| Subject | Date Asked |
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| getting over it. | 11/14/2009 |
Q: 'll keep it short. I m 21 and I met a 28 year old guy last year during a vacation. We're the kind of ...
A: madhu, I want you to be clear before I answer. I do not understand your culture so I can only ...
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| pre- marriage counselling- needed. | 9/25/2009 |
Q: am getting married soon. am 28 he is 34. my fiance and i hail from a conservative household. ...
A: I am going to give you a list of question you can both answer seperate then compare. This will help ...
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| Marriage.... | 9/23/2009 |
Q: I have been married for about 2 years. I have been with my husband for 7 years. We have been through ...
A: Krystal, I believe that at this point you are doing the right thing. You both need to step back and ...
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| stay or go! | 9/10/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I have not been able to get him to met or even want ...
A: Ayisa, My advice would always be to try to make the marriage work. You sound like you have already ...
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| its me again | 8/25/2009 |
Q: hey dr. tim gladu, i been married for 5 years i have one son with my husband . my husband is in the ...
A: This sounds very strange to me. I can't imagine why he would want to divorce you then have you move ...
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| Legally? | 8/10/2009 |
Q: If a 22 year old guy and a 17 year old girl are in a relationship and the girls mother approves of ...
A: Britt, This sounds like a legal question and I can't answer for sure. In most states the age of ...
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| tinakeen86@yahoo.com | 7/22/2009 |
Q: I'm a 23 year old divorced mother of two... One daughter from my previous marriage and my youngest ...
A: Tina, I am sure that you realize that you did this a little backwards. If he was going to marry you ...
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| my husband dont know what he wants | 7/5/2009 |
Q: ok here it goes i have been married 6 years and togather 8 we have a 5 year old daugher about 6mths ...
A: Jen, You sound like you have been very tolerant with this relationship. You husband needs to ...
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| Is there such thing as a healthy seperation | 5/27/2009 |
Q: Dr. Tim, My husband and I have recently separated. I left the home due to many many issues such as ...
A: Jo, I think that what you are doing is very brave. So many people neglect themselves when it comes ...
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| My Soul Mate | 5/8/2009 |
Q: I am 27, indian female. I am really confused regarding getting married. I think i love him and he ...
A: Chandani, What I was trying to say and did not do very well is this. If he can move close to you ...
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| Ready to commit? | 4/3/2009 |
Q: First of all I really appreciate any help. This had been the most difficult 2 years of my life. ...
A: Sarah, I can see that you would hesitate to get married. I would also caution not to enter into ...
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| Regarding my marriage life | 3/24/2009 |
Q: I have a serious problem .My marriage is a love marriage we get to know each other since 5 years , ...
A: Amit, The first thing to do is to let your wife know what you are going to tolerate. If she is not ...
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| Mariage in Mexico | 3/19/2009 |
Q: I undestand... So in GOD'S eyes where do I stand. What do I do with my life, how do I Fix this? ...
A: Maria, That is a different question and I think I can help here. If there were not married in a ...
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| convenincing the parents for the love marriage. | 3/17/2009 |
Q: I love a girl who is not that good looking as I am and that she also a bit fatty. Our relation ...
A: Amit, What you have to do is to show how much you love this girl. You do not care what she looks ...
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| divorce | 2/24/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 25 yrs. For the third time with in this 25yrs my husband has fell to ...
A: Donna, The first thing you have to ask is what my wedding vows mean to me. If you can say that your ...
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| too young? | 1/22/2009 |
Q: and thankyou for taking the time to respond to my message! I am 19 years old, and a full time ...
A: Victoria, I do think that even 20 is a bit young to get married. If you believe that this is the ...
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| What does this really mean? | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: You gave me a nice long book to read thanks. This sounds like a case of what if. It was a very long ...
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| dealing with a violent stepson | 1/2/2009 |
Q: I am 24 with no biological kids and married to a 32 year old man with two kids. I have been in his ...
A: Jessica, The first thing you have to do is to make your husband realize what is happening. If the ...
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| video games affecting marriage | 1/2/2009 |
Q: David, My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have two children, 5 and 2. He played ...
A: Angela, I would have suggested that you seek some marriage counseling for the abuse of the games. ...
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| Do i divorce my husband or not | 12/12/2008 |
Q: I have faced my problems while i am with with my husband. We have poor communication between each ...
A: I am not really sure what you are looking for here. You have already seperated from your husband and ...
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| dose 21 year matter for marriage/ | 12/5/2008 |
Q: I have been friend with this man that I am falling in love with and I know that he feel the same ...
A: Chelsea, The only issue that I can think of is children. If you think you may want children the 21 ...
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| dose age really matter in marriage? | 11/20/2008 |
Q: I am 25 and south asian and fall in love with an arab girl who is one year older then me. She is ...
A: Ali, I am not really sure that 1 year matters that much. She may be a little more mature but as far ...
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| Stop Having Sex 'Till Marriage? | 11/13/2008 |
Q: I'm a 29 yr old male, I've been living with my fiance for a yr and a half, I proposed to her on VDay ...
A: al, I have to agree with your pastor on this one. I also have to say that when it comes to religion ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 10/28/2008 |
Q: This is all I want to know-Would you actually divorce a person like this?- Call me sick or whatever ...
A: Corrina, Thank you for coming clean and letting me know who you really are. You really need to not ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 10/27/2008 |
Q: This is all I want to know-Would you actually divorce a person like this?- Call me sick or whatever ...
A: You are over concerned with the issue. You need to speak to someone about the suicide thoughts. This ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 10/27/2008 |
Q: This is all I want to know-Would you actually divorce a person like this?- Call me sick or whatever ...
A: Corrina, I want to you get the thoughts about suicide right away. If you are really this close then ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 10/24/2008 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: Corrina, Just from what you have told me I would not think he would ever want to let you go. You ...
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| My Paranoid Husband | 9/5/2008 |
Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ...
A: Cathy, The first mistake was to tell him about all the guys in the bathroom. Guys want to know but ...
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| Help please! Pregnant and parents forcing me into marriage! | 8/30/2008 |
Q: I am 26 and have been living with my boyfriend for a couple months, but we've been together for ...
A: Maureen, With your age in mind then I do not see how your parents can dictate what you have to do. ...
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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: allison, You are going to have to pick one and soon. If they find out about each other then you may ...
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| He's not ready for marriage... | 8/24/2008 |
Q: I have been living with my boyfriend for close to 3 years. I have a 9-yr old son. We have been ...
A: Maria, He is just living like you have given him the permission to live. He thinks that you have ...
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| save my marriage after separation | 8/19/2008 |
Q: i have been married for a little over 2 years now and do not have any kids. i love my wife and i ...
A: Danny, The best thing you can do at this point is to give her space. She is in a way testing that ...
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| PRE~MARRIAGE | 8/14/2008 |
Q: Gladu, Thank you for making yourself available. Which Bible verse(s) advises a future spouse ...
A: Peter, I am going to give you all the verses I can find on marriage and husbands and wifes. This ...
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| husband still in contact with ex mistress | 7/25/2008 |
Q: My husband had an affair with a family friend about 10 yrs ago. He broke it off and decided to work ...
A: The only thing you really have is trust. Your husband may not have had a good track record. We have ...
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| husband still in contact with ex mistress | 7/24/2008 |
Q: My husband had an affair with a family friend about 10 yrs ago. He broke it off and decided to work ...
A: Stella, I do not think you should turn a blind eye and pretend it doesn't happen. You are right to ...
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| Marriage | 7/14/2008 |
Q: We were high school sweethearts and have been married for 18 years this month. We have 3 great kids. ...
A: Tod Hall, Just to make you feel better I think we have all felt this way at times. I have always ...
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| Marriage Enrichment Vacation | 6/4/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are seeking counseling currently. He is battling a severe pornography and ...
A: Allyson, I am not real sure where you will be able to find a marriage retreat. I would recommend ...
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| choosing the comforter with my boyfriend | 5/31/2008 |
Q: Tim, I met my boyfriend from my friend about one month ago. He really likes me and respects me.He ...
A: Ivy, This may not be a signal guys realize that they are not so good at this kind of stuff and want ...
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| Why won't he propose? | 5/11/2008 |
Q: Dr. Gladu, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and have lived together for one and a ...
A: Teresa, You do need to really sit down and discuss the spending. In the world we live in today that ...
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| I messed up | 5/7/2008 |
Q: Gladu, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ...
A: Karen, You have to realize that there may be more to the situation that he is not telling you. ...
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| marriage | 5/1/2008 |
Q: I am a 50 year old man and divorced from my first wife about 17 years ago and i have been living ...
A: Alireza, You sound like you are lonely. I know what it is like to feel alone and it is not the best ...
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| Body Parts! | 4/25/2008 |
Q: why do girls have to get pregnant and why do they have to have periods? why cant boys have them? why ...
A: Ashely, God made us this way and we should embrace the differences that we all have. I am sure that ...
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| Dealing with my fiance's ex wife who calls all the time | 3/10/2008 |
Q: My fiance's (Scott) ex-wife calls all the time. Even when he is at work to talk about things I ...
A: Lisa, This situation sounds like she was not ready to be divorced. She has not been made aware that ...
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| my boyfriend told me that when he gets married and a house his mother is coming to live with us. | 3/4/2008 |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years we have talked about getting married when ...
A: Jasmine, If you truly do not want her to move in with you then this is what you can do. Tell him ...
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| proper age of marriage | 2/8/2008 |
Q: what would be the proper age to get married. I am going to a 5 year college to get a degree in ...
A: Kara, I do not really think that there is an exact age that should be considered as the age to get ...
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| cheating husband | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I have been married 33 years and my husband cheated pretty much all the time but i just recently ...
A: Debbie, You will take some time to get over something of this size. If you are Christian then spend ...
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| engagement on the rocks | 1/27/2008 |
Q: i and my fiance got engaged last year in april and we are in the midst of preparing for our wedding ...
A: Anna, If you have not started pre marriage counseling then start. You both need to begin to see if ...
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| cheating bf | 12/13/2007 |
Q: i have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years we recently got engaged and than found out he cheated on me ...
A: Amanda, This may seem simple, but think about this. If he is cheating on you before marriage then ...
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| should a boyfriend pay her girl friend's debt to ask for marriage | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I have a question. I'm helping a female friend of mine to find an answer. Should her boy friend ...
A: If she is marring this guy just because of the money then I would say no. If she truly loves him and ...
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| Define questions a little better. | 11/28/2007 |
Q: re: I'm sorry, but I don't understand the question.. Your Question was: I am so hurt and angry. ...
A: Pat, The plan that you have is most likely exactly what I would tell you to do. You are right to ...
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| jealous, insecure doesnt trust | 11/21/2007 |
Q: Can you give me an answer on a couple who were married for 5 years, divorced for 2 years but have ...
A: Andrea, If you are divorced, but continue to see each other then maybe you just wanted to fill you ...
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| My Husband made me leave | 10/2/2007 |
Q: My husband grew up in very bad atmosphere, we have been together for 6 years and will have been ...
A: Amber, He is most likely concerned for your safety. The instances of violence against spouses has ...
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| why am I still here?..... | 9/28/2007 |
Q: Dr. Gladu: How to explain 23 years of marriage. I stopped working after I had my children. My ...
A: Sara, You sound like you have been a real trooper. He sounds like he needs a lot of work. You have ...
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| marriage | 9/4/2007 |
Q: Respected fellow, my name is Yasir, a male, currently a studenet of medicine. i got married 5 ...
A: Yasir, I do not have to much experience with arranged marriage. My suggestion is for you to get to ...
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| how long do I wait? | 9/4/2007 |
Q: my husband and I are separated. he moved out 6 weeks ago. He got his own apt and now is pushing me ...
A: Nikki, Your husband is trying to have the best of both worlds. He is keeping you on the hook just ...
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| Is it really just a piece of paper? | 8/15/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have a set of beautiful 10 month old twins ...
A: Bre, You have made your decision, and you just need someone to confirm it for you. I have been ...
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| alone in a relationship | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I met him when I was 23 and coming out of an 8 year relationship. For the first few months, we ...
A: Brooklyn, I feel that you should try to find a balance between family unity and your happiness. The ...
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| Wife Claims I'm not sacrificial enough | 7/3/2007 |
Q: I just gotton married 7 months ago. My wife was already 3 months pregnant when we got married but we ...
A: Lionel, If you chose me to answer you question you must be looking for spiritual advice. I do not ...
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| Wed night | 6/23/2007 |
Q: I've found the woman God has for me and we're getting married in 51 days. We've discussed so much ...
A: Daniel, I want to make it clear that I am not an MD. I am a Dr of Theology so some of your ...
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| What do I do? | 6/3/2007 |
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for almost three years now and we are both trying to better our ...
A: Patrick, Sex before marriage is wrong. You know that though. Stopping until you get married would ...
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| What should I do? | 5/31/2007 |
Q: I am 35, last Aug I am rush in getting marry because everyone said people over 35 have difficult ...
A: Angel, I have to say that guys do show love and affection in different ways. Guys are not always ...
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| What should I do? | 5/29/2007 |
Q: I am 35, last Aug I am rush in getting marry because everyone said people over 35 have difficult ...
A: You need the intimacy and it really isn't normal for him not to want to also. I would give it about ...
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| What should I do? | 5/28/2007 |
Q: I am 35, last Aug I am rush in getting marry because everyone said people over 35 have difficult ...
A: Angel, You face some tough time ahead. he can change and the way is through the power of the Holy ...
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| seperation | 5/25/2007 |
Q: We have had great times but, we did argue&could never find compromise after the fight,it was usually ...
A: Camille, If you are already separated and have been to counseling then there is not much else to ...
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| Should I marry him? | 5/17/2007 |
Q: I ask my bf did he ever go strip club, he said 5 times because of depress and curiosity. One last ...
A: Confused, I have to say that you should be very cautious about this man. He has lied several times ...
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| reconciliation | 5/16/2007 |
Q: I was engaged to a man which i had been dating for 3 years. I was very excited about getting married ...
A: Audra, The most important thing that you have to think about is can you be happy with him. The Lord ...
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| confused and scared | 5/16/2007 |
Q: I'm 23 years old, and I'm about to get married to my gf. we been together for about a year and half. ...
A: Steve, Noticing other girls is normal. The important thing is you do not act on it. I know how it ...
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| Ex issues | 5/13/2007 |
Q: My husband and I split up almost a year ago. He has told others that he made a mistake "but it is ...
A: Sara, I am not sure what the situation is. It appears to me that you are divorced and your ex is ...
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| Seperation | 5/12/2007 |
Q: I dont know which way to turn! My wife left me December 22nd because she said she needed space and ...
A: Peter, It looks like you may need to give her some space. She needs to find where she is and come ...
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| is the living situation causing problems? | 5/6/2007 |
Q: i am home for a few weeks over x-mas & for 2-3mo over the summers. i am in my 3rd year right now. ...
A: Van, It sounds to me that you may need to just have a talk with your parents before I can really ...
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| is it disrespectful to my boyfriend to remain friends with an ex? | 5/4/2007 |
Q: I always thought that it was the mature thing to do to remain friends with people you have dated, ...
A: Betty, I have to say that I would have a hard time if my wife to be was still really close to her ...
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| Dealing With His Ex-Wife - HELP :( | 5/2/2007 |
Q: I met my Fiancé in college about seven months ago. When I met him he was separated of his soon to be ...
A: Alejandra, I would have suggested that until he is divorced and the ex-wife is gone then you can ...
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| marriage | 4/23/2007 |
Q: i am 20 years old.i love a girl(age 20) who is a not a muslim. she is a hindu.
A: Razaak, I have to say that religion is the number one reason that most marriages end. There is ...
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| Engaged and 16 | 4/17/2007 |
Q: I am 16 and my BF of 5 months asked me to marry him..i was soo happy. but my mom doesn't know yet..i ...
A: Nessa, I know how you feel . I have to tell you that I met my wife when we were 16 and we have been ...
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| Continue or not? | 4/10/2007 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 3 and half years. We both love each other dearly and plan to got ...
A: Ziyaad, Marriage is something not to be entered into lightly. I am glad that you have found the ...
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| Should I get married? | 4/3/2007 |
Q: I am engaged to a man who is wonderful for the most part, but he lied to me at the beginning of our ...
A: I had to really think about what you should do in the case. There seems to be a series of lies that ...
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| Breakup or not | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I have a really serious problem; I have been into love with a girl a year ago and lately we got ...
A: Max, These are very significant issues that if you can not resolve then you should not be together. ...
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| second time marriage | 3/25/2007 |
Q: How long after my divorce is finalized do I have to wait to remarry?
A: I do not know that there is anything legal that tells you how long. I would suggest from a Ministers ...
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