Hi, I'm Ally and 13, I have been masturbating a little since I was 11.  I have a wierd question I hope you can help with.  A while ago I started horse riding and when I asked my friends about it they all said how wonderful it was and they all kind of smiled in a strange way.  The first Saturday I started it killed my thighs and bum and I was really sore and not sure if I wanted to keep doing it but my friends said I should.  A few weeks later one afternoon while I was riding I felt such a delicious sensation in my panties and glanced down between my thighs and realised my coochie was rubbing onto the saddle.  I have read a bit about this and some people say it doesn't happen but it does to me.  Some times if I wear satin panties they really get wet and it makes me feel horny, as soon as I find a private space I need to rub and poke until I orgasm, is this ok and will I always feel horny riding??

Hi Ally!
Sorry my response took so long, I've been busy with classes lately. What you are experiencing is completely normal! It does not happen for every girl out there, but it does for quite a few. I say enjoy it, and enjoy touching yourself afterwards ;)
This will likely always be the case, that it will make you feel horny when you ride. if it really bothers you and you dislike it, try to position yourself slightly differently when riding, or perhaps try another activity instead. You could also try masturbating before you ride so that maybe you won't be as sensitive to the feelings. Have you done it with friends before? maybe have a close friend or sister masturbate with you. It's fun to do it with someone else! As long as your wetness does not creep through your pants, or this activity doesn't embarrass you in some other way, I wouldn't quit horseback riding because of this. I say enjoy it :)


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I can answer most questions about male and female masturbation including physical, mental and ethical aspects. I've helped many girls and women, and some men, with issues like not enough pleasure, too much or too little masturbation, mutual masturbation and teaching others, and using it to improve your sex life or life in general. If I do not already know the answer to your question, I will gladly find it or refer you to someone who does.


I have helped my sisters and friends learn how to pleasure themselves growing up. I was always the one my friends would ask about it and I would try to help find the right solution for them. I am very comfortable talking about the subject and any problem associated with it. I believe there is always a solution to any problem, but I will not hesitate to refer someone to counseling if the problem warrants it. I strongly believe masturbation is a healthy part of living for both sexes, and can especially be important for women's sexual health and relationship success. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and have done a lot of research on masturbation, and how a healthy amount of it can be a positive part of a young person's life, and an uplifting part of a relationship or marriage later in life. Personally I have been masturbating since I was 11 years old, and I have tried just about every trick in the book. I know what worked for me, what works for most people, and what is just a bad idea.

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