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amy wrote at 2007-04-30 02:41:38
I'm 16 too and I like to lay on a couple pillows and pretend they're someone I have a crush on and rub my vagina and clit against them. Also, if you have an electric toothbrush or the handle of a vibrating razor, you can hold that on your clit and it feels pretty good. It's all about what feels right to you though.

none wrote at 2009-05-08 03:36:07
Ok, first the policy that is on the left side of this page says do not submit a question if you are under 18. I understand if a teenager has questions about things like this, but it is wholly and completely inappropriate for an adult (presumably) male to answer a question of this nature from a 16 year old girl. I am greatly disturbed.

pictkr wrote at 2011-02-22 19:18:47

Forgive me but I failed to notice your age when I commented back to you.  I would NOT have returned my comment for someone your age.

Please disregard my prior answer since it was only intended for those over 18 yrs old.  I would never encourage a minor to EVER let another person touch them unless it is a doctor for professional reasons and with another adult parent there also.

Fluffy wrote at 2015-06-28 14:20:04
You can try the shower handle and put rough water but it wont hurt to use a finger in 13 and a virgin and i use the handle on a lint roller and its pleasurabke and i cum in minutes.


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I masturbate and I continully improve the quality of pleasure. It helps me and it helps me help you! I can answer a variety of questions about masturbation. When an individual is beginning to masturbate(especially females), there can be so many questions and some just need a few tips to get started. I also address special interest topics such as 'how can I make it feel better when I masturbate?', body movement and sounds that happen during masturbation, prolonged masturbation, extending the plateau phase, multiple orgasm, and improving intensity of orgasm. Dont be apprehensive about asking what you need to know. Recent statistics show that 75% of women and almost 100% of men masturbate by their 18th birthday. Masturbating is a normal part of growing and the experiences can be stimulating , refreshing, and satisfying for both males and females. You will find a link below to a video that explains and illustrates female masturbation. It is tastefully done and each action and feeling is explained in detail. Since it is illustrated, of course there is nudity. It is, however, presented in a professional manner and the demonstration is actual masturbation, not poronographic exaggerations or profanity. I am pleased with the presentation and hope you will view it if you choose to learn more, and if you are not offended by the nude female body.


I masturbate regularly and I have learned, as you may know, it is far more pleasurable to masturbate with someone else and share the pleasure of new techniques as well as the ecstasy of intense orgasm and sexual release! 10+ years teaching individuals and answering questions specific to anatomy, masturbation and orgasm. Please be as clear and detailed as you can with your question.

Instruction in Alternative medicine and extensive research in specialized sex therapy, orgasm enhacement, and masturbation tecniques that lead to intense sexual release with emphasis on satisfaction for females.

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Masturbating is beneficial. Females have more to gain from it than males. During masturbation females learn what it takes to satisfy their urges and cravings and find the sexual release their body needs. I have helped many young ladies achieve their first orgasm. One middle-age woman who was not sure she had ever experienced an orgasm, began to masturbate to orgasm 2 to 4 times a week after we worked together for a while. In several cases, a woman experienced her first episode of multiple orgasms while experimenting with the exercises and assignments given her. Recently, 2 women were able to release more completly as they found the body-wracking pleasure and excitement of gspot orgasm. Some have been helped to build up to more intensely satisfying orgasms, or simply to make it feel better, to learn to get extreme sexual pleasure during their time of relaxing and personal enjoyment, even if there is no orgasm; its OK. Maybe I can help you get more sexual pleasure and satisfaction.

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