Masturbation/Basic questions


Hello Steven,

As you will learn from my questions, I have never been to a sex education class so I might sound like a noob, although I'm 23 years old and have been masturbating since I was in grade 6 probably. Anyway, I have a few concerns.

1. How much is too much? I know it may seem sick but I have been keeping a log of how many times I have done it for the past 8 months and the average that has come out is 2.78 times per month. Is it too much or maybe too little, healthy or not? I try to avoid as much as I can though.

2. Is there any truth to the belief that I might lose the ability to become a father some day if I masturbate too much? Or maybe I'll be done too quickly if I masturbate frequently when the time comes for the real deal? I ask this because I have the tendency to just cum within a minute or two if I want to. So I am feeling like its going to hugely embarrass me sometime in the future in front of a gf/wife etc.

Thanks for reading

First three time a month is not a lot at all. Personally I have heard of daily masturbation and that is not a lot at all. So your amount is not bad at all. Actually that is perfect amount not too Much but still beneficial to your health. There is no proof that masturbation reduces the potency of your sperm so masturbation won't make you unable to have a kids later on in life. When we masturbate we know exactly what to do to reach maximum pleasure. So we cum fast when we masturbate but when we have sex we generally last longer. However if your first time is really good then you may not last long but that happens to a lot of people.  


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