| Subject | Date Asked |
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| marriage | 11/21/2009 |
Q: i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ...
A: I think that you are going about it the right way. I would simply ease into it and see how she ...
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| In need of some advice | 11/19/2009 |
Q: I am in desperate need for advice on what to do in my current situation. Its a little unusual but ...
A: I'm afraid you screwed up with great distinction. If you hadn't mentioned your age, I would have ...
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| My husband spends too much time with a close male friend... | 11/18/2009 |
Q: I'm 30, my husband's 32, and recently he's been spending all his free time with a close male friend ...
A: Invite Jeremy for dinner and ask him to bring his girlfriend (if he has one, but I doubt it), and ...
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| newlyweds living in with her brother | 11/17/2009 |
Q: here is my story.My fiance' and I met in germany when she worked at a military base.I'm french and ...
A: NOW HERE IS MY---is it healthy for our new married life together having to share our place with her ...
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| My wife wants a sex-change... | 11/16/2009 |
Q: Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I ...
A: I'm also not quite sure how to deal with this type of situation. I do sense that your wife seems ...
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| getting over it | 11/14/2009 |
Q: 'll keep it short. I m 21 and I met a 28 year old guy last year during a vacation. We're the kind of ...
A: Pretty simple really. Just reading you message to me would be enough to get you over it. The last ...
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| I'm lost, can you please help me? | 10/28/2009 |
Q: I've never "asked an expert" before. I have been to counseling but not in a long time. Please ...
A: I read the information over a few times before deciding that I would make a strong effort at giving ...
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| Kindly advice | 10/19/2009 |
Q: i want to ask u tht is physical attraction very important in marriage or not.iam nt able to ...
A: My beautiful younger sister who left home at 18 to go to London England to be a fashion model met a ...
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| short tempered husband | 10/18/2009 |
Q: my husband is very short tempered.i am a doctor and he is an engineer postgraduate.he decides ...
A: I'm not quite sure what the customs are in your side of the world, but here in Canada, I am not able ...
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| trust issues | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are supposed to get married in may. He was in a long ...
A: I read your message twice. My suggestion will be simple and clear and my reasoning as well. He ...
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| Confusion | 9/30/2009 |
Q: I am 24 and working as an Engineer in Bangalore. I had my schoolmate in 5th aand 6th whom I liked ...
A: It is difficult for me to help you as this is a simple decision that you need to make. If you are ...
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| marriage, girlfriend, court | 9/29/2009 |
Q: Good Morning, My question is; generally speaking how do you think it would look to the court if ...
A: I think that it would look strange that someone could not wait to at least to get all the divorce ...
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| marriage | 8/26/2009 |
Q: So i have been with my boyfriend a little over 2 years, and i really want to get married. We have ...
A: If you love him, and he loves you and you are happy with him, then don't even consider moving on ...
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| follow up | 8/23/2009 |
Q: I really appreciate it! You really do care about people and want to help, so kind of you. I was ...
A: I don't think you will be able to change him, for only he can change himself. It is up to you to ...
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| How can I marry her!! | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Mr Bosch, As I stated in my previous message, i will be sending you clips of my issues with my ...
A: I read your message and I sense something is amiss. Although you may wish to find yourself in a ...
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| Communication! | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Mr Bosch, first let me say that i have been searching the web vigorously to find much needed answers ...
A: I read your message and am hap[y that you took the time to elaborate on the issue. You are correct ...
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| should I leave now or later? | 8/16/2009 |
Q: I have been in a common law relationship for over 5 yrs now, and am very unhappy with my current ...
A: I took some time to digest your information, and hope you will appreciate that answering this type ...
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| remarriage, blending families | 8/14/2009 |
Q: I am in a relationship with an Aries male born April 10, 1971. I am a Sagittarius female born ...
A: There is no book written that I know of, that can allow for the knowledge of the next step. Each ...
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| Is my sister in law trying to "take over" my Child? | 8/13/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 8 months now. I have 2 children (ages 4 and 8) from a ...
A: It's time to have a heart to heart with your husband and after that have one with his family. You ...
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| remarriage, blending families | 8/12/2009 |
Q: I am in a relationship with an Aries male born April 10, 1971. I am a Sagittarius female born ...
A: You ask:"I want to know if we will move in together soon, and if we will end up marrying and if we ...
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| Sister-In-Law | 7/22/2009 |
Q: I am in dire need of some help. I am 23, my wife is 22 and her younger sister is 18. She is living ...
A: Do you really need me to tell you what to do in a case like this? I'm a little surprised, but hey, ...
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| Am I ready to get married? | 6/13/2009 |
Q: When I am single, I always want to be with someone. I base my joy off of sex and going out and ...
A: At first glance, I have to say that you are far from ready to be married. The first paragraph of ...
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| Marriage/Separation | 6/8/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 14 years, however separated for the last 2 years. Over the course of ...
A: I think that there is little more you can do to show that you have made all the necessary efforts to ...
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| Marriage | 6/1/2009 |
Q: Is there anywhere in Canada, Mexico or the United States that a minor and an adult can get married ...
A: You may wish to read the info at this link: http://www.coolnurse.com/marriage_laws.htm Check the ...
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| My husband's decision | 6/1/2009 |
Q: My husband has made a decision without considering my profession and future. He is set in his ...
A: I'm a bit flabbergasted at your husband's action. He is totally out of order with this decision if ...
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| My husband's decision | 6/1/2009 |
Q: My husband has made a decision without considering my profession and future. He is set in his ...
A: Although at first glance your situation seems an easy one to discuss, I am missing some details, as ...
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| I am confused | 5/25/2009 |
Q: I am Gnomta, a young girl (24yo) from Laos. 3 years ago, I met a man (French, who he is living in ...
A: I think that your feelings are not warranted, because you have to bear the responsibility of your ...
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| marriage law | 5/22/2009 |
Q: About a year ago, myself and my boyfriend eloped to Florida and got married. None of the families ...
A: There is absolutely something you can do, Paula. Perhaps consider the fundamental benefit of ...
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| gift | 5/12/2009 |
Q: My husband has a nephew who he hasn’t spoken to or seen in MANY years. The reason is because of his ...
A: Your sense of logic is very intact and I have to agree with you 100%. If your husband had wanted to ...
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| screwd up | 5/8/2009 |
Q: I am Anjana, This is the second time I am contacting you.......You may not be remembering my tale ...
A: I do remember you. You did not bother me, as this is what I am here for. I see that you have ...
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| When will i get married | 5/6/2009 |
Q: DOB 04.08.1983 POB Delhi, India TOB 19: 45
A: In all honesty, I have no idea. Perhaps you should redirect the question to someone who can see ...
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| Moving away from his family | 5/4/2009 |
Q: When my boyfriend and I discuss the future, he cannot imagine moving away from the Northeast, where ...
A: You are asking someone who has lived in a cold climate for 28 years and is ready to move to warmer ...
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| PLEASE EXPLAIN | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I was wondering would you please explain to me: what is a soul mate? Thanks
A: That is a daunting task, yet also an easy one. There may be definitions that have been published, ...
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| When is enough...enough? Husband addicted to porn | 5/2/2009 |
Q: ..I am 30 yrs old and have been married for almost 2yrs (in june) I have a 4yr old son from a ...
A: I read your message carefully, and will not make this a very long answer. your choice is clear and ...
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| Scared of changes and meeting challenges | 4/30/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is a foreigner. I am getting married soon and we decided that i'll move abroad. First ...
A: Before I give you a final answer, could you tell me the following, please? What nationality is he, ...
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| scared to get hurt again and again | 4/29/2009 |
Q: I been married to my husband for ten years, we've been friends for five years before we got married. ...
A: I read your message a few times over and noticed something that jumped out at me. I understand your ...
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| In Laws | 4/24/2009 |
Q: I am so sorry , it was just a mistake. I did ask this question to somebody but he did not reply. ...
A: If I correctly understood your message, it would seem that he has understood the problem and is ...
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| pre-marrital problem | 4/22/2009 |
Q: my fiance and I are getting married within 10 days. We are in the process of confirming the ...
A: Well well.........the things we find out when it comes down to it, eh? Reconsidering is not such a ...
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| In Laws | 4/13/2009 |
Q: I am so sorry , it was just a mistake. I did ask this question to somebody but he did not reply. ...
A: I believe that you need to make sure your husband understands the damage his sister is doing, and ...
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| marriage | 4/12/2009 |
Q: name lata, dob 16 april 1980, time 7:15pm place delhi, india.... please tell me when will i get ...
A: I'm sorry but I am not a fortune teller. There is no way that I can know when you will get married, ...
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| In Laws | 4/9/2009 |
Q: I am so sorry , it was just a mistake. I did ask this question to somebody but he did not reply. ...
A: When you start getting family too closely involved, a lot of your couple is lost, in many cases. ...
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| Marriage separation | 4/6/2009 |
Q: my wife and I have been together for 8 years,and have been married for 5 years. For the most part, ...
A: I'm happy that you gave me more information, as this makes it a whole lot easier to understand the ...
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| Marriage separation | 4/6/2009 |
Q: my wife and I have been together for 8 years,and have been married for 5 years. For the most part, ...
A: Well, right now you are a "guest in her house", even though you may be contributing to helping her ...
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| need help | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I'm orginally from australia, i have been married to a man from overseas for over two years. I only ...
A: I'm afraid you went into this marriage a tad too fast. you were "in love", and you and I both know ...
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| Marriage/Separation | 4/2/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 14 years, however separated for the last 2 years. Over the course of ...
A: "Over the years, I have felt as if I was wrong to express what I needed from him as a husband ...
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| Marriage/Separation | 3/30/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 14 years, however separated for the last 2 years. Over the course of ...
A: I think you've made a valiant effort. I also think that you are not making the right move. Let's ...
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| When you know there is no hope | 3/26/2009 |
Q: I think my marriage is over and I think my husband is playing mental and emotional games with me. ...
A: When was the last time you two went away for a week or a weekend? I strongly suggest you do ...
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| 3 yrs married !!...Andrea | 3/25/2009 |
Q: ..your words were soo true and yet a little funny at the same time because of how you put it but i ...
A: I'm happy I could be of some assistance and hope that you will both find a way to make your marriage ...
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| When you know there is no hope | 3/24/2009 |
Q: I think my marriage is over and I think my husband is playing mental and emotional games with me. ...
A: The best way to deal with the day to day is to look at it as an exchange of information to be able ...
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| When you know there is no hope | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I think my marriage is over and I think my husband is playing mental and emotional games with me. ...
A: This is the second message I read from you, and I have not yet answered the first, so please ...
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| first time marriage: going on 3 yrs | 3/20/2009 |
Q: ok...im 25 yrs old n ive been married almost 3 yrs i hav 2 kids.my husband is very to himself n laid ...
A: I will let you in on something important and hope you did do what was necessary before you got ...
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| My husband asked me for time for himself. However we dont know if is what we need | 3/20/2009 |
Q: Good Afternoon, This is a very distress Edith. I'd like to explain as much as I can so that you ...
A: I do have a few questions if I may before I move into the next step of understanding fully all the ...
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| marriage | 3/18/2009 |
Q: I am 22yrs old and in love with a guy who is 9 months younger to me.we both are of same caste.His ...
A: I would have trouble telling you if there are problem with that type of marriage, because you have ...
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| thoughts of marriage | 3/18/2009 |
Q: ok i have a question.. me and my bestfriend have been friends for a year and some months now and the ...
A: Give her time. The best thing that you can do now, is simply and calmly express your love to her, ...
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| Ex and another relationship | 3/15/2009 |
Q: I was with my ex for over 10 years. There were red flags along the way but everything fell apart ...
A: Let's first put to bed the main issue. This is not a race to replace, yes? You should in no way ...
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| Underaged marriage | 3/7/2009 |
Q: I am currently 15 years old. My boyfriend is 19 years old. I am pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my ...
A: I'll simply say that at 15, you are a child yourself, and you are with child. That's definitely ...
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| Am I unfair? | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I have been married for nearly 24 years. We are quite happy, but I am jealous and mostly feel that ...
A: What to say? Let me attempt to show you the truth by using myself as an example. My wife and I ...
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| First time marriage | 2/17/2009 |
Q: As a 47 year male never married, living alone for many years, and now considering marriage, what is ...
A: Beat advice I can give to is to expect that things will change drastically. Having aid that, I do ...
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| Can u pls advise | 2/16/2009 |
Q: Iam in a confused state of mind right now. SInce the past 3 yrs iam involved with a guy. My parents ...
A: You give me little information to work with to familiarize myself with what the customs or ...
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| my husbands past is haunting me | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I am 25, and my husband is 31. We have been together for 4 years,and married for 2.5. We have a ...
A: I am happy that you have chosen this course of action. Your evolution as a person looking for ...
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| my husbands past is haunting me | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I am 25, and my husband is 31. We have been together for 4 years,and married for 2.5. We have a ...
A: I'll let you in on something people often forget. It is most often men that forget this very ...
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| 2ND MARRIAGE COMPETITION | 2/8/2009 |
Q: We have been married 4 yrs, Christians for 5. My husband has three children (20 and twins 15), my ...
A: Well, I have to admit that this is a problem indeed. I am all for people evolving in a good way and ...
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| my husbands past is haunting me | 2/5/2009 |
Q: I am 25, and my husband is 31. We have been together for 4 years,and married for 2.5. We have a ...
A: I apologize for the delay, but we had friends over for a few days, and I had to tend to that. I ...
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| Underage Marriage | 2/3/2009 |
Q: Is there any place in the U.S., Canada, or Mexico that me and my future wife can get married ...
A: That's more of a question pertaining to legal issues than a marriage question, in my view. It's not ...
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| Marriage. | 2/2/2009 |
Q: Well is it possible to marry someone for both good and bad reasons? If the marriage gets boring,is ...
A: I enjoy your questions, but you do have to consider that I need time to answer questions from other ...
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| Sorry!!!!! | 1/31/2009 |
Q: No I do not know you,I wish that I did,but I do not know you.I am 13 and I am a girl and I made this ...
A: Young lady, Your apology is readily accepted. Although it may not have been the kindest thing to do ...
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| Marriage. | 1/31/2009 |
Q: Wel I am always worried if I will love him the next day or if he will love me the next day because ...
A: I won't get mad at all. You have to understand that I do this as a service to try to help people if ...
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| Marriage. | 1/31/2009 |
Q: Well is it possible to marry someone for both good and bad reasons? If the marriage gets boring,is ...
A: Yes, it is possible to marry someone for both good and bad reasons. Whether things can work out is ...
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| Marriage. | 1/31/2009 |
Q: Wel I am always worried if I will love him the next day or if he will love me the next day because ...
A: Yes, of course it is normal. They are caused by questioning our decisions. They are caused by our ...
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| Marriage. | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Wel I am always worried if I will love him the next day or if he will love me the next day because ...
A: Cgllr, It sounds more like insecurity on your part from here I am looking. If it is true that you ...
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| Marriage? | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Well in new relationships is it normal to doubt your feelings? ANSWER: Hi there, Yes, that ...
A: I sure hope that this is helping you at some point because at this point, you are my most ...
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| Marriage? | 1/28/2009 |
Q: Well in new relationships is it normal to doubt your feelings? ANSWER: Hi there, Yes, that ...
A: I don't mind you asking at all. Love was not initially the reason I decided to enter a relationship ...
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| Marriage. | 1/28/2009 |
Q: Well me and my husband have been distant lately and it's not that I don't love him but my love is ...
A: Do things that make you both happy.........one day something for him, the other day something for ...
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| Immature wife | 1/28/2009 |
Q: I have been married for about a year now. As I get to know my wife better who turned 28 recently, ...
A: Oh boy......this is a toughie. Your message made me smile, because I can only imagine the ...
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| My partner does not want to get married against her parents wishes to me | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I'm an indian and I love this girl from another country. We met through chat and very soon we became ...
A: I'm afraid I can't be of much help here, as my knowledge pertains more to the marriage itself and ...
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| Marriage? | 1/25/2009 |
Q: Well in new relationships is it normal to doubt your feelings?
A: Yes, that happens once and again to some people and as your relationship grows, it often changes. ...
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| Marriage. | 1/25/2009 |
Q: So you are saying that our marriage isn't going anywhere and that I should leave? ANSWER: Hi, No, ...
A: I have pasted my past answer for you to read again as per your request. Yes, I have doubted ...
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| Marriage. | 1/25/2009 |
Q: Well me and my husband have been distant lately and it's not that I don't love him but my love is ...
A: Yes, this can occur on occasion. The fact that you are married to someone does not take away all ...
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| Marriage. | 1/22/2009 |
Q: So you are saying that our marriage isn't going anywhere and that I should leave?
A: No, not at all. That is not what I am saying. I am saying that you should try to figure out how ...
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| Question. | 1/22/2009 |
Q: Well I asked someone else this same question and they told me that all of this meant that I didn't ...
A: I am beginning to wonder whether you are playing a trick on me. I think we have been over the ...
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| Question. | 1/21/2009 |
Q: Well I asked someone else this same question and they told me that all of this meant that I didn't ...
A: Yes, I have doubted my love for my wife once and again in the beginning, when I was not sure about ...
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| Question. | 1/20/2009 |
Q: Well I asked someone else this same question and they told me that all of this meant that I didn't ...
A: Some people are too rapid in their analysis and I believe that you would be best served to indeed ...
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| Running his own business with lots of revolving debt | 1/19/2009 |
Q: I have been married 14 years and have 5 children. I have been a stay at home mom, my own desire as ...
A: I feel very saddened by what I read. Your husband claims that you know nothing about running a ...
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| What does this truly mean? | 1/18/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: Well, I would probably read it over again and tell you that you are being somewhat insecure and ...
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| What does this truly mean? | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: Wow......you gave your keyboard a good workout. I read it all, and have the following to say: It ...
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| Marriage / Reconciliation | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I am seriously considering reconciling with my husband whom I have been seperated from for almost 4 ...
A: Continue to find what you need before you commit. There are ways of finding out from a person what ...
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| Marriage / Reconciliation | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I am seriously considering reconciling with my husband whom I have been seperated from for almost 4 ...
A: I'll make this a filled with questions of my own, because things jump out at me when I read your ...
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| advice | 1/3/2009 |
Q: My husband and i have been together 4.5 years and have a 2 year old daughter. A month ago my hubby, ...
A: If you have expressed to your husband that this is bothering you, then it is his duty as your ...
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| Jealous | 12/31/2008 |
Q: Don, I have been married to a wonderful man for 26 years (in Feb.). We have 4 sons 3 which are ...
A: I think that perhaps your husband has been affected by the issues he may have had to deal with last ...
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| Problems with my Fiancee. | 12/30/2008 |
Q: So bascially, my problem is that my fiancee lives in Utah while I live in California. We only really ...
A: I'm more versed in areas of marriage, but I can tell you that a long distance relationship is very ...
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| Women's Sexuality after 50 | 12/29/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 35 years. We are both in our early 50's. I would rate our ...
A: You are not alone in this. There are clear indications that this is an issue many women share with ...
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| unhappy wife | 12/29/2008 |
Q: I am 28 yrs married with 2 kids....we are living together with my husband's parents... my husband ...
A: I'm amazed that your husband is not yet mature enough to understand that you are totally and ...
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| relationship like marriage with inlaw | 12/27/2008 |
Q: My significant other (age 61) and I (age 62) live on a small ranch that his mother (age 84) decided ...
A: Your long note explains to me a lot of the situation. You will not change him or the way he thinks. ...
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| Flirtatious Husband?? | 12/24/2008 |
Q: I need help! My husband participated in a gift exchange at work. He bought a bottle of wine for the ...
A: I can see his point. I also see your point. I do see some humor in it. In a public exchange, which ...
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| Not sure what to do? | 12/19/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 6 months, we have a almost 2 year old daughter. on Friday ...
A: He is lying to you and is acting in a very inappropriate manner. No way he puts a phone number ...
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| Wits End | 12/12/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 5 yrs and just a few weeks ago I found out I am pregnent with our ...
A: It will do you no good to get upset and lose your cool with him. You need to sit and talk with him, ...
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| Marriage | 12/11/2008 |
Q: 3 Years ago I decided to go to Guyana to marry a man. After getting married I returned to the US and ...
A: I am sorry for your bad experience in this matter. I do not however have the ability to answer your ...
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| How to convince parents for inter-religion marriage | 12/9/2008 |
Q: I am an Indian Hindu and have been in a relationship with a Pakistani Muslim girl for the past 3 ...
A: I'm really sorry to hear that you both have become the victims of something I find simply totally ...
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| jealous and passive aggressive husband | 12/1/2008 |
Q: Bosch, I've read some of your answers on this webapge and thought you could help me return my ...
A: I read your heartfelt note with great care and was moved by your candor and your ability to express ...
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| Marriage | 11/26/2008 |
Q: Donald, I am a 42 yr old male and have been married (Only Tme) for 3.5 yrs (Neither of us has ...
A: Remember that people only do to us what we allow them to. It seems rather clear that your wife is ...
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| marriage | 11/22/2008 |
Q: Me and my wife have been together for 10 years i always thought we were strong that we could handle ...
A: Basically, you screwed up and good. First thing you need to figure out is that you hurt your wife ...
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| What Do I do with my cheating wife | 10/29/2008 |
Q: Ihave just discovered that my wife has been cheating on me for more than 2 months. It all started ...
A: First off, let me tell you that I am not a religious man. Having said that, I am amazed that your ...
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| mother in law or wife | 10/28/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 4 years I have four small children all under the age of 4. My mother in law ...
A: Although it is commendable for a person to take care of his parents, your husband has forgotten a ...
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| Divorced still in contact with ex | 10/21/2008 |
Q: what to do, stay or go? i have been divorced for over 1 yr and moved back in with my exhusban, we ...
A: I think you are kidding yourself in believing that this is a good and convenient thing. Do what ...
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| lack of sexual relations | 10/20/2008 |
Q: Mr.Bosch, I am a 25 year old female who has been with the, recently turned, 29 year old man of her ...
A: Let's just say that you have realized that the importance of intimacy is indeed a very necessary ...
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| Problems with my fiancée | 10/14/2008 |
Q: I have a huge problem with my fiancée and I hope someone can shed some light into what sort of ...
A: I'm afraid you may not like what I am going to tell you. Integrity and honesty are virtues reserved ...
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| need help communicating with fiance | 10/14/2008 |
Q: My fiance and I have been together about 2.5 years and we are getting married next year. We are ...
A: Well, what can I say? you state that you are loving with each other, yet you both have such limited ...
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| Manic spouse lost any common sense | 10/13/2008 |
Q: i am married over 26 years to someone who has had several bouts of deppression and manic highs, he ...
A: Your husband is clearly affected by these disorders. He has to continue taking medication or you ...
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| Making a Marriage Work | 10/8/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 20 years. We have 2 daughters, 14 and 16. My husband's ...
A: You are more than welcome. I enjoy complete bliss in my marriage and have figured out the reasons ...
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| Making a Marriage Work | 10/7/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 20 years. We have 2 daughters, 14 and 16. My husband's ...
A: You said it yourself. she does not have the experience or the knowledge to appreciate that a 20 ...
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| Hi, | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I am Sri from India.I am in love with a gal for the past one year. In which for the same had ...
A: I'm sorry that I can't be of much help on this one. Arranged marriages are not something I am very ...
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| Making a Marriage Work | 10/6/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 20 years. We have 2 daughters, 14 and 16. My husband's ...
A: It is normal to experience some anxiety at this point. The ball is in his court right now. Allow ...
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| my husband shows not interest in me | 10/5/2008 |
Q: I have been with my husband for 14 years and we married 4 years ago.We have lived together for 12 ...
A: I read your whole note, and was amazed that you actually still be with him? what are you waiting ...
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| Abusive Husband | 10/4/2008 |
Q: I've been with my husband for 14 years and the way i see it..I'm not allowed to do anything without ...
A: I have to admit that if your husband is actually cheating on you, then it would be difficult to ...
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| Confused! | 9/12/2008 |
Q: I am sending this question to 2 female and 2 experts as this decision I need to make is very ...
A: This is not a very difficult problem. I believe you were initially correct in putting aside the ...
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| Love\ marriage | 9/11/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend is in the army and he can be stationed to Iraq when he get back in december. Or he will ...
A: Bryanna, It is different for everyone, but I believe that if you have had the time to experience a ...
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| Love\ marriage | 9/10/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend is in the army and he can be stationed to Iraq when he get back in december. Or he will ...
A: I honestly think you should wait. Life is short, but not so short that you need to get married at ...
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| Interracial Marriage- And a lack of Intimicy | 9/9/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a year now, and have a young baby. Prior to the baby's birth ...
A: Things change after a baby, no doubt about it. Some men have less gusto after such an event. He ...
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| a new old romance | 9/8/2008 |
Q: I started to date this man 9 years ago a it was great at first. He has two kids that loved me and I ...
A: I think you are moving way fast. The man has been married twice already. There are a lot of ...
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| separated, please help | 9/7/2008 |
Q: my wife moved out june 20th after finding out i drank a beer post-stroke. it doesn't matter the ...
A: Well done. If she is attending, then it shows that she very much cares. Don't take anything for ...
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| separated, please help | 9/7/2008 |
Q: my wife moved out june 20th after finding out i drank a beer post-stroke. it doesn't matter the ...
A: Well, this is an easy one. the best thing you can do to win her trust is to show her that you are ...
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| should I stay? | 9/7/2008 |
Q: I have been with my partner about 5 years. When we met, he was almost a year sober (he was 22, I ...
A: I gathered that you were engaged from your first note. I suggest you tread carefully before you ...
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| My Paranoid Husband | 9/5/2008 |
Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ...
A: Simple solution is to both get checked for STDs. It doesn't take long to get the results. Your ...
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| should I stay? | 8/31/2008 |
Q: I have been with my partner about 5 years. When we met, he was almost a year sober (he was 22, I ...
A: I read your message over a few times and took some time to think it over as well. I honestly think ...
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| Help please! Pregnant and parents forcing me into marriage! | 8/30/2008 |
Q: I am 26 and have been living with my boyfriend for a couple months, but we've been together for ...
A: You state that you are both not ready for marriage.....I am a bit confused. What is it about ...
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| Marriage | 8/21/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years we are both 28 years old. Just before we got ...
A: I am a bit on the fence with this. I'm leaning towards thinking that your husband is having an issue ...
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| no intamacy | 8/19/2008 |
Q: My wife says she does not know how to be sexy, or wants to be intimate with me i am not eve able to ...
A: There are many reason a woman may not like intimacy and most are very delicate issues. How was this ...
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| Doing the right thing | 8/19/2008 |
Q: I'll give a little bit of background first about me before I continue on with my current situation. ...
A: Your long explanation was necessary and I understand what the situation is. I'll keep my answer to ...
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| Relationship and children .. | 8/12/2008 |
Q: I am 32m successful Hispanic and I have been in a relationship with a Asian female 24 who still ...
A: You have the right idea. The kids are the first priority. If your companion has a mind of her own, ...
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| separation-how long???? | 8/8/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have separated for 2 weeks now. When I walked out with the kids, I did not know ...
A: There is no prescribed time frame for things like this. You will have to trust your instincts. If ...
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| What should I do? | 7/17/2008 |
Q: Just to give a summary of what happened, I had a 2 mo. relationship outside of my 10 year marriage ...
A: Sorry for the delay. I forgot to set up my vacation period. I'm sorry to hear that you are having ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: His words were not backed by truth, and you have stated that in your own message. When you love ...
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| The ex | 7/13/2008 |
Q: My husband and I split 2 years ago this summer. What sparked the problems was I lost my mother and ...
A: Let's assume you were sitting on the sidelines and heard a story similar to the one you are telling ...
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| arranged marriages vs love marriages | 7/11/2008 |
Q: i am hoping to find a statistic which shows the different success rates between arranged marriages ...
A: Arranged marriages tend to have a better success rate then the U.S. love marriages so. Arranged ...
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| Heading into a separation | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I don’t really know where to start but here goes. My wife and I have only been married for a year; ...
A: I'm happy that you see that you need to step back and allow her to find out what she wants. ...
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| Heading into a separation | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I don’t really know where to start but here goes. My wife and I have only been married for a year; ...
A: I hope that you will be open minded and that you will fully understand what my opinion is on this ...
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| help save my marriage! | 5/23/2008 |
Q: My marriage is in deep trouble, perhaps beyond repair. I am a 38 year old father of a seven year ...
A: I hope my thoughts will have helped you both find the happiness you deserve. Life is too short to be ...
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| help save my marriage! | 5/23/2008 |
Q: My marriage is in deep trouble, perhaps beyond repair. I am a 38 year old father of a seven year ...
A: I bet you already feel a huge weight lifted from your shoulders. Now that you have shown her your ...
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| family issues | 5/14/2008 |
Q: my general question is how important is it to women that they meet and get along with their ...
A: At this point, I'm afraid you are going to do yourself more harm than good trying to over-analyze ...
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| family issues | 5/13/2008 |
Q: my general question is how important is it to women that they meet and get along with their ...
A: I read your note twice, and I think you are overanalyzing the issue. You did nothing wrong. ...
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| family issues | 5/12/2008 |
Q: my general question is how important is it to women that they meet and get along with their ...
A: I understand more now that you have put some extra details on paper for me to think about. Yes, she ...
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| family issues | 5/12/2008 |
Q: my general question is how important is it to women that they meet and get along with their ...
A: Let me make it short. If in the 6 months, you went to see your family often and didn't take her ...
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| Please help | 5/10/2008 |
Q: I am a sixteen year old male living in the state of utah. I turn seventeen in august of 08. My ...
A: I'm not here to tell you what to do, but more so to try to assist you. You must be at least 15 ...
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| I really messed up | 5/8/2008 |
Q: Bosch, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was ...
A: Let me first apologize for taking longer than I usually do to answer. I am currently experiencing ...
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| separation solutions | 3/24/2008 |
Q: My spouse and I have been married for 21 years. Last January, he told me he felt our marriage was a ...
A: It seems you have grown apart. I can spend a lot of time trying to tell you that you have to save ...
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| marriage problems | 3/11/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 7 yrs. My 18 yr old step daughter treats me very badly and goes out of her ...
A: I have to say that you are one of a kind. I know of no man who would accept this kind of treatment ...
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| Help me how to let go his past? | 3/7/2008 |
Q: When I cleaned home, I found an old receipt of $68000 Tiffany ring. I asked husband why he bought ...
A: I read your note and couldn't believe what I was reading. I'll not spend too much time on this, but ...
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| Do I still love him? | 3/5/2008 |
Q: Short story: I have been married for two years, altogether with him for little over five years, in ...
A: I meant that the current situation lends itself very poorly to a rapid solution. It becomes a trap ...
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| Just to say thanks | 3/4/2008 |
Q: I hope you are well. It¡¦s not even been two months since I last emailed you, nor three months since ...
A: I'm sure that it will suffice if I tell you that I am sporting a smile from earlobe to earlobe. ...
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| Engaged and 18 | 3/1/2008 |
Q: This is a delicate question, but I’ll lay it all out. I am 18 and engaged. This is not a question ...
A: This is indeed a delicate question, and I fear you may not like my answer, but I am also someone who ...
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| I want to get married, he doesnt | 2/29/2008 |
Q: I am a 23 year old woman. Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. We have been engaged for ...
A: I understand your predicament. You need to take a look at what your priorities are with regards to ...
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| HOW TO LEAVE | 2/12/2008 |
Q: I am married to a good man just that we have NOTHING in common anymore. All he does when he is not ...
A: I read your note over and over again to see if there was anything that we could consider worth ...
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| Questions | 2/8/2008 |
Q: My husband is very close-mouthed and sometimes it is a real pulling effort to pry information from ...
A: Seems you husband is a bit selfish and has to realize that he is indeed in a relationship with ...
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| do you still love me | 2/6/2008 |
Q: Anytime we have a disagreement and I am terribly angry my husband will ask do you still love me and ...
A: do the following: "Of course I still love you, but do not appreciate your behavior at the moment. ...
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| Sex before marraige | 2/2/2008 |
Q: I need to ask a question for my friend. He is 33 years old, Muslim, lives in Pakistan. He fell in ...
A: I'm not familiar with Islam but I do know that sex before marriage is absolutely forbidden. Which ...
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| divorce? | 1/29/2008 |
Q: In mearlir post I forgott add tha I've been married abot 4 1/2 yrs) My husband must have been in ...
A: I see that you are much affected by the world surrounding you. I understand that there may be people ...
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| divorce? | 1/27/2008 |
Q: In mearlir post I forgott add tha I've been married abot 4 1/2 yrs) My husband must have been in ...
A: I read your letter with great care and re-read it. I need you to read the following very carefully. ...
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| 2nd thoughts about divorce | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I forgot to mention in my earler question that we have been married about 4 1/2 years. I am 60, he ...
A: I'm sorry but I did not receive the initial question. It may not have been addressed to me. I did ...
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| younger wife | 1/20/2008 |
Q: I'm 27 and am very interested in sharing rest of my life with a girl who is 31 (she is 4 years older ...
A: Have a wonderful wedding and a wonderful marriage. 4 years is nothing. There is no problem ...
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| How to build a good relationship with spouse | 1/18/2008 |
Q: My name is Felix. I'm 30 years old. I just married last year. During this married life, i can not ...
A: You have answered your own question if you read exactly what you write to me in your message. Let's ...
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| love | 12/23/2007 |
Q: i dint bother much about it because i ve had enough with him and his tortures . now i ve fallen in ...
A: This gets more complicated by the minute. I am beginning to feel that there are too many people ...
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| my husband loves me but does not like to be with me. | 12/23/2007 |
Q: I know i have a wiered kind of question,But ultimately after getting frustrated i searched that i ...
A: Let me guess.........He likes you to cater to him though, right? I think that you perhaps are being ...
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| love | 12/22/2007 |
Q: i dint bother much about it because i ve had enough with him and his tortures . now i ve fallen in ...
A: It is simple enough. If it bothers them they will mention it. Until then, there is no need to ...
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| Very frustrated with husband | 12/21/2007 |
Q: Well my husband and I have been having some problems lately. We have been arguing about Christmas ...
A: I imagine he is good at that. It is a common trait of people who like to exert control. No need to ...
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| past | 12/21/2007 |
Q: I have been happily married for over a year now. we got married only after 6 months. but there is ...
A: I love your question, and I will tell you why. You have answered it yourself. You have been married ...
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| Help | 12/20/2007 |
Q: My husband had an affair. Was caught and now it is over. The problem is he isn't interested in sex ...
A: What worries me is the fact that you have been married for only 8 months and this has happened. The ...
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| Help | 12/16/2007 |
Q: My husband had an affair. Was caught and now it is over. The problem is he isn't interested in sex ...
A: You give me very little to work with........it helps immensely if I can get some insight into your ...
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| Cheating wife | 12/10/2007 |
Q: after trawling through the internet, I am unable to find anywhere that gives advice to MEN. It seems ...
A: I wanted to add something to what I had said after I read your response. I just need you to know ...
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| How to convince my parents | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I am Silpa from India.I am loving one guy since one year.But my parents are not accepting because we ...
A: You may have some difficulty finding answers to your question because in North America, we do not ...
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| should a boyfriend pay her girl friend's debt to ask for marriage | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I have a question. I'm helping a female friend of mine to find an answer. Should her boy friend ...
A: I have to admit that your message is a bit unclear. If I understand correctly, this fellow wants to ...
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| Trust Issue in marriage | 12/5/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 1.5 yrs now. I had previous relation with girl which I didnt want to share ...
A: What ever made you think that you would lose her by being truthful? In my life, I have yet to see ...
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| uk law | 12/2/2007 |
Q: i have been married for four years,my husband recently used violence against me,but the police did ...
A: I don't know if it is lawful in the U.K., but I am wondering what you are still doing in that ...
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| trust | 11/13/2007 |
Q: Last week I told my wife something and asked her not to repeat it to anyone. She gave me her word ...
A: Don, Often people will get defensive for reasons that we cannot understand. If you felt bad about ...
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| trust | 11/12/2007 |
Q: Last week I told my wife something and asked her not to repeat it to anyone. She gave me her word ...
A: You are absolutely correct in your thought that your wife has been less than respectful with regards ...
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| Moving on | 10/24/2007 |
Q: My husband and I split last summer-after my mother and grandmother passed suddenly things went ...
A: It seems quite clear to me that he is seemingly moving on or has moved on. His need to be alone may ...
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| Long Term Marriage and loneliness | 10/17/2007 |
Q: I have been married to a wonderful man for 22 years, he is 57 and I am 47. During our marriage I ...
A: I must admit that I am somewhat confused. Let me explain why. I get a lot of questions from people ...
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| self respect | 10/16/2007 |
Q: An old saying states, " Respect your wife without sacrificing your self respect ". The one who wrote ...
A: You seem to be an extremist indeed! The fact that you get very polite is not a bad thing. That is ...
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| moving away from family | 10/7/2007 |
Q: My husband wants to take a job in colorado. we currently live in British Columbia. We have 2 kids 5 ...
A: This is a difficult question to ask of anyone. Family is important to all of us, and sometimes there ...
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| separation and getting back together | 10/5/2007 |
Q: i want him to move back in we have been separated for 2 months and he says he wants to come back ...
A: I can see from your message that you are somewhat perturbed by this issue. It isn't all that clear ...
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| Family problems | 9/25/2007 |
Q: i have been with my partner for all most 2years and few month,sex was very good and we were in love ...
A: I found this question in the question pool and decided to give you my opinion in the hope that it ...
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| marriage | 9/19/2007 |
Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ...
A: The more you expose your thoughts and feelings, the more I can understand your current despair. I ...
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| marriage | 9/18/2007 |
Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ...
A: To begin, I will assume that you are living in North America. I live in Canada myself. I fully ...
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| Marriage | 9/16/2007 |
Q: My husband and I are about to celebrate our 10 year anniversary. We have two Children. One of six ...
A: I think that your husband believes he has a mother in you and not a lifes' partner. As a man who ...
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| marriage | 9/15/2007 |
Q: is marriage a bother or a relief?
A: Efua, One needs to be able to define bother as well as relief to answer the question with any type ...
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