I am 13 years old and I was wondering what the best way to mastrabate would be for me. My penis is smaller than most people my age. How can I pleasure myself in the best way?

Hi, hun

It doesn't matter how small or big you are for masturbation, it all works the same. When your penis is erect just use your hand or fingers to grasp half to two-thirds of the shaft (towards the top) and stroke it. What I mean by stroke is you move in up and down. You should feel a great deal of pleasure.


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Angie Bergan


I can answer any questions related to female and male masturbation. I have had a psychology practice in the state of Florida for the past ten years. I deal with, but not exclusively, females who have or are dealing with many types of sexual changes. There are NO questions that are wrong to ask about masturbation. I take every questions seriously, and will help you in anyway I can. Please feel free to ask anything, and know you will get my best advice and judgment. I have included a photo of myself on my profile. This is so you can see who you are talking to. :)


As previous stated, I have practiced over ten year in helping teen and adults overcome numerous sexual anxiety, questions about masturbation, and sexual desires --- all of which were done on a clinic level.

I have a Maser's Degree in Human Sexuality from the University of Miami. I also have a Master's Degree in Psychology from the Florida State University.

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