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orgasm strength2/9/2012Doug Adams
  Q: i am 15 and i don't think my orgasims are as strong as they used to be. is anything wrong with me? ...
  A: OK. Once you've learned how to do the basic Kegel maneuver (10 times, no more), you can use the ...
fantasies2/7/2012Doug Adams
  Q: i masturbate 8-9 times a week and i would rather fantasize about female butts & boobs and not on ...
  A: The vulva is the external female genitalia. It includes the female private parts that you can see ...
having a wet dream2/7/2012Doug Adams
  Q: for about three years now i have masturbated once a day, sometimes twice, but i would like to have a ...
  A: It's just an ejaculation that happens while you're dreaming. It doesn't feel as good as an ...
orgasm strength2/7/2012Doug Adams
  Q: i am 15 and i don't think my orgasims are as strong as they used to be. is anything wrong with me? ...
  A: Kegel exercises are to exercise your pubococcygeus muscle, which stretches through your private ...
Chasity belt2/7/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: This is another story I read from the confidential male masturbation survey where guys were asked if ...
  A: Sorry it took so long I have been so bogged down with homework that I wasn't able to get to your ...
orgasm strength2/6/2012Doug Adams
  Q: i am 15 and i don't think my orgasims are as strong as they used to be. is anything wrong with me?
  A: I highly doubt there's anything wrong with you. Not all orgasms are equal. Some are very strong ...
having a wet dream2/6/2012Doug Adams
  Q: for about three years now i have masturbated once a day, sometimes twice, but i would like to have a ...
  A: Since you have been masturbating daily for three years, I suspect you will never have a wet dream. ...
fantasies2/6/2012Doug Adams
  Q: i masturbate 8-9 times a week and i would rather fantasize about female butts & boobs and not on ...
  A: Whatever you fantasize about is OK. It's best if you like whole females instead of merely parts of ...
how often do most guys do it2/5/2012Doug Adams
  Q: how often do most guys masturbate at age 15? how nmuch is too much?
  A: According to a survey done in the second half of 2007 by the web site HealthyStrokes.com, the ...
Masturbating so no one will see2/5/2012Doug Adams
  Q: Im really worried that someone will see me masturbating. What can I do to keep that from happening?
  A: Most guys are only discovered masturbating once or twice. That's not very often considering that ...
Caught masturbating2/5/2012Doug Adams
  Q: my mom walked in and saw me masturbating this morning. She just said oh sorry and left. I haven't ...
  A: More than half of guys are eventually walked in on while masturbating. It isn't as bad as it seems. ...
Masturbation punishments.2/4/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I once read a confidential male masturbation survey in which guys were asked if they had ever been ...
  A: Yes these are severe punishments and can easily cause severe damage to the penis. You are hitting a ...
Sexual stimulation2/1/2012Doug Adams
  Q: What does stimulate mean when they say stimulates the genitals or breasts They say that our ...
  A: That question is well outside my area of expertise, but as a layperson, I can say that it is obvious ...
Teenage female masturbation frequency1/31/2012Doug Adams
  Q: do u know how often teenage girls masturbate at different ages?
  A: According to a survey of over 2000 females by the web site www.healthystrokes.com in 2007-08, this ...
Talking to friend about masturbating1/31/2012Doug Adams
  Q: how can i find out if my friend masturbates? is there any way to tell? i really wanna know.
  A: You will have to ask your friend. There is no other way to tell, other than catching him or her in ...
masturbation1/31/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: what grade were u in when u started and what hand do u use?
  A: I was in sixth grade when I had my first experience with masturbation and I didn't start ...
Sexual stimulation1/31/2012Doug Adams
  Q: What does stimulate mean when they say stimulates the genitals or breasts They say that our ...
  A: Stimulate means to touch, especially to touch for the purpose of arousing. Not everyone likes to be ...
Infection that causes masturbation?1/29/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I once read a story sometime back in early 2009 about a woman in the U.K. who said that her 19 year ...
  A: Well there are several issues I see especially with what you described in the story. The story said ...
Help1/29/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Im 26 years old and have been masturbating about 12/13 in the begining i would masturbate about 2/3 ...
  A: Well there is nothing to worry about. Masturbation is a natural and healthy action and there is ...
Masturbation1/27/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Hey! My name is Taylor. I am a 14 year old girl. I have not gotten my period yet but i recently ...
  A: Well there are two issues I see with your situation. The first is that you are a little old to have ...
PREORGASMIC QUESTION1/25/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I AM A YOUNG WOMAN WHO IS JUST LEARNING ABOUT MASTURBATION AS A FORM OF SEXUAL RELEASE. WHAT DOES IT ...
  A: Well when you say you are Pre-orgasmic it doesn't mean that you "can't" have an orgasm it is more ...
Masturbation & sexual orientation.1/20/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Is it true that starting masturbation at an early age helps a person to figure out what their sexual ...
  A: Yes it is very beneficial to start masturbating at an early age. It helps you learn more about your ...
I want to get a orgasms1/19/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I'm a 12 year old girl that's been trying to masturbate.I've looked everywhere but although it feels ...
  A: This is not so much an age thing but a bosy development issue. Your vagina has not fully grown yet ...
Starter issues1/18/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I am a 19yr old female. I recently started experimenting, that is tried to masturbate but I don't ...
  A: Well yes and no when you masturbate some people describe the feeling as a sensation to urinate. ...
FEMALE CUM1/15/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: What does female cum look like? Will I know if my female partner is at the "Ready To Cum" stage? I ...
  A: You didn't state your age so I don't know what your experience is so my answer may be longer. Well ...
Rubbing1/13/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Hi I would like to know how to rub my boyfriends penis I don't think I'm doing it right I want to ...
  A: Well the best way to know exactly what to do is to simply ask him what feels good. However the head ...
touching1/11/2012David Carney
  Q: im a seventeen year old female and me and my boyfriend have been touching yknw down there etc, i ...
  A: Absolutely! Tammi, almost all of his penis is very sensitive to erotic touching, and if you 2 are ...
I love to masturbate1/10/2012Doug Adams
  Q: I am a 19 year old female (almost 20). I've been masturbating since I was about 13 and have been ...
  A: You can deal with the urge to urinate by making sure you urinate before you start masturbating. If ...
masturbation1/8/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: .. so I just wanted to ask a question about masturbation. Iam thirteen have recently moved from ...
  A: First let me say that you are not out of line or a bad person. Masturbation is a healthy and crucial ...
masturbation, prostate stimulation1/8/2012Doug Adams
  Q: 1. sir, i dont want to waste my sperm during masturbation, firstly when i am in the middle of ...
  A: There is nothing wrong with eating your semen, and according to a survey by ...
problem from masturbation1/7/2012Amir J.R.
  Q: I AM A TEENAGER OF 15. I WANTED TO ASK IF THERE WAS A PROBLEM CAUSED BY MASTURBATION....FEW DAYS ...
  A: actually too much masturbation gradually robs a man of his primary source of vitality and immunity, ...
problem from masturbation1/7/2012Doug Adams
  Q: I AM A TEENAGER OF 15. I WANTED TO ASK IF THERE WAS A PROBLEM CAUSED BY MASTURBATION....FEW DAYS ...
  A: Masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary for male sexual health. I have never ...
Shaking and masturbation1/6/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Somedays I wake up with shaking in my hands, this shaking is continuos during the whole day. I heard ...
  A: Well there is something to be said about excessive masturbatoon but five to six times a week is ...
Urge to masturbate1/6/2012Doug Adams
  Q: I'm 12 years old and am having these sensations to masturbate. Is it normal at my age
  A: Yes, that is very normal. More males start masturbating at age 12 than any other age. Once you ...
It's that time!!!1/5/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Does it make sense for me to say that as my period approaches I feel more of a need for sexual ...
  A: Well first we need to define masturbation. Masturbation at least the definition I go by is touching ...
It's that time!!!1/5/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Does it make sense for me to say that as my period approaches I feel more of a need for sexual ...
  A: Yes getting closer to your period means that you are preparing to ovulate. This means that you are ...
mutual masturbation1/5/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I am new to masturbation as a form of self pleasure. I let it slip that I enjoyed the feelings ...
  A: Yes this is a normal thing. What you are basically describing is foreplay. This is mutual ...
Is it true?1/3/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: Is it true that a womans vagina is only about 3" long? I have been trying to master the art of self ...
  A: Well the femal vagina is about six to seven inches long so it isn't terribly long but you won't be ...
Excessive masturbation1/3/2012Doug Adams
  Q: ive been masturbating for the past 10 years, with a frequency of 5-6 times many days in the past 3 ...
  A: I'm not aware of masturbation causing damage to the liver, so don't worry about that one. It might ...
Please suggest1/3/2012Steven Lucas
  Q: I am 27 years old. i have been masturbating since 5 years. i masturbate 2-3 times in a day. I cant ...
  A: Sorry for the late response I had a surprise visit from relatives. First let me say you are normal ...

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I write from the point of view that masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary to sexual health. I am able to answer questions in all areas of sexuality.

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I am the author of the web site HealthyStrokes.com and have been answering questions about sexuality (especially masturbation) from both males and females for over 10 years.

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I have a Ph.D. in a field unrelated to sexuality from one of the leading educational institutions in the world.

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