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Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl, and I've been mastrubating for the past 2 years, but I can't have an orgasm while fingering, no matter how hard I try.
I used to mastrubate by rubbing my clitoris against a pillow or something. But lately, I tried fingering and I just couldn't reach an orgasm. I'm scared I won't be able to have an orgasm when I have intercorse .
Please help, this is freaking me out.

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When you rubbed your clitoris agains the pillow, did you orgasm?

Most women will not have an orgasm by fingering, they need to rub their clit as well. It is best I find to do both -- rub your clit and finger yourself at the same time -- but it all depends on the person.  

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Angie Bergan

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I can answer any questions related to female and male masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)

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As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

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I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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Because of the sensitivity of the issue, I would never release names of pasts clients.

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