I know how to masturbate...but will I be able to see my cum? It makes me think im not actually having an orgasam. I mean, with the guys, you see that white stuff.  With me? nothing.

Are you female?  If so, then there will probably be nothing to see.  A female orgasm is an experience felt throughout the genitals and whole body.  Most females don't ejaculate, and some authorities doubt there is such a thing as female ejaculation.  Yes, males get to see their semen come out.

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Doug Adams, Ph.D.


I write from the point of view that masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary to sexual health. I am able to answer questions in all areas of sexuality.


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