Expert: Andrew - 4/28/2007

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QUESTION: is anal masturbation Normal for men i started it about a week a go it feels good  what can i use as like a dildo  at home so my parents wont know   were is a males Gspot and can you come or ejaculate from anal because i haven't
ANSWER: Yes, anal masturbation feels good, especially when you are clean.  Get a detachable shower and set it on a gentle (think tickly) stream.  Make sure the temperature is not hot or cold.  Spray that on your anus and the back of your balls.  You will love it!  As for a dildo, you can use anything that is firm but soft.  A regular dildo is by far the best.  Use lots of lubrication and don't do anything that hurts.  You will probably be a bit sore the next day but it will be OK.  The male G-Spot is your prostrate gland which you can feel up inside your rectum about two inches.  When you push on it, you will feel like you need to pee.  I have not been able to have an orgasm that way but it does feel good to play with it.

Andrew

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QUESTION: can you use  fruit i use my finger but i want something more or bigger is there a serten kind of lubricant that you suggest  are that would make it more pleasurable i like it but that doesn't make my gay does it i love woman and i,am not attracted to men  

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No, it doesn't make you gay.  Men can have be curious about anal play just because it feels good.  I would use KY-jelly, or any water-based lubricant for anal play.  Do not use soap--it hurts!  If you use something other than your finger make sure it won't break off or get stuck--that can be a problem.  If you can reach in and find the little bump that, when pushed on makes you want to pee, that is the supposed male G-Spot.  It really just stimulates you in a way that makes you want to pee, but it can be pleasurable.  I have not been able to come from doing it that way.  Let me know what you find out!  Take care,

Andrew