Masturbation/Total amateur


I'm 17 and i've only recently started exploring my sexuality. I'm a virgin and i rub myself a lot but i've never experienced an orgasm. I want to learn to pleasure myself but i don't know what to do and how to do things. Any suggestions? I really want to feel good...

Just find the places that feel good to touch and keep working on them.  Make sure you think about whatever arouses you most while you masturbate.  Your private parts want to be touched while your brain is erotically stimulated.  That is how it works.  Good luck to you!


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