighting chance. You can plead ...
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| Not sure what is wrong with me or what to do | 7/5/2009 |
Q: Kessler, Thanks in advance for your help. I am very confused about a problem in my life and ...
A: I'm a Mrs, but that's okay. I find it ironic that you're a human rights advocate by profession. I ...
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| Marriage | 7/1/2009 |
Q: Sir please help me in the matter. The matter is that now a days young boys are looking financial ...
A: Ideally love is the biggest reason you would marry someone. If you can't or don't love someone in a ...
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| husbands child support | 6/26/2009 |
Q: when i married my husband, his exwife immediately requested a show cause hearing on his child ...
A: You are NOT, I repeat NOT responsible for paying his child support. They can NOT consider your ...
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| husband wants a divorce all of the sudden | 6/25/2009 |
Q: i have been married to my husband for 10 yrs. i have a history of depression, bipolar. he has helped ...
A: You need to sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart talk with him. He needs to know ...
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| child support | 6/25/2009 |
Q: If my wife remarries, can I get my child support lowered? I live in NYS
A: Not likely. The only way that a judge will lower your child support payments are if you have a ...
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| I'm gay, but want a life and marriage with a woman | 6/22/2009 |
Q: I'm sure this sounds strange, but I would like to say that it is not because I want to seem normal, ...
A: I think that my brother knew all along that he was gay. We suspected he was gay, but never said ...
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| I'm gay, but want a life and marriage with a woman | 6/20/2009 |
Q: I'm sure this sounds strange, but I would like to say that it is not because I want to seem normal, ...
A: **I just wanted to let you know that I got your rating and I sincerely appreciate it and thank you. ...
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| Pre-Marital Flirtation | 6/20/2009 |
Q: My fiancee works at Waffle House as a waitress. Like most small restaurants, there are regulars and ...
A: She definitely needs to go to her boss about this. His advances like this are not only making her ...
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| Marriage, money and tax advice | 6/10/2009 |
Q: I am currently 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. We are happy together and would like to ...
A: No, none of the 50 states can go by a partner, boy/girlfriend, fiancee, spouse's, etc income. He ...
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| This cant be normal | 6/6/2009 |
Q: Me and my husband has been staying on his parents property for more than 20 years. Reason for this ...
A: Of course this situation isn't normal, in fact far from it. She's using you and your husband to pay ...
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| ex wife | 6/5/2009 |
Q: My husband was married, with no kids between them, for a few months. He filed for divorce because ...
A: He needs to cut all ties and contact with her period. If she discovered something in the divorce ...
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| Caught husband twice cheating | 6/5/2009 |
Q: I am 9 months pregnant and totally devastated with my husbands insensitive attitude towards ...
A: With his being a cyber sex addict it's a horrible and huge addiction and it's something that he's ...
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| Concerns about penis size | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I'm not sure if this the right section to ask this, but I couldn't find anything that this could ...
A: Sorry it's taken me so long to get back with you. It took me a while to figure out how to respond ...
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| Marriage | 5/24/2009 |
Q: I am a male and now that I am married other married and single women occasionally proposition me and ...
A: There are various reasons for this that I've heard in talking to women in this situation. Most of ...
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| my jealous live in partner | 5/23/2009 |
Q: I've been living with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We've been through good times and bad times. But ...
A: No, whatever you do do NOT go back to this abusive man! He's a controlling abuser and if you keep ...
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| Having Kids | 5/19/2009 |
Q: My fiancée and I are scheduled to be married next week, but we are thinking of postponing it because ...
A: Having children can be a scary thing for any person to think about. Some ppl were meant to be ...
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| Rules for Separation | 5/17/2009 |
Q: I recently discovered that my husband has been pursuing a "friendship" with a girl from his work for ...
A: A separation doesn't always necessarily mean "no contact" at all with your spouse while separated. ...
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| Marrying some one with 11 years of difference | 5/15/2009 |
Q: I am in love with a girl who is 35 and I am 24. She has a baby boy of 8 years from her previous ...
A: It's a shame that your parents are acting this way and being stubborn when it comes to your ...
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| my problem | 5/3/2009 |
Q: my name is doaa , well i have a problem , i have a guy who wants to marry me , he loves me to the ...
A: It's much better to be with someone you love and that returns the feelings, than to be with someone ...
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| separation | 4/26/2009 |
Q: again. Well, I'm trying to move along here, but I'm having a tough time. First off, UGH!! I didn't ...
A: It's very hard to come to terms with a marriage failing (for whatever reason), as you said it's ...
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| separation | 4/24/2009 |
Q: again. Well, I'm trying to move along here, but I'm having a tough time. First off, UGH!! I didn't ...
A: It can be different for a few reasons when a person confides in the opposite sex friend or not. The ...
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| 10 Year Itch? | 4/23/2009 |
Q: I recently celebrated my 10-year anniversary. Leading up to it I was bombarded with ...
A: I can certainly understand how a big age gap can affect your closeness or bond to him. I'm 8 yrs ...
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| separation | 4/21/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. As most marriages, we have had our ups and ...
A: No, I don't think you're nuts at all. This is a trying time for you and the entire family. You ...
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| Is marriage always this hard? | 4/21/2009 |
Q: I've been married for about 3 1/2 years. Literally, from day 1 it's been a struggle for me. Im only ...
A: There is only hope if you want there to be hope, and to try if you want to try. It's not going to ...
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| Ex boyfriend married | 4/14/2009 |
Q: I dated this guy for about a year and a half. He is from India and I am American. When we started ...
A: That's the way most of the Indian culture is, is through arranged marriages. They do that to ...
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| Marriage separation possible | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I have a question, and I need some advice. My wife and I have known each other 8 years, and have ...
A: I do know exactly what it feels like to live with parents, I had to do this with my first husband, ...
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| emotional infidelity | 4/1/2009 |
Q: active and in good health. I consider myself a happy person with many blessings. I have been married ...
A: The lying is a big time trust breaker b/c he not only betrayed you by going to a strip club, but ...
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| marriage different country | 4/1/2009 |
Q: I have been married for a year and nine months but have known my husband for 3years prior to that. I ...
A: Have you sat him down and tried to explain all this to him and to figure out why he's not being ...
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| Gambling ultimatum | 3/26/2009 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 12 years, together for 17. We have 3 young children. He has ...
A: If you had/have a zero tolerance of the gambling, then you need to stick to your word. After all ...
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| fights in marriage | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I am newly married but i have a very big problem with my hubby,we fight almost everyday and that ...
A: Being newly married can be a trying time for both parties. After all it's getting to know someone ...
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| He talks about her all the time!!! | 3/18/2009 |
Q: My husband is in construction and I have learned with that comes travel. Well he works several towns ...
A: This can be a very tricky and delicate situation that you're in. On one hand he feels confident ...
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| Husband Problems | 3/12/2009 |
Q: He has talked to an ex girlfriend of his that he dated in high school and when he chats with her ...
A: You must confront him about what you've found. He's saying one thing to you and doing another ...
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| am ttred, and out but cant get my mind out of the rut | 3/1/2009 |
Q: ave been married for just 2 years with a cute 1year old son. MY husband feels uttterly dissapointed ...
A: He's an abuser! And this this shouldn't be taken lightly at all. You have to stop making excuses ...
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| Husband is Still Texting Other Woman | 2/23/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for over 18 years. He started drinking about ten years ago after ...
A: You are very right to think this way and to be skeptical of his intentions. As you already ...
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| my marriage is getting rocky | 2/17/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 11 1/2 years, and it has been good for the most part. About 8 ...
A: It's never easy to live with parents or in-laws. Trust me, been there and done that. It puts a ...
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| How to make my marriage work again? | 2/10/2009 |
Q: Good morning I have been married for seven years and have lovely twin girls of 5 years old. I have ...
A: A person cheats for several reasons, the main one in general being that they are seeking some sort ...
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| Leaving Mentally abusive Husband | 2/9/2009 |
Q: Kessler, I'm writing because I don't know what else to do. My husband treats me like I'm 3. The ...
A: You already know that you have to leave him and this time for good. He's an abuser and that's ...
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| Divorce | 1/22/2009 |
Q: My friend has stage 4 cancer and is trying to obtain a divorce. She has been told that in the state ...
A: I did all kinds of research on the internet pertaining to what you've asked, and I can find any ...
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| Unable to compromise | 1/21/2009 |
Q: I just don't know what to do. I'm 32, my boyfriend is 34. We were "highschool sweethearts". He went ...
A: With two failed marriages that can certainly be enough to not want to go through all that again, so ...
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| Confused | 1/21/2009 |
Q: I am so confused at the moment. I separated from my husband of 2 and a half years back in August. ...
A: Maybe he's just not marriage material. He clearly had his priorities all wrong back then. And, ...
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| can there be happiness after the nuptials | 1/20/2009 |
Q: I am a very skeptical about love because everywhere around me I see loving failing. My parents had ...
A: I think to a certain extent what you're feeling, thinking and experiencing are pretty normal and ...
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| Can my wife ever overcome the turmoil I caused? | 1/16/2009 |
Q: My wife just told me last night that she was thinking about separating or getting a divorce. Up ...
A: There is a 50-50 chance that it could go either way from here on out. It might be good to give her ...
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| supporting efforts | 1/6/2009 |
Q: We (husband and I) have one child who has become violent with me. My husband doesn't back me up and ...
A: It's very crucial that your husband gets on board with you and you both agree to some sort of ...
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| Marriage and parental consent | 1/4/2009 |
Q: I have read up on marriage that needs parental consent. Although it hasn't specified whether it ...
A: I believe that as long as one parent is willing to give his/her consent to marry, then that's all ...
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| Marriage (Cheating - or NOT, Money/Control Issues, Lack of Teamwork) | 12/31/2008 |
Q: We have been married almost 13 years. A couple years into the marriage, my husband made comments ...
A: It's very obvious and apparent that he's having major trust issues with you. Thus his accusations ...
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| husband's ex-wife suing, demanding my financial info | 12/29/2008 |
Q: Since his income isn't very much, she is suing for my financial records. I live in Illinois - is ...
A: She can try to sue for your financial records all she wants. She's legally not entitled to view ...
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| Help, my husband wants to move out | 12/29/2008 |
Q: Kessler, I noticed my husband of 12 years (together for 15 years as a couple) was just not himself ...
A: Try to convince him not to move out so swiftly and abruptly or he might come to regret it. It's a ...
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| Child Support when I remarry | 12/28/2008 |
Q: I live in Indiana and I recently got engaged and am planning to get married this summer. I have a 16 ...
A: No, the amount will not change. The state can't and doesn't go by your spouses income (no matter ...
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| Divorce-Adultery-Hurting | 12/18/2008 |
Q: I recently filed for divorce because I found out my wife of 4 years had been cheating on me for the ...
A: First off, you shouldn't even think of contemplating dating at this point. For one you're still ...
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| Overly jealous husband | 12/18/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for about 4 years. He is overly jealous. He does not want me ...
A: You are doing the right thing. He's the one that has the self-esteem problem and has some serious ...
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| My husband doesn't have physical intimacy | 12/12/2008 |
Q: I have read the artical on what was written and what you've answered about the husband not being ...
A: Instead of telling him, why don't you try showing him what you'd like and need in the bedroom. Just ...
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| Reconcile??? | 12/9/2008 |
Q: Help! I am lost and confused. I was married to my husband for just a little over two years. We ...
A: It seems that he's a little too late. Perhaps he's just jealous b/c you've moved on with your life, ...
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| Child Support | 11/25/2008 |
Q: I am about to marry a man with 2 kids and high child support. In any way can they take money from ...
A: No, the state can not take any money from you. And they do NOT go by your income in the marriage. ...
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| Married for the wrong reason | 11/20/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 and I've been married to my husband for 1 1/2 years. We've known each other since middle ...
A: In a sense you've lost who you are when you became his wife and a mother to your daughter. You ...
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| Saving my marriage | 11/20/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my wife for 3 years now and we have a 10 month old daughter. The relationship ...
A: Do you feel that you have a porn addiction or is it just an occasional viewing of the porn? If you ...
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| Marriage, i want out, he doesnt | 11/14/2008 |
Q: ok here is the situation, i got married 11 years ago, i was 18 and pregnant, i married my best ...
A: You can't help him unless he helps himself. He's just not ready to let go and move on. He's in ...
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| Trust and Insecurities | 11/2/2008 |
Q: I have been with my fiance for 11 years and the relationship has been absolutely amazing. Our ...
A: You're not wrong in feeling this way. And, no, you're not overreacting at all. You have a very ...
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| She said No? | 10/27/2008 |
Q: So my girlfriend have been together for 2 years. we are both 28y/o, live together, have a dog ...
A: Bless your heart, I can imagine how this hurt your feelings by her rejecting your proposal. After ...
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| infidelity | 10/27/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 9 years, 3 small children under 6. My husband cheated twice in the past ...
A: There are two types of cheaters in my opinion. The first type of cheater does it once and is sorry ...
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| His mom or me? | 10/26/2008 |
Q: I just wanted to say Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my situation. First of all I'm ...
A: You have every right to feel upset and overwhelmed by the way they're behaving. The thing is he's ...
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| marriage | 10/23/2008 |
Q: Im 29 years old and have been married for 9 years. I married a man that I met when I was 16. My ...
A: When you're young and you've only been with one person, it can make you feel like you've missed out ...
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| When is enough enough? | 10/23/2008 |
Q: About 7 weeks ago I emailed you regarding my marriage and how to know whether it was time to call it ...
A: Divorces suck when you have to go through them. And you are right to be concerned about how he's ...
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| who comes first | 10/23/2008 |
Q: me and my wife have been married for three years,,she has a grown daughter with 2 children and a ...
A: You're absolutely right here in this instance. Now, if her daughter were younger, I would say ...
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| Divorce and reconciliation | 10/22/2008 |
Q: My ex-wife and I were married when I was 27 and she was 24. She admitted 4 months into the marriage ...
A: It's not easy to cope and deal with when a spouse (even an ex-spouse) says they don't love you ...
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| husband wont budge on divorce | 10/17/2008 |
Q: I have asked my husband of 10 years, for a divorce, I believe you helped me at one time on ...
A: Sorry, it's taken me a couple of days to answer your question. I wasn't feeling well for the last ...
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| My husband, porn, and trust | 10/15/2008 |
Q: It seems off an on during our 6 year marriage I keep finding porn movies hidden. Once I find them ...
A: You are right he probably is addicted to porn. He hides it, is ashamed of it, etc. The thing is ...
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| Marriage In Crisis After Alcohol | 10/14/2008 |
Q: I'm 42 and have been married for a little over 13years. We have 3 great boys, 14, 11 and 11. When ...
A: I'm a firm believer in that a couple should never stay together for the sake of the children. There ...
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| Marriage | 10/14/2008 |
Q: (The website won’t allow me to continue on the initial question) Thanks for your message and time. ...
A: Sometimes the web site does that, it won't allow someone to keep posting follow up questions, not ...
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| Hard time in marriage | 10/13/2008 |
Q: Please have a look at my story and tell me your thoughts. My wife and I are both 36. Married for 10 ...
A: Yes, I'm a woman, and I'm not a professional counselor or anything of the sort. I volunteer my time ...
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| remarriage | 10/11/2008 |
Q: Can they count my income for his child support if my boyfriend and I get married in New York? I make ...
A: No, they can't and don't count your income when it comes to your partners child support. You have ...
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| Child support reduction | 10/11/2008 |
Q: 1. Can my ex-husband reduce his child support because of my re-marriage? 2. Can he reduce his child ...
A: It's pretty rare and uncommon for a judge to "forgive" back child support that is owed. So I'd say ...
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| Child support reduction | 10/10/2008 |
Q: 1. Can my ex-husband reduce his child support because of my re-marriage? 2. Can he reduce his child ...
A: No and no. Your husband's income has absolutely no bearing on how much child support your ex pays ...
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| Hard time in marriage | 10/10/2008 |
Q: Please have a look at my story and tell me your thoughts. My wife and I are both 36. Married for 10 ...
A: Great name by the way! Very cool! Anyway, it's very unfortunate that ppl can be very judgemental. ...
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| Marriage falling apart | 10/10/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a little over a year, been together for two. We each have ...
A: I can imagine how this is making you feel overwhelmed, frustrated, etc. First issue is that he has ...
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| Back taxes, prenuptial, and alimony | 10/8/2008 |
Q: 1. If my fiance owes back taxes, will I be responsible for those back taxes if I marry him? God ...
A: They can only come after you if your name is on stuff that you own together. You aren't responsible ...
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| Depressed Husband | 9/25/2008 |
Q: First let me say thank you for taking the time to read this and possibly answering. My husband and I ...
A: Depression can be a very ugly thing to cope and deal with. Especially when a loved one is battling ...
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| name calling as if in preschool | 9/22/2008 |
Q: About ten minutes ago, my 3 year old daughter walks in and sas to me, "you asshole". Shocked ...
A: Name calling is never okay, especially when it's an "adult" that's putting a child up to it. That's ...
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| Lost Intemacy | 9/21/2008 |
Q: I need help despirately. My wife and I have been married for 8 years. We have two lovey daughters ...
A: You need to sit down with her and have a very serious heart to heart talk with her. She needs to ...
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| Marriage, i want out, he doesnt | 9/19/2008 |
Q: ok here is the situation, i got married 11 years ago, i was 18 and pregnant, i married my best ...
A: You need to sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart talk with him. He needs to know ...
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| marriage in the marine corps | 9/16/2008 |
Q: i have recently gotten divorced and want to remarry. My ex husband and i was well separated for as ...
A: In most state you have to wait 30 days until the divorce is finalized to remarry again. This law ...
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| marriage... | 9/14/2008 |
Q: Ok. My husband and i have had problems for a while now. We have 4 kids. 2 are from his previous ...
A: It's unacceptable and totally inappropriate for him to be cheating on you, let alone not being ...
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| Relationship with Co-worker | 9/10/2008 |
Q: A co-worker of my husband's has recently separated and she has started calling him a lot outside of ...
A: He may not agree with your sentiments or feelings, but he should at least respect where you're ...
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| do I stay or leave | 9/10/2008 |
Q: I have read many of your responses to the questions people have asked and I am in the same boat as ...
A: I'm a firm believer in doing all that you can do to make a marriage work. However, at the same ...
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| Relationship with Co-worker | 9/9/2008 |
Q: A co-worker of my husband's has recently separated and she has started calling him a lot outside of ...
A: No, I don't think you're over reacting or being too sensitive at all. I also agree with you that ...
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| new old romance | 9/8/2008 |
Q: I started to date this man 9 years ago a it was great at first. He has two kids that loved me and I ...
A: Maybe he thinks he made a mistake and he's unsure if this relationship will end like it did the last ...
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| Help please! Pregnant and parents forcing me into marriage! | 8/30/2008 |
Q: I am 26 and have been living with my boyfriend for a couple months, but we've been together for ...
A: It's very easy for parents to be very critical of their children. And to try and tell them what to ...
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| My husband's problem is stressing me out a lot... | 8/27/2008 |
Q: Tthis problem is hard for me to solve and embarrassing too, but i really need your help. i'm 28 and ...
A: Honestly, for once in all the times that I've been answering questions for allexperts.com I'm ...
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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: I just can't even begin to fathom that you can have literally 3 fiancees at once!!!!! That's nuts in ...
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| my husband is living two personalities | 8/26/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 8 years now.My husband used to be my lover and friend.we used to have this ...
A: He's playing mind games with you, and trying to play you for a fool. He's insulting your ...
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| doubting marriage | 8/26/2008 |
Q: Let me begin by first thanking you for reading this. I'm going to do my best to keep it as breif as ...
A: He could possibly be depressed. Or he's truly unhappy with certain situations in the marriage, but ...
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| Divorce in progress | 8/25/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together 5.5 years, married for 3. We have a 1 year old and he recently ...
A: You can wait until the papers are served, if you wish. But if you have something else to respond to ...
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| marriage | 8/24/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 3yrs,together for 9yrs. I have been unhappy for about 1yr now. I don't know ...
A: There's no easy way to break the news to him. You've been unhappy for quite some time now. You ...
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| Divorce in progress | 8/23/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together 5.5 years, married for 3. We have a 1 year old and he recently ...
A: He should never put his hands on you in anger or in any case, it's wrong and totally unacceptable. ...
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| Why doesn't she want the marriage to work | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I have never in my life written to or ever through I would even consider writing to an advice column ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your questions here, and then put my answers/opinions to them ...
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| Divorce in progress | 8/23/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together 5.5 years, married for 3. We have a 1 year old and he recently ...
A: Are you sure that he's not still involved with someone else and you just don't know about it yet? ...
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| marriage in constant turmoil | 8/22/2008 |
Q: To start I love God with all my heart, strength and soul and very active in my church through ...
A: You sound like you both have a lot on your plate, with the children, you being dedicated to the ...
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| I believe my husband is a bit controlling? | 8/21/2008 |
Q: Well, I don't know how to begin... This is just one of the many set of circumstances we've ...
A: You should listen to your friend's mother, mothers are often very smart and full of wisdom and ...
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| Marriage and how to leave for the 3rd time? | 8/21/2008 |
Q: I am at the point where I think it is time to end my marriage. This will be the 3rd time I have ...
A: You have to make the third time the charm and break this ugly vicious cycle of abuse once and for ...
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| zero intimacy in marriage | 8/20/2008 |
Q: Although my husband has no sexual desire for me, he wants me to go bra-less and over-exposed in ...
A: Beware of all that he's wanting and suggesting that you do (or that you and him do together). There ...
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| I NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP | 8/20/2008 |
Q: I have fallen head over heels for another man. I've dated a lot of men before and I have never ...
A: This man is all that you want that your husband is not. However, the grass isn't always greener on ...
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| I believe my husband is a bit controlling? | 8/20/2008 |
Q: Well, I don't know how to begin... This is just one of the many set of circumstances we've ...
A: Then, yes, with you giving me more info about this, I would tend to agree that his behavior is about ...
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| Divorce and New Child | 8/19/2008 |
Q: I am divorced and have been for 3 years. My new girlfriend is 5 months pregnant. Is it possible ...
A: No, the only reason she'd be able to take you back to court and raise your child support would be if ...
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| I believe my husband is a bit controlling? | 8/19/2008 |
Q: Well, I don't know how to begin... This is just one of the many set of circumstances we've ...
A: He's obviously insecure when it comes to you dressing the way you do and drinking too. But why does ...
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| Hateful, jealous, angry, manipulative mother-in-law | 8/8/2008 |
Q: Kessler, I have been having difficulties with my mother-in-law for close to two years now, and ...
A: Boy, she's a selfish, sad, pathetic, unhappy little person isn't she?! That's really convenient ...
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| Self Confidence | 7/28/2008 |
Q: I am a 29 year old man and have been married for 8 years. I have two children and I have a very ...
A: Since you're wanting to work on your self-esteem and image. I would strongly suggest that you check ...
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| New to Marriage | 7/23/2008 |
Q: My husband and I just got married and we just moved about five hours away from family. At first it ...
A: He's not being very sensitive to your thoughts, feelings and needs right now. And when you try to ...
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| I need advice about my husband | 7/22/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 4 years and my husband doesn't pay much attention to me or our girls they ...
A: He very well could be being unfaithful to you. Or he could be just preoccupied with things going on ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: You have to stop letting your ego get in the way of things. You can't control how he acts (or ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: I think it's normal for you to wonder about him from time to time. After all you did have a fair ...
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| Big Age Gap, I am talking HUGE, WOW? | 7/12/2008 |
Q: Searching the WWW and finding many many sites on the subject I am compelled to ask anyone with ...
A: I'd say you have over a 50-50 chance for everything going in your favor with her staying with you ...
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| under age marriage | 7/12/2008 |
Q: can my mother have my marriage annulled? I am 17 and my husband is 18. She took us to get our ...
A: The answer to this is most likely no. In most states the age of consent is 17, with 18 being ...
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| Big Age Gap, I am talking HUGE, WOW? | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Searching the WWW and finding many many sites on the subject I am compelled to ask anyone with ...
A: If you truly love her and she loves you, then what is stopping you from marrying the love of your ...
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| Marriage | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 22 years now.We have been together for 22 years total.This is my first ...
A: It's not uncommon for a couple that's been married for many years or as long as you have to have ...
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| engagement | 7/3/2008 |
Q: I am living with my boyfriend and we are planning marriage. M question is... is it OK for me to wear ...
A: It's whatever you're comfortable doing. Since he's going through a divorce, it's probably okay to ...
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| Separation involving children | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I was to separate from my husband. We have been married for 10 years now and I have had enough. We ...
A: He has to learn to stop being so critical of you. Otherwise, he's only going to end up driving you ...
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| Separation involving children | 7/1/2008 |
Q: I was to separate from my husband. We have been married for 10 years now and I have had enough. We ...
A: The problem is that he doesn't respect you as his wife, and he has a major drinking problem. You ...
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| Filing child support after a new marriage | 6/28/2008 |
Q: my name is Beth and my two friends are planning on getting married. One of my friends had a baby ...
A: No, it doesn't effect her chances at all, whether she's married or not, she needs to file for child ...
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| annulment | 6/23/2008 |
Q: why is is that when im in an argument with my wife that she always thinks about the end...I dont ...
A: She could be doing this b/c she regrets getting married (for whatever her personal reasons might ...
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| goes away for weekend once a month | 6/23/2008 |
Q: This is a difficult issue. First my husband and I have fought about going out too much over the ...
A: This is a huge issue for you to deal with. You need to sit down and have a serious heart to heart ...
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| Child Support in Illinois | 6/11/2008 |
Q: I have a few questions: 1) I pay child support for my daughter from a previous marriage. My new ...
A: You would have to take this back to court and try to have the divorce decree amended to lower your ...
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| Trust, marriage and infidelity. | 5/30/2008 |
Q: I am in a very seriously unstable state of mind about both my marriage, and a long distance ...
A: Of course your wife is hurt, shocked and even devastated that you're being emotionally unfaithful to ...
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| Marriage is at crossroads | 5/28/2008 |
Q: S. Kessler: I am contacting you due to concerns with my marriage. I am a 34 year old husband with a ...
A: I'm sure you would love to move even half a world away from them. But asking that of your wife, ...
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| Adultery | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I am a firm beleiver if you want to learn how to do anything be it related to sex murder drugs etc ...
A: The problem here is that the world and society has become desensitized to nudity, porn, anything ...
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| I want to leave my marriage and take my kids out of state | 5/27/2008 |
Q: can I do this? He is squatting and I am not leaving either. I want to go back home to florida and I ...
A: As long as you are legally married you can move with the children anywhere and he can't do anything ...
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| Opinon's needed | 5/23/2008 |
Q: My wife started going home to columbus, ohio with just our 2 children to visit her family. I was ...
A: I definitely say that you have every right to be concerned and to think that there is something ...
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| should i get out | 5/20/2008 |
Q: I am writting because i have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. we both were in long term ...
A: He's had plenty of time to decide whether he wants to marry you or not. If he loves you then why ...
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| we have been married for 7yrs and now his confuse | 5/20/2008 |
Q: my husband told me that he is not sure if he loves me or not because he still thinks in his ex-wife ...
A: How long has he realized that he might still be in love with his ex-wife? Is this just something ...
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| STAY OR GO? | 5/15/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 8 years and have three children. I have left and came back to many times ...
A: I say that you should try to work it out with your wife if at all possible. In order to do this ...
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| my marriage | 5/14/2008 |
Q: my husband and i have been together for nine years and married for 5 of those years.he has left me ...
A: If he refuses to work with you and help you fix this marriage, and you certainly can't do this on ...
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| young marriage | 4/19/2008 |
Q: hey. i am 17 and i am engaged to my boyfriend who is almost 20. we love each other alot and want to ...
A: It's my personal opinion that anyone in their teens is really too young to get married. However, ...
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| child support & taxes | 4/9/2008 |
Q: I am getting married soon & the man Im with had gotten behind on child support from his first ...
A: You can file married but filing separately due to this. Otherwise, they can take the whole tax ...
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| marriage and child support | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I am in a relationship and prepping for marriage but have a child from a previous relationship. My ...
A: No, it will not. If you have a child with your soon to be wife, they'll have to leave you enough to ...
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| My husband is having doubts about us | 4/8/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years. We got married young, I was 19 and he was 22. We ...
A: That leaves you in between a rock and a hard spot to be put in a position like that! I think ...
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| I don't love my husband anymore. | 3/22/2008 |
Q: I want out of my marriage so bad that I can't stand it. I can't even stand the sound of his voice ...
A: There's not going to be any easy way to tell him why and that your leaving him. It doesn't have to ...
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| I am 32 years old this year and has bf who is not ready | 3/21/2008 |
Q: I am 32 years old this year and I want to have kids soon. Is it too late for me? My bf for a year ...
A: Getting married, buying a house and having children are huge and life changing decisions for anyone ...
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| Marriage | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Iam in a marriage in which I just don't respect him as a husband or father, he curses in front of my ...
A: It really sounds like it is time to divorce. Unless you both want to work this marriage out. ...
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| ending my marriage | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 20+ years. I have decided to end it after trying everything,including ...
A: I've done a search on the internet for preparing to leave your husband/spouse and I too, didn't find ...
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| separation | 3/7/2008 |
Q: I've been married 15 years and recently my husband opted to separate. His financial problems and ...
A: He can't tell you that you can't wear your wedding rings. That's for you to decide not him. If he ...
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| ending my marriage | 3/5/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 20+ years. I have decided to end it after trying everything,including ...
A: You have the right idea in making sure that you're prepared mentally and financially to plan out ...
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| I don't know if i love my wife anymore! | 3/3/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 2 years now.We have been together for 7 years total.This is my second ...
A: Maybe you've become disconnected from her during those years with her. It's not uncommon for a ...
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| Cheating Father-in-Law | 2/28/2008 |
Q: My husband's father has been cheating on his wife for about two years now. I normally would not get ...
A: If you do tell your MIL you risk causing problems within your own marriage. The reason is this will ...
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| How to best handle myself during the separation HE wants | 2/25/2008 |
Q: My husband of 7 years asked for a separation last night and went to stay with his brother. He said ...
A: He very well could be going through a mid-life crisis. However, I'm in total agreement with you in ...
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| Keeping trying or is it time to let go? | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I have been married & divorced , now re-married. I have been married for 2 years now. We have also ...
A: You've already expressed to him how this makes you feel (what he's doing), and yet he's still ...
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| forgery | 2/17/2008 |
Q: i am separated from my husband and we have a car in both our names .he has an order from the courts ...
A: He can't do that! You'll have to take him back to court and get him in contempt of a court order. ...
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| Do i love? | 2/13/2008 |
Q: i have a true situation. I met this girl couple years back and i was physically attracted to her. ...
A: Maybe you love her but your not IN love with her. And the other problem is that you rushed into ...
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| Is there any hope ? | 2/13/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 6 yrs and my husband is 3 yrs younger to me. For the first three and half ...
A: I can understand that this is angry and very frustrating for you. But there has to come a time when ...
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| Drowning in Porn | 2/10/2008 |
Q: My husband of 6 years has an addiction to porn. Several times I have found books, videos etc in his ...
A: Porn is an addiction just like gambling and alcoholism are addictions. I can't honestly tell you ...
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| moving | 2/8/2008 |
Q: I moved here a little over 8 years ago from a family I am very close with. I was only to be here ...
A: At this point there is probably nothing you can say or do to make it easier and to not have conflict ...
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| Is it time to go? | 2/6/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. I was previously married and have 3 older ...
A: He's an abuser. He may not abuse you physically, but mental abuse can often be much worse. While ...
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| What can I do | 2/5/2008 |
Q: I am male married many years and I have two wonderful kids and a lovely wife. I love them all so ...
A: It seems as though she's somehow forgotten about you and your wants and needs in life too. Let's ...
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| Husband works as little as possible | 2/1/2008 |
Q: My husband used to be a Buyer in the Pharmaceutical industry. I also work in pharmaceutical ...
A: Maybe he's got some form of depression and he's discouraged by being laid off from his job, and now ...
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| Finanical Problems | 1/31/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have a beautiful 18 mo old daughter and are currently having issues over a number ...
A: You may not like to hear what I'm going to tell you, but I'm going to say it anyway. He has to ...
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| Wills and divorce | 1/29/2008 |
Q: MY husband is paying child support for 2 girls till the age of 19. If my husband dies will the ex ...
A: No, she's not entitled to anything of his if he dies. You, as his wife, you would get everything he ...
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| porn | 1/29/2008 |
Q: My name is diana. I have a husband who keeps on getting caught with porn. We had agreed that he ...
A: He could be addicted to porn. Porn addiction is just as addictive and serious as gambling and ...
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| Separation...need a break... | 1/24/2008 |
Q: So. I've been married almost two years, with my husband for a a total of three. I love him, but I ...
A: No, a separation doesn't always have to be a bad thing for a couple. It does one of two things ...
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| can i leave | 1/23/2008 |
Q: I am wanting to know how to leave my marriage. I am wanting to know my right and how I can leave ...
A: Yes, you are free to leave the marriage and the house anytime you wish (and vice versa for him). ...
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| re-kindle? | 1/19/2008 |
Q: "I am 37 and live in AZ, my ex-husband is 44 and now lives in Australia. We were together for 6 ...
A: I would actually discourage someone from rekindling a relationship with an ex. After all he's your ...
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| wife | 1/15/2008 |
Q: when me and the wife have sex she will not utter 1 word.before during or after. weve been married ...
A: Has she always been like this during sexual intimacy? Meaning that she's always been quiet and not ...
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| Im miserable and want out is this right? | 1/10/2008 |
Q: my husband and i have been having problems since we got married we have only been married a year. I ...
A: He's an abuser, but you already know that. For your own sake and the sake of your precious baby you ...
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| new marriage to some one who is alreasy paying child support | 1/9/2008 |
Q: If I get married to a man who is already court orderd to pay child support, when we get married will ...
A: No, she's not entitled to any of your income, period (no matter how much you make). The child(ren) ...
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| Husband and I separated after he says he "doesn't know what he wants" | 1/7/2008 |
Q: First of all, my husband and I married young at 19. We have always had our problems, but went on. ...
A: You can't allow him to treat you like crap and degrade you a moment longer. If you continue to put ...
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| Caught wife cheating with coworker. We are now seperated because she wants time to think miss me? | 1/7/2008 |
Q: Wife has been unhappy for a few months. there were signals given, but none that rang the emergency ...
A: It sounds like you really did good for a while there. But then you let her sucker you back into ...
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| Wandering eyes... | 1/2/2008 |
Q: While perusing through our email I stumbled upon a note that my wife of 18 years sent to our ...
A: Good luck to you and hopefully your wife will come around and see to the light, and that what she's ...
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| Fairness and Open Marriage? | 1/1/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 6 years. My husband and I are close and intimate, but our sexual activity ...
A: I want to be honest and frank with you up front. I don't condone nor do I agree with the concept of ...
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| marriage in trouble | 1/1/2008 |
Q: Where do i start. My husband and I have been together for nearly 15 years. We have three children. ...
A: Your husband is in denial about your feelings. You just need to keep being honest with him. After ...
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| Should I say ....I Do? | 12/27/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years (but have taken a few breaks in between,) we also ...
A: With all the problems that you've had in the past, the cheating and now currently his drinking ...
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| back child support | 12/23/2007 |
Q: I am not sure if i should marry this guy considering he owes a lot of money in back child support, ...
A: Maybe marrying him really isn't such a good idea. If he's not able to pay child support, then what ...
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| STATE OF PENNSYLVANIA | 12/22/2007 |
Q: My husband got a girl pregnant earlier this year. She now lives in PA, we live in TN. She says ...
A: The state still can't take into consideration your income, even if your supporting the household and ...
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| STATE OF PENNSYLVANIA | 12/21/2007 |
Q: My husband got a girl pregnant earlier this year. She now lives in PA, we live in TN. She says ...
A: No, she's sadly mistaken. Your income has absolutely nothing to do with your husband and/or child ...
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| wife before marriage | 12/14/2007 |
Q: me and my wife love each other a lot we are married 6 years and i just found out that before when ...
A: It seems as though your jealous b/c of this. And really why should you be. What your wife did when ...
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| should a boyfriend pay her girl friend's debt to ask for marriage | 12/10/2007 |
Q: Kessler, I have a question. I'm helping a female friend of mine to find an answer. Should her boy ...
A: She probably shouldn't marry him, as it might be a huge mistake later. The reason I say this is he ...
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| Trial separation? | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I'm exhausted of receiving complains and orders from my wife for years. I've tried many different ...
A: She doesn't respect you, and that's a huge problem. You need to sit down with her and have a ...
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| Caught wife cheating with coworker. We are now seperated because she wants time to think miss me? | 12/4/2007 |
Q: Wife has been unhappy for a few months. there were signals given, but none that rang the emergency ...
A: I'm a female. My first husband cheated on me with several women, at least 5 that I know of for ...
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| Caught wife cheating with coworker. We are now seperated because she wants time to think miss me? | 12/3/2007 |
Q: Wife has been unhappy for a few months. there were signals given, but none that rang the emergency ...
A: Since the separation is now official, and you're not calling her all the time, wanting to know where ...
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| Caught wife cheating with coworker. We are now seperated because she wants time to think miss me? | 12/1/2007 |
Q: Wife has been unhappy for a few months. there were signals given, but none that rang the emergency ...
A: It might be a good time to give her her space for now. However, you can't let this drag on for too ...
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| Husband's moods | 11/27/2007 |
Q: My husband is horrible; moody, negative and anti-social. He tells lies about silly things, and ...
A: Absolutely under no circumstances should you move back to where you once were. If he's not happy ...
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| Seperation | 11/27/2007 |
Q: Hey, My husband left 5 weeks ago stating I didnt know how to treat him like a man. He has his own ...
A: This isn't an uncommon response from one of the parties through the separation process. It's a ...
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| adultery | 11/26/2007 |
Q: My husband of 20years had an adulterous affair with someone half our age(we are in our late 40s)He ...
A: He's giving you mixed signals and this is why it's so confusing to you. He says one thing one ...
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| saving my marriage | 11/26/2007 |
Q: My wife recently took her ring off in a fight. There is no issue with money, adultery, or abuse, ...
A: I would strongly suggest that you seek some marriage counseling. This way you can figure out what ...
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| worried | 11/26/2007 |
Q: going wrong.It seems to me like my wife want me to be someone im not and we go back and forth she ...
A: With your wife being pregnant this is going to make her even more emotional due to the raging ...
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| Harrassing Ex | 11/25/2007 |
Q: I need help please. I have been in this relationship on/off for a few years. I have a infant with ...
A: She's probably extremely jealous of you and that he's now moved on to make a life with you and your ...
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| Underage Divorce | 11/21/2007 |
Q: I ave been married for about 6 months now, and things between me and my husband just are not working ...
A: In some states 17 is old enough to be emancipated and to make adult decisions on your own. And now ...
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| marriage | 11/21/2007 |
Q: I am at the end of my tether. Again. Why again? Around 3 yrs. ago, I felt very neglected by my ...
A: I can totally understand and even respect that you live in a very conservative place in society ...
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| cheating | 11/20/2007 |
Q: i just fund out that my husband is cheating on me, second time /that i know, with different person, ...
A: You have two options here. A) You can put up with it and continue to stay with him. Or B) You ...
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| marriage | 11/19/2007 |
Q: I am at the end of my tether. Again. Why again? Around 3 yrs. ago, I felt very neglected by my ...
A: So he says one thing and yet does another. I can see how this is confusing to you. It doesn't seem ...
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| newly wed and looking at divorce | 11/17/2007 |
Q: I am 23 and have been married about 8 months, and two months prior to that we had bought a house ...
A: The hardest part is taking the first step and breaking the news to him. Once you do that it gets a ...
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| my wife's sister | 11/17/2007 |
Q: My wife's sister (ex heroin addict) has been living with us for the last 5 years and has not done ...
A: It's high time that her sister got out and started living on her own and being a responsible adult ...
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| my relationship with my husband | 11/15/2007 |
Q: I feel like I am dying. I love my husband. i BELEIVE he cares about me. He says he is not ...
A: I can totally understand how this is taking a huge toll on you and making you feel. Everyone needs ...
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| marriage and child support | 11/15/2007 |
Q: He has other children from previous relationships. He owes for back and current child support. If we ...
A: No, you're not responsible for any children that he's had with any other women. The children are ...
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| why I do I feel so along? | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I been married for 13 years. We married at age 18. We have 3 great boys.. I love my husband but ...
A: His behavior certainly isn't normal and he's not acting like a married man. He's basically out ...
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| Desperate ex-wife | 11/13/2007 |
Q: Kessler, This is my first marriage, I have no dependents. This will be my fiancé’s second, he has 2 ...
A: A prenup agreement would be a good thing to seriously consider, since you have a lot to lose ...
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| space | 11/12/2007 |
Q: my wife recently asked for space, she is 48 yrs old and we have been having a lot of issues with ou ...
A: I know it's going to be tough but you really should respect her request for some space and time ...
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| Please Help Me! | 11/9/2007 |
Q: I Have been married for a year and 5 months and 11 weeks ago gave birth to a beautiful daughter. My ...
A: You need to confront him on his lying. Tell him you know for a fact that he's not being very honest ...
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| Is he too friendly... again? | 11/9/2007 |
Q: Kessler, I've used this site before, I'm not positive which expert I posed a question to. It was ...
A: I think he's being overly friendly with this family for a reason. What that real reason is remains ...
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| child support and re-marrying | 11/1/2007 |
Q: My ex wife is getting married, when this happens will the court require her to include her new ...
A: No, her new husband's wages have absolutely nothing to do with your children. He's not legally ...
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| moving away from family | 10/28/2007 |
Q: My wife wants me to move away from my family to live near her family who are 750 miles away. She ...
A: I can't even begin to imagine how this is making you feel right now, to be torn between two ppl you ...
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| moving away from family | 10/28/2007 |
Q: My wife wants me to move away from my family to live near her family who are 750 miles away. She ...
A: Have you and your wife discussed this fully and does she know what a huge decision this is for you ...
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| Can I save my marriage? | 10/27/2007 |
Q: my husband and I cannot not talk about anything personal. We can talk about anything else not ...
A: Sure, it's certainly possible to save this marriage. But you both have to be willing to make things ...
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| drinking, divorce | 10/26/2007 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have a 6 yr old boy. Before we were married, ...
A: He's an alcoholic, there's no doubt about it. He can't control his drinking, and when he drinks he ...
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| Adultry | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I dated my husband in high school and we got married 5 years ago. We have always had a pretty close ...
A: I assume that she's pregnant with your husband's child. Please correct me if I'm wrong here. I ...
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| grown children | 10/24/2007 |
Q: My two daughters have been coming to our house every two months or so,bringing five kids(it's a ...
A: You need to sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart talk with him. He needs to know ...
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| Too Many Issues to list! | 10/18/2007 |
Q: I'm currently engaged, but the relationship is so messy, that I'm not sure it will survive. My, ...
A: I think your fiancee has a lot of unresolved issues. And those need to get taken care of before you ...
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| husband still not working | 10/12/2007 |
Q: I've been with my husband for 10 years; 5 married. I'll try to keep this somewhat to the point. He ...
A: I think you're most certainly right in seriously considering divorcing him. He's got a very bad ...
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| Marrying a man who owes child support | 10/11/2007 |
Q: My fiance owes back and current child support and i was wondering will i be responsible as well to ...
A: No are NOT responsible for anything having to do with HIS child including child support. That's ...
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| Should I try and save my marriage for the sake of our Children. | 10/11/2007 |
Q: about 6 weeks ago my wife told me she was seeing someone else and asked for a seperation. Our ...
A: I'm a firm believer in never staying together for the sake of the children. In the end it just ...
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| steps to take when leaving husband | 10/10/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 9 yrs. with a son we had before marriage which is why i felt i needed to ...
A: You just need to tell him that you're leaving him and that you're filing for a divorce. He can't ...
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| how do I leave my marriage | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I had a relative pass away recently and I felt my life pass before my eyes. Like up until that ...
A: I've found, in my experience, that it's better to do it immediately and to get the separation part ...
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| how do I leave my marriage | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I had a relative pass away recently and I felt my life pass before my eyes. Like up until that ...
A: You have to make that decision and finally decide that you're going to go through with it and just ...
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| community property | 10/3/2007 |
Q: I built my house 6 years before marrying. We have been married for 10 years and want a divorce. ...
A: Divorce laws will vary from state to state. If you had the home prior to marriage he's not entitled ...
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| How to leave my marriage | 10/3/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 7 years, but even before we got married I have always had thoughts of ...
A: It sounds like you've had your mind made up a long, long time ago that this marriage is over. You ...
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| 2nd marriage | 10/2/2007 |
Q: okay, i hope this isn't long-winded, but it might end up being that way. i hope not. anyway, i was ...
A: He had his own home prior to the marriage you're not entitled to that. And the home not being in ...
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| Separation | 10/1/2007 |
Q: my marriage is pretty much over. It certainly is not physical abuse, but more mental than anything. ...
A: There's probably nothing you can do about him being on disability. Unless you can prove with ...
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| Why? | 9/30/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 5 years in about 8 days. We basically have separate lives. we only have ...
A: If he's being short-tempered and unloving, then there is something wrong with him. He's ...
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| Separated, back together, mourning other relationship | 9/27/2007 |
Q: My husband and I were separated for 4 mos. We had paid for a divorce but just had not agreed on ...
A: It's going to take some time for you to get over this other man. You just have to make yourself ...
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| MYWIFE AND I | 9/27/2007 |
Q: My wife and i are having problem on the time we support to make love.This is so because of my work ...
A: You need to come up with a compromise to work this issue out. Marriage is sometimes about given and ...
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| Separated | 9/25/2007 |
Q: After 3 weeks of separation and months of thinking from back starting in March my husband said he ...
A: Well, sure, there is always that slight chance that he could possibly change his mind. His actions ...
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| I hate my husband | 9/21/2007 |
Q: My husband and I just passed 25 years of marriage. I won't say "celebrated" because I can think of ...
A: You have two options here. You can A-stay in this unhappy, unhealthy and unfulfilling marriage or ...
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| am i overreacting? | 9/19/2007 |
Q: I've been married going on 9 years. this is my 2nd and my wife's 1st. my previous marriage ended due ...
A: No, I don't think you're overreacting at all. You've been cheated on in the past and it's obviously ...
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| marriage age difference suitability | 9/15/2007 |
Q: S.Kessler. firstly thank you for your great help to us for our quests. my girl friend is 19 years ...
A: No, your age difference is not that big at all. A 12 yr age difference is fine. You can marry at ...
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| marriage age difference suitability | 9/14/2007 |
Q: S.Kessler. firstly thank you for your great help to us for our quests. my girl friend is 19 years ...
A: If you are both compatible in every way together. Then yes, why not marry her?! Age is nothing but ...
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| Separated | 9/13/2007 |
Q: After 3 weeks of separation and months of thinking from back starting in March my husband said he ...
A: That is correct. He's the one that said he's 100% done. You have to no reason to not believe him. ...
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| Separated | 9/12/2007 |
Q: After 3 weeks of separation and months of thinking from back starting in March my husband said he ...
A: He refuses to say the word divorce, yet he's said it's done and he's already separated and in the ...
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| marriage issues | 9/11/2007 |
Q: i have been married for almost 7 yrs. we have a 2 yr old son together. He has 3 child. from ...
A: Then it is now up to you to take matters into your own hands. And do what you think is right for ...
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| two ex wives and kids in between! | 9/11/2007 |
Q: i met my husband while he was on leave from the military and we immediately fell in love and i moved ...
A: Maybe he doesn't like to hear what you have to say when you have heart to heart discussions. Most ...
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| marital problem | 9/10/2007 |
Q: Last night my wife told me that she wanted me to move out for a while. She needed to get over some ...
A: I don't think you should move out of your home. If she wants to leave (tell her not to move out), ...
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| marriage issues | 9/10/2007 |
Q: i have been married for almost 7 yrs. we have a 2 yr old son together. He has 3 child. from ...
A: There is obviously something wrong with your husband. He could have some form of depression to be ...
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| relationship help | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I am 46 yrs. old and have raised my children on my own. My boyfriend of 6 yrs. has half custody of ...
A: If he hasn't married you in the 6 yrs you've been together, by now. Then chances are he's not ever ...
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| two ex wives and kids in between! | 9/7/2007 |
Q: i met my husband while he was on leave from the military and we immediately fell in love and i moved ...
A: It's not uncommon for a woman in your position to be jealous of the previous wives. I think that's ...
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| Child Support Issues | 9/6/2007 |
Q: Good afternoon, I have been divorced for about three years now and my ex-wife & I are starting ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your questions here and put my answers to them directly underneath them, ...
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| marriage advice - life changing decision | 9/5/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 17 years, and we have a daughter 15, and a son 13. We have ...
A: I don't think you're crazy for wanting this, and you're not selfish for wanting to move and be ...
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| marriage | 9/4/2007 |
Q: Respected fellow, my name is Yasir, a male, currently a studenet of medicine. i got married 5 ...
A: Does she know how this is truly affecting you and the marriage? Perhaps she doesn't fully get how ...
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| Husband thinks I am cheating | 9/4/2007 |
Q: I am in the military and I am at a school x 6 weeks. THis is the first time in 6 yrs I have been ...
A: He's thinking this for a reason. It's one of two things probably. He's cheating on you (speaking ...
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| Infidelity Pattern - Husband cheated twice | 9/3/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 5 years and have a 2 year old. My husband cheated on me 2 years into our ...
A: He's a serial cheater. He's done is to you twice in the marriage, and once while you were dating. ...
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| My husband wants to separate | 9/2/2007 |
Q: I have been married for a yr and a half. On Day 2 of our marriage i found that my husband hwas ...
A: Well, I'm a Mrs, but that's okay. I've been called worse before (just kidding). You're only ...
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| ReMarriage & Child Support | 8/31/2007 |
Q: For the State of Pennsylvania I am with a man that wants to marry me. We have a 3 yr old little ...
A: The answer is very simple, it's no. You're not responsible for his children, nor paying HIS child ...
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| separation | 8/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated for 5 days back in April (his doing because he said he didn't like how I ...
A: Yes, I was referring to your relationship. If you feel you can talk to him about the relationship ...
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| separation | 8/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated for 5 days back in April (his doing because he said he didn't like how I ...
A: It's probably the best to give him his space for now. That doesn't mean that you can't talk to him ...
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| separation | 8/29/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated for 5 days back in April (his doing because he said he didn't like how I ...
A: That's hard to answer b/c again it depends on his actions and what he does. If he's even interested ...
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| separation | 8/29/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated for 5 days back in April (his doing because he said he didn't like how I ...
A: I have no statistics for when ppl separate. However, there is a 50% chance they'll divorce and a ...
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| separation | 8/28/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated for 5 days back in April (his doing because he said he didn't like how I ...
A: Divorce is a serious and hard matter to go through. So take your time and don't rush into it. In ...
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| separation | 8/27/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated for 5 days back in April (his doing because he said he didn't like how I ...
A: The mixed signals he's giving you right now are actually quite normal. He may honestly not know ...
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| I lied about going to bachelor/strip club | 8/27/2007 |
Q: Two months ago I had a business trip with co-workers to Indianapolis and one night after drinking a ...
A: There's probably nothing you can say or do to convince her of anything. If she's made up her mind ...
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| second marriage for cheaters | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I would like to know your thoughts on what do you think in your experiences that a man/woman who ...
A: Affairs born out of adultery usually do not last, that's true. However, that doesn't mean that your ...
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| Separation | 8/24/2007 |
Q: My husband and I separated a few days ago. How do I know when our marriage is really over and that ...
A: It depends really. Sometimes a person just knows when their marriage is over or is in dire straits. ...
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| seperation | 8/23/2007 |
Q: my wife has recently decided that she needed more space and time alone to think without any ...
A: Her age probably has a lot to do with her wanting to take a "break" from the marriage. Maybe she ...
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| seperation | 8/23/2007 |
Q: my wife has recently decided that she needed more space and time alone to think without any ...
A: Typically when a person uses the phrase "It's not you, it's me." That means it's you. She's just ...
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| The In-Laws | 8/21/2007 |
Q: I’m a 59 year old DIL who is at the end of her tether and having no clue where to turn ...
A: Honestly, I have no more suggestions for you. As you've done everything within your power to fix ...
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| breaking up | 8/16/2007 |
Q: After an arguement 9 days ago my husband said it was over and left. For one week he would sleep at ...
A: That's great to hear, when someone writes be back with a success. I'm happy to hear that your life ...
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| Sexless marriage, then affair | 8/15/2007 |
Q: My wife & I have been married for 15 years, have 3 kids, youngest is 5. Our last sex was the ...
A: Relationships born out of adultery usually don't last. Chances of them actually working are are ...
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| Sexless marriage, then affair | 8/15/2007 |
Q: My wife & I have been married for 15 years, have 3 kids, youngest is 5. Our last sex was the ...
A: I think you already truly know what you want here. You want out of this marriage. You haven't been ...
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| breaking up | 8/13/2007 |
Q: After an arguement 9 days ago my husband said it was over and left. For one week he would sleep at ...
A: It's good to hear from you and that you're well. Yes, it's perfectly fine and acceptable for you to ...
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| Mother-in-Law | 8/10/2007 |
Q: This is a bit of a different subject but it involves my daughter and her meddling mother-in-law. In ...
A: He has to be the one to put his mother in her place. He should have limited to no contact with her, ...
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| seperation | 8/10/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 20 years and we have 4 children. There ages are 19,15,12,10. We have had ...
A: You should stay in regular to frequent contact with her, for the sake of the children. Such as to ...
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| my marriage is falling apart | 8/7/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 3 years this October and have a son that is almost 2. From just ...
A: You shouldn't stay with your husband just b/c you feel obligated too. And so far that's what you've ...
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| baby on the way and sooo distant | 8/5/2007 |
Q: I am 29 years old and been married about a year and a half, have been with my husband for about 3.5 ...
A: It could be that he's put up walls so that he doesn't get hurt again since you lost 3 pregnancies ...
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| marriage | 8/4/2007 |
Q: what do i do when everything seems to turn into a fight with my wife. i think of her all the time , ...
A: I would strongly urge you to sit down with her and have a serious heart to heart talk with her. She ...
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| Am I killing her? | 7/30/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. Recently she has had a very frustating experience, ...
A: Your wife has issues that go way beyond you. She's claiming that her life is over (or was almost ...
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| My partner does not want children | 7/29/2007 |
Q: I am in a difficult situation. I am 39 and have no children. Half a year ago I met a wonderful man ...
A: Isn't it better that you find this out now than later down the road after your married. It sounds ...
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| My husband is accusing me of affiars I havent had | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I was looking for advice on the net when I found this, my husband is doing the EXACTLY the same to ...
A: If he's cheated on the mother of his children. Then what's to say he won't do it again to you. And ...
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| emails | 7/24/2007 |
Q: Ok--here is my story, any advice is greatly needed and appreciated. I met my husband when we were ...
A: You can claims ground for divorce for just about any reason. The most common is irreconcilable ...
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| Jealous & Insecure Husband | 7/23/2007 |
Q: My name is Mariah, I'm 26 years old and I've been married for almost 4 years to my husband but we ...
A: He definitely has big issues here. Sometimes when a man accuses a woman of cheating on him. It's ...
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| Sex in marriage | 7/22/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a bit more than a year. I am 30 years old and my husband is ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your questions here, so that they are easier to answer. My answers will ...
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| husband issue | 7/19/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 6 months. Both of us have been married before. We each have ...
A: He's insulting you by asking you this. And now it's taking a toll on your self-esteem. It's all ...
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| My husband has no interest in intimacy | 7/16/2007 |
Q: I hope that you can help me. Any advice that you could give would be greatly appreciated. I am at ...
A: He might have some form of sexual dysfunction and he's too embarrassed to tell you or bring it up in ...
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| husband playing role play games | 7/15/2007 |
Q: my husband is wonderful in a lot of ways. he recently gets involved in the role play game which he ...
A: Of course it's not too much to ask him to stay at home with you on the weekends. If this game and ...
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| Lost respect since he slapped me | 7/14/2007 |
Q: I have been with my husband for 5 years,married for just over 4.We have had some issues for the ...
A: His putting his hands on you should've been the deal breaker. No man (or anyone for that matter) ...
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| married in france: seeking divorce in US | 7/13/2007 |
Q: I got married in France while I was on a business trip in august 2006. I have been residing in ...
A: You can still get a divorce in the US, even though you married in France. You first have to have ...
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| "sharing" my wife | 7/12/2007 |
Q: After careful consideration, I am sure that I would like my wife to have intercourse with another ...
A: While I think it's noble and very thoughtful of you to want your wife to have sexual satisfaction ...
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| Staying in an unhappy marriage because of an ill spouse | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I have a very good friend who has been married to a lovely lady for close to 13 years and they share ...
A: He's doing this child a great disservice by staying with the mother. It's never a good idea to stay ...
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| sexual problems | 7/11/2007 |
Q: am 23years and my girlfriend is 19yrs,we have a son who is now 2 years and a half.we've had this ...
A: This all could be due to the birth of your son. A woman's sex drive can drastically change once ...
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| Should i get married to her? | 7/7/2007 |
Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend technically for about a year and a half, but in reality it's ...
A: You're the only one that knows for sure if she's the absolute one for you. In your heart of hearts ...
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| marriage | 7/7/2007 |
Q: a friend mentioned this to me and i had never heard it so i was just curious... if you get legally ...
A: This will vary on what the individual casinos rules and regulations are (which have laws that also ...
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| this is a long one | 7/6/2007 |
Q: S.Kessler. We come from Hebrew background, from Russia. I have known this girl for about 17 – 19 ...
A: I don't want to seem rude here. But I feel compelled to tell you the truth, she's a whore. She ...
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| stay or go? | 7/6/2007 |
Q: My 46 year old husband was caught looking in the bathroom window of a 17 year old daughter of a ...
A: There is some underlying reasons for his disturbing behavior. What they are exactly remains to yet ...
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| dating after seperation | 7/5/2007 |
Q: My friend is now legally separated..can he and she both free to date or do they have to wait until ...
A: From the time of separation it's considered moving on with their lives. So they are free to date ...
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| stepchildren | 7/5/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married just one year. I have a great relationship with my youngest ...
A: There is only so much you can do as a step-mother. The only thing I can suggest is that you talk to ...
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| about marriage | 7/5/2007 |
Q: If I am 20 when i get married an my husband is 23 does that give me the right to purchase beer?
A: No, you must be 21 to purchase and consume beer legally. Let's hypothetically say he buys beer for ...
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| stay or go? | 7/3/2007 |
Q: My 46 year old husband was caught looking in the bathroom window of a 17 year old daughter of a ...
A: Not to be the bearer of more bad news, but chances of him actually recovering from being a molester, ...
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| Im afraid to leave because i have a problem to. | 7/3/2007 |
Q: I've been with my husband for 6 years we've had a pretty stressfull marriage we have 3 small ...
A: If you don't mind my asking, what is your addiction? The first step is to first acknowledge that ...
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| marriage | 7/3/2007 |
Q: first can I say allexperts.com is really great. now my question; I have dual nationality British ...
A: Not all, but some countries want a divorce decree/papers or some proof that a divorce was done, in ...
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| stay or go? | 7/3/2007 |
Q: I've been married for 10 years. My husband and I are very respectful to one another but have turned ...
A: You've tried everything that you could possibly do in the marriage. What more is there for you to ...
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| stay or go? | 7/2/2007 |
Q: My 46 year old husband was caught looking in the bathroom window of a 17 year old daughter of a ...
A: I think you should kick him out ASAP. And no, the problem definitely isn't you! That's for sure, ...
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| husband debt | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I'm from Spain an I've married my husband in 2004. We live in Phoenix Az.We received a letter from a ...
A: This this debt was prior to your meeting him. It's solely his debt and not yours. They would have ...
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| my husband drinks too much | 7/1/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 3 years, and dated for one year before that. He is 40 and I'm ...
A: Wow. But this is your problem too, b/c it's affecting the marriage. So you either have to work ...
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| marriage at 17 | 7/1/2007 |
Q: My mom has passed away from cancer and my father has disowned me; i am 17 and pregnant and the ...
A: Most states and providences allow you to be of legal age at 17 to make those decision on your own. ...
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| What should I do? | 6/30/2007 |
Q: I married a good man. Together we have a son. I am having difficulty admitting what my feelings are ...
A: Your husband is dealing with something that is taking a huge toll on his self-esteem. See, when a ...
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| Marriage Troubles | 6/29/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for just over a year, and we live in a flat where I could not ...
A: He did that to get back at you b/c he was mad and upset that you gave your mom money for the dogs. ...
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| Why am I so afraid to leave? | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I have been married 7 years now, together for 10. I am 35 he is 43. We had a rocky relationship ...
A: It's hard to leave b/c you love him. And taking the first step and actually going through with it, ...
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| getting married befor your divorce is finalized | 6/19/2007 |
Q: Ive already been served with divorce papers,id like to know if i can some how get married befor our ...
A: No, you can't get remarried until the divorce is finalized. Even after it is, there is a mandatory ...
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| Is separation a good way to save a marriage | 6/14/2007 |
Q: My wife and I, both in our 30's, have been married for just over two years. Its been good for most ...
A: The problem is pretty well cut and dry--she misses her family (even though they are over-bearing), ...
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| Dealing w/ ex-wife | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I'll make this short and sweet. I have been w/ my fiance for 4 years his ex-wife was trying to ...
A: I totally agree with you on this. She's completely out of line, by doing this. She's no longer ...
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| wedding is in 26 days | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I am very confused... My fiancee and I have been together for almost two years now. We started out ...
A: If she's bad now, then she'll only get worse after the marriage. She will then think that she has a ...
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| Trapped by a number | 6/13/2007 |
Q: I started seeing a man a few months back and he has proven to be everything I have ever wanted ...
A: Wow! My head is swimming just trying to wrap my head around all that you've just said. Sooo...I'll ...
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| wedding is in 26 days | 6/12/2007 |
Q: I am very confused... My fiancee and I have been together for almost two years now. We started out ...
A: She has a control issue, and that's the main problem in the relationship. I would strongly advise ...
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| Trapped by a number | 6/12/2007 |
Q: I started seeing a man a few months back and he has proven to be everything I have ever wanted ...
A: You know this isn't about you or really even your age. It's about his ex-wife being back in the ...
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| Casual Porn Use? | 6/11/2007 |
Q: Is it possible for man to be a "casual" user of porn and not an addict? I'm trying to figure out if ...
A: I think it's certainly possible for a man to have casual porn usage. As long as he's not obsessed ...
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| Ex issues | 6/10/2007 |
Q: My husband and I split up almost a year ago. He has told others that he made a mistake "but it is ...
A: He's your ex for a reason. He can tell you anything he likes to; but that doesn't mean he's indeed ...
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| Marrying a non-muslim girl | 6/10/2007 |
Q: Asalam u alikum ...hello my name is Asif and i am 23 years old..i really need ur help i am so glad ...
A: I'm speaking as a Christian woman here to you about your dilemma. As a Christian, we believe that ...
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| My marriage may end any day... | 6/5/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 9 months come this June. In the beginning we were amazing. ...
A: HA! Classic case of a man losing control and then using lies and threats to get exactly what he want ...
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| Husband wants to lock me out. | 6/3/2007 |
Q: I live in New York. Everytime ,my husband and I argue he threaten to throw me out and change the ...
A: Since you've not been married that long, a judge isn't going to give you a settlement or alimony. ...
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| Birthday Party | 6/1/2007 |
Q: My wife is 40 this year and has talked all year about a party. My wife has several friends but they ...
A: I think you need to be somewhere in between both of these. Let me elaborate what I mean exactly. ...
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| mexico marriage | 6/1/2007 |
Q: I am hoping that you will be able to assist me in finding my answer, because I don't have the funds ...
A: Yes, your marriage is legal in the US (and anywhere around the world). As long as it was done in ...
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| My marriage may end any day... | 5/31/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 9 months come this June. In the beginning we were amazing. ...
A: He is insulting your intelligence. He's a jerk! Can't you see what he's doing here? He's treating ...
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| Marriage | 5/30/2007 |
Q: If a girl is 14 and wants to get married to a guy who is 18 but also illegally here can they get ...
A: This varies from state to state. I think there are only 1-2 states (if that), that do allow a minor ...
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| breaking up | 5/29/2007 |
Q: After an arguement 9 days ago my husband said it was over and left. For one week he would sleep at ...
A: Wow, that's very surprising that he returned what a took. Perhaps he realized what he'd done. At ...
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| breaking up | 5/29/2007 |
Q: After an arguement 9 days ago my husband said it was over and left. For one week he would sleep at ...
A: He's going in and taking your stuff b/c he can. He knows that this is one way he can get back at ...
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| breaking up | 5/28/2007 |
Q: After an arguement 9 days ago my husband said it was over and left. For one week he would sleep at ...
A: Beware when he says this. He could be buttering you up in order to get the stuff from the house ...
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| breaking up | 5/28/2007 |
Q: After an arguement 9 days ago my husband said it was over and left. For one week he would sleep at ...
A: He's entitled to 50% of the things incurred during the marriage, b/c this is considered marital ...
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| Husband's Selfishness | 5/23/2007 |
Q: I am a 30-year-old mother of one daughter, my husband and I have been married for 5 years. My ...
A: It's better to do a divorce now and get it over with. The longer you wait and the older the child ...
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| Forged Signature | 5/22/2007 |
Q: My husband forged my signature on a $25k refund check and placed it in his private account. Is this ...
A: Even if you weren't on the account, the taxes were done together with him, with you filing as ...
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| Marriage problems and a child | 5/22/2007 |
Q: I am writing because I have been wanting and wishing there was some phone number I could call to get ...
A: Wow, you are in a predicament aren't you?! Just know that you're absolutely doing the right thing. ...
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| Forged Signature | 5/21/2007 |
Q: My husband forged my signature on a $25k refund check and placed it in his private account. Is this ...
A: Yes, of course, this is illegal. He can't sign your name w/o your permission. It's called forgery ...
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| Unhappy Marriage | 5/18/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 3 years and have a beatiful baby daughter. I was born and raised in the ...
A: Yes, she probably does realize that she needs an adult and needs to contribute to helping out around ...
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| Mexicam marriage law | 5/17/2007 |
Q: I am 31 year old English citizen. I got married in Mexico 6 years ago. Woman is an English citizen ...
A: Even though you married in Mexico, your marriage is still legal and binding in all countries. So, ...
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| Should I marry him? | 5/17/2007 |
Q: I ask my bf did he ever go strip club, he said 5 times because of depress and curiosity. One last ...
A: You did the right thing by breaking it off with him. He not only lied to you, but he went out with ...
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| Unhappy Marriage | 5/17/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 3 years and have a beatiful baby daughter. I was born and raised in the ...
A: Have you sat down and actually talked to your wife about this (the issue of her being lazy)? If ...
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| marriage | 5/15/2007 |
Q: We have two children. All we have done is fight ever since, the first three years were aweful, he ...
A: If you want him out of the home (and really mean it). You can go to court and legally evict him ...
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| Morality/Marraige | 5/11/2007 |
Q: I have just discovered that my husband whom I have been with for almost 12 years has been looking at ...
A: Porn is porn it's wrong and disgusting (I totally agree with the moral thing, so I'm right there ...
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| Anger | 5/10/2007 |
Q: I have been with my fiance almost 6 years, last year we moved in together, and built a new home. All ...
A: He obviously has an anger issue. The only thing I can suggest to you is that he get some form of ...
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| trust issues | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 12 years with two children 9 & 7. I would have to say that our marriage has ...
A: He shouldn't be lying to you, there's no excuse for him doing that. He should be man enough to be ...
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| mixed emotions | 5/7/2007 |
Q: Me and my fiance have been dating for 9months now, and my fiance is leaving for Iraq in September. ...
A: You should never do something you're not 100% committed to and/or comfortable with. This is ...
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| how do i tell him? | 5/6/2007 |
Q: i dont hate my husband by any means...he an i have been together for about 10 years abott 5 years of ...
A: No one wants to go through a divorce. And there's no nice way to tell him you want a divorce. It's ...
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| Is there any way to fix this problem? | 5/4/2007 |
Q: About a year ago I found out that my husband of 15 years was in constant (daily) email contact with ...
A: I can see your issues with this. However, I have a couple of questions. What type of relationship ...
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| Back Child Support | 5/4/2007 |
Q: My fiancée was arrested about a month ago for back child support. He does owe it but we just can’t ...
A: You should talk to the judge and see if you can make payment arrangements for the $2,000 that's ...
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| Pornography | 5/1/2007 |
Q: I've been married now for 10 years. The past 4 to 5 years things have really been rough. we've lost ...
A: I did a search on Google.com, I just typed in "help for porn addiction." And I got a huge list of ...
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| re: confused abt which guy | 4/29/2007 |
Q: i have been madly in love with a guy who is obsessed with being a movie director.i was very close to ...
A: You have to go with your heart and do what's right for you. Do what makes you happy and what your ...
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| the ex-wife | 4/28/2007 |
Q: How should i deal with my boyfriends ex, I care for the children after school- go to all the school ...
A: Have your BF take care of this, it's not your place to argue with her and fight over what's going on ...
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| Marriage Trouble | 4/26/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 19 years and have 2 girls. One of my daughters got pregnant at 17 and had ...
A: You should talk to your wife about marriage counseling. All of this is taking a huge toll on the ...
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| My Marriage | 4/26/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 8 months. we are currently living apart. She is in law school in Michigan ...
A: I know you're avoiding this b/c you don't want to face it and tell her. But you really must do ...
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| marriage lisencse | 4/23/2007 |
Q: I wanted to know if you can be prevented from getting a marriage lisencse if you owe back child ...
A: The answer, to my knowledge is no. They can't deny you a marriage license based on if your in ...
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| My husband | 4/21/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have what I call a really happy marriage. A few little communication issues, but ...
A: It has to do a lot with communication (with his leaving). Even though you may think everything is ...
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| Underage Marriage | 4/20/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we have a baby together. He's 18 and I'm 16. ...
A: No, that doesn't change just b/c you have a child together. You would still need parental consent ...
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| drugs here too | 4/19/2007 |
Q: When I came across the question from “Exhausted” I was amazed. Somehow just realizing that I am not ...
A: You've said that you have known he's been like this all along. Did you really think you could save ...
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| She want's a seperation | 4/10/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for just a year. She has been asking me to leave now for three ...
A: If you truly love her and really want to make the marriage work. Then you could want it out just a ...
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| drugs and other problems | 4/10/2007 |
Q: I've read a lot of your advice on here, and it has been worthwhile, so I thought I'd see if you ...
A: Your wife is a drug addict. It's the drugs talking when she's high and even when she's not. Drugs ...
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| Mojo..? | 4/10/2007 |
Q: While historically I've always been able to attract multiple boysfriends, right now I feel as though ...
A: Your "mojo" comes from within. It's all about how you feel about yourself. If you love yourself ...
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| should i leave or stay | 4/8/2007 |
Q: I have been with my husband for 12yrs married 8 he has cheated on in the past.And know i just found ...
A: She's saying she loves him?! Hmm...that's definitely not a good thing. And if he's cheated on you ...
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| She want's a seperation | 4/7/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for just a year. She has been asking me to leave now for three ...
A: Chances of actually saving this marriage right now are pretty slim to none. She's basically told ...
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| is it right? | 4/3/2007 |
Q: i found on my phone bill while i was out of town on business that my husband called another woman ...
A: The first steps are the hardest to take in making a decision about what to do (such as ending a ...
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| Child Support | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I am marrying a man that owes back child support plus current child support. When we marry, can his ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your questions here. And I'll put my answers underneath them, this way ...
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| I think my marriage is doomed | 3/29/2007 |
Q: I love my wife of 11 years..almost 3 years ago we had a son that we were trying for years to have. ...
A: If she absolutely refuses to get help for her anger issues or depression (which to me is sounds ...
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| Prep for long term relationship | 3/15/2007 |
Q: I've been dating a girl for a while now and we both openly talk about long term plans, marriage, ...
A: I would definitely suggest the pre-marriage counseling option, for sure. This way you can make sure ...
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| separation and divorce | 3/15/2007 |
Q: The thing is...I have tried several times to have a heart to heart conversation...he wants no part ...
A: He's being very selfish right now, and doesn't seem to care about how all this is affecting you ...
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| separation and divorce | 3/14/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost nine years. We are both on our second marriage and ...
A: You should sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart talk with him when he gets back from ...
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| Marriage anullment | 3/10/2007 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old soldier. I got married about 2 years after meeting what i thought was the woman of ...
A: You can file for divorce one of two ways. You can file through the military and get a military ...
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| Marriage Waiver | 3/5/2007 |
Q: My fiance received his final divorce decree notice on February 22nd 2007, we were planning on ...
A: Generally in a divorce, you must wait the alotted 30 days before legally being allowed to remarry. ...
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| Husband Troubles | 3/5/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 9 monthes and have had a disagreement about watching porn. He ...
A: For him to call disgusting is total BS!! You're the mother of his child. His behavior is just ...
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| what is permissible in islam | 3/4/2007 |
Q: asalaamualaikum. I wanted to know is it permissible in islam to have oral sex AKA 69 as the term ...
A: I'm unfamiliar with the laws of Islam. As I'm a Christian, so I really don't have any accurate ...
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| When To Leave | 2/25/2007 |
Q: I have been married 18 years. My husband and I have divorced and remarried each other. We are both ...
A: I would urge you to seek some marriage counseling before you decided to separate and ultimately ...
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| Should I leave him now or give him a chance | 2/24/2007 |
Q: I'm so confused with my husband's habits and his beliefs.We have been together 1 year and 5 months ...
A: It seems as though he's very selfish and self-absorbed, and he doesn't take your thoughts or ...
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| separated 11+ years | 2/10/2007 |
Q: Is it a legal separation?Have been separated over 11 yrs. We live in completely different areas, not ...
A: It's not a legal separation unless you've gone to court to make it a legal separation. It's just ...
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| separated 11+ years | 2/8/2007 |
Q: Have been separated over 11 yrs. We live in completely different areas, not even the same state. I ...
A: No, even in CA it's not an automatic divorce (no states do this). You still must obtain a legal ...
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| QUALITIES | 2/8/2007 |
Q: I've this simpleWHAT ARE THE QUALITIES A MARRYING WOMAN SEEKS IN HER MAN?
A: Well, the qualities of what a woman wants or expects in a marriage or relationship, will vary from ...
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| common law marrige | 2/7/2007 |
Q: I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR 2 YEARS. ITS BEEN A VERY ABUSIVE REALATIONSHIP. IM THINKING OF LEAVIN. ...
A: Common law marriage isn't a legal and binding marriage. In fact, currently only 11 states even ...
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| Dating after separation | 2/6/2007 |
Q: Sir, My quandary begins about four years ago. My high school (and beyond) sweetheart was forced to ...
A: Since she's separated from him now. She's moving on with her life, and she can date whomever she ...
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| I was so lonely | 2/1/2007 |
Q: I work full time and my wife who just finished college is having a hard time getting a job. Her ...
A: At this point all you can do is to be straight up honest with her. Tell her you're sorry for not ...
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| Sexual behavior within a marriage relationship | 1/28/2007 |
Q: My question is this: do you have any feelings, positive or negative, about a husband who adamantly ...
A: Hmm...well. If that's what he likes to get him in the mood, then whatever floats his boat, I guess. ...
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| adultery | 1/27/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 7 years and I just found out to my surprise he has been ...
A: It's very frustrating for both of you to go through right now. And it's going to take some time to ...
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| Cheating spouse | 1/26/2007 |
Q: how do you learn to forgive your husband for cheating on you with his step-child? And is it possible ...
A: A spouse cheating with a step-child?! That is just unacceptable for a step-parent to do, not to ...
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| overwhelmed with emotion.. | 1/25/2007 |
Q: hereit is. I am a 31 year old, never married. I met a wonderful, 34 yr old single mother 3 months ...
A: It's never a good idea to rush into a marriage, unless you feel you're absolutely ready. The same ...
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| how to get over our stubborn ways | 1/21/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been fighting for about a year now. Our problem is we are stubborn. No one ...
A: Someone must be willing to give in, otherwise, it's going to cost you the marriage over time. And ...
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| husband having affair | 1/19/2007 |
Q: he says he wasn't happy he said it was because he felt he was doing everything. well i work full ...
A: It was his choice and decision to leave and move 4 hours away. If he's already cheating on you with ...
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| Living together before marriage | 1/18/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years, and are both sure that we are the ones ...
A: As long as you're both captable, you get along good, and can work out your differences. The ...
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| My husband's | 1/16/2007 |
Q: We spoke last night about how I was feeling. He said that he didn't lie to me. He didn't think the ...
A: Oh, but you do have a right to know when/if he sends her gifts and money. He should automatically ...
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| to stay married or get a divorce | 1/15/2007 |
Q: I have been married for about 4 years. I had a two year old son. My husband and I are 4 years old. ...
A: Before you decide to leave him--talk to him again. You should sit down and have a serious heart to ...
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| Closure/moving on | 1/15/2007 |
Q: My 10 1/2 yr marriage ended in the summer after my husband realized " he needs to be on his own" ...
A: It could be a bit of both. Whatever you do do not take him back. He's the one that made the ...
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| another questuin | 1/14/2007 |
Q: we just went on vacation and it was the most wonderful time we have ever had but I think the ...
A: You could be suffering from a low self esteem issue. And that's why you constantly need to be ...
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| separation | 1/13/2007 |
Q: I have been married for about 5 years and separated for one year. I have a 2 years old son. The ...
A: If he's already made up his mind to proceed with the divorce. Then there's probably nothing you can ...
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| Jealousy | 1/7/2007 |
Q: what should i do my name is bryon i am 19 and im jealous of my wife who i have been married to for ...
A: You have to stop with the jealousy. Otherwise, it's going to ruin your marriage, and it'll end up ...
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| us solider wanting to get married | 1/7/2007 |
Q: I am currently serving overseas in germany and my fiance is back home in cocoa beach, Fl. We want to ...
A: I'm not sure about the notarized part. She'd have to check into that. But I'm pretty sure that you ...
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| age difference | 1/6/2007 |
Q: I'm a 25 years old girl and I'm with a 49 years old man. He has 2 kids, almost my age and I'd need ...
A: I think you're over-reacting. If the only problem you have in the relationship, was that he didn't ...
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| help me | 1/5/2007 |
Q: He will be home in a month-and-a-half. I decided last night when I couldn't sleep that I should ...
A: Easier said than done. This counselor is not the one that has to bear the load of what you're going ...
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| Marriage Resentment | 1/3/2007 |
Q: I have been harboring a huge resentment against my husband for the entire 8 years we've been ...
A: Does he know how you truly feel about his insensitive comment? If not, then you should sit him down ...
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| questions | 1/2/2007 |
Q: Okay... I'm beginning to fill like I'm just in denial. My husband is affectionate, makes time for ...
A: Anyone can be a very good liar, if they've done it long enough. He/She can even sound very ...
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| questions | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I'm confused,worried, and insecure. What a combination. I need someone to talk to and I need ...
A: I think that you have every right to be worried and suspicous of his behavior. If he had nothing to ...
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| Hurt, lonely and abandoned | 12/29/2006 |
Q: "My fiance broke up with me a few days ago and I am left to feel very sad, angry, resentful, ...
A: First off, know that all of these feelings you're experiencing are completely normal. Perhaps she ...
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| i dont know what to do anymore. | 12/29/2006 |
Q: i hope its ok that this is more of a relationship question. I'm not married but I've found the girl ...
A: Perhaps it's the distance in the relationship that's causing the problems for her. Even though you ...
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| Help save my marriage!! | 12/29/2006 |
Q: We have been together for about 15 years, married for 8 this past year. We have one biological ...
A: The very first thing you should recommend to him, when you speak to him on Monday, is marriage ...
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| wrong marriage | 12/28/2006 |
Q: How could I overcome the sympathy for him when I'm separating from him? I'm afraid I will be touched ...
A: I'm sure you'll always care for him in some aspect. But it can't be helped that you feel sympathy ...
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| divorce | 12/28/2006 |
Q: I have been with a guy for almost 3 yrs. He is still married and I am recently divorced. We have ...
A: I think it's a very BAD idea to get involved with a married man to begin with. Especially when he ...
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| Husband wants a divorce | 12/27/2006 |
Q: "I've been married for almost 3 years and have known my husband for 6. I have rejected my husband, ...
A: Unfortunately, that very well may just be the case, and it could be too late for the marriage to be ...
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| my husband doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore | 12/25/2006 |
Q: ..I am looking for advice. My husband told me a week ago that he isn't happy and doesn't know if he ...
A: You could do a trial separation for a bit. This way you can see if you really want to be apart or ...
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| 21 years and not very happy | 12/21/2006 |
Q: I've been married for 21 years. I have 3 children, I successfully completed nearly 25 years of ...
A: Of course, you have every right to be upset about what she's just told you. It's devastating and ...
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| Find Trust in my relationship, | 12/16/2006 |
Q: I am having trust issue with my boyfriend that I desperately want to get rid of. I have known my ...
A: In a sense he's contributed to your jealousy and not trusting him (by talking to other girls, ...
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| Husband doesn't want kids | 12/15/2006 |
Q: I recently got married, actually a little over 2 months. i quit my job to relocate to join my ...
A: If I were in your situation. I would tell the husband that having abortions aren't to be used as a ...
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| I want to marry...he isn't ready | 12/13/2006 |
Q: Kessler- Thank you for looking at my question. My boyfriend of two years wants me to move n with ...
A: Maybe he wants to see if you're both compatible once living together. You truly don't know a person ...
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| Wife's contact with ex lover | 12/12/2006 |
Q: Just last night, she brought up the subject of her past relationships. Once again, she told the ...
A: If deep down inside it's bothering you this much, then yes, perhaps it is something you should be ...
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| Wife's contact with ex lover | 12/11/2006 |
Q: Before we met, while on a cruise, my wife (of 1 year) met a man from Indianapolis ("Adam") and ...
A: Has she ever given you any reason to suspect she might be being unfaithful to you? If not, then ...
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| my husbands drinking | 12/8/2006 |
Q: Through years of watching my husband go from a "drinker" to a "heavier drinker" and now a " Daily ...
A: I know how you feel. My father's side of the family (almost entire family) are alcoholics. My ...
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| broken heart | 12/8/2006 |
Q: I have been married for 2.5 years. I am a doctoral student in chemistry and am married to a ...
A: I would strongly urge you to seek some marriage counseling. This way you can deal with any issues ...
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| PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! | 12/2/2006 |
Q: I have been married for 5 1/2 months and eveything was going great up until about a month ago. It ...
A: It sure seems that something isn't quite right with him. He shouldn't be treating you with such ...
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| Is it over? | 11/30/2006 |
Q: Married with children for 15 years. Over the past two years, my wife has morphed into an extremely ...
A: It's over if she refuses to see the error of her ways, and will not change. A person can only take ...
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| Telling the truth | 11/27/2006 |
Q: I and this gentlemen have been communicating via online for 3 months now... He has expressed his ...
A: Yes, you owe it to him to be honest with him. And if he's either unable or unwilling to be ...
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| i think i wan to marry her | 11/23/2006 |
Q: well i think you are right, but i am not marrying her now may be when she turns 18. i will be 28 ...
A: It's b/c she's 16 and immature. A 16 yo girl is only into chasing guys. They're into dating, ...
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| HOW TO GET A MARRIAGE ANULLED | 11/22/2006 |
Q: MY BROTHER JUST GOT MARRIED LAST MONTH TO A WOMAN WHO PRESSURED HIM INTO IT. COME TO FIND OUT, SHE ...
A: Yes, he can file for an annulment and end the marriage. He can probably file something with INS. ...
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| My wife does not love me | 11/21/2006 |
Q: First off thankyou for trying to help me find some answers. My wife of almost 28 years, 3 years ago ...
A: I don't have any wonderful advice for you. But I do think she's just as hesitant as you to end the ...
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| my tricky relationship | 11/21/2006 |
Q: ive been with my partner for a little over six years, from i was 15 and him 17. We had our first ...
A: Be very careful and wary of love on the rebound. What I mean by this is, if you ultimately decide ...
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| ex is very successful | 11/19/2006 |
Q: I am married happily(at least for a year) to my husband. Me and my husband are both doctoral ...
A: It's not uncommon to retain feelings for an old flame. It's okay to reflect back upon the good ...
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| Affair with a married man | 11/19/2006 |
Q: I am sorry to bring out a topic that may not be appropriate for this site. I am puzzled and need an ...
A: I don't appreciate being rated a 1 in 3 different catagories. In fact I think that's rather rude of ...
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| hopeless | 11/18/2006 |
Q: "My husband says mean things like the only reason I’m still with him is because I know that I am 2 ...
A: He probably has a low self-esteem and that's why he treats you with disrespect. Sometimes a person ...
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| In love with two different women | 11/15/2006 |
Q: I have been married for seven years to a wonderful woman (no kids). She's smart, driven attractive ...
A: You need to make a decision on whom you want to be with. Whether it's your wife or this other ...
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| Leave or work it out? | 11/15/2006 |
Q: I've been married to my husband for a little over a year. We have 5 children between us. I have 1 ...
A: Since he was abusing drugs (and hasn't stayed in rehab), it's unlikely he's stopped--or it's just a ...
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| help | 11/15/2006 |
Q: I don't know where to start , my story started 7 years ago I met this guy and things went ok and now ...
A: If you are having any doubts about marrying your fiancee then don't marry him. What if it turns out ...
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| Is this marriage over? | 11/14/2006 |
Q: "Good Morning, My wife and I have been married about 3 1/2 years. I am 60 and she is 55. We have ...
A: I'm going to give you my perspective on this issue from both sides (yours and your wife's). ...
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| maybe we should seperate | 11/11/2006 |
Q: .my husband and I have been fighting latley and I have know idea why..he throws fits all the time ...
A: You should suggest to your husband that you get some marriage counseling. If he'll agree to it. ...
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| my marriage | 11/8/2006 |
Q: I Have been married for almost 3yrs we have been together for 7yrs. When we first met I had just ...
A: Perhaps a trial separation is in order for you at this time. I know a separation is a hard thing to ...
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| 2nd marriage & not happy | 11/7/2006 |
Q: grateful for your advice. I recently got married (few months ago) to a girl from Pakistan. It's my ...
A: If you even remotely doubt about being with your wife. Do not have children with her. That will ...
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| forge signatures | 11/7/2006 |
Q: . Sorry I forgot to tell you that I'm having problems with my husband now and I want to use the ...
A: Do not tolerate him abusing you. You do not deserve to be treated like this. The marriage is still ...
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| TRYING AFTER SEPARATION | 11/6/2006 |
Q: I HAVE BEEN SEPARATED FOR 2 YEARS, BUT HAVE KEPT IN TOUCH AND MY HUSBAND AND I TALK ALL THE TIME ON ...
A: I would advise holding off for a bit still on the moving back in together idea. Just in case that ...
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| forge signatures | 11/6/2006 |
Q: I was married for more than a year now.. During our wedding ceremony, we never realize that my our ...
A: No, this shouldn't be a problem--considering your circumstances. Besides, in order for it to be ...
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| lies | 11/1/2006 |
Q: My husband is getting a habit of lying to me about everything just because he doesn't want me to say ...
A: You stop letting him treat you in this manner. He has no right to be rude and inconsiderate to you, ...
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| do I stay or go? | 10/30/2006 |
Q: My husband of 13years has told me of his feeling for another woman. He has not done anything ...
A: He's playing games with you. You can't truly love two ppl at the same time. He's testing the ...
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| It was my fault but I want her back | 10/30/2006 |
Q: I have been married for seven months. Recently my wife found out that I had been lying about our ...
A: This all comes down to communication. Communication is key in any relationship. If you don't have ...
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| marrage | 10/27/2006 |
Q: Re: only time will tell------- He wants to just let the relationship happen petty much- and just ...
A: I'm copying and pasting your questions here, so that I can answer them easier. **My question is, ...
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| Spending the Night | 10/26/2006 |
Q: My wife is going to visit her friend who lives an hour away from us, she recently (2 years) got ...
A: It'll probably be a long day of shopping and having fun with her friend. So naturally she'll be ...
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| marrage | 10/26/2006 |
Q: my boyfriend is 24 years old. He is starting his undergrad work at UCLA and will finish in two to ...
A: He could be too preoccupied with college, to even entertain the idea of marriage. Or maybe he's not ...
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| why does my husband think touching me sexually and inappropriate times is romantic? | 10/25/2006 |
Q: my husband and I met when we were 17, I we are 56. I had a hysterectomy about 8 years ago and had a ...
A: What he's doing isn't flattering at all to a woman! It's an insult and degrading to you. His ...
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| seperated and headed for divorce | 10/23/2006 |
Q: My wife and I have been seperated for 2.5 months. She is simply done. There is no trying, although ...
A: If she's unwilling to work out the marriage, refuses counseling and has plain given up on the ...
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| 10 years and HE wants a divorce! | 10/20/2006 |
Q: My husband left me about a month ago. He already move in into his own place. I still live at our ...
A: It sounds as though he's made up his mind and he's not willing to work on the marriage. All you can ...
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| marriage and debt | 10/20/2006 |
Q: I have been marriage for 5 years, I have really good credit and prior to getting married I own my ...
A: You're only responsible for it if your name is on a title, deed or loan on things such as credit ...
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| Marrying a man younger than me | 10/20/2006 |
Q: I am a married woman, I am not satisfied with my husband emotionally and sexually, although he is in ...
A: It sounds as though you haven't been happy with your marriage for quite some time. And you met ...
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| jealousy | 10/19/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 10 years and have 3 kids. He has always been a very jealous ...
A: It seems as though he has a very low self-esteem and an insecurity issue. He has to right to ...
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| marriage and alcohol | 10/17/2006 |
Q: , I am a 46 year old woman married to a 31 year old man. We have been together for 5 years, but ...
A: My father was an alcoholic his entire life. He came from a family of alcoholics (brothers, parents, ...
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| Is it time to call it a day? | 10/16/2006 |
Q: I am 34 married for 15 years and have 2 kids aged 14 & 11. Things have not been right in my marriage ...
A: It sounds like you've just slowly drifted apart over the years. And that you really just lack that ...
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| Can he take my last name? | 10/14/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend wants to take my last name when we get married. Can we do that?
A: He sure can! It's pretty simple, just a matter of a legal name change. You can ask the ppl at the ...
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| Dealing with an Ex-wife. | 10/13/2006 |
Q: My fiancés first wife is the bio-mom of his three daughters. Their ages are 24, 32, & 35. My ...
A: They do have children in common. And unfortunately they'll be bonded b/c of that forever. There's ...
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| bitch or abuse | 10/13/2006 |
Q: I admittedly have become intolerant of my husband and all of the things that have happened in our ...
A: Boy, what you've described to me in your question, sounds like my former marriage to an exact T! And ...
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| Age Difference in marrage | 10/9/2006 |
Q: I am 25 and completely in love with my 42 year old boyfriend. He has been married and divorced ...
A: Age difference doesn't usually matter in a marriage (or even relationship). It's how compatible you ...
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| kissing co-workers | 10/9/2006 |
Q: Should wife ask male co-workers to respect me when we're at a function, they always greet her with a ...
A: If it absolutely bothers you, then yes, you should say something. It's perfectly fine and ...
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| Husband says one thing & means another | 10/9/2006 |
Q: I am so totally confused with my husband's antics at this moment. We have been married almost 5 ...
A: You need to get through to your husband that marriage is about compromise. When he gives a little, ...
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| please help i think he hates me!!!!! | 10/7/2006 |
Q: ok i will try and make this short i have been married to my husband for 15 yrs we got married when i ...
A: All I can really suggest to you is some marriage counseling. If your husband will agree to it. It ...
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| He's making plans that don't include me | 10/4/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 19 years. I will try to be brief, but a lot has happened in all ...
A: You should go with your heart and do what's right for you. You deserve to be happy in life. He ...
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| Husband's parents live with us | 10/4/2006 |
Q: I moved in with my boyfriend 3 years ago, after dating for almost a year. We got married a little ...
A: It never works out when you live with in-laws or family of any kind. Even if the intentions were ...
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| issues with my husbands new secretary | 10/4/2006 |
Q: i am having serious problems accepting my husbands new secretary. She is alot younger than him and ...
A: I can see your cause for concern, especially hearing bad things about her through other ppl. And on ...
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| Do i leave my husband? | 10/3/2006 |
Q: Please help me. My husband has always had what he calls a high sex drive. He wants sex everyday ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your answers here, with my answers underneath them, for convenience ...
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| Married and so Confused | 10/2/2006 |
Q: I am 31 and been married for 2 years. Yet, I feel so confused. My wife is overall a good girl, ...
A: When you first have doubt at the beginning of a marriage, that can work against you later. You feel ...
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| Struggling with moving on | 10/1/2006 |
Q: I have written before but I am still needing some help. My husband decided 2 months ago that he ...
A: When he's treated you wrong, cheated on you, is cocky and arrogant in his attitude. Why would you ...
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| getting married | 10/1/2006 |
Q: ..is this possable please let me know or should i go to russia and marry her there and then can i ...
A: I'm not sure which is the best way to go about this. You need to find out what UK laws are on ...
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| marriage | 9/30/2006 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 8.5 years now and we have 3 wonderful children.We have had our ...
A: Nothing really, if he's already made up his mind that he's moving out and wants a divorce. All you ...
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| married on paper that's all | 9/27/2006 |
Q: My wife has had enough of the marriage after nine years...I am a stay at home dad with five kids..I ...
A: I think that's horrible that you would abandon you mentally and emotionally after all these years of ...
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| Am i a bitch? | 9/27/2006 |
Q: My wonderful husband and i have been married for 2 years now but we have been together for a total ...
A: No, that doesn't make you a bitch. He should hear you out as to why you don't want him to go. If ...
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| Can a marriage die after Retirement & Empty nest | 9/26/2006 |
Q: We've been married for 33 years. He retired 2 years ago and went trucking,at first it was ok,then it ...
A: I think that over the years that a couple can become distant from one another. Sometimes over time ...
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| Second Wife Second Best | 9/26/2006 |
Q: I am a single, childless woman in my mid 30s in a relationship with a divorced man with one child. ...
A: First off, he should never compare you with his child. You're not competing for his love and ...
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| Affair Thrown in My Face | 9/26/2006 |
Q: My husband cheated on me 11 years ago. We are now married 14 years. I know that I won't trust him ...
A: Wasn't sure which name you really go by, since there are two listed here for your question. He's ...
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| pls help...need urgent guidence on marriage | 9/20/2006 |
Q: I am 23 year old girl working ina s/w company and i have been having an affair with a guy for last 4 ...
A: You are the one that has to live your life, not your parents or your boyfriends parents. It's your ...
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| Am I reading his signs right??? | 9/17/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 11 years, together 14. This is a second marriage for both of ...
A: It sure seems like he's up to no good. A dating site?! Come on! How dumb does he really think you ...
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| Remarriage before divorce.. | 9/14/2006 |
Q: Hai, Thanks for the clarification and iam sure i'd inform my friend to safeguard her life..My ...
A: If and that's a big IF, he's serious about pursuing a divorce he can still get one whether his wife ...
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| She says she is burned out | 9/13/2006 |
Q: My wife and I have been married now for 10years and have three wonderful children. She is German ...
A: Yes, I most definitely think that you're on the right track. You're doing everything right. ...
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| Commitment to the Future | 9/13/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship, I suffer a mental illness and we have been through ...
A: Maybe he's just not the marrying kind. Some ppl are afraid of marriage for some reason. You could ...
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| SEPERATED | 9/11/2006 |
Q: MY WIFE AND I HAVE BEEN SEPERATED FOR A MONTH. WAS RESENTFUL IN NOT HELPING OUT ENOUGH WITH THE 2 ...
A: It sounds as though your wife has just lost herself; and doesn't really know what she wants to do. ...
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| Moving on | 9/10/2006 |
Q: I found out this weekend that he has slept with someone. How can he do this-in my house, in OUR bed ...
A: It always hurts when a spouse cheats. It's one of the most devastating things that can happen in a ...
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| Should I be concerned -- Paranoia ???? | 9/7/2006 |
Q: First I wish to give you a few details about my Spouse's Family: She has an Older brother who has ...
A: Yes, you really ought to be concerned by her strange behavior. It's a very serious matter when a ...
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| dealing with an ex wife | 9/6/2006 |
Q: My husband, of one month, talks to his ex frequently on the phone. They have 2 children 19 and 12. I ...
A: Some ppl, even if they are divorced, remain close to each other. I can totally understand why this ...
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| Should I stay or should I go? | 9/1/2006 |
Q: I am 30 years old, have been married for over seven years, and together we have 3 young children (4, ...
A: She could have a hormonal or chemical imbalance. A woman's sex drive can literally change after ...
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| Maybe you can help me | 8/30/2006 |
Q: Please read from beginning to end to get the full understanding, thank you Hello, this is to ...
A: First off, how old is Kristen?! Unless she's a minor her mother can't control what she does. As ...
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| Husband Won't Leave | 8/29/2006 |
Q: We have been married 15 years, I am 55 my husband is 37. I thought we had a wonderful life this is ...
A: He keeps coming back b/c you'll take him back each time. And he knows this, therefore he comes back ...
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| problems with stepdaughters | 8/25/2006 |
Q: I have been married in a second marriage gro 1 and half year, before we were dating for the same ...
A: How is it supposed to get better in 5-6 years from now, if it's already bad now?! Does he expect ...
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| Popping the question | 8/24/2006 |
Q: I may sound somewhat insecure, but could not help being curious about what my boyfriend had said ...
A: He could've brought it up to see what your reaction was going to be. Perhaps he's shy to ask you, ...
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| Moving on | 8/23/2006 |
Q: After 10 1/2 years of marriage my hsuband wants to be on his own. I have hd a horrible 10 months ...
A: I'm sure he means well, by trying to help you move, etc. Just be honest with him. Tell him that ...
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| 10 years of Marriage, thinking of separation | 8/23/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for over 10 years. We married young, 23 & 20. He was my "first" ...
A: I can see why you're getting fed up with his crap. That's pretty bad when a grown man has to bully ...
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| remarring after divorce | 8/16/2006 |
Q: i would like to find out the problems i may face by remarrying after divorce ? I am a catholic and ...
A: This can be tricky when it comes to religion. And I'm not very familiar with some churches issues ...
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| Marriage has gone down the drain HELP! | 8/16/2006 |
Q: "I would like to know how I can save my marriage? I am 26 yrs old, I have a lovely 6yr old daughter, ...
A: Those diet pills could be altering her moods and actually be the cause of why she's acting strange. ...
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| Marriage problems | 8/15/2006 |
Q: I'm 27 year old female living with a 43 yr old female. I hava a problem of fisical attraction to my ...
A: You should do whatever's right for you. If you feel that she'd be better off with someone else, ...
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| ex wife | 8/14/2006 |
Q: My question is in relation to the information my husband seems to feel free to tell me about his ...
A: You just need to sit down and have a serious heart to heart talk with him. He needs to know that ...
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| Sexless Marriage | 8/9/2006 |
Q: this questions has to do with living in a sexless, compassionless marriage. I am 38 years old and ...
A: You could suggest going to marriage counseling, if he'll agree to go with you. This way you can ...
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| Not being informed of important decisions | 8/2/2006 |
Q: We are going on a family vacation. Twice my husband has told families they can go with us without ...
A: Have they actually came both times that he's invited them to go along on your vacations?! I think ...
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| jealous husband | 8/1/2006 |
Q: I have been married for 10 years. I think my husband has a problem with jealousy and insecurity. It ...
A: He's very resentful at this point of your going places. Since he has to usually stay and work at ...
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| On the brink of leaving | 7/28/2006 |
Q: I have been married for 24 years. I adopted her son by a former marriage long ago, we've not had a ...
A: Have you considered marriage counseling? If not, then I would seriously urge you to seek it. This ...
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| Adultry | 7/26/2006 |
Q: I just found out my husband has been cheating on me for over a year now. He says he wants me and he ...
A: It takes time and effort. When a person cheats on you, it makes you lose all the respect and trust ...
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| Lonely. | 7/25/2006 |
Q: I have only been married to my husband for about 8 months now and already things have gone sour. ...
A: Sometimes a relationship changes after marriage, and not necessarily for the best either. A couple ...
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| Is it time to let go | 7/25/2006 |
Q: I have been in touch before and need some further advice. My husband and I have been on a break ...
A: What is two more weeks, really? If it can mean saving your marriage and being able to work it out. ...
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| Should I just leave? | 7/22/2006 |
Q: My marriage is complicated. I married my wife about almost a year ago. Yes we loved each other at ...
A: Have you considered marriage counseling for both of you? If not, then you should seriously consider ...
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| Where is the common ground, on the decision about another child? | 7/22/2006 |
Q: My wife and I have been married 9 1/2 years. We have two beautiful childre (girl)7 and (boy)6. A ...
A: Maybe you could compromise with a certain time period. To say where you can get the family finances ...
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| HELP ME!!!! | 7/21/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a month and 10 days and in that time we have had sex a total ...
A: It sounds as though he's just exhausted from work. Or it could be a health issue. You should ...
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| Don't think he wants a baby | 7/21/2006 |
Q: I am 31 years old, and have been married for 13 months now. My husband is 37 and we have custody of ...
A: If you want a child, then he needs to know what this really means to you. If you want one in the ...
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| Absentee Husband | 7/21/2006 |
Q: this is difficult for me to do, its my first time. My husband and I have been together for 7 years ...
A: Is there any possible way that he could find another job, that doesn't require him to travel so ...
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| Newlyweds living with in-laws | 7/15/2006 |
Q: I would like some of your expert advice on this topic. My fiance wants me to live with him and his ...
A: I would strongly advise against living with an in-law. It can cause way too many problems. Listen ...
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| Ready for marriage? | 7/9/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years now. Before we were dating we were the best of ...
A: If everyone waited for the perfect time to get married and to have children; then a lot of ppl ...
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| I am ready for the next step, he's not... | 7/8/2006 |
Q: Kessler, I have been dating this guy from Australia for about 11 months( I am 32 and he is 30). He ...
A: Are you sure he's not misleading you, and he could already be married? Something about his excuse ...
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| Attention Deficit | 7/5/2006 |
Q: When my husband and I were married a year ago, I was 6 months pregnant with our daughter. Things ...
A: Something definitely sounds fishy to me. What's he really up to?! If he's openly flirting and ...
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| Marriage, Steparenting and baby... | 7/5/2006 |
Q: I am really going through a hard time right now. Previously to getting married, I was single, dated ...
A: Wow, what a dilemma you're in. I can see why you're so very angry and upset with him. He really ...
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| hi | 7/5/2006 |
Q: sir, i and my husband were in us after we married. we faced problems there. he is a very lonely type ...
A: Beatings are never acceptable, period. That's abuse. Whether it's in the USA or in India. It's ...
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| Ex in the picture | 7/4/2006 |
Q: Good Afternoon, My fiancé & father of my child has a rather particular relation with his ex-fiancé ...
A: Perhaps it would be better if you were to leave him. It doesn't seem as if he has any respect for ...
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| marriage | 7/4/2006 |
Q: I get married in 4 days, the problem is i dont love her any more. we got engaged 3 years ago and ...
A: If you feel any doubt at all in your heart of hearts, please, please do NOT go through with the ...
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| should I be mad at him? | 7/3/2006 |
Q: My husbands aunt is very ill. He took a plane to say good bye to her with his mother. We are in ...
A: I don't think you're being selfish. Perhaps this was just very bad timing for all this to happen at ...
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| How to handle a break | 7/3/2006 |
Q: As of last week my husband wants a "temproary break" for a month so try and sort himself out and ...
A: You need to communicate with him better. He needs to know what you expect from him (whatever your ...
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| Marriage Question | 7/2/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost four years. He loves going out with the guys, one ...
A: You're not over reacting at all. You have every right to be hurt and upset over this. Perhaps he ...
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| underage marrige | 6/29/2006 |
Q: i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17 and we have been dating for 3 years and i am pregnet now!! and we ...
A: If your father is in your life, then you can see if he'll sign the consent papers so that you may ...
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| Letting go | 6/28/2006 |
Q: As of lastnight he officially wants "a break" for a month or two so he does not have to deal with ...
A: It's a little challenging to take a break from one another when you're still living under the same ...
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| Letting go | 6/27/2006 |
Q: I have written in a few times about my current situation with my husband and it keeps changing. His ...
A: You should do whatever is right for you. If that means that you have a trial separation and then ...
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| adultry | 6/23/2006 |
Q: oh yes the answer that you gave me help me out alot. Im gonna see to it that he does some counseling ...
A: Yes, encourage him to go to individual therapy for himself. He should be able to get it for cheap ...
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| adultry | 6/23/2006 |
Q: And thats what im gonna do. I need to put myself first for once and get the therapy that I need. As ...
A: I think at this point you both need individual counseling. Then when he comes back to the states ...
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| Communication problems | 6/23/2006 |
Q: Me and my husband are going through a lot of financial stress so we are both a little on edge but ...
A: Just b/c he's having a bad day at work, or whatever doesn't give him the right to take it out on ...
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| adultry | 6/23/2006 |
Q: Ok the other day I decided to go on my space and set up an account as one of the girls he slept with ...
A: No one's marriage is perfect, no matter how great it looks like from the outside. Everyone has ...
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| adultry | 6/23/2006 |
Q: Ok the other day I decided to go on my space and set up an account as one of the girls he slept with ...
A: Perhaps he is being truthful with you for now. And hopefully he won't be tempted to cheat when you ...
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| adultry | 6/19/2006 |
Q: How do I know if my husband is telling me the truth this time.cause when I go back to the states Im ...
A: If you feel that he'll be unfaithful to you while you're gone, then perhaps you shouldn't go back to ...
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| adultry | 6/19/2006 |
Q: And just 2yrs ago my husband confess and told me that he cheated on me with 3 other women while he ...
A: Typically once a man cheats, he'll continue to cheat. If your gut instinct tells you not to believe ...
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| Marriage- I'm ready- he's not | 6/18/2006 |
Q: I met a wonderful guy 2 years ago. We met 2 months before he deployed to Iraq (he's a marine corps ...
A: Each man is different when it comes to knowing if they are ready for marriage or not. Some men just ...
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| Marriage | 6/18/2006 |
Q: I wanted to know that are Russian Girls are sencere to maintain marriage relationship ...
A: Well, I suppose that some of them could be. It just all depends on the type of woman she is, and ...
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| lazy husband | 6/17/2006 |
Q: I am a 28 yo mother of 2. I must first say that my husband is a wonderful father and dedicated ...
A: You need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk with him. Do this in a ...
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| Marriage breakers | 6/17/2006 |
Q: How would I fire him my husband does not know that I know also I can not say thing because the lady ...
A: Just tell your husband you let him go b/c of something you didn't like about him. If you have to ...
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| Want to marry my widow aunty | 6/15/2006 |
Q: I am unmarried and 26 years old. I love my aunty very much. My uncle got expired. They had 2 kids. I ...
A: It's not unusual for this type of relationship to come about. In some states it's illegal for ...
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| Husband isn't interested in sex with me. | 6/14/2006 |
Q: I have started to pay attention to the men who seem interested in me at this point. I am feeling ...
A: I would urge you to consider not sleeping with another man or looking for affection from another ...
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| Wedding Night Sex/Scared | 6/13/2006 |
Q: I have been through counseling and now I even help others. I am considered a peer advocate. I work ...
A: It sometimes can take years to get over the molestation through counseling. Don't give up totally ...
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| arguing getting worse | 6/12/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married about a year and half. I wouldn't say that our marriage has ...
A: I would suggest that you try some counseling for the issues in the marriage. A counselor can give ...
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| Trial separation-a good idea? | 6/11/2006 |
Q: I have written a few times about the problems my husband and I have been having. It is not just ...
A: A trial separation, even under the same roof, might indeed be just what you need. He's having ...
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| My husband is depressed and wants to leave | 6/10/2006 |
Q: -------------------------I have been married for almost a year. Husband has been depressed for ...
A: I think that the counselor is crazy! He/She should be neutral and not bias towards either one of ...
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| marriage | 6/10/2006 |
Q: my husband and I have been together for 5 years and dated for 2 years for a total of 7 years. ...
A: I can see his point somewhat, they most holidays really are too overrated commercially. However, I ...
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| Wedding Night Sex/Scared | 6/9/2006 |
Q: I am getting married on August 17. Seven years ago I was molested. I didn't deal with it until I was ...
A: If you haven't already. I would urge you to seek counseling for the molestation, because if you ...
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| My husband is depressed and wants to leave | 6/9/2006 |
Q: I have been married for almost a year. Husband has been depressed for over 7 years. It seems as if ...
A: It might take the Prozac a while to get into his system, before you notice some changes. It can take ...
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| My husband is depressed and wants to leave | 6/9/2006 |
Q: I have been married for almost a year. Husband has been depressed for over 7 years. It seems as if ...
A: It sounds as though what he needs is some medication for his depression. He can't keep taking out ...
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| stripclubs | 6/8/2006 |
Q: my husband went on vacation and my father took him to a strip club and bought him a lap dance. i ...
A: If I'm understanding the whole conception of this, then perhaps you overreacted a bit by kicking him ...
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| marriage | 6/8/2006 |
Q: Iwas just married 6/3/06. If I do not turn in my marriage liscense am i legally married. I'm ...
A: That's a very good question. I would say that you are probably legally married, if the certificate ...
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| is this a deal breaker? | 5/30/2006 |
Q: I was a widow w/ 2 small children when I maried Michael. Since then he has put me 290,000$$ more in ...
A: It sounds as though he has alterior motives. Since he changed the beneficiary, why should you trust ...
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| Court ordered anger management | 5/30/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have had a rock marriage for almost 19 years. Both of us were trying to stay in the ...
A: It's VERY important that you don't back down and drop the charges. Do NOT do that! If you do then ...
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| infidelity? | 5/29/2006 |
Q: I have been happily married for the past 13 months. Recently I borrowed my husbands computer and ...
A: If he's not given you any reason to not trust him, then give him the benefit of doubt here. I know ...
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| i want married russian woman | 5/26/2006 |
Q: am 30 years old muslim have very good life job salary , my dream to married russian woman but she ...
A: So are you wanting to find a Russian bride? A Russian woman to marry from Russia, right? They have ...
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| when to get married | 5/25/2006 |
Q: i am 23 years old and my family push me to get married but at the moment i think i am not ready. ...
A: There's not a perfect age or time to get married. Only you will truly know when/if you're ready. ...
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| newlywed problems!!!!!!HELP | 5/23/2006 |
Q: I recently got married about 2 months AGO. My husband is 20 and I am 22. I dropped my classes We ...
A: Why would any NORMAL man/husband joke about having sex and cheating with a friend?! Not to mention ...
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| Remarrying and money | 5/18/2006 |
Q: I just read a responce you gave a reader about getting remarried and whether or not his new wifes ...
A: Yes, it's very true, in all states. The ex-wife can NOT include your income for child support, ...
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| married at a young age | 5/13/2006 |
Q: Kessler, I hope you are having a wonderful weekend! If it's not too much trouble for you, I would ...
A: They probably got married so that she can become a US citizen, since she wasn't before. The odds ...
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| Mother In Law | 4/20/2006 |
Q: My mother in law watches everything we do. If my husband or I walk into a room she immediately ...
A: What you have here is a MIL who is not only a busy-body, but also a Nosey Nancy. Who thinks it's ...
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| Marriage Law | 2/22/2006 |
Q: I have two questions. One, when you get married do you have to consimate the marriage before it ...
A: No, you don't have to consumate the marriage before it becomes legal. When you are married by law, ...
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| Loan Fiancee Money? | 2/8/2006 |
Q: I'm engaged to be married in 6 months. My Fiancee has $30,000 in credit card debt she incurred ...
A: If she's in debt for $30,000 in credit cards, then what makes you think she'll actually pay back a ...
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| having children | 2/6/2006 |
Q: I'm a young married woman who is thinking about the next step of having kids. I've been married for ...
A: Some ppl just don't want children, and that's perfectly fine. But for me I just couldn't see my ...
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| 9 years down the drain? | 2/6/2006 |
Q: Im having a baby in 2 mos. and i have a two year old. My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 ...
A: Don't waste one more moment in this relationship. As tough as it may be, you really need to get out ...
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| Should I go on and into marriage | 1/21/2006 |
Q: I am 40 and single. I have been dating R for 8 months now. When we first met, 3 years ago, we became ...
A: If you aren't really attracted to her, then perhaps it's not the best thing to marry her after all. ...
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| Whom to marry | 1/14/2006 |
Q: I am Viral, a 21 year old engineering student from India. There is one question that I constantly ...
A: Always being a high-achiever can have it's down side too. I would think that you shouldn't worry ...
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| Wife's email relationship with ex-lover | 12/28/2005 |
Q: I'm 61 and my wife is 56. We met in November, 1998 -- my wife of 27 years had died of cancer ...
A: Yes, I knew that he contacted her first. And yes she's being deceptive by not letting you know that ...
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| Wife's email relationship with ex-lover | 12/26/2005 |
Q: I'm 61 and my wife is 56. We met in November, 1998 -- my wife of 27 years had died of cancer ...
A: If your gut insticts tells you that she's about to cheat or seriously thinking of cheating, then you ...
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| big problems... | 12/17/2005 |
Q: .. Please bare with me this is long but i want you to know all so you can understand and help ...
A: It doesn't sound like she missed you very much, to find comfort in another man. It sounds like she ...
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| How to stay sane and married | 12/6/2005 |
Q: I was married at 19 to the same person who'd controlled my life since 16; we were both very ...
A: I would suggest marriage counseling to you. This way a therapist can give you examples on how to ...
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| separation? | 11/10/2005 |
Q: I have been married 12 years. My wife and I have a 5-year old boy together. We have been arguing, ...
A: She must first acknowledge that she indeed has a problem. If she can't or refuses to do that then ...
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| Hi S,
My husband and I disagree... | 10/20/2005 |
Q: My husband and I disagree on an issue that has come up. We have a married couple as friends and they ...
A: Perhaps they are just trying to be polite b/c you are friends with them. If you both don't really ...
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| marriage license | 10/6/2005 |
Q: What is the purpose of the waiting period for a marriage license? I live in MN and the wait is 5 ...
A: I'm not sure the whole reasoning behind it. Not all states do this. I do know that Miami, Oklahoma ...
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| drinking problem, or alcoholic? | 9/30/2005 |
Q: That's a sad story about your Dad. Reminds me of another real sad story involving my friend's Dad. ...
A: I can relate to the accident story. My father was also once involved in an accident (not the first ...
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| i hope you can help me | 9/29/2005 |
Q: i was wondering how you obtain a marrige license in the state of indaina or how you obtained yours
A: You can get a marriage license anywhere really. It's most simple to do it in the county of the ...
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| drinking problem, or alcoholic? | 9/28/2005 |
Q: I have more questions -sorry! :-) Anyway,how can I tell if my wife is an alcoholic, or has "only" a ...
A: An alcoholic is one that drinks every day, way beyond social drinking (say like once a week with ...
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| issues | 9/26/2005 |
Q: I'd like to carry-on this conversation if possible. My wife has admitted that she has a drinking ...
A: She needs help. There's no ifs, ands or butts about it. She can't kick the alcoholism on her own, ...
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| "for better or for worse" | 9/22/2005 |
Q: I could use some advice. I've been married 12 years now, and am starting to question one wedding vow ...
A: She has to first acknowledge that she has a drinking problem before anything else can happen. ...
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| im gay and wanna fall in love with a woman | 9/16/2005 |
Q: this is gonna sound really crazy but i want to fall in love with a women and get married. The thing ...
A: What are your reasons behind wanting to fall in love with a woman? Not trying to judge or get ...
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| I dont know what to do about my mother in law anymore | 8/29/2005 |
Q: You have got her personality down. She is very condescending, the know it all type.. And she is very ...
A: I think it's just a good idea to not even communicate with her, or give her the satisfaction of ...
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| I dont know what to do about my mother in law anymore | 8/29/2005 |
Q: . I hope you remember me.. We emailed back and forth quite a few times talking about my mother in ...
A: Yes, I remember you! She sure makes it sound like the problem is you in her emails, doesn't she?! ...
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| marriage | 8/25/2005 |
Q: This is my 2nd marriage and my husbands first. We have been married almost 3 years. I yell alot at ...
A: You are most definitely right! One of the major factors of divorce are money issues. Maybe you ...
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| problem? | 8/25/2005 |
Q: I have a question. for the past several months, my wife employer (she works part-time) does not ...
A: Maybe she's heard everything you've said, but she's being stubborn b/c she didn't want to listen to ...
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| Husband and his mother.. | 8/23/2005 |
Q: I have revised it some and just need to send it now! Im sure if she emails back it wont be too ...
A: Good! I'm glad to hear that you finally wrote out your email to her. I'll bet that lifts a big ...
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| communication issue | 8/23/2005 |
Q: I am 25 years old. I have been married to a wonderful man for 6 years and we have 2 children. My ...
A: Wow! I bet that was very shocking, yet very flattering all at the same time! How did you respond ...
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| Husband and his mother.. | 8/22/2005 |
Q: I have written up an email and I have revised it quite a few times, but havent sent it yet. I really ...
A: You'll probably upset her to begin with, by the type of person you've described her to be. Would it ...
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| Husband and his mother.. | 8/19/2005 |
Q: I dont think I deserve to put up with the way she treats me. I have written an email that I am still ...
A: How did the email go? Did you send it? Although it may cause her to get even more angry at you. ...
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| Husband and his mother.. | 8/18/2005 |
Q: This question involves my husband, but it also involves his mother. Actually I have a few topics to ...
A: It seems as though your mother in-law is simply jealous of you, and that you are a stay at home mom. ...
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| Need Reassurance | 8/17/2005 |
Q: I'm 27 and my husband is 28. We've been together 5 years and married 2 of those years. We split ...
A: Some ppl just weren't meant to be married, as they aren't the marrying type. And it sounds as ...
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| is there anything left in our marriage | 8/5/2005 |
Q: Let me first say that I am menopausal have been married for 18 years, and have 3 children ranging 15 ...
A: There is a saying "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink." In a sense that is ...
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| Which one do I choose? | 7/30/2005 |
Q: I have come out of an abusive relationship and I am ready to find that special someone. Now I"m in a ...
A: If you feel like you are being pressured too much, then perhaps you should take a break from both of ...
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| Relation with first lover after marriage | 7/23/2005 |
Q: I would like have your advice regarding some event in my life described below: My first-love broke ...
A: Answers to your questions: 1/ Can we not continue to be good friends and share our thoughts from ...
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| unhappy spouse | 6/30/2005 |
Q: My husband and I have known each other for ten years and been married for almost 4. We have 2 kids ...
A: It seems that you really need to sit down and just have a good heart to heart talk with him. When ...
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| I need help | 6/29/2005 |
Q: I am very bored from my life with my husband he is a very nice man but he is more a friend than my ...
A: Are you attracted to your husband at all? I mean you must've seen something in him that you like or ...
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| any advise | 6/11/2005 |
Q: My wife and i have been married for 7 years now. I still am having problem dealing with her past ...
A: I don't think you are nuts. You probably shoud've never agreed for her to meet an ex-boyfriend in ...
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| Wedding night | 5/2/2005 |
Q: I hope that you can help me. I am planning my wedding night and I want it to be special. I was ...
A: It sounds like you've got everything covered! And it'll make for some wonderful memories on your ...
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| marriage | 4/26/2005 |
Q: I am 23 andis working in a reputed firm. recently i met a girl of 24; she is divorced due to some ...
A: It doesn't sound like there's much you can do. Unless you can convince her that you're parents ...
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| In-laws | 4/22/2005 |
Q: I have been married for 3 years now, and I have one son who is 21 months old. Ever since we got ...
A: It sounds like your in-laws are the ones that have the problem. They seem like very nosey and ...
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| Marrying a forienger | 3/17/2005 |
Q: I was just curious to find out....my ex cheated on me, and then he married her only 3 months after ...
A: I'm not sure on how long a couple has to stay married (when on a visa in the US). I think it's at ...
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| marriage | 3/13/2005 |
Q: I am 23; working in a reputed firm (some distance from hy home city). I am looking for a girl to ...
A: I think you should first get to know her, before you determine if she's marriage material for you. ...
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| Need your advice | 2/23/2005 |
Q: I am currently engaged to a young lady. Recently her mother asked me specifically to sit down with ...
A: I don't suppose you want my honest opinion on this matter. So I'll refrain from telling you exactly ...
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| help a marriage | 2/2/2005 |
Q: how can i help a couple (with a 3 yr. old) that have been apart for about 8 months now. we were ...
A: You are doing a nice thing for your friends. The whole point is to make sure they want to remain ...
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| marriage problems | 1/29/2005 |
Q: I have been married for 7 months. I am having marriage problems already. The first problem is ...
A: If you honestly want to get a divorce. Then you could consider an anullment instead. This way ...
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| Marriage in trouble | 1/18/2005 |
Q: So what should I do if he is refusing to go to counseling? He wants to move out, but we don't even ...
A: You can't make him go to counseling or do anything. He has to want to change himself. He has to be ...
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| Marriage in trouble | 1/15/2005 |
Q: My husband and I got engaged at age 18 and 19. Before the wedding, I got pregnant and our first son ...
A: He has lied to you in the past about the affair. That's unacceptable,especially when he continues ...
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| why cant i love him? | 12/29/2004 |
Q: i have been with my husband for about 4.5 yrs now. i was 19 when i first got married andmy husband ...
A: You are two totally different ppl to begin with. If you weren't that attracted to him or in love ...
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| Emotional Infidelity | 12/27/2004 |
Q: I have learned that while my husband and I were dating there was always some woman that he kept in ...
A: Emotional infidelity is just as bad as physical infidelity. It's the ultimate betrayal of trust in ...
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| marriage | 12/1/2004 |
Q: I told him that I wanted totry 110% to work it out with him last night. After a while, he said," ...
A: Men's egos are very sensitive. Of course they will not tell a woman that. Most men will not open ...
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| marriage | 11/6/2004 |
Q: can you please tell me, if i get married in Israel to an Israeli guy and then come back to America ...
A: If you are an American citizen then yes,it doesn't matter where you get married in the world. The ...
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| marriage relationship | 11/2/2004 |
Q: are there any good or bad impacts on my relationship with my wife if i am dating escort girls while ...
A: Sure there could be consquences. She could find out about it. And I'm sure if she did she'd just ...
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| a year ago in oct I found... | 9/16/2004 |
Q: a year ago in oct I found out my husband met this lady on the internet and started seeing her but ...
A: If he gives you absolutely no money and doesn't support you,then what good is he to you? This is ...
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| step son | 8/30/2004 |
Q: I have a sweet lovely lady i hope to get married to soon and every thing is moving smoothly between ...
A: I would sit her down as soon as you could and tell her the truth,as she has a right to know. Just ...
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| Marriage problems | 8/14/2004 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for only 2 months and our relationship is horrible. We dated for ...
A: We can all get stressed out in a marriage. It happens to the best of us. There is some reason that ...
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| STRESSED OUT | 8/8/2004 |
Q: S. Kessler, My husband is six years older than I am, but it seems that I am "too mature" for our ...
A: Maybe he's just doing it b/c he feels it's important enough to share with you. How often does he ...
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| age difference & sexual needs | 8/1/2004 |
Q: hey im in love wz a guy & by the time we get married hopefully ... i'll be in my early 20s & he'll ...
A: Typically males reach their sexual peak in their late teens and through their 20's. For women it's ...
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| depression | 7/25/2004 |
Q: I'm a 41 yr old Male. With all immediate family living, shy one sister who was killed in an ...
A: I think ppl are a product of their environment. So for you that means you grew up in a very ...
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| Prenuptial Agreement | 7/20/2004 |
Q: The man that I'm marrying has children and the mother is a sucker for money (she's never satisfied), ...
A: The ex-wife is not entitled to anything you have or own. That mean any income that you make,any ...
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| Remarrying and child support | 7/20/2004 |
Q: I am from Muncie, IN and I want to get remarried. Last evening my fiance told me that she thinks ...
A: No,they can't raise your child support at all. In fact the courts can't touch any money made by ...
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| Wedding ring. | 6/25/2004 |
Q: I've been married for 11 mos. and my worst nightmare may have come true. I think I lost my wedding ...
A: You should retrace every possible step where you think you could've lost it (around the house,or ...
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| MARRIAGE STATISTICS? | 5/26/2004 |
Q: My name is Sheridan - I'm writing a report on the phenomenon of marriage and I'm trying to find out ...
A: I don't know of any website to back it up on the statistics part. But the answers are the 50% of ...
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| marriage | 5/14/2004 |
Q: I AM 25 YRS OF AGE.I HAV A PROPOSAL OF A 40 YEAR OLD MAN AND ALSO HE HAS DIVORCED HIS WIFE.THEY LIV ...
A: I would say go with your heart. But do NOT marry a man that is abusive. No woman deserves to be ...
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| Problem in Family due to love | 4/20/2004 |
Q: I am Sridhar from India and currently 18yrs. I am here to request help from you. Right now I am ...
A: Your parents might be onto something. Perhaps they see what you can't or won't see about this girl ...
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| pornography | 4/16/2004 |
Q: Several times over the past few years I have discovered that my husband has stored masses of ...
A: It's not unusual for you to be experiencing these feelings toward him. Some women don't like their ...
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| Debt | 4/13/2004 |
Q: If my husband owes child support (a debt) can liens be placed on my property for it? Thanks.
A: No,they can't. What will happen though more than likely is that when you file income taxes. They ...
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| Kids and Second Marriage | 4/7/2004 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married next year. This is a second marriage for both of ...
A: First let me apologize for taking so long to answer your question. My computer was messed up and I ...
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| about married? | 2/14/2004 |
Q: i am student and my family is leaving the country that i stay....and now i need to married a women ...
A: Most ppl marry for love,and that takes awhile. You shouldn't feel that you have to marry because ...
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| preparation to marriage | 1/3/2004 |
Q: Right now we are the lucky couple. So we are together for three weeks. And how is possible to get to ...
A: You will just know it in your heart and soul. When you just feel that you can't live life w/o each ...
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