Expert: justin_somnia - 12/11/2001

Question
Hello, I am a teenager and regularly masturbate. A few months ago while
masturbating I was curious and decided to try anal masturbation and it
felt pretty good, I have done it a few times after that experience as
well. I however, feel awkward and strange looking back to that
experience and am a bit worried also. I am not gay. Does this mean that
a person has some homosexual tendencies when they try anal masturbation?
I really hope it doesn't! Ever since then I have felt uneasy and
uncomfortable even just thinking about the subject and do not know where
to turn or who to ask because it seems to be a bit embarrasing and is
often associated with homosexuals. I really do not regularly anal
masturbate anymore because I am perfectly fine with just the usual way
but still feel uneasy and it bugs me whenever I think about it. Is this
normal? Do any other people in my age group feel this way? How unusual
is it for people to try things like that because at the time my goal was
to be open and try a new thing I did not even think of the homosexual
aspects of it at the time. Thank you, I would greatly appreciate a
reply.  

Answer
Thanks for your question.  A lot of men try anal masturbation including me.  That doesn't mean your gay, and if you think about it; what's the difference between a male asshole or a female asshole?  Just a couple of hairy balls hanging down I guess.  And what's the difference between between a male mouth and a female mouth?  Not much.  I've never had sex with a male and I'm not interested either.  But I have tried inserting different objects up my ass.  And if you do it right you can massage your prostate and this might heighten your orgasm and make you shoot more and farther!  Try using a lubricant like Astroglide (www.astroglide.com) when you masturbate anally or with your cock.  It makes it more enjoyable and is found near the condom display in the store.  Also go to www.jackinworld.com for some good information on wanking.  I hope this helps, enjoy, bye bye.