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i want to know what kind of massage will include the buttocks and also the genital areas. i find such a massage quite satisfying not just from sexual point of view but even otherwise and also it improves my erections. i got this kind of massage just once but i forgot the name and the therapist was not there during my next visit.
since most of the therapists are female they generally refuse. what kind of massage to ask for and how to ask without being embarrassed?

Hi Ajay,

You worded your question well but you will be disappointed in my answer.

While there are some people who provide that type of massage, the majority do not.  Buttocks are a rather common area to massage and apply pressure to because those large muscles are attached to the hip and pelvis bones.  Large nerves pass through the large buttock muscles so massage to relax those muscles can be very helpful for leg or back pain.

But most people who practice massage legitimately will never touch genitals.  Asking for that type of massage will typically be refused. Sometimes you will even be asked to leave and not return.

If you want a great massage, go to a true massage therapist but know that your request will not be honored.  It is possible that the therapist who provided you with the more intimate massage previously was no longer working for that establishment when you returned for one reason or another.

In this country, a licensed legitimate therapist would lose his or her license to practice massage if they were to offer genital massage.

Thank you for writing and asking.  It never hurts to ask a question.



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Kathryn Merrow


I can respond to questions about migraines and headaches, carpal tunnel syndrome, hand-wrist-arm pain, upper back pain, and other assorted and miscellaneous pain symptoms. I can also respond to general questions about massage and how to select a massage therapist.


I have been a massage therapist since 1992 specializing primarily in pain relief techniques. I utilize the St. John Method of Neuromuscular Massage Therapy (NMT) and other bodywork modalities. I'm The Pain Relief Coach online.

Professional Member of American Massage Therapy Association (AMTA) Nationally Certified in Therapeutic Massage & Bodywork (NCTMB)


My initial training in massage was at Health Enrichment Center in Lapeer, Michigan. I have had advanced training or workshops with Kurashova Institute for Studies in Physical Medicine, St. John Neuromuscular Institute of Pain Relief, Center for Self-Healing and many others. I now share my education and experience as a Massage Instructor and Pain Relief Coach.

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The highest honor I receive is when someone tells me that they finally understand why they had pain, that they took action and that their pain is either less or is totally gone.

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I have done well over 20,000 therapeutic massage sessions, primarily with clients with various types of pain or painful syndromes.

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