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Iam 13 and I am new to fingering and cumming. How do I finger myself and how do I do it with not hurting myself? Also I want to know if it is possible to stink your finger in your butthole? If so how do I do that. Lastly how do I make may self cum?

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Hi hun -

The first thing you need to do is find your clitoris http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris. That link should help. When you do, you will notice when you get turned on your clitoris gets bigger and harder, that is good. You then rub it whatever way feels the best. The clitoris, for most women, is how they have an orgasm. You can also finger yourself at the same time, but if fingering yourself hurts, you must stop.

Some people put fingers in their butt, but that is up to you. You just do what you feel comfy with. Just if you do put them in your butt, make sure you don't put the same fingers inside your vagina without washing them.

Hope that helps,

Angie  

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I can answer any questions related to female and male masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)

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As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

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I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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Because of the sensitivity of the issue, I would never release names of pasts clients.

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