do i need to worry about prostate congestion and i am 13 years old.. and have a case of frequent masturbation, can it affect my systems?, is it normal for me to do that? sometimes ones a week i do it maybe 5 times or 4, is it normal, can it affect my urinary problems? or its just normal?, and also if i feel arouse do i need to masturbate .. and if theres a precum came out , if i masturbate , or do not masturbate can it result problems?

Hello Jera.  Thanks for your question.  
At 13 it is common to want to masturbate 4 or 5 times each week.  

When you feel aroused you may masturbate or, if you choose not to masturbate that is a good choice also.  It is up to you.  Sometimes it is good to just stop masturbating for a few days or for a week if it doesn't bother you too much.  Masturbation and ejaculation is normal for a young man like you.  Just remember that when you ejaculate you use energy and your semen contains sperm, selenium(and other nutrients) and of course body fluids.  It is a normal function of your body and doing it in moderation is normal and healthy.  You may want to try this experiment for your own benefit.  Just spend 1 week without masturbating at all.  If a week is too long for you make it 5 days.  Then when you feel like you really want to masturbate do it.  I want you to notice the difference in how good it feels to ejaculate after waiting for a week.  I would like to hear from you if you don't mind.  Just let us know if you think it is worth it to wait a few days in between masturbating.  


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