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hi,I'm a man and I have quitted masturbation, but now I don't get to orgasm in vaginal sex and I have to masturbate to have an orgasm. please help me.

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Instead of quitting masturbation altogether, why not plan on masturbating a few days before and a few days after having vaginal intercourse.  If you really can't reach orgasm in vaginal intercourse, then I need to ask, do you have a history of masturbating in the prone position?  That would explain why you can't reach orgasm in intercourse.  To learn more about prone masturbation and its consequences, see http://www.healthystrokes.com.

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Doug Adams, Ph.D.

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I write from the point of view that masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, and even necessary to sexual health. I am able to answer questions in all areas of sexuality.

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I am the author of the web site HealthyStrokes.com and have been answering questions about sexuality (especially masturbation) from both males and females for over 13 years.

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I have a Ph.D. in a field unrelated to sexuality from one of the leading educational institutions in the world.

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