Masturbation/cumming

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Question
how can i make myself cum . it would be my first mastrubution.

Answer
The most popular way for girls to masturbate is to rub their clit, either directly, or next to it. Your clit is a small nub underneath your lips at the very top of your vagina. It contains a lot of nerve endings, and it the most sensitive part of your body, so rubbing near it will bring you to orgasm quite well. As far as *exactly* how to rub, no two girls do it exactly the same, so just experiment and go with what feels good for you. This requires no inserting at all, and no fingering, and is often the fastest and easiest.

You can also finger yourself (or use a small hairbrush handle) or use the shower head. A vibrating toothbrush handle can also be fun when near your clit ;)
That's the basics of masturbating, and there's not much else to do, unless you begin to experiment with other girls or boys.
Sisters and close friends can be fun to experiment and learn from :)
Have fun ;)

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I can answer most questions about male and female masturbation including physical, mental and ethical aspects. I've helped many girls and women, and some men, with issues like not enough pleasure, too much or too little masturbation, mutual masturbation and teaching others, and using it to improve your sex life or life in general. If I do not already know the answer to your question, I will gladly find it or refer you to someone who does.

Experience

I have helped my sisters and friends learn how to pleasure themselves growing up. I was always the one my friends would ask about it and I would try to help find the right solution for them. I am very comfortable talking about the subject and any problem associated with it. I believe there is always a solution to any problem, but I will not hesitate to refer someone to counseling if the problem warrants it. I strongly believe masturbation is a healthy part of living for both sexes, and can especially be important for women's sexual health and relationship success. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and have done a lot of research on masturbation, and how a healthy amount of it can be a positive part of a young person's life, and an uplifting part of a relationship or marriage later in life. Personally I have been masturbating since I was 11 years old, and I have tried just about every trick in the book. I know what worked for me, what works for most people, and what is just a bad idea.

Organizations
Volunteered for one year at a local soup kitchen which also counseled clients. Worked one-on-one with clients as a Volunteer Life Counselor there, finding solutions to financial, shelter and clothing needs.

Education/Credentials
Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from a Central Oklahoma University.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many friends, my own sisters, college roommates, my friend's brother, a few men and women online.

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