Why do so many people get caught right when they're having their orgasm?  Wouldn't it seem like if you're gonna do it for 10 minutes that you wouldn't always get caught right at the end?

I think it's because when you hear your door open early in your masturbation session, you can stop instantly and cover up but at the point of orgasm you're distracted and don't notice the door as easily.  It's a bad deal if you both get caught AND your orgasm is ruined.  

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Doug Adams, Ph.D.


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