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| Subject | Date Asked |
| touching | 1/11/2012 |
| Q: im a seventeen year old female and me and my boyfriend have been touching yknw down there etc, i ... A: Absolutely! Tammi, almost all of his penis is very sensitive to erotic touching, and if you 2 are ... | |
| I'm not sure what's wrong | 10/26/2011 |
| Q: I was always kind of a horny girl, so I've tried masturbating for a while but it felt that good, so ... A: MIchelle, at 17 you should be able to masturbate and have orgasms. Have you tried stimulting your ... | |
| Several Questions Regarding Masturbation | 10/21/2011 |
| Q: Hey, Mr. David! First of all, thank you for taking time out of your possibly busy schedule to help ... A: (More comments added) -SEE BELOW Rachel, right now I will address the questions you raised in your ... | |
| Several Questions Regarding Masturbation | 10/18/2011 |
| Q: Hey, Mr. David! First of all, thank you for taking time out of your possibly busy schedule to help ... A: Rachel, the first thing I want to say is you are the most delightful questioner I have ever ... | |
| Cumming | 10/16/2011 |
| Q: I'm 18+ and I've been sexually active for a while. I've had a good number of partners, but none of ... A: Marie, tell me about your experience masturbating. Do you have orgasms when you masturbate? It is ... | |
| The quasi-natural method | 10/7/2011 |
| Q: After defining the quasi-natural method for you, I’d like to ask you a question about it. This is a ... A: Masturbation, by definition, is stimulating one's self for the purpose of feeling sexual pleasure. ... | |
| What am I doing wrong? | 10/3/2011 |
| Q: I'm Annie. I'm 17 and I've been masturbating for about 4 years now. It never been constant, until I ... A: I think you are more aware now of your sexuality and your ability to 'really feel good'. I'm ... | |
| why can't i orgasm | 10/2/2011 |
| Q: I've been masturbating for a while(about a year)and I still haven't orgasmed.I do it 2-3 times a ... A: Vanessa, you are having some problems that are very common for girls your age. I will be happy to ... | |
| I cant cum | 9/25/2011 |
| Q: I just started putting my fingers in my vagina to try cumming. i feel like i need to pee but no cum ... A: Have you tried rubbing on the outside of your vulva, around the area of your clit? Pushing your ... | |
| coaching? Help? | 9/7/2011 |
| Q: I don't know if my last question to you went through (my spam folder got it) so just repeating. i am ... A: You would need to send me a private message. I have no way of knowing your email address. That ... | |
| periods | 8/6/2011 |
| Q: I recently turned 21 and i am getting worried about my menstrual cycle! To date i have gotten my ... A: Do you masturbate Alexa? Are you able to have orgasms? If you do, how do you feel afterward? ... | |
| Is my Masturbation the reason why period hasn't came? | 7/29/2011 |
| Q: This is very embarrassing for me to ask. I'm 13(just turned 13) Been Masturbating for 1 1/2 years ... A: Masturbating is not the reason you are not having your period yet. Dont worry about that. When you ... | |
| I need help! | 7/28/2011 |
| Q: I am 12 and haven't had my period yet. I still have orgasms or what I think are orgasms. ... A: OK, you dont want to use a showerhead and you dont want to use your fingers. Another choice would ... | |
| stomach masturbation | 7/26/2011 |
| Q: I am 27 and have a very low sex drive as of three years ago and do not believe I have experienced ... A: for opening up and talking about your masturbation. You may be having an orgasm and certainly you ... | |
| cumming, squirting, over? | 7/22/2011 |
| Q: so im not new with masturbating... im 22 now and have been masturbating by rubbing my clit for ... A: Have you found your gspot? And do you sometimes orgasms with your fingers inside you? I would like ... | |
| Is it safe for a virgin to use fingers? | 7/11/2011 |
| Q: I kind of just started to masterbate, and because im a virgin, I was wondering if it is okay to use ... A: When you had your one orgasm, you were probably rubbing your clit and vulva. There are some ... | |
| Is it safe for a virgin to use fingers? | 7/8/2011 |
| Q: I kind of just started to masterbate, and because im a virgin, I was wondering if it is okay to use ... A: It's safe for a virgin to use fingers. Just be careful and dont ever do anything that hurts you. ... | |
| masturbation | 7/5/2011 |
| Q: I love masturbating and can stimulate my clitoris but can never go over the edge as such. Is there ... A: When you start shaking, do you feel a release? Does it feel really good and then you feel like you ... | |
| what's safe for a virgin to do while masturbating? | 7/2/2011 |
| Q: I've recently started to masturbate, and since I'm a virgin, I was wondering if there was anything ... A: Did you get 2 fingers all the way in? If you did, then your hymen is torn already. Are you still ... | |
| Bored with my orgasm | 6/27/2011 |
| Q: I've been orgasming for about a year now. I use a vibrator and although I get the satisfaction I ... A: Krissy, you probably need to go a step further with your masturbation. You may be capable of ... | |
| It hurts dildos tight vagina | 6/23/2011 |
| Q: My vagina is tight so I got a normal dildos to stretch it it hurts and bleed I did it for 5min is ... A: Dont use a dildo that is too big for you. Your vagina will stretch naturally. Do things that make ... | |
| WHAT IS NORMAL? | 6/8/2011 |
| Q: Is it normal for a healthy woman to want to masturbate daily? Until recently I had no privacy for ... A: Gspot orgasm can be extremely intense and pleasurable. Have you been able to put your ifnger on ... | |
| what's safe for a virgin to do while masturbating? | 5/31/2011 |
| Q: I've recently started to masturbate, and since I'm a virgin, I was wondering if there was anything ... A: It is fine for you to masturbate Alexis, even though you are a virgin. Its just fine to masturbate ... | |
| over masterbation effects relationship? | 5/20/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21. We have been together for 2 years and have had sex since the ... A: I understand your feelings about his masturbation. Even though you masturbate, it sounds like you ... | |
| Oral Sex | 5/10/2011 |
| Q: Does an intact hymem(virginity)have any bearing on a woman being able to be sexuially satisfied by ... A: You should be able to enjoy oral sex with your hymen intact. Whether its oral sex or masturbation, ... | |
| ARE ORGASMS LESS INTENSE | 5/5/2011 |
| Q: I have read many of your Q&A's before and I am guessing you have lots of sex experience. My question ... A: LIbido may tend to wane after menopause, but not necessarily. Many women have a natural strong ... | |
| I cant stop | 5/2/2011 |
| Q: I am in my late 30's I love sex even when I was 12 I masturbated all the time in the bathroom, ... A: Taylor, if you want to discuss this in detail, I will do that with you, but before I could offer any ... | |
| I cant stop | 4/26/2011 |
| Q: I am in my late 30's I love sex even when I was 12 I masturbated all the time in the bathroom, ... A: From your question I can't tell whether you are male or female. What you are doing seems excessive. ... | |
| Masturbation | 4/26/2011 |
| Q: I m 16 years old and I have recently started masturbating so being an amateur I would like to know ... A: It may be best to start with you telling me what you do now when you masturbate. There are many ... | |
| masturbation for a 13 year old boy | 4/26/2011 |
| Q: 30 second masturbation periods i guess you could say. when i think about my self doing this i sorta ... A: When you say you do a 30 second period of masturbation, it makes me wonder if you ejaculate in 30 ... | |
| Masturbation Issues | 4/25/2011 |
| Q: My name is Peter, I'm 17 years old and I'm from Hungary. Recently I have some issues with ... A: Peter, you need to learn to prolong your masturbation. Simply put, you need to learn to get close ... | |
| does masturbation stops height growing | 4/24/2011 |
| Q: i want to ask that does doing masturbating every day stops your growing height of body.does it ... A: No, please dont worry about that. How many times do you massturbate in a week or in a day? Needs ... | |
| SEX FOR ONE! | 4/20/2011 |
| Q: My sex life has gone down the toilet so to speak.I have been seriously ill with health issues that ... A: I believe you will certainly be able to orgasm by masturbating. And I will be happy to help you ... | |
| Uncomfortable with sex | 4/19/2011 |
| Q: Got so worked up about question used wrong e-mail. 21yrs. old virgin being married soon but very ... A: Have you watched the vidio about female masturbation that I recommend on the AllExperts site? That ... | |
| Orgasm? | 4/17/2011 |
| Q: Is the intensity of an orgasm affected by a womans hormones? I am 20 yrs old and have been ... A: The answer is yes. And your orgasms are affected by many other factors. How many times do you ... | |
| cumming | 4/17/2011 |
| Q: I'm 25, a vigin and am tryin to cum. I've tried rubbing the outside gently and slowly and have got a ... A: If you will mark your respone question PRIVATE, I will be the only one who can see it. Brittany, ... | |
| Old Enough But | 4/8/2011 |
| Q: I am 19 and just started to masturbate as a stress reliver. Today I was doing it through my clothes ... A: Pam, yes I think I do know what you are asking. Have you been able to have an orgasm at times? ... | |
| privacy for masturbation | 4/6/2011 |
| Q: hey i am a 12 years old boy and i like to masturbate a lot.But that happens only when my parents ... A: Have you tried going into the bathroom to masturbate? Lock the door and relax for a few minutes. ... | |
| ALMOST ORGASM??? | 4/3/2011 |
| Q: I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS WHY EVERYTIME I MASTURBATE I ONLY ALMOST ORGASM AND ... A: Ann, this is a common problem among young females, and the good news is very good news! You can ... | |
| Masterbation!! | 4/1/2011 |
| Q: I'm only 13 but I masterbate. You may think I'm too young but - don't think I am. I usually ... A: Yes I will help you Emma. You are not too young obviously. You are already having orgasms. Did ... | |
| Female Masturbation | 4/1/2011 |
| Q: Self pleasure is new for me even though I am an older woman. I have just recently been able to bring ... A: I will be pleased to help you Lil. I am very proud of you for seeking help. I wont need to know ... | |
| Ejaculation and Orgasms | 3/31/2011 |
| Q: I'm 15, and I've masturbated since I was maybe 11 or 12, usually about once every two or three days. ... A: Try this Mark. For the next few weeks, try to masturbate only once each week. Then when you do it, ... | |
| I can only orgasm through intercourse | 3/31/2011 |
| Q: I am 21 years old and have been having sex for about 6 months now with my first boyfriend; i was a ... A: I will be happy to siscuss your masturbation techniques with you online. Im confident you wlill be ... | |
| period | 3/29/2011 |
| Q: im 16 years old and have had my period for 3 years now reguarly but i have had it come and go like ... A: For a girl your age, irregular periods are sometimes a symptom of hormones that have not settled ... | |
| i want to try to make my self cum but i can't | 3/29/2011 |
| Q: how do i make my self cum i have never done it be for so i was wondering if there was a class for it ... A: Elizabeth, I'm sure you can do it hun. you are just having some difficulty and I want to help you ... | |
| i want to try to make my self cum but i can't | 3/29/2011 |
| Q: how do i make my self cum i have never done it be for so i was wondering if there was a class for it ... A: What is your age? Relaxing is sometimes the key to sexual release. Also, almost every girl or ... | |
| masterbateing | 3/27/2011 |
| Q: is it ok if i masterbate while being on my period ? A: Masturbating while you are on your period is a matter of choice. Some girls and young women feel a ... | |
| Fitness VS masturbation | 3/23/2011 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old male. How does masturbation affect one's fitness? I read somewhere that semen ... A: If you do not masturbate excessively there should be no problem with health issues. Generally 3 to ... | |
| I can't orgasm | 3/21/2011 |
| Q: So, I'm Eighteen and have only been having sex for about a year. I can't seem to orgasm even when I ... A: Have you watched the link I recommended on my profile page? Here it is in case you missed it: ... | |
| frequency and methods | 3/19/2011 |
| Q: I'm a 25 year old virgin man . I started masturbation when I was around 24. I don't masturbate more ... A: Most men your age masturbate between 3 and 7 times each week. Some feel a need to masturbate 2 to 5 ... | |
| confused!!! | 3/16/2011 |
| Q: !! i m 20 and i masturbate 3 to 4 times a week. The problem i have been facing for quite sometime ... A: You mentioned that the spots are sticky. That makes me believe it is a discharge of some kind, not ... | |
| confused!!! | 3/16/2011 |
| Q: !! i m 20 and i masturbate 3 to 4 times a week. The problem i have been facing for quite sometime ... A: It is difficult for me to say whether you should see a doctor since I cannot actually see you and ... | |
| confused!!! | 3/8/2011 |
| Q: !! i m 20 and i masturbate 3 to 4 times a week. The problem i have been facing for quite sometime ... A: Most likely you are seeing spots of semen that escapes from you penis while you are sleeping. It is ... | |
| can't masturbate | 11/19/2010 |
| Q: im fourteen and i really want to masturbate. it's really difficult; i touch my clit, vagina, boobs, ... A: Jessica, Are you saying that you used to masturbate and get an orgasm and it was satisfying, but ... | |
| Some kind of brownish discharge type of thing. | 11/15/2010 |
| Q: I've been having sex for a while and i am very new at it. I did it 6 times and it didn't start ... A: Jennifer, I recommend you see your doctor. I am not a medical doctor, and the discharge may be a ... | |
| first time | 10/29/2010 |
| Q: I recently bought a 7inch realistic penis vibrator..I didnt realize how big it was until i received ... A: If you are still virgin you may want to start with a smaller size, but you dont have to if you are ... | |
| is something wrong | 9/19/2010 |
| Q: Im 16 and when i masturbate it feels normal but when i get an erection in less than an hour the tip ... A: Thats fairly common. At 16 you probably get a very hard erection, then when you ejaculate, extreme ... | |
| Masturbation and orgasm problems | 9/14/2010 |
| Q: This is my first time doing this so I'll just jump right in. I'm a 19 year old virgin and I've been ... A: Wow! What a woman! Hello Erin, I understand your situation and I appreciate your desire to feel ... | |
| How can I make myself have an orgasm...by myself | 9/13/2010 |
| Q: The only way I have been able to have an orgasm is if my spouse licks on my clitoris continuously . ... A: Cheer up hun. You certainly can get an orgasm by yourself. What you need to do now is tell me ... | |
| Masturbation | 9/12/2010 |
| Q: I've been masturbating since I was about 9 or 10 years old (I'm 16 now, turning 17) and I have a few ... A: Yes, I can help you with these issues. Your orgasm is probably not as strong as you would like it ... | |
| overmasturbation and PE | 9/4/2010 |
| Q: for the past 5 years i had a problem with over masturbation and sexual exhaustion, now i have ... A: You may need to see a doctor to get it corrected, but some forms of therapy can help. I recommend ... | |
| Girlfriend masturbating | 8/29/2010 |
| Q: In the past when my girlfriend and I have been masturbating together, either over the phone or ... A: For females it is common to become aroused looking at another female masturbating or especially ... | |
| Orgasam | 8/24/2010 |
| Q: i hate having to fake or lie to my hubby that he made me climax an maybe thats why when he does what ... A: OK Darlene, Im happy that you are able to give yourself an orgasm when you need it. I feel for you ... | |
| Mastuerbation while sleeping | 8/20/2010 |
| Q: all night long? Or once he's asleep he starts acting as if he's having sex he starts moving in a up ... A: Darlene, I think you are craving sexual fulfillment. When di dyou have an orgasm last? And are you ... | |
| Mastuerbation while sleeping | 8/17/2010 |
| Q: all night long? Or once he's asleep he starts acting as if he's having sex he starts moving in a up ... A: You said when he pulls out of you he sstill has his erection. does he pull out immediately? Most ... | |
| Mastuerbation while sleeping | 8/17/2010 |
| Q: all night long? Or once he's asleep he starts acting as if he's having sex he starts moving in a up ... A: Darlene, is it your husband who does this? Does he do it after he has sex with you? How often does ... | |
| help masturbation | 8/17/2010 |
| Q: the questions i have in parenthesise are wht i want answered "this is very embarrising but for some ... A: I cant be sure Robert, but it could be caused by a prostate problem. I recommend you see a doctor ... | |
| More help | 8/16/2010 |
| Q: Hey. So I asked you a question last year and was wondering if you could give me more advise. I'm 15 ... A: What have you had inside your vagina? Have you had a penis in you? Have you used any kind of dildo ... | |
| Masturbation Questions | 8/15/2010 |
| Q: my name is Britney and I have a couple of masturbation questions. My first question is how do I ... A: ( Revised Answer ) Thank you Britney for the excellent ratings. I appreciate you doing that for me. ... | |
| Masturbation Questions | 8/15/2010 |
| Q: my name is Britney and I have a couple of masturbation questions. My first question is how do I ... A: You have some very good questions. First, let me say that prolonging the stage right before orgasm ... | |
| MAsturbation | 8/14/2010 |
| Q: Okay well i have a shower massage thingy and I wanna know howto mastubate with it A: What is your age Michelle, and have you masturbated using your fingers or a dildo? Are you virgin? ... | |
| Orgasms & Masturbation | 8/6/2010 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old and new to masturbation. The last time i masturbated I felt a tingly sensation in ... A: It's nice to know you are having some new experiences. I think you may have had your first orgasm ... | |
| orgasms and masturbating | 7/23/2010 |
| Q: )a few days ago i decided to masturbate, i have one of those nutrogena facial vibrating exfoliators ... A: How are you doing Tammy? Let me know if it is working for you. Yes, an electric toothbrush may ... | |
| orgasms and masturbating | 7/23/2010 |
| Q: )a few days ago i decided to masturbate, i have one of those nutrogena facial vibrating exfoliators ... A: and thank you for your question. WEll, I think you may have reached orgasm both times. Of course I ... | |
| girl using abusive language | 7/22/2010 |
| Q: There is this girl i like but what puts me off is the language she uses i have overheard when she is ... A: It sounds like the girl has some serious personal issues. Her self-esteem is probably low. She ... | |
| Need more intense sexual release during masturbation & sex | 7/20/2010 |
| Q: I have a few questions. I'm 19. First, I find that I don't enjoy masturbating as much as when ... A: Krista, do you get an orgasm when you masturbate? You can make it better by relaxing more and ... | |
| can't orgasm during masturbation but can during sex | 7/13/2010 |
| Q: I'm 21 years old and i am having a problem in my relationship. I've been with this guy for over a ... A: Congratulations for knowing yourself. You know that you are a verey sexual person. That tells me ... | |
| Masterbation help! | 7/10/2010 |
| Q: 1. What technique makes u cum and orgasm faster? 2. When I think I'm bout to cum,and push its just ... A: Chris, tell me something, how long does it usually take you to get your orgasm/cum? Are you ... | |
| masturbation | 7/9/2010 |
| Q: I've been masturbating for almost twenty years, usually a few times a week, but sometimes several. ... A: I recommend masturbating less frequently. But tell me, how long does it take you? How long can ... | |
| Masturbation | 7/6/2010 |
| Q: I am a 21 year old virgin, by choice. When I was younger my first boyfriend introduced me to ... A: I am repeating for you some things I said to another young lady with orgasm problems. Thank you for ... | |
| help please | 7/6/2010 |
| Q: and I have never had an orgasm. I have had sex, and I have tried masturbating, but I still haven't ... A: First let me say that you should realize you are not alone in this. Unfortunately, many girls and ... | |
| Masturbation technique | 7/3/2010 |
| Q: I have extra long foreskin.After repeated streching exercises , i am able to fully retract the ... A: Please try what you suggested, using 2-3 fingers with your thumb so you can uncover the glans with ... | |
| help | 7/3/2010 |
| Q: I want to get an orgasm really bad but I cant. I'm 15 years old and I dont want to tell my parents I ... A: Tori, why are you in such a big hurry to get an orgasm? And have you masturbated before? Your ... | |
| Masturbation time | 7/2/2010 |
| Q: okay so I am 20 years old and I am a virgin. One thing I've heard is that some, maybe many men ... A: Do you feel like you want to extend your time to 20 to 30 minutes? Is that interesting to you? ... | |
| Masturbation technique | 6/30/2010 |
| Q: I have extra long foreskin.After repeated streching exercises , i am able to fully retract the ... A: You are very welcome sir. So when your erection is full and hard, can you see the opening in the ... | |
| femalemasterbation and orgasms | 6/29/2010 |
| Q: Okay so I've been masterbating for a while now and I do use penetration and I like it and I can get ... A: Yes Kassie, I understand your desire. What is your age and are you still a virgin? I have some ... | |
| Masturbation time | 6/28/2010 |
| Q: okay so I am 20 years old and I am a virgin. One thing I've heard is that some, maybe many men ... A: It is a temptation for almost all young men and boys to get their climax as quickly as possible. So ... | |
| masturbation | 6/26/2010 |
| Q: i'm 15 and not very experienced with sex. i really want to learn how to masturbate, but my parents ... A: Kasey, rub your vulva with your hand and fingers. That should feel really good. Please let me know. ... | |
| hello | 6/25/2010 |
| Q: .22..female..i used to masterbate for 2 yrs..almst everyday..bt nw a day in my period the blood cms ... A: Fiona, you probably need to masturbate sweetheart. Stop worrying about it and learn to enjoy it ... | |
| effects of over masterbation | 6/24/2010 |
| Q: I started masterbating when i was 13, I am now 31 and experiencing erection problems. The longest I ... A: One suggestion is to stop masturbating. By that I mean dont do it because it is a habit. Determine ... | |
| helppp!!!! raahhh. | 6/22/2010 |
| Q: hey my names Carly and i'm 16 years old. I just started masturbating a couple of weeks ago cuz my ... A: You are having some first-time experiences and its common to be disappointed as you are beginning to ... | |
| is it wrong? | 6/18/2010 |
| Q: Sex is good but for the pass couple of months I been masterbating more than usual I enjoy it but my ... A: Can you tell me why you are masturbating more than usual? Do you orgasm when his erection is inside ... | |
| Ruined health due to OVER MASTURBATION | 6/16/2010 |
| Q: I am a 23 yrs old male. In 2003 when I was 16, I started to masturbate. And i might have masturbated ... A: You situation is not due to over-masturbation. Even though it may hae affected you temporarily by ... | |
| how to cum? | 6/10/2010 |
| Q: i'm 30 yrs old and don't have much experiance with masterbation. i would like to know how to make ... A: Tonya I will go over a few basic methods and concepts with you. First, have you ever experienced an ... | |
| how to cum? | 6/8/2010 |
| Q: i'm 30 yrs old and don't have much experiance with masterbation. i would like to know how to make ... A: Tonya, have you experimented by rubbing your vulva and stimulating the area near your clitoris? ... | |
| Help with ... | 6/7/2010 |
| Q: I have been trying for a long time to get my question answered by someone so i hope you can help. Im ... A: You are a very sweet girl and you deserve to have an intense body-wracking orgasm. I think you will ... | |
| masturbation | 6/7/2010 |
| Q: hey, im tammy im 18. my boyfriend wants me to help him masturbate, like in slang the term is "wank ... A: Tammy, If you were pleasuring me I would know exactly how I want you to do it, but each guy is ... | |
| Masturbation | 6/5/2010 |
| Q: Using a vibrator for masturbation is that harmful what other ways of using a vibrator for ... A: Masturbating with a vibrator is not harmful in itself. I want to be sure you are not using it ... | |
| How to hold masterbating intensity longer? | 2/15/2010 |
| Q: I'm a girl....and just turned 18 last week. I always have short orgasm, like only for few seconds. I ... A: Vivian, did you get an answer to your question? I was gone for a long time and Im reviewing some ... | |
| Unable to orgasm and recently bruised labia? | 2/8/2010 |
| Q: Im 16 and I started masturbating a few months ago. Every time I get really close and my body starts ... A: This woman demonstrates a very relaxed masturbating technique that I personally recommend. She is ... | |
| masturbating about my experiences as a child | 1/31/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 49 year old man, married, family and successful, my sex life with my wife, over the years has ... A: My opinion is you may want to visit a therapist. Perhaps some counseling can help you to turn your ... | |
| Length of Masturbation vs intercourse and best form of masturbating | 1/30/2010 |
| Q: I am a 19 year old male and often I wonder how long it should take me to masturbate. I only do it 3 ... A: I suggest you continue with the way you are masturbating now. Try this. Intentionally delay your ... | |
| I hope you could answer my question as soon as possible | 1/20/2010 |
| Q: I hope you would be able to answer my message as soon as possible. It is very urgent. I have passed ... A: I will work with you and try to put yourmind at ease. Thank you for telling all about your personal ... | |
| Masturbation Habits | 1/18/2010 |
| Q: I am a male who recently turned 18 years old and I have some questions about my masturbation habits. ... A: Ejaculating too often can rob you of energy and stamina. Although it varies from man to man, ... | |
| masturbation prolonging | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: I haven't masturbated for about 15 years. I am 59 yrs old. I am wondering about liquids which I ... A: My sincere advice would be to first resolve your guild issue. If your faith or your conscience does ... | |
| Orgasms | 1/12/2010 |
| Q: My female life before my now husband was all about the man, now that I have re-married, my sexual ... A: Diana, I think we should address the possible solutions to your issue of no orgasm. I will take a ... | |
| Orgasms | 1/12/2010 |
| Q: My female life before my now husband was all about the man, now that I have re-married, my sexual ... A: Im happy to hear that he is concerned about your sexual needs as a woman. Do you masturbate now? ... | |
| Hymen.. | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: Hope you have time to answer my question. My question is this: So I learned not long ago that women ... A: Yes, if she inserts a dildo or even her fingers more than a n inch or so, then she could brak her ... | |
| need to orgasm | 1/6/2010 |
| Q: I am a 21 year old female virgin and I have been masterbating for sometime and I have never had an ... A: I understand your need to orgasm. Can you tell me in some detail what you do when you masturbate. ... | |
| Length of Masturbation vs intercourse and best form of masturbating | 1/2/2010 |
| Q: I am a 19 year old male and often I wonder how long it should take me to masturbate. I only do it 3 ... A: You can actually extend your masturbating time Dalton. I will helpyou with it if you like. I ... | |
| Masturbation | 1/1/2010 |
| Q: When i finger my girlfriend, it hurts her. Because she is a virgin and only been fingered by one ... A: Before you finger her, make sure she is adequately lubricated in her vagina. In other words, she ... | |
| masturbation | 12/31/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 girl and have been masturbating for 5 years but orgasms never seam to last long could you ... A: Yes Chloe, I can help you with this. Tell me exactly how you masturbate, what position you get in, ... | |
| I really wanna know If I broke my hymen! | 12/30/2009 |
| Q: im 14 yrs old and my name is Jessica! my first time to masturbate was last week! I Always masturbate ... A: I think your hymen is still ok honey. Tell me exactly how far you pushed your fingers into your wet ... | |
| feel better orgasm | 12/28/2009 |
| Q: i have a lot of questions. first, i masterbuate about every other day or so and the feeling of my ... A: There are techniques that help to enhance and intesify your orgasms. Please explain more about your ... | |
| simple question | 12/23/2009 |
| Q: According to Chinese physicians;semen must be regarded as a most precious substance. By saving it, a ... A: I agree that it is confusing when you consider the two different schools of thought. I personally ... | |
| Masturbation | 12/18/2009 |
| Q: I'm 12 and i have been Masturbating since i was 11 but i never have ejaculated. can you let me know ... A: It may be that you are not reaching orgasm, or your body may not be sexually developed to point of ... | |
| vaginal bleeding | 12/17/2009 |
| Q: some one can help me. I am really scared. three days ago I started masturbating with a bottle. I ... A: Amber, it could be a superficial tear. However; I storngly recommend you see your GYN as soon as ... | |
| Calories?? | 12/15/2009 |
| Q: I am a teenage girl and I masturbate a lot. How much calories do girls burn in one orgasm? Thank ... A: HOw many orgasms do you have in a week Caitlin. What is your age honey? Depending on how long it ... | |
| hello | 12/13/2009 |
| Q: i want to ask that how should i masturbate? what is the easiest way to masturbate? is it safe ? can ... A: Tina, most girls get a very pleasurable sensation by simply rubbing the clitoris and the area ... | |
| simple question | 12/11/2009 |
| Q: According to Chinese physicians;semen must be regarded as a most precious substance. By saving it, a ... A: I subscribe to the idea that semen production and ejaculation/orgasm are natural parts of life. The ... | |
| masturbation | 12/8/2009 |
| Q: Greeting Doc... My issue is: I have never had sex due to conscience reasons, im 23 almost 24. I used ... A: I usually teel the guys that 3 to 5 times a week us generally accepted as not too much. ... | |
| my pussy gets wet | 12/7/2009 |
| Q: i really need some help! i'm a 14 year old girl and i'm in grade 9 in high school and my pussy gets ... A: I understand Christine. It happens to a lot of girls honey. Getting wet is a very natural part of ... | |
| masturbating | 12/7/2009 |
| Q: ok well i've been masturbating since i was probably 12 or 13 and i'm 18 not i could never get an ... A: You may be trying too hard sweetheart. I will help you. For now I would like you to do this ... | |
| female masturbation | 12/6/2009 |
| Q: i reach orgasm every time but can only reach it once every hour or so and this method is getting ... A: Amelia, I love what you are doing. That sounds wonderful and Im glad it works for you. Since you ... | |
| boyfriend does not like me masturbating | 12/4/2009 |
| Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months and we have been intimate with one another, but have not ... A: You asked me if you should stop masturbating. My answer is only if you want to stop. And I will ... | |
| stopping masturbation | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: sir, I am 18yrs old... I started masturbating when i turned 18... my frequency of masturbation ... A: Masturbating is a choice for each of us to make. If you feel a need to masturbate once or twice a ... | |
| Masturbation | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: Can I ejaculate too many times a week that I will reduce my sperm count and maybe in the future I ... A: It will not affect your sperm count or your semen production in the future. It may affect your ... | |
| My Girl's Boobs made me masturbate | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: I used to fondle my girls boobs while travelling together in a cab and while pressing her bare boobs ... A: Yes her hard nipples indicaate sexual aarousal. She actually gets an erection in her nipples as you ... | |
| sex | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: is swallowing cemen healthy for a woeman? A: Swallowing semen occasionally is not harmful. How often do you swallow it? It's like a lot of ... | |
| What can be the effects of TOO MUCH masturbation? | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: I know this question has been asked several times, but I guess I have a different case. When I say ... A: Yes the pain in your testicles could be a result of masturbating too much. It can also may you feel ... | |
| masturbation | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: I'm an 18 year old girl and i masturbate like every night i for some reason can't help and I'm ... A: Ariel, I am sorry you were molested and raped as a little girl. That could have some bearing on ... | |
| Attracted to Girls' Bums | 11/17/2009 |
| Q: "Hi, I am a 19 year old guy with a strong facination for girls arses. I get turned on and aroused ... A: Let me put your mind at rest. Yes, it is normal for a guy to get aroused by a girls anatomy. Some ... | |
| Some terms... | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm 37yo,chemist,would like to know the difference: whether the male G spot is the prostate gland OR ... A: The prostate is sometimes referred to as the male gspot. There is a place between your anus and ... | |
| masturbation | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: i'm eighteen, and i was a solid believer in abstinence for a long time. but now i'm dating this ... A: Please dont feel stupid Rose. You are trying to learn, and that makes you smarter than 80% of the ... | |
| too much masterbation | 11/14/2009 |
| Q: Hya David. I've been masterbating since i was 16, im now 21, on average once or twice a day ... A: I cant be sure of course, but I suspect prostate infection or other prostate disorder possibly. I ... | |
| Anal masturbation tips | 11/11/2009 |
| Q: I'm 13 years old and I discovered anal masturbation about a month or so ago( no rhyme intended) and ... A: OK, you said you discovered anal masturbation about a month ago. You need to explain some things. ... | |
| drooping while erect | 11/8/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 and have been masturbating for quite some time on a very regular basis. Minimum once a day. ... A: May be due to adrenal depletion which can be brought on by masturbating a little more than your body ... | |
| Over Masturbation and knee Pain and weakness | 11/8/2009 |
| Q: Hey David first of all my regards and appreciation of what you are doing is really great Well i ... A: Ill tell you what I have told the other guys today. Cut it back. Get other things to do. I want ... | |
| i cant orgasm | 11/7/2009 |
| Q: ok so here gos im 14 years old but ive never been able to have an orgasm ive tried lots of teqniuqes ... A: Maybe you need to slow down and relax with your masturbating. ILl tell you like i tell the girls, ... | |
| Masturbation | 11/7/2009 |
| Q: Hey. So I'm a 14 year old girl who has been masturbating since I was about 9. I have rarely ... A: Elizabeth, I want you to try thtis when you are aroused and wet,ok? Just relax, lay on your back in ... | |
| wife masturbating | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: my wife and I are 30 with no kids and our sex life isn't the best right now. My wife just started to ... A: I only have th information you gave me here, but I think she whould e wiling to masturbate with you. ... | |
| Masturbation | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: My name is Teena and I've been masturbating for a while i want to have a orgasm but I can't seem to ... A: Teena, help me understand. Have you ever had an orgasm? Most women dont squirt naturally without a ... | |
| masturbation | 11/3/2009 |
| Q: "im 12 years and i cant seem to get a good feeling out of masterbating. from grade 2 and up i always ... A: Sharna, if you dont feel horny, then its ok not to masturbate. When you do feel the urge to touch ... | |
| masturbation | 11/3/2009 |
| Q: I expierence an orgasm but i cant get myself to squirt.Hopefully you know of some technique i could ... A: Dara, thank you for sharing that with me. I am so happy that you do experience orgasm. How many do ... | |
| Problems with orgasms | 11/2/2009 |
| Q: Hey David, ok I've been masturbating since I was about 8 (give or take a year or so). The problem is ... A: I do care sweetheart. These are very serious matters that usually go overlooked. You can tell me ... | |
| Masturbation and bleeding | 10/31/2009 |
| Q: Ok so I was feeling kinda of horny so I looked around the house for something to masturbate with and ... A: Sweetheart I don't know how far in you went with the racquet handle. Were you legs bent(pulled up) ... | |
| emotional connections to orgasms | 10/31/2009 |
| Q: Hey David, I am 20 I have been masturbating since I was like 10 and have always been very in tune ... A: You are a wonderful young woman. And you did a gret job of opening up. I read every word. I ... | |
| emotional connections to orgasms | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: Hey David, I am 20 I have been masturbating since I was like 10 and have always been very in tune ... A: I enjoyed reading your quetion. And thanks for the sweet comment. Is there any particular answer ... | |
| Painful oral sex | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: recently my boyfriend and I were rather drunk and decided to have oral sex. Usually, he is very ... A: I know that is both painful and annoying to have your vaginal lips bruised. And it hampers any ... | |
| dont know what is wrong with my clit | 10/24/2009 |
| Q: I'm 20 and have just started masturbating (if it is even considered one). see, I've read forums and ... A: The licorice root may be a good idea. It will help to replenish your adrenals. Do some research. ... | |
| dont know what is wrong with my clit | 10/22/2009 |
| Q: I'm 20 and have just started masturbating (if it is even considered one). see, I've read forums and ... A: I have heard from many young ladies with a problem similar to yours. So you are not alone. I can ... | |
| marriage & masturbating | 10/17/2009 |
| Q: My man masturbates at least twice a day, most/all(?) of the time is from watching porn. He does it ... A: Since he is masturbating once or twice every day, it indicates to me that something is wrong in your ... | |
| masturbation | 10/16/2009 |
| Q: hey im 14yrs old almost 15 my dick is 17cm long and if i go slow it can take 20mins to kum, but if i ... A: Yes Bill. You are doing fine. How many times are you ejaculating in a week usually? 7 to 10 ... | |
| i cant have an orgasm | 10/12/2009 |
| Q: ..i am 14 and i have tried so hard to have an orgasm.i use a hairbrush handle inside of my vagina ... A: The feeling of orgasm is wonderful. You will experience a release. You will love it. Many girls ... | |
| Clitoris Stimulation | 10/6/2009 |
| Q: I have a question. I'm still a virgin but I often masturbate only stimulating the clitoris. Not ... A: I understand exactly what you are saying and I know it frustrates you. Sexual frustration is very ... | |
| masturbation | 10/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 and I've just started masturbating. What I do is I rub my clitoris over and over and over ... A: No Alice, you are not damaging any nerves honey. You are masturbating. The burning sensation in ... | |
| can't edge | 10/4/2009 |
| Q: I am 25 and have been masturbating since i was v young , i would love to try edging to pro long my ... A: I want you to try rubbing near your clit and not directly on it Sophie. I know you are desperate ... | |
| Its too intense, | 10/4/2009 |
| Q: I don't know why i can't "handle" a orgasm.I have masterbated,since i was little,and for a couple ... A: Believe me Jackie, I want to help you handle cumming. You need it. And more importantly you can ... | |
| Squirt. | 10/1/2009 |
| Q: I'd like to learn how to squirt. I do my kegals, have sex and masturbate regularly, the latter with ... A: If you would like some demonstration videos then please mark your question private and I will get ... | |
| masurbation/necessity | 9/30/2009 |
| Q: I am 24 and was diagnosed with low testosterone(hypogonadism)at age 20. I am naturally infertile ... A: It is not necessary to masturbate. But, if you feel a need or a desire then it's ok to satisfy your ... | |
| Masterbation | 9/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 and I began masturbating around March. I've listened to the answers of other questions and ... A: Alyssa, does your vagina lubricate (get wet) as you begin touching yourself? Please try to get ... | |
| Question | 9/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm 24-year-old healthy male. I ejaculate prematurely. I do Kegel exercises but it persists -- even ... A: I suggest you see a urologist. He is trained to discover any physical issues or eliminate the ... | |
| masturbation | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: sir i am a 19 year old male.i ahve been masturbating since i was 15.i masturbate daily.however i ... A: I wouldnt expect your habit to affect your weight. However, I personally believe it is much ... | |
| Masturbation | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old and i have a question about masturbation and porn.I've been masturbating almost ... A: This behavior does happen with many boys Nathan. It is not a good idea to watch porn regularly. I ... | |
| Masturbating while in a relationship. Help! | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship, and living with, my boyfriend for 4 years. I have always struggled ... A: I understand your frustration. I dont know why he masturbates so often with a beautiful model who ... | |
| Masturbation in the Shower | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: So I've never asked a question like this before and I'll admit I'm a little nervous... But I've been ... A: Alyssa, are you willing to lay in bed and play with yourself? I think I can get you a very intense ... | |
| Masturbation | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: I am a loose-cut circumcised 23 year old male. I have what I consider a fair amount of skin on my ... A: What you described is very familiar to me. I understand perfectly what you are saying. Usually I ... | |
| masturbating | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: .. i have been using a hair brush handle and a massager to rub my clit but i really want to know ... A: Im sorry you are having trouble masturbating honey. Please explain in detail how you masturbate and ... | |
| Buying Vibrator | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I was wondering if it would be appropriate to buy my younger female cousin her first vibrator. ... A: What do you know about her masturbation habits? Is she able to have an orgasm without a vibrator. ... | |
| Masterbation | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 and I began masturbating around March. I've listened to the answers of other questions and ... A: Im sorry you are having difficulty Alyssa. I will work with you and help you to be more patient. ... | |
| ...sex...? | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: Well.. I've been masturbating since I was about 14, nothing really hardcore explicit, just ... A: Stimulating your clit until you climax is fine. That is precisely what most girls/women do. That ... | |
| masturbation | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: My husband, age 30, was incarcerated from the age of 14 to 21. Does this have anything to do with ... A: Kim, he might masturbate twice a day whether he was incarcerated or now. Lots of guys do, but if ... | |
| about sex and masturbation | 9/16/2009 |
| Q: david your answers are good and informative. I have 4 questions can you please help me by clearing ... A: Yes, you will burn calories masturbating, naturally more calories will be burned while having sex ... | |
| i need some advice... | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: okay, so i'm 18 and i've been masturbating since i was thirteen or fourteen. at first, i thought ... A: Britt, what a beautiful story you have. There is nothing wrong with you. You have something that ... | |
| Squirting orgasm | 9/12/2009 |
| Q: Me and my bf are trying to get me to have a squirting orgasm but i cant get one. like i think were ... A: How does it feel to you when he does your gspt that way? How long does he do it? It takes a lot of ... | |
| Can I Orgasm? | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: I'm worried that I won't be able to orgasm. I'm 18 and I've been masturbating since I was 12. I do ... A: Jane, it is so good to hear about your experience. Thank you for having confidence in me. I will ... | |
| masterbuting involving testicles | 9/5/2009 |
| Q: I Have been masturbating using my testicles squizzing them between my legs, its been almost 10 years ... A: Do you orgasm and ejaculate that way? I would need to now more specifics about your practice of ... | |
| Masturbation | 9/3/2009 |
| Q: I am a male, 23 who has a tight foreskin problem since past 10 years. I havent circumcised as yet. I ... A: You have options. If you want to get circucised then do it. I recommend keeping your foreskin. ... | |
| how many times ??? | 9/3/2009 |
| Q: I am a 47 yr old female and a virgin. I masturbate all the time. How much is considered too much? ... A: I wouldnt call you insatiable. You have a strong sexual appetite obviously. edging is good, I do ... | |
| orgasm too quickly | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: i have been masturbating since i was around 5 years old, i am now 19. i love to masturbate and i ... A: Few girls will admit they have masturbated since age 5, but believe me there are hundreds who have. ... | |
| help | 8/31/2009 |
| Q: i have been masturbating for a few months now but no matter what i do i can't make my orgasm last ... A: I found an article that may interest you. Pleae try some of thes ideas from clitical.com. And use ... | |
| I CAN'T Orgasm | 8/30/2009 |
| Q: My question/problem is that I can't reach an orgasm through masturbation and I would like to know ... A: You didnt mention your age and that can be a factor in determining the best course of action to ... | |
| Secret or Fine? | 8/30/2009 |
| Q: Um, Well I sort of just started this whole masturbation thing last year, and well fingering just ... A: It just depends on your mom's perspective on masturbation. Some moms would permit it. Most ... | |
| how many times ??? | 8/23/2009 |
| Q: I am a 47 yr old female and a virgin. I masturbate all the time. How much is considered too much? A: When you say you masturbate all the time, do you mean you masturbate once each day or can you ... | |
| recent changes | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: Im 28 years old and hadn't really been into masturbation until about 2 years ago. Now I enjoy my ... A: Tess, this is a complaint I hear often from women everywhere. Usually relaxing is the key to ... | |
| masturbation is better than sex | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: Devid I have seen some of your answers and highly appreciate your way of answering with sincerity ... A: It is common for married people to experience more ssatisfaction from massturbating than from sexual ... | |
| ummm | 8/20/2009 |
| Q: Uhh well this is a first for me but I have to ask. Well I'm fourteen years young and I have pledged ... A: Im glad you have chosen to be abstinate until marriage. You can still enjoy sexual stimulation and ... | |
| orgasm | 8/20/2009 |
| Q: I just turned 18 and I've been masturbating for at least 3 years now but i don't feel as if i have ... A: Im sorry to hear that you havent had an orgasm. I know that can be very disappointing. Let me know ... | |
| How many times is too much? | 8/18/2009 |
| Q: I am a 44 year old female who has been Masturbating since she was 25yrsold. I did it a few times ... A: It is always refreshing to hear a woman who is not a teenager admit to sexual needs and desires. It ... | |
| masturbation for females | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: i'm 19, female and i was just wondering, exactly how many times is/can a girl masturbate?? is there ... A: The average female masturbates 3 or 4 times each week. But it varies widely. Some masturbate ... | |
| masturbation | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: i am a female,22 yrs old and a virgin.for the past 6 months am masturbating 5 to 6 times a week. i ... A: Nithya, what you are telling me is wonderful honey. I am so happy to hear it. First of all, let ... | |
| help | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: when i masturbate i usually masturbate my gspot the first time i did i ejaculated now even when im ... A: What is your age Holly? If you dont have a gspot stimulator, and you dont have someone tohelp you ... | |
| Masturbation Help | 8/11/2009 |
| Q: I'm an 18 year old female who has been masturbating since I was 13. However, I have several ... A: Sophie, how wonderful that you have been masturbating since you were 13. Could you have an orgasm ... | |
| intensity (female) | 8/9/2009 |
| Q: I'm 14 (soon to be 15) years old and I desperately need something more intense. I must sound so ... A: I understand your need. Please dont degrade yourself. What you are feeling is a natural desire for ... | |
| masturbation | 8/9/2009 |
| Q: heyy im a 18 yr old girl who has been getting off since i was 2 lol but lately i have noticed that ... A: Sarah, you sound like a wonderful young lady. What is your age? When you feel the urge to pee ... | |
| masterbating | 8/9/2009 |
| Q: i have a problem when i masterbate which is that i can,t get my penis really hard and when i am ... A: There are many herbal supplements that may help you. Some of my favorites are maca and damiana for ... | |
| Not reaching an orgasm | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been trying to masturbate but i don't seem to reach an orgasm, i'm not even sure i'm ... A: Please look at mymasturbation.com I think you will find some things that will help you learn honey. ... | |
| Not reaching an orgasm | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been trying to masturbate but i don't seem to reach an orgasm, i'm not even sure i'm ... A: First let me tell you there is nothing wrong with you. You are getting sexually aroused, your ... | |
| Not reaching an orgasm | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: I have been trying to masturbate but i don't seem to reach an orgasm, i'm not even sure i'm ... A: OK, tell me what you are doing when you masturbate. Do you insert your fingers or ? How many times ... | |
| How to make myself cum | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm 3+ years old and have never came by penetration, oral, and or masturbation unless I use some ... A: As an experiment, watch this girl, try to do what she is doing and make the same sounds she makes. ... | |
| Orgasm | 7/30/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15 and i masturbate on an almost daily basis. Sometimes i get this feeling like i have to pee ... A: Emily, please go to mymasturbation.com You will find things of interest there. I think it may help ... | |
| Frequent Masturbation | 7/30/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I am very concerned about my health habits. I've been masturbating since an early age about ... A: Set a goal for yourself Henry. I suggest a goal of 5 times per week. Now dont try to get there all ... | |
| g-spot orgasm | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: I am a 21 year old female and am having difficulty reaching full orgasm without stimulating my ... A: Look at this site: mymasturbation.com You will find some interesting things. Tell me if it ... | |
| edging | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: I am 14, almost 15 and I have been masturbating since I was about 7. Recently I have found myself ... A: Amanda, you are a very exciting girl. I must say I am very proud of you. The answer to your ... | |
| Masturbation length | 7/25/2009 |
| Q: i am 18 and i am still virgin. when i masturbate, i can only last about 3 minutes, this is very fast ... A: Max, you need to larn to prolon gyour masturbation. When you get close to ejaculating you need to ... | |
| Changing masturbation technique | 7/19/2009 |
| Q: I am uncircumsized and recently discovered I had phimosis. At first, I thought it was a rare ... A: Try to do this: When you have an erection, grip your penis shaft Jason, and pull the skin back so ... | |
| Is my masturbation technique damaging? | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: I engage in a weird way of masturbation. When my bladder is full, I literally knuckle the area about ... A: I like what you are doing Reenu. It sounds very arousing. To do it once or a few times should be ... | |
| female masturbation | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: this is embarassing...but the other day i was masturbating and i felt like i peed.. well .. it was a ... A: No. In my opinion you are having ejaculation with your orgasms. You said your orgasms are more ... | |
| Pornography and masturbation | 7/5/2009 |
| Q: Is it common for a man to watch porn only to get aroused, and then to think about his S.O. until he ... A: You are very sweet. If you have any masturbation questions concerning yourself, I will be pleased to ... | |
| female masturbation | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: this is embarassing...but the other day i was masturbating and i felt like i peed.. well .. it was a ... A: Did you taste it? I need you to explain the things you do as you masturbate. Are you stimulating ... | |
| Penis Size | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: my name is Kat and I am 16 (sorry if you getting offended because I'm a girl). My boyfriend is also ... A: His penis is not large honey. HE may get bigger, but there is no guarantee of that. 6 to 6.5 ... | |
| Husband lied about visiting sites | 7/1/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 7 yrs and thought we had a great sex life (according to him). I recently ... A: Im sorry honey. Many people refuse to admit to masturbating. It is a very personal and private ... | |
| How to reverse the effects of over-masturbation? | 6/28/2009 |
| Q: I have been masturbating about once a day (sometimes twice and very rarely three times) since I was ... A: You have not ruined yourself. Can you masturbate once a week? Have you tried doing it only once or ... | |
| female mastrubation | 6/26/2009 |
| Q: I have a simple question that is complicating my life for the past I don't know how many years.So, ... A: You are very exciting. I love the way you masturbate. And I want to discuss it with you in ... | |
| masturbation tips | 6/25/2009 |
| Q: A friend and I when we were younger used to shut ourselves in the bathroom and lay on top of each ... A: Lana, since you dont want others to see your email you must mark it private. I will help you have a ... | |
| Help | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: I am 19 years old, and i have only just discovered the pleasure of masturbating, i do it pretty ... A: I am so happy to hear you have discovered the pleasure you can get from masturbating. And I do want ... | |
| vagina licking | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: chinese ppl have always regarded cunnilingus as an excellent way to absorb elixir(female sexual ... A: Wow! I think this is my favorite question ever. Vagina licking sir, is just fine. It is both ... | |
| help | 6/20/2009 |
| Q: well i have just started to masterbt n i really like it n wen i get an orgasam it feels amazin n i ... A: Let me get a little more information from you hun. How many times do you usually masturbate in a ... | |
| masturbation | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: just to make sure I'm 23 by the way and I've been masturbating since I was like 10. Lately my ... A: JOe, you may be ejaculating too often. If you just cant cut back, try taking some licorice capsules ... | |
| ill-effects of masturbation | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: Besides the various myths associated, I want clarification on certain areas. 1. Does excessive ... A: 2 to 3 times a day is excessive. A male shuuld not continue at that pace. For females it may be ... | |
| Is It healthy | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: I am a 13 year old guy and i masturbate once or twice a day for at least 30 min it takes me a long ... A: Yes, once or twice every day may be a little too much, even for a guy your age. I want you to try ... | |
| Masturbation | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: is it healthy to Masturbate using shampoo!!!! and i wounder how can i extend the time before i ... A: Shampoo is ok if you like it and it doesnt bother you in any way afterward, like irritation of your ... | |
| I orgasm too fast! | 6/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm a girl and have been masturbating for around 4 years now. In the beginning, it took me around ... A: You are not alone in what you are experiencing. Many girls go through this, but there are things ... | |
| Masturbation | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: As an aging male past 75, I still enjoy vigorous masturbation but have increasing difficulty ... A: Congratulations Sir. My hat is off to you. If you dont have high blood pressure, diabetes or other ... | |
| What Am I Supposed To Do? | 6/13/2009 |
| Q: I'm Not Sure If I've Been Masturbation Correctly. How Do I Know If I'm Doing It Right? And I'm Also ... A: Melissa, tell me what you have tried honey. And do you put yourfingers inside your vagina? or do ... | |
| too intense | 6/12/2009 |
| Q: I've just started trying to masturbate. I'm coming out of relationship witch involved sex, but where ... A: Yes Alana, I understand perfectly. ONe thing to try is to keep on going baby. And dont rub ... | |
| need more intensity | 6/9/2009 |
| Q: I have been masturbating for as long as i can remember. I am 90% of the time, sometimes more, ... A: I understand what you are going through and I have some suggestions for you. You need to explain ... | |
| using water | 6/5/2009 |
| Q: Is there a way for men to masturbate using water? I love using the shower spray on myself and when ... A: What an interesting question. Actually, the answer to your question is yes. It is possible for men ... | |
| how to find my g spot | 6/2/2009 |
| Q: do you think you could help me i don't know where my G spot is in my vagina please help me ANSWER: ... A: So you masturbate once each week, and you do not successfully have orgasms. If you are willing to ... | |
| Finding my clit | 6/2/2009 |
| Q: I'm a virgin, and I've recently started masturbating. So far, I've only gone through the hood, ... A: Cara, as you play with your clit, certain things happen in your body. Your vagina should ... | |
| how to find my g spot | 6/2/2009 |
| Q: do you think you could help me i don't know where my G spot is in my vagina please help me A: Yes Tamela, I can help you with that, I need to know some things about you. What is your aage? ... | |
| Finding my clit | 5/30/2009 |
| Q: I'm a virgin, and I've recently started masturbating. So far, I've only gone through the hood, ... A: how does it feel when yourub your clit hood? Do you like it? Sometimes rubbing thru the hood can ... | |
| Techniques | 5/30/2009 |
| Q: Yes i am a 20 year old male and i was just wondering what type of techniques you would recommended ... A: I almost always recommend prolonged masturbation for both males and females. Using this technique ... | |
| How to | 5/28/2009 |
| Q: So latley i have always been very horny and I don't no why. So I try pleasing myself but it never ... A: I will be happy to give you some help in learning to masturbate with good results. What age are you ... | |
| pain in lower abdomen and lower | 5/27/2009 |
| Q: today i had a pain in lower right abdomen near the right of the penis and some times when i sit or ... A: Does it hurt after you masturbate? HOw many time do you masturbate in a day or in a week? Have you ... | |
| OUT OF CONTROL | 5/24/2009 |
| Q: My Name is Cameron Barwick and I'm 27 year old male I was wondering would you please tell me: is ... A: Yes Cameron, it is possible but not likely for most of us. Generally it is necessary to rub your ... | |
| masterbation | 5/23/2009 |
| Q: how many times should i masterbateh A: Generally it is considered normal to masturbate once each day for teen males, but its up to you ... | |
| MASTURBATING | 6/19/2007 |
| Q: For the past year i don't know why but i masturbate way too often and my breasts are huge now do u ... A: Sara, you masturbating is not affecting your breasts. How many times a week do you masturbate? It ... | |
| is it bad? | 6/15/2007 |
| Q: Im a girl... i started masturbating very young probably at age 4!!! I keep doing it over and over... ... A: Its OK to masturbate Sweetie. I know that there are times when you mnuust cant help it. I ... | |
| anal | 6/14/2007 |
| Q: Is it possible to go too deep when masturbating anally with a dildo, are you suppose to stop after a ... A: Rob, be very careful. You need to reaad my answer to TOM just few minutes ago. If you have a ... | |
| oragasm and cum | 6/13/2007 |
| Q: i like to masturbate and make myself wet but i never orgasm or properly cum. I really want to make ... A: LU, thank you for your question. I want you to cum Sweetie. Tell me how you masturbate. How many ... | |
| tingling | 6/12/2007 |
| Q: I am 25 year old virgin and I havn't had a boyfriend for sometime and have never done anything but ... A: Yes Jessica. The next time you feel it, reach down and just rub your vulva thru your panties. Then ... | |
| masterbation and wearing thongs | 6/11/2007 |
| Q: A: Jonathan, read my answer to Tom just a few minutes ago. And yes many of us are turned on by ... | |
| anal play | 6/10/2007 |
| Q: I'm a male and have been masturbating for a while now. I have just recently started trying anal ... A: Tom, get yourself a beginners butt plug. At first just insert the plug into your anus and ... | |
| Morning orgasm never feels as good. | 6/10/2007 |
| Q: In the morning, when I first wake up, my orgasms have no intensity. They never feel that good in the ... A: My guess is you are hurrying too much, trying to cum. Slow down, breathe deep and slow and enjoy ... | |
| I want to try a few things | 6/8/2007 |
| Q: I wanna try some new things when i masturbate. I really wanna get the biggest O of my lifetime. Do ... A: What gives the biggest orgasm is taking your time, relaxing, relax your pelvic muscles, relax your ... | |
| masturbation | 6/7/2007 |
| Q: is it ok if i don't masturbate n i have wet dreams every few days? ANSWER: Hi Parth, sure many ... A: First massage your balls. HOld each one between thumb and 2 fingers. Roll it around and around for ... | |
| masturbation | 6/7/2007 |
| Q: I'm uncircumcised like you and i was wondering if the average time it takes to cum during ... A: No, your forskin really doesnt have that effect on your masturbation. What it does do is it makes ... | |
| Masturbation - Pain in lower left side | 6/7/2007 |
| Q: Mr. Carney, I read your answer to a question by Andy on 5/1/2007 where he talked about a pain he had ... A: You need to ask your doctor about the pain. If you masturbate more than 7 times a week, you need to ... | |
| Foreskin to tight? | 6/6/2007 |
| Q: My name's Tom and i've been mastabating for quite a while now, and recently i have become slightly ... A: You are very welcome Tom. I think it must frustrate you at times when you are masturbating and you ... | |
| masturbation | 6/5/2007 |
| Q: i need new ways of masturbatiing! the only one i have tried that works for me is an electric ... A: Kellie, I understand what you are wanting. Sometimes sexual desires are so demanding. How long ... | |
| Masturbation | 6/3/2007 |
| Q: I have started masturbating and i am tired of just going up and down on my penis with my hands. I ... A: Bob, slow down and play. Play with your balls and the area all around your genitals. Take deep ... | |
| Foreskin to tight? | 5/31/2007 |
| Q: My name's Tom and i've been mastabating for quite a while now, and recently i have become slightly ... A: I think it will stretdh Tom. You should be able to play with it and just work it. Does it hurt ... | |
| masturbation | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: For a long period of time now i have been masturbating heavily up to 2 or 3 times a night. now i ... A: Yes, I'm afraid you have masturbated excessively. The first thing you need to do is cut back. Try ... | |
| objects | 5/28/2007 |
| Q: I there any household objects to masturbate analy that i dont need to buy. other that a shower thing A: Matt, if you are a beginner with anal masturbation why dont you buy a disposable douche for ... | |
| penis | 5/25/2007 |
| Q: how can my penis grow A: and thanks for your question. Your penis usually grows the most during your teen years. I dont ... | |
| i cant orgasm during masturbation what am i doing wrong? | 5/24/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old and i have been masturbating for a while but i have never had an orgasm I've ... A: Im glad they get hard. What is your cup size? Sensitive nipples and breasts are an advantage when ... | |
| i cant orgasm during masturbation what am i doing wrong? | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old and i have been masturbating for a while but i have never had an orgasm I've ... A: That could have something to do with it. You really need to relax when you masturbate. Relaxing ... | |
| i cant orgasm during masturbation what am i doing wrong? | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old and i have been masturbating for a while but i have never had an orgasm I've ... A: No Baby, a virgin can hump a pillow without any difficulty. Just get it up between your thighs when ... | |
| i cant orgasm during masturbation what am i doing wrong? | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old and i have been masturbating for a while but i have never had an orgasm I've ... A: why dont you give some details about your masturbation. HOw are you masturbating? Are you ... | |
| my penis size | 5/17/2007 |
| Q: hey. my name is David too! i recently turned 15. i always have thought my penis is small but i've ... A: it's nice to meet you. Your penis size is a very personal matter. Thank you for trusting me with ... | |
| Masturbation Habits | 5/15/2007 |
| Q: What is the length of time the average male masturbates for? I noticed several answers recommending ... A: Jason, as you might expect a masturbation session varies widely from one guy to another. Still ... | |
| intense orgasm | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: okay you have helped me a bit in the past and i thought you might be able to help me now i ... A: Samuel, thank you for your question. I understand the kind of orgasm you are wanting. Yeah, the ... | |
| Foreskin tugging | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: I am obsessed with my foreskin, but my mother caught me with weights attached to it, and she became ... A: Jarin, I agree with you. I dont want you to get circumcised. Our forskin has so much more sexual ... | |
| Rash on chest when masturbating.... | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old, and I've been masturbating for about four years now--maybe more, and I've never ... A: it sounds like you are having satisfying masturbation experiences except for this one concern. Do ... | |
| help me! | 5/11/2007 |
| Q: I am a 29 whoman who has never had an orgasm. I have tried masturbating, but I have never had an ... A: Sarah, give me some details on how you are masturbating. Is it all external, clitoris,labia, etc, ... | |
| how often? | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: how often should i masturbate? should it be once a day, once a week, etc? and, will the intensity of ... A: You are doing fine. Do you move your foreskin back and forth over your erect head? That is ... | |
| how often? | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: how often should i masturbate? should it be once a day, once a week, etc? and, will the intensity of ... A: Well Austin, my first question is do you feel satisfied after you masturbate to orgasm? And how ... | |
| Masturbation and the uncircumsized penis | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: My name is Nick and i am uncircumcised. I have been masturbating since about age 12 and have some ... A: You are very welcome Nick. I understand that it would not be as fulfilling that way. But you can ... | |
| Masturbation and the uncircumsized penis | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: My name is Nick and i am uncircumcised. I have been masturbating since about age 12 and have some ... A: I am always pleased to meet a young man who is uncircumcised. Our foreskin is so important. You ... | |
| is it okay? | 5/3/2007 |
| Q: I need your advice. is it alright to consume your own cum? ANSWER: It is not going to hurt you. ... A: David, is it a female or male that you would like to masturbate with? a special friend? or someone ... | |
| Excessive Masturbation | 5/1/2007 |
| Q: David Carney: I am suffering from health problems due to excessive masturbation. I have been having ... A: Andy, how many times per week are you masturbating now? My recommendation is to cut back to once a ... | |
| Masturbation and does it Premature Ejaculation | 4/30/2007 |
| Q: Compliments of the day! This is Rizwan, 22 (male) and badly needs you help. I am masturbating from ... A: Some men have had good results using avena sativa, an herb in capsule form. Also, it helps to ... | |
| problem in female masturbation | 4/29/2007 |
| Q: i'm a 17-year-old girl. i've been masturbating for about 3 years. i don't do it regularly, only when ... A: Flo, try changing positions as you masturbate. Start on your back with your legs open, turn onto ... | |
| Prolong the pleasure period | 4/28/2007 |
| Q: I asked my mother about how to prolong the pleasure period,extend the pleasure before ... A: the best thing to do is practice when you masturbate. Just hold your erect penis and rub it, being ... | |
| problem in female masturbation | 4/28/2007 |
| Q: i'm a 17-year-old girl. i've been masturbating for about 3 years. i don't do it regularly, only when ... A: Flo, I'm sure I can help that little problem of yours. thank you for your excellent question. So, ... | |
| Starting out.. | 4/28/2007 |
| Q: Im a 16 years old and a virign. Ive been wanting to try out masturbating for the first time but I am ... A: I'm sorry it hurt Brittany. I think you have a very sensitive clitoris. the hurting and the ... | |
| masturbation | 4/26/2007 |
| Q: hi my name is jaimi i have have tryed everything to masturbate but nothing is working i have a bf ... A: Jaimi, most guys like to watch a girl masturbate. If you are not comfortable with it, then ask him ... | |
| Um | 4/26/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 and a girl I'd like to know is it possible to have a g-spot orgasim if you're still a virgin? ... A: Amy, a gspot orgasm will be dificult to achieve. Virgins have a natural hindrance. Your hymen in ... | |
| masturbation | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: will a lot of masturbation make me infertile ANSWER: NO. ---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------can you ... A: MASTURBATING will not make you infertile. You will recomve if you begin ejaculating in modertion. ... | |
| first time masturbation | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: i'm 18 years old and my female friend is also 18. she has never masturbated in her life and i told ... A: Kevin, it will not hurt her to masturbate. Tell her to stimulate only her external genitals the ... | |
| trouble orgasming | 4/22/2007 |
| Q: Ok, I've been masturbating from about that age of 13 (now almost 17). What I've done has always felt ... A: I know this is very personal information. I am sure your breasts are quite pretty. Dont worry ... | |
| overmasturbation | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: Hey, I'm a 20 year old, and I've been masturbating in college about 15 times/week. I think that I ... A: Congratulations! How is it going? Have you missed a couple of days? I know its hard, but just try ... | |
| Is orgasm related to masturbation ? | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I'm 20 yr old male.I masturbate regularly....3 times a day (average).Is it a good practice in a ... A: Joey, you are masturbating a little too much. REgular masturbation is okay, but Im sorry to have to ... | |
| I need help.. How do i masturbate to please myself? | 4/20/2007 |
| Q: I have been masturbating for a while now.. i recently picked it back up again, and i'm really horny ... A: Angelia, you seem desperate, and I understand that. I know you need to masturbate. That is an ... | |
| trouble orgasming | 4/20/2007 |
| Q: Ok, I've been masturbating from about that age of 13 (now almost 17). What I've done has always felt ... A: Esther, sometimes smaller breasts are more sensitive overall, but larger breasts can have more ... | |
| I just can't masturbate anymore | 4/19/2007 |
| Q: Before I had sex with my boyfriend, I masturbated quite often. Since I had sex, I just can't. On ... A: Yes Breanne, it would be very nice to be able to please yourself, and I believe I can help you get ... | |
| question about uncircumcised masterbation | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: David, I’m a 17-year-old male that is uncircumcised. I have been masturbating since age 13 and have ... A: Madison, you came to the right place. I dont usually share this information, but I think you need ... | |
| Helping a friend | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old male and and i have a close friend(girl) that has never tryed masterbation and i ... A: Have you discussed it all with her? You might just tell her that you read statistics and you were ... | |
| How to stop? | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: I've been masturbating since I was about 12 and now I'm 15. I do it almost every night and I feel ... A: Ok honey, I understanad. Why dont you try to cut back starting today. For the next week do your ... | |
| How to stop? | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: I've been masturbating since I was about 12 and now I'm 15. I do it almost every night and I feel ... A: Regan, masturbating once a day is not really excessive. I find it a little dissapointing that you ... | |
| trouble orgasming | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: Ok, I've been masturbating from about that age of 13 (now almost 17). What I've done has always felt ... A: Esther, Im glad it has always felt good for you. I know how it makes you feel when you almost get ... | |
| Losing hope in ever exp. an orgasm. | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: I've been masturbating for the past 13 years and have been having sex for the past two years and yet ... A: Viki, I know you need the relief you mentioned. Once you get the red face and ragged breathing and ... | |
| Desensitizing lotions | 4/15/2007 |
| Q: im adam 24 y/o virgin male. i can easily bring myself to ejaculation within a few minutes. I would ... A: most of the lotions like that have the same active ingredient. Since you want to try it, get a name ... | |
| excessiveness... | 4/15/2007 |
| Q: I will not release my age, but I am willing to say and admit that I have masturbated most likely too ... A: Try cutting back to half the number of ejaculations you currently experience. At least once a day ... | |
| amount of ejaculation | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: As I get older I notice that the amount of fluid that I ejaculate when I orgasm is decreasing . I ... A: Try taking EFA's(omega 3 fatty acids). Flaxseed oil and fish oils are good. Buy the softgels. ... | |
| Excessive masturbation | 4/13/2007 |
| Q: im 15 years old and have been masturbating nearly everyday for about a year, the problem is, ... A: My first suggestion is to ask you to cut down. Start masturbating once a day for the next 2 weeks. ... | |
| Losing hope in ever exp. an orgasm. | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I've been masturbating for the past 13 years and have been having sex for the past two years and yet ... A: I can feel your frustration Honey. Please dont give up. So you have been masturbting since you ... | |
| How to stop? | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I've been masturbating since I was about 12 and now I'm 15. I do it almost every night and I feel ... A: Regan, masturbating does not mean you are a bd girl. Help me understand why you masturbate in your ... | |
| vaginal stimulation | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I am 25 years old and have had a couple of sexual partners. I have been masturbating since I was 18 ... A: I know you enjoy being really wet. And congratulations on your multiple orgasms. That is so sweet. ... | |
| how long? | 4/9/2007 |
| Q: I've read some of your answers and they have all been very informative, thank you. I would just like ... A: Tim, thank you for the generous comment. I think you are getting the general idea of how to make it ... | |
| No pre-cum | 4/9/2007 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old male in good health. When I masturbate however, I do not get any pre-cum. None ... A: I know its importand David. If it makes you feel better, I have the same situation. Most of my ... | |
| No pre-cum | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old male in good health. When I masturbate however, I do not get any pre-cum. None ... A: David, so you almost lost contol a few times. Thats tough isnt it? lol I know how that feels ... | |
| masturbation | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: i am 16 years of age i am curious when i masturbate i always go the full way to ejaculating and it ... A: You are welcome Samuel. Yes, it is common that the first orgasm is wonderful. ONe reason is that ... | |
| No pre-cum | 4/5/2007 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old male in good health. When I masturbate however, I do not get any pre-cum. None ... A: David, you may find that if you slow your masturbation, and take about 30 to 40 minutes to gradually ... | |
| masturbation | 4/4/2007 |
| Q: i am 16 years of age i am curious when i masturbate i always go the full way to ejaculating and it ... A: Samuel, You have a very nice-size penis. Be proud of it! The male prostate spot is between your ... | |
| hi | 4/4/2007 |
| Q: recently saw my friends sons uncut penis and its driving me crazy,hes 17.my hubby is cut and i never ... A: you have an exciting question. You have asked the right person. I have been living with an uncut ... | |
| Orgasm addict? | 4/3/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old and have been masturbating since I was probably around 12. However, in the past ... A: Bianca, orgasm is a beautiful thing. I can understand why you want all you can get. You do have a ... | |
| feeling | 4/2/2007 |
| Q: (i'm 14) whenever i masturbate, i can't really feel anything. i've even done the g-spot thing, but ... A: Jenna, are there any thoughts you have that cause you to feel aroused sexually?, a tingly feeling in ... | |
| maturbation | 3/31/2007 |
| Q: I woke up one night and found my son maturbating, I found this disturbing but I need to know why. ... A: Patt, I will try to discuss this as thoroughly as you will allow. I think I am hearing that you are ... | |
| Masturbation- cant hold for long | 3/31/2007 |
| Q: I recently started masturbating. I lie down on my back and rub my clit. After just 10 secs, the area ... A: Okay Sweetie, I understand. So many girls have this problem when they first try to masturbate. ... | |
| masturbation without ejaculation | 3/27/2007 |
| Q: I like to masturbate quite often without ejaculating, I feel more energized and stronger this way, ... A: Alex, waht you are doing is commedable because I know it is quite an achievement just to manage the ... | |
| Help please. | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: I have been masturbating for awhile now and I always get myself to a orgasm. I want to try something ... A: Whitney, you should be very pleased that you can always get yourself to an orgasm. That is ... | |
| help | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: what are some common house hold items i can use to masturbate? i dont have a motorized toothbrush ... A: Bekah, I only meant you may tear your hymen and that would hurt a little bit, and you would bleed ... | |
| masturbation | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: is it alrite to masturbate twice a time everyday? i have been masturbating 5 years only when im in ... A: I understand. sometimes your penis just gets hard and you need to do something, so you masturbate, ... | |
| masturbation | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: sir im 17 yrs &doing mast since14. whenever i see a beautiful girl or a sexy model i fell like to ... A: To masturbate after seeing a sexy girl is normal. How long does it take you to masturbate and make ... | |
| help | 3/22/2007 |
| Q: what are some common house hold items i can use to masturbate? i dont have a motorized toothbrush ... A: Bekah, Honey, I know you are really wanting to masturbate with something pushed up into your vagina. ... | |
| can't orgasm | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old and a virgin. I have been masturbating for quite a while. But I can't seem to ... A: Stacy, thank you for being clear with your answers. Of course you want to see what an orgasm feels ... | |
| masturbation and penis size | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: can early age masturbation stop penis size? A: The answer to your question sir is No. I dont know what agae you were when you started masturbating ... | |
| masturbation | 3/18/2007 |
| Q: is it alrite to masturbate twice a time everyday? i have been masturbating 5 years only when im in ... A: Johnny, you may be masturbating a little too much. I think your ejaculation would feel better to ... | |
| What are Kegel exercises? | 3/12/2007 |
| Q: and i am wondering what are Kegel exercises? Can only one sex do them? Just wondering. Also could ... A: To do Kegel exercises you need to do a little experiment to learn which muscles to contract. Whether ... | |
| My erection | 3/11/2007 |
| Q: Hey dave, is that alright to call you that? I'm fifteen and have asked you questions before so I ... A: Hey Clifford. Sure, you can call me Dave. Tell me more about your erection. If I could see a ... | |
| masturbating | 3/8/2007 |
| Q: hey i masturbate 5 time a week and im maride is that good for he ?? A: Eddy, that is a very good question. Before I can give you a good answer I need a little more ... | |
| sex | 2/28/2007 |
| Q: david.... its brigette again i feel bad about something.... it feels like before i ever had sex, i ... A: How are you doing Brigette? I hope things are going OK for you. Brigette, You are really ... | |
| masturbation | 2/26/2007 |
| Q: of course, the feelings towards those ladies cannot be changed by masturbation. please permit me to ... A: Yes Sir. I believe masturbating and ejaculating before the meeting will help your purposes. When ... | |
| Masturbation | 2/25/2007 |
| Q: Is it bad to masturbate 4-5 times a day? A: Masturbating 4 to 5 times every day is excessive. If you occasionally masturbate 5 times in a day ... | |
| cumming | 2/25/2007 |
| Q: ... well i think it lasted around average time, the thing is, i cant really ever tell if my orgasms ... A: No honey I didnt mean I like to watch men masturbate. I really like to watch women masturbate as I ... | |
| sorry | 2/22/2007 |
| Q: .. im sorry did..... my question bother u... u wanted to know what i meant and i tried to explain ... A: No, Brigette Honey, you did not offend me. I am so sorry. I havent been able to get to aneswering ... | |
| no pre cum | 2/22/2007 |
| Q: I know you are not a urologist but I have a question for you anyway since you answer questions on a ... A: Joseph, I want you to try something. Masturbate for an hour. Let yourself get close to ... | |
| How to Masterbate | 2/20/2007 |
| Q: Can U tell me a little more on how to stimulate the clitoris. I've tried rubbing but nothing ... A: Kim, I hope you have been able to masturbate every day. You may not orgam right now but at least ... | |
| cumming | 2/18/2007 |
| Q: its me again lol. i followed your advice, especially applying the general meaning from "trust my ... A: Again, my apologies for being so slow in answering. That orgasm you mentiontioned; you said it ... | |
| Masturbation | 2/9/2007 |
| Q: well david it takes me about 5 minutes to ejaculate. Is that normal? well i am going to try to cut ... A: Yes Charles it is normal to ejaculate after 5 minutes but I want you to change that. When you feel ... | |
| Male orgasm | 2/5/2007 |
| Q: Is it just me or is it strange? To me an orgasm is actually a let-down, it lets me know my session ... A: Others feel that way at times. There is a let-don after your orgasm. Sometimes ejaculation takes a ... | |
| can't orgasm | 2/4/2007 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old and a virgin. I have been masturbating for quite a while. But I can't seem to ... A: Let me ask a few questions. Just how long have you been masturbating? Years? Months? Have you ... | |
| masterbation | 2/3/2007 |
| Q: I TEND TO MASTERBATE EVERYDAY AND ALSO When I WATCH PORN VIDEOS i get the urge to masterbate. is ... A: Yes Daniel, You natually become sexually aroused when watching others engaging in sex acts. It is ... | |
| I find myself odd... and confused. | 1/24/2007 |
| Q: In response to your questions - I enjoy it when I masturbate. Afterwards, I feel guilty. And, don't ... A: Stone, I really dont disagree with you. there is a fine point that bothers me though. I believe ... | |
| Masturbation Problems | 1/23/2007 |
| Q: This is a really personal matter, which has had me worried for months now. I'm a 24 year old male. I ... A: I just read over your question and yes this is an extremely personal matter. But you shouldnt feel ... | |
| I find myself odd... and confused. | 1/23/2007 |
| Q: One more thing, during the years I masturbated the most... I started getting a strange skin ... A: Stone, do you still enjoy masturbating? I hope you do. Dont take a completely negative stance ... | |
| Paranoid? | 1/21/2007 |
| Q: I masturbate once or twice a week, and I always make sure I'm thoroughly clean and sanitized, ... A: Cid, listen to me. Stop worrying about your semen. Semen is clean, natural and nourishing. Your ... | |
| Masturbation and multiple orgasms | 1/19/2007 |
| Q: I do not have a partner, I'm masturbate,I'm female.I'm addicted to orgasm.Is it bad?Plus,can you ... A: I understand exactly what you are saying about needing to meet your needs. It is not bad. You have ... | |
| Penis Size | 1/19/2007 |
| Q: My name is Sean and I am 15. I hope you dont mind that im only 15 but you said under 13 couldnt ask ... A: Yes, a 5-inch erect penis is very nice for a 15-year-old. 4 times a week is good, as long you feel ... | |
| Orgasm and no orgasm | 1/18/2007 |
| Q: I am 20 now. Sometimes I feel orgasm and sometimes I can't. Would men feel orgasm everytime they ... A: Yes you need to orgasm every time you ejaculate. Stop trying to ejaculate. Start trying to make ... | |
| masterbating | 1/17/2007 |
| Q: sally again!. it worked that you so much. now for a toy. do you say a marker or banana A: You are doing fine Sally. If you really want to insert an object into your vaginal opening please ... | |
| Orgasm and no orgasm | 1/17/2007 |
| Q: . I started masturbating when I was 12. Until few weeks before I masturbated 3 to 4 times a week. ... A: Im sorry sir. I know it is no fun to ejaculate without orgasm. Unfortunately it does happen to ... | |
| orgasm/ejaculation | 1/14/2007 |
| Q: I am a 15 yr old male, and have been masturbating since I was about 12. Unfortunately when I ... A: You may need to delay your orgasm 5 or 6 times before allowing yourself to let go and enjoy it. ... | |
| masturbsting | 1/12/2007 |
| Q: alright, i lay on my bed and i dont know what to rb. i dont know where to find that. and no im not a ... A: How are you doing Sally? Is it feeling better Honey? Sally, ok lay on your bed nude and open ... | |
| dear 'samantha' | 1/10/2007 |
| Q: I am eighteen years old. I have an older (much older) boyfriend and he is my first sexual partner. I ... A: Take your time and relax with your maturbation Bri. I strongly recommend you get a clitoral suction ... | |
| female masturbation | 1/9/2007 |
| Q: i usually masturbate on the outside but i have recently inserted my middle finger into my vagina and ... A: Mandy, you need to become sexually aroused before you begin to masturbate. Be careful to relax and ... | |
| masturbsting | 1/8/2007 |
| Q: Alright, i dont know if im masterbating correctly. how do i know? and also what are some household ... A: Sally, are you rubbing your clitoris when you masturbate? Suppose you just tell me exactly what you ... | |
| would masturbation affect my future.. | 1/7/2007 |
| Q: my penis size is 5.1-5.2 when it gets hard... is that a good size to give pleasure to a girl? the ... A: You have an average size penis and that is enough to geve a girl what she needs. She will have a ... | |
| feamale masturbation | 1/6/2007 |
| Q: I'm a female - older than a I care to mention and I just can't seem to masturbate. I have no hang ... A: dont feel bad Honey; I can help you masturbate. Do you have any vibrators? Tere are acouple I ... | |
| I want to have orgasm | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: Will you please help me? I only masturbated 2 times. It felt good but I dont know how to have my ... A: It is very difficult to give a good answer unless I know your approximate age and I assume you are ... | |
| Masturbation and its effect | 12/30/2006 |
| Q: . I can't say if my semen is enough or not to make sex since I haven't had sex with any girl. But I ... A: Many females swallow semen when they perform oral sex on a male partner. It is not harmful. If you ... | |
| Masturbation and its effect | 12/29/2006 |
| Q: . Thanks for the answer. I know some energy is spent out in letting the semen out. To gain back the ... A: Eat a balanced diet. Use a multiple vitamin and use supplements like EFAs, selenium, zinc. ... | |
| Masturbation worries | 12/29/2006 |
| Q: OK thankyou heaps. But how mayn times should i masturbate a week? Also, is there anyway to train ... A: Johnie, you may feel like you need to masturbate every day at your age. And that is ok sometimes, ... | |
| Masturbation and its effect | 12/29/2006 |
| Q: Its me again, Prakash. On your advice I tried to reduce masturbation. Until now, I masturbated 3 ... A: Yes, semen is produced continually i n your body. After a few days or maybe a week, it is a good ... | |
| Climax & Masturbation Tequinies! | 12/28/2006 |
| Q: Heya. I've found a liking to masturbate when I can at the moment. Though I know what Climax is I ... A: yes climax, or orgasm, is the ecstasy of intense sexual release as your body responds to sexual ... | |
| female masturbation | 12/27/2006 |
| Q: Can you explain to me in detail how females can masturbate without a vibrator. It is very hard for ... A: Im sorry you are having trouble. Try this: when you are sitting on the couch watching tv or ... | |
| masturbating | 12/27/2006 |
| Q: i m 22 year male. I m doing masturbating since 1993. i have totally lost my health because of ... A: The best advice I cxan offer you is get your mind on other things. Take up a hobby. Get some ... | |
| plzz help! | 12/27/2006 |
| Q: i am 14. i love to masturbate. but i do not have any sex toys. i am too young. but i really want ... A: I understand your frustration Danielle. PLease be careful. I dont want you to get an infeciton. ... | |
| Destruction of Masterbation | 12/23/2006 |
| Q: I actually feel "a little" better now but a forgot to ask you this: Since I've stopped, I've been ... A: Becoming sexually aroused does use your energy supply, but at your age you should do ok with that. ... | |
| confused | 12/23/2006 |
| Q: My question is why is it a beautiful thing to hear and watch women get themselves off but when I guy ... A: no sir, that does not make you gay. If you want to see another guy get off that is a natural ... | |
| Penis Size/Masturbation | 12/22/2006 |
| Q: I am 16 in about 2 months, and my penis is just a little bit over 7 inches. Is that a good size? Is ... A: Since you asked Corey, no you should not have sex with her. YOur penis will prbably grow anoother ... | |
| Daily masturbation | 12/21/2006 |
| Q: I will let you know when I follow your instructions to the best. Thank you once again.Thanks for the ... A: You are very welcome. I hope you have been able to try pleasuring your penis with more freedom to ... | |
| length, of time taken, sexual performance | 12/19/2006 |
| Q: I'm an uncircumcised male of 18, masturbated since 15, in fact I discovered it quite by accident ... A: You are doing fine Jason. You are so right. It is much better to take too long than to have the ... | |
| I cant stop! | 12/18/2006 |
| Q: i am constantly hornery at the moment, i can masturbate for hours on end. please what can I do? A: Kate, honey, are you getting an orgasm? Do you reach a sexual climax when you masturbate? You may ... | |
| Daily masturbation | 12/18/2006 |
| Q: I will try to reduce the frequency. I believe I will do it. I let you when I achieve the goal. I ... A: You wont hurt anything by holding your semen in your foreskin that way, but you need the freedom of ... | |
| Masturbatuion | 12/17/2006 |
| Q: Hey I gt many probs......first of all i thnk i masturbate a lil too much......i try my best to stop ... A: Is your name really Ashley? You are doing fine. Try to keep it down to 3 or 4 times a week. ... | |
| Daily masturbation | 12/17/2006 |
| Q: .. I am a male and i am 19 now. I started masturbating at the age of 12, that is before puberty ... A: It is not unusual for a male to masturbate daily when he is young. Also some guys just have more ... | |
| Masturbation Re-training | 12/16/2006 |
| Q: OK, I had a BIG problem before that I THINK got solved: for whatever reason, I couldn't ejaculate ... A: Jay, effective male masturbation is very similar to female masturbation in so many ways. I ... | |
| I don't know if this goes in masturbation or not | 12/15/2006 |
| Q: I'm the same person who posted "Masturbation Research" in November, I figure this might be a good ... A: Charles, I appreciate you openess about this sexual activity involving an innocent girl. YOu need ... | |
| HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: okay im 14 right now. and i just knew how to marturbate properly like 2 months ago. since that day, ... A: Gracie, you are doing just fine honey. You have just learned how good it feels. Are you able to ... | |
| Masterbation | 12/12/2006 |
| Q: How can I make myself want to masturbate? A: Go to the website called the-clitoris.com Read about masturbation there. Do you get wet in your ... | |
| Over masturbation | 12/12/2006 |
| Q: David I READ ANSWERS TO ALMOST ALL THE QUESTIONS ABOUT MASTURBATION ON THIS SITE.I HAVE BEEN ... A: Ajay, you are not masturbating excessively but if it helps you have more enjoyable masturbation and ... | |
| time | 12/11/2006 |
| Q: how long should it take to reach ejaculation and if it is not very long does that mean I am a ... A: Travis you are doing fine. The reason you can reach ejjacilation in 2 minutes is because you know ... | |
| i cant get an orgasm | 12/9/2006 |
| Q: help me i just dont know how to get one i can feel the clitris but i dont know how to rub it i just ... A: you need to find out what turns you on. There are probably some things you think of that make you ... | |
| masterbation | 12/9/2006 |
| Q: i have recently got with a girl and we masterbate together i enjoy it but would like her to do it to ... A: Jack, ask her to use her tongue to lick your penis on the underside. Are you circumcised or do you ... | |
| Multiple q's | 12/2/2006 |
| Q: Where can I get a supplement like maca root or damiana leaf? Also, could you tell me more about ... A: You buy maca and damiana at any pharmacy, vitamin or health store, and most supermarkets. Catuaba ... | |
| not sure | 12/1/2006 |
| Q: Ok thanks. Well I usually do it at least 5 times a week, but only maybe 30 minutes at most. I get ... A: 5 to 7 times per week is just fine. While you are learning you may want to masturbate 2 times each ... | |
| Masturbation Research | 11/30/2006 |
| Q: First off I'd like to say thank you for posting your expertise here, it really helps people. Now to ... A: Masturbating is widely accepted now, not only among males but also females of ALL ages. In answer ... | |
| not sure | 11/30/2006 |
| Q: I would like to keep anonymousHi, I'm a 18 year old female and kind of confused. I haven't had sex ... A: OK Sweetie, I understand. The electirc toothbrish you are using should be giving you some very nice ... | |
| Recovery timespan | 11/29/2006 |
| Q: I'd like to know if it is possible to completely recover from overmasturbation, how long recovery ... A: I want you to relax. YOur penis is fine. I dont know what size it is, but it doesnt matter. When ... | |
| masturbation | 11/29/2006 |
| Q: I started masturbating a couple months ago. I am a 13 female. I'm really not sure what I can do to ... A: You need to learn to relax and stop trying to orgasm. Just try to make yourself feel good. I cant ... | |
| dildo's and masterbation | 11/29/2006 |
| Q: it feels dry though? when i use water it just drys up so what else can i use?are there any positions ... A: Sarah, try using KY jelly if you have some or any personal lubricant if you have it. You can also ... | |
| dildo's and masterbation | 11/28/2006 |
| Q: are there any positions that feel better then others when i masterbate?when you say that i should ... A: Try laying on your back with your legs wide apart and play with your clit and nipples and your ... | |
| Masturbation | 11/28/2006 |
| Q: Have You Any Tips To Give The Best Blow-Job Ever? Thanka,Clare x A: YEs I do, since you asked. Men enjoy it more when the young lady is kneeling and looking up into ... | |
| Masturbation | 11/28/2006 |
| Q: I'm a male in my early thirties and I masturbate and think about sex everyday. I started ... A: Richie, what you are doing sounds great. I bet you really enjoy the orgasms you get, but I know ... | |
| female masturbation | 11/27/2006 |
| Q: I want to try out masturbation, but I'm not quite sure how. Could you please describe in detail for ... A: Get in the mood for it. Its not all that different from male masturbation. YOu just play with your ... | |
| sex | 11/27/2006 |
| Q: why does my husband go into the living room after sex with me and masturbate? Am I not satisfing ... A: Waleska, tell me more about your sexual experience with him. Do you orgasm? Does he orgasm again ... | |
| dildo's and masterbation | 11/25/2006 |
| Q: i am 18 years old. I have recently been trying to find out household items that i can use for sex ... A: YEs , you probably pressed the tooth brush handle against your gspot. Thats ok honey. Keep ... | |
| Masturbation | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: I masturbate a lot. Sometimes 2 times a day. My girlfriend is worried with this. She wants me to ... A: Does she also masturbate? Maybe you could introduce her to mastubation. Does she stay with you as ... | |
| effect of masturbation | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old (male), and recently in a relationship. Both my partener and I get "horny" as we ... A: Chad, this is an excellent question. I am not sure but I think you are saying you are sexual with ... | |
| how to | 11/18/2006 |
| Q: How can i stimulate my g spot and where is it exactly ? A: Jessica, to stimulate your gspot effectively and get an ejaculation(thats what most women want from ... | |
| causes of excess masturbating | 11/17/2006 |
| Q: hi i am yogesh my age is 24 i am using my hand for past 4yr on daily basis to masturbate does it ... A: I think you are doing fine as long as your masturbating does not interfere with other activities you ... | |
| over masturbation | 11/15/2006 |
| Q: i am 18 yrs old now .. from age of 15 i have been masturbating. i did not knew lots about that in ... A: It is not so bad that you masturbated 3 times per day from age 15 to 17. I think you must have ... | |
| masturbating | 11/14/2006 |
| Q: im a teenager who is starting to have sexual sensations whatever you call it. i really want to ... A: Kacie, get a hand-held morror. You will find it. It is very small, the size of a pea or smaller. ... | |
| I'm "addicted" to masturbation - help | 11/11/2006 |
| Q: I'm a 17-year-old male, and I have been masturbating since I was about 10, and ever since then it's ... A: probably the best thing you can do is focus your attention elsewhere. What are your interests? Do ... | |
| Am I gay? | 11/11/2006 |
| Q: would you teach me some techniques?thanks for the fast response time.. just one more question when ... A: I think the best is advice is just get to know your body. Experiment with what feels good, use fast ... | |
| Am I gay? | 11/10/2006 |
| Q: . just one more question when I mastrubate, I use a dry hand and a dry cock, do you think I should ... A: John, thank you for your question. Since you asked, my personal experience is I usually do better ... | |
| Am I gay? | 11/10/2006 |
| Q: . I am 17, and have a girlfriend, but I always think about what it would be like to have sex with a ... A: John, it is not uncommon for guys to masturbate together or for girls to masturbate together when ... | |
| Multiple Orgasms | 11/9/2006 |
| Q: Is there a type of woman who tends to have multiple orgasms? Color of hair? A: John, I am not aware of any particular type of woman who has multiple orgasms more easily. ... | |
| Eager.. | 11/6/2006 |
| Q: Hey again. I'm sorry if I'm becoming a bit of a pest, seeing that here I am asking questions again ... A: Frank, you are not a pest. I apologize for not responding more quickly. I know how important this ... | |
| Firmness while masturbating | 11/5/2006 |
| Q: Im 21 years old and I have been masturbating since i was almost 13, usually only once a day, ... A: if the lack of firmness continues you should see your doctor. Several times a week is not uncommon ... | |
| Over-masturbation | 11/5/2006 |
| Q: Im a 21 yr old male. I'm healthy, athletic, and workout every workday. I have been masturbating ... A: OK, I want you to listen carefully. You need to stop the additional ejaculating. Its fine to have ... | |
| More info on masturbation | 11/4/2006 |
| Q: It was very informative for me. A lot of the things you said ring true. My semen is often thin and ... A: What different positions do you use while masturbating? And do you sometimes change your position ... | |
| How much is too much? | 11/3/2006 |
| Q: I'm just wondering how much masturbation is too much masturbation? I'm 18 years old and have been ... A: Masturbating is such a private matter, its sometimes hard to talk about. I understand that and I ... | |
| too much masturbation | 10/31/2006 |
| Q: I am a 41 yo man, I have been masturbating since I can not remember. I have been married for 18 ... A: I know it is hard for you. First of all be assured there are many men doing the same things you are ... | |
| masturbation and weight loss | 10/26/2006 |
| Q: i am greatly worried because i masturbate at least once a day and i can't put on weight even though ... A: No, the masturbation is not causing your problem. If it were that easy and pleasurable to lose ... | |
| over masturbation | 10/25/2006 |
| Q: I am a 30 year old male. Since about the age of 15 I have constantly masturbated 2-3 time a day. I ... A: I think it is safe to say that masturbating 2 or 3 times every day is excessive. Thin, low vulume ... | |
| masturbating | 10/23/2006 |
| Q: Yes I am 19 you can go into detail. A: OK dear, I know you want to feel good and you are having trouble masturbating. Its not that unusual ... | |
| is it too young | 10/22/2006 |
| Q: .now i am 20 years old and im still on with my masturbation..im sometimes worried about what i have ... A: It is normal to masturbate. Dont worry about your past. You havent hurt anything. Just look ... | |
| official | 10/21/2006 |
| Q: what r the sideeffects of masturbating.its good 4 health. A: If you masturbate in moderation (2 or 3 times per week) you should not notice any side effects. In ... | |
| masturbation | 10/21/2006 |
| Q: im a 28 y/o female and i like to listen to and watch my younger sister masturbate when i'm ... A: Im not sure I am qualified to answer your question. What age is your sister? What is her position ... | |
| Addicted to masturbation,, | 10/19/2006 |
| Q: Your right i do feel exhausted from orgasming so many times in a row. I have intercourse about twice ... A: that is a wonderful report. I am so proud of you! You said you are thinking of intercourse more ... | |
| Addicted to masturbation,, | 10/18/2006 |
| Q: Im a female and im 21 years old. i am healthy and have a very active sex life however I find myself ... A: it is wonderful that you are able to masturbate only 15 seconds and trigger an orgasm for yourself. ... | |
| over masturbation is it harmful? | 10/18/2006 |
| Q: I find myself masturbating alot, i rarely date because of it being a chore. I can say i do it at ... A: the short answer to your question is yes. NOw, let me suggest you cut back some. Do you think you ... | |
| masturbating | 10/17/2006 |
| Q: i started humping my stuffed animal the 1st time i did it. it felt sooo good that i had to stop. but ... A: Kacie, have you tried using a hand mirror? That is usually what I recommend. Since I dont know ... | |
| masturbating | 10/16/2006 |
| Q: whats the best thing to use for masturbating like lubricants Petroleum jelly, .......... A: I assume you are male, although it doesnt make much difference. Males and females can use the same ... | |
| Potency | 10/14/2006 |
| Q: Okay. I'll try my hardest to commit to this. It's just that I'm kind of addicted... Thank you. One ... A: I know you feel like you need to mastubate. I understand that. But how are you doing? Is once a ... | |
| i am suffering from weakness after urination. | 10/13/2006 |
| Q: respeted sir, i am 27 years old, in the early age(class5th) i have started ... A: I cautiously recommend you take some natural herbal supplements if you do not have any physical ... | |
| masturbation | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: i'm 24 years old and i have been masturbating since i was 15. it only takes me one or two minutes to ... A: When you masturbate take your time. Dont finish in less than 20 minutes for the next 3 weeks. STOP ... | |
| Potency | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: I'm masturbating 2-3 times daily, and I take multiple AHD medicines. Retinalol, AdderallXR, and ... A: yes, masturbating excessively day after day will cause fatigue and other symptoms. And masturbating ... | |
| Potency | 10/10/2006 |
| Q: I've been having problems with masturbation recently. I am... ...young, and I am worried. Will ... A: Chris, What makes you think your masturbation is excessive? I mean 2 or 3 times a day every day is ... | |
| semen | 10/9/2006 |
| Q: when i go to sleep my semen comes out. i am 22(male) and this has happened to me so many times, i ... A: The wet dreams are fine. It's nature's way of expelling excess semen. Your body replenishes Semen ... | |
| masturbating daily. | 10/8/2006 |
| Q: i have been masturbating daily since the age of 15. I am now 38 years old and a male. Are there any ... A: Frequent masturbation sometimes causes a feeling of fatique or listlessness, but for most men when ... | |
| Bisexual? | 10/6/2006 |
| Q: I've always thought I was straight because I love guys.. However recently My new group of friends ... A: you are asking a very interesting question. Its hard for me to give you a definite answer since I ... | |
| Question about prolonged masterbation and long term effect | 10/5/2006 |
| Q: Two days ago I had masterbated for about 5 hours with short urinating breaks and maybe a phone call ... A: Yes, if you let it rest a few days it should get better. If it doesnt, then you should see a ... | |
| masturbation | 10/4/2006 |
| Q: hey iam currently 18,male, with no health issues. My question is that i have been masturbating ... A: the first thing I wnaat you to do is slow down. I mean masturbate very slowly. Try to masturbate ... | |
| Worried about masturbation consequences | 10/2/2006 |
| Q: I am a 31 year old male, and have been masturbating more than once daily since I was 10. At first, ... A: I am not so concerned that you have masturbated excessively for many years. What you need to do is ... | |
| does masturbation affect orgasms? | 10/2/2006 |
| Q: I am 19 year old female and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I have been masturbating for ... A: Kristi, I am so sorry. There is nothing wrong with you honey because you are able to masturbate ... | |
| Masterbation. | 9/26/2006 |
| Q: Thanx for ur mail.Im getting my questions answered. Im 5.7'' and weighing at 57kgs.And Try to ... A: YOu can order a penis pump on the internet. Some are only 15 or 20 doallars. The are ok to use, ... | |
| masterbating for prolonged periods | 9/25/2006 |
| Q: my name is mark. I am a 29 year old male. I am healthy, exersice daily, no medical conditions. ... A: the prolonged masturbation, 2 to 3 hours every day could be affecting your prostate and the muscles ... | |
| Wanking? | 9/22/2006 |
| Q: How is the best way to masturbate. Is it over a porn movie, on your own or thinking of your ... A: There are different ways and techniques. Try breathing slow and deep, trying to say relaxed as you ... | |
| masturbation | 9/21/2006 |
| Q: im 16 and a male and i have always wanted to masturbate outside but i dont know were i should do it ... A: I understand your desire. The problem is if anyone sees you it is not legal and you could even ... | |
| masterbating could harm clit | 9/10/2006 |
| Q: can it harm your clitoris if you masterbate to much i masterbate almost every day and love to put ... A: that sounds wonderful. Are you getting very wet when you masturbate this way? That will not harm ... | |
| The PC Muscle | 9/10/2006 |
| Q: I've been studying Tantra for a few months now, and I've been working out the PC muscle for a few ... A: You are doing great Eddy. The best thing for you to do now is keep experimenting. Or you might buy ... | |
| need to ask | 9/6/2006 |
| Q: when i make a masterbusion i feeling with haed pain which make me canoot enjoy ejacualtion thats due ... A: Try some natural supplemnts for your prostate: saw palmetto and pygium are excellent for reducing ... | |
| Penis | 9/6/2006 |
| Q: i have a very small penis and i don't want guys in the locker room to think of me different so how ... A: There are many productcts on the market to enlarge your penis, but I am not sure any of them really ... | |
| masturbation | 9/3/2006 |
| Q: I am a 22 year old female from India. I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and i used ... A: will you please do something to help me answer your question. Just describe what you are doing now ... | |
| errect | 9/2/2006 |
| Q: i have been doing musterbatting since i was child ( 9 years old) its bit funny but its true at that ... A: YOu are doing very well. Try to go at least a week between masturbaitng to ejaculation. If you ... | |
| The Big O | 9/2/2006 |
| Q: I am 20 years old and never had an orgasm. It is really getting to me because no matter what i try i ... A: You can and will experience orgasm. I want you to consider getting some maca capsules and follow ... | |
| How can you do it the best??? | 8/30/2006 |
| Q: Hey, i have been mastibating for like 3 years now, and it is begaining to get... not as cool, the ... A: Chris, let me know how often you are masturbating. Do you ejaculate each time? Try slowing down ... | |
| Is it too late | 8/28/2006 |
| Q: I', ninteen years old and have been masturbating regulary since i was fourteen.Until recently i ... A: I need you to answer some questions. How many times per day are you masturbating this week, on ... | |
| errect | 8/28/2006 |
| Q: i have been doing musterbatting since i was child ( 9 years old) its bit funny but its true at that ... A: The masturbating probably did not cause the blood you referred to. I want you to try this: Stop ... | |
| girlfriends masturbation | 8/20/2006 |
| Q: my gf and i are both virgins. the problem is that i dont think my gf knows wat shes feeling. shes ... A: It sounds as if she is really enjoying the clitoral stimulation. Why dont you concentrate on that ... | |
| can i be cured from over masturbation effects? | 8/19/2006 |
| Q: i feel alot better now after reading it and will take your advice. I have been married for 13 ... A: Chad, you are doing great. Thanks for taking the challenge seriously. I know you are wanting to ... | |
| can i be cured from over masturbation effects? | 8/18/2006 |
| Q: I am a 35 yr old male with no health issues. But i do have a concern that is bothering me now. I ... A: Hey Chad. Relax Bud, its going to be OK. I know this is a serious matter and you are feeling ... | |
| heelp | 8/17/2006 |
| Q: I am a 19-year-old male. I have read that over time masturbation can cause the self-destruction of ... A: The best thing you can do is stop masturbating for a couple of weeks and you should get your stamina ... | |
| Girlfriend Uses Rampant Rabbit | 8/17/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I dont have sex that often, we live together and its usually once every few weeks. ... A: Pete, I understand your situation. We are hearing of so many young women today who masturbate on a ... | |
| heelp | 8/16/2006 |
| Q: I am a 19-year-old male. I have read that over time masturbation can cause the self-destruction of ... A: I believe excessive masturbation can cause problems. It depends on how much you masturbate and ... | |
| Can't stop | 8/14/2006 |
| Q: Hey, I'm a 21 year old healthy male. I am not ashamed to say that I have been masturbating since I ... A: I understand what you are going through. YOU wont like my answer but it can be done. You need to ... | |
| Boyfriends Masturbating | 8/13/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend is 25 and before him and I started dating, was a virgin. He has been masturbating 2 to ... A: and for being open. I will discuss your boyfriend's problem with you, but Michelle I am more ... | |
| masturbating too much? | 8/12/2006 |
| Q: My name is Emily, my boyfriend and I are both 16, and he wants to know if there is a problem with ... A: Many young men go through this. But he should keep it down to once a night or less. 2 or 3 times ... | |
| going the distance: extending sex | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old, and my girlfriend, 17, and I have been dating for 11 months. While we are only ... A: I dont know how often you are masturbating to orgasm and ejaculation. That could make a difference. ... | |
| Help with masturbation | 8/9/2006 |
| Q: Greetings. I am 21, and have been masturbating since I was about 13. I do have a few toys, but my ... A: Just wondering how you are doing. I have only recommended the sites once before. Please let me ... | |
| masturbating too much---recovery | 8/9/2006 |
| Q: Hey David, From about the age of 14-18 I masturbated somewhat frequently; for sake of argument lets ... A: OK Andrew. I cant be sure , but it could be that your adrelnals are exhausted. If you dont have ... | |
| I don't masturbate | 8/7/2006 |
| Q: I am 20 years old and I have been having sex for 2 years. I have never masturbated or achieved an ... A: Katy, if you awnt to experience orgasm it is necessary to masturbate yourself or have another person ... | |
| Masterbation-The G-spot | 8/5/2006 |
| Q: I read some of your advice to other women on masterbating, the g-spot. I tried it. After about an ... A: So you spent an hour masturbating your gspot. That is great! You really did do quite well if that ... | |
| masterbation and orgasm | 8/4/2006 |
| Q: I am a 33 female who has a normal sex drive. I never masterbated as a kid and i really do not know ... A: I noticed your question and I think I can help you. You must be feeling pretty frustrated since you ... | |
| Masturbation and Squirting | 8/4/2006 |
| Q: But how do I kegel exercises to strengthen my orgasm muscle group,and how do i know i have found my ... A: To find your gspot, push your finger into your vagina. On the front wall of your vagina, about 2 ... | |
| Masturbation and Squirting | 8/4/2006 |
| Q: But how do I kegel exercises to strengthen my orgasm muscle group,and how do i know i have found my ... A: I am happy to hear from you. Kegel exercises. Do this. When you feel the need to empty your ... | |
| long masturbation sessions without orgasm 2 | 8/3/2006 |
| Q: Is it dangerous in anyway to masturbate, have sex or both, for more than, lets say 7 days, but ... A: There are two sides to this answer. Congratulations! First, it is a wonderful thing to be able ... | |
| Masturbation and Squirting | 8/2/2006 |
| Q: Well I Have use two of my fingers when i masturbate,It take a while for me to orgasm about 30 min,I ... A: I understand your desire to masturbate to a full orgasm with ejaculation. Female ejaculation is ... | |
| What is Difference between masturbation and jelqing? | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: I would like to know the difference between masturbating and jelqing. When I masturbate, I put my ... A: NO, you are not jelquing, you are masturbating. You do get an ejaculation when you do that, right? ... | |
| squirt | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: how do i get my self to squirt! A: Read the answer sent to Mel about GSPOT. I think it was an expert on female masturbation who ... | |
| I cant orgasm | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: I push him off because its almost like it feels to good, its like not being able to handle the pain, ... A: I understand honey. You are needing sexual release. Have you tried any of the supplements or the ... | |
| Period | 7/31/2006 |
| Q: I am 14 years old. I know that some girls don't have there period for a couple more years, but I ... A: Erin, your doctor can help you answer that question. I want to put your mind at ease. Rubbing your ... | |
| shameful at my age | 7/28/2006 |
| Q: I am in my middle sixties and I feel ashamed because I would like to have sex by means of ... A: Nancy, if you need sex by masturbation, then you need it. It is that simple. No, do not feel ... | |
| I cant orgasm | 7/27/2006 |
| Q: Im 19years old and Ive never had an orgasm. Ive been with quiet a few people and even with guys who ... A: I am proud of you for presenting your question. So many young women have the same difficulty you ... | |
| Masturbation and depression | 7/26/2006 |
| Q: I am a sixteen year old male and ever since i began masturbation i have felt depressed, guilty and ... A: George, I honestly dont know what advic3e would be best for you. Do you want to talk to your doctor ... | |
| pee? | 7/25/2006 |
| Q: why when i masturbate inwardly, and when i take my fingers out of my vagina does pee come out? A: It may not be pee at all honey. That is probably your natural feminine lubrication. It is one way ... | |
| Masturbating: Good or Bad for sex | 7/24/2006 |
| Q: I was wondering, does masturbating make you cum fast er during sex. Ive heard that it reduces the ... A: Actually Daniel, you can train your body to do what you are wanting by denying yourself ejaculation. ... | |
| Obsessed with anal masturbation | 7/23/2006 |
| Q: I guess ultimately everyone has to figure it out alone, but other's help is very welcome. As for the ... A: You have a very healthy outlook, and I must say I agree that anal can leave you empty and still ... | |
| long masturbations sessions without orgasm | 7/18/2006 |
| Q: Male,30 years old, living with a partner (woman), sexually active, good healt. Out of my sexual ... A: I dont know of any dangers associated with masturbating in that way. I have practiced it myself. ... | |
| masturbation | 7/18/2006 |
| Q: recently i have been masturbating in my sisters bed and in her cloths. My sister is on holiday for a ... A: Luke, I can understand how you must feel, being close to her things. I dont know whether she ... | |
| I dont know how to masturbate | 7/15/2006 |
| Q: Followup To Question - Hello, I am 25 years old and have been having sex for 8 months now. I have ... A: Its nice to hear from you Lauren. I have a couple of suggestions for you. Maca root is a natural ... | |
| I dont know how to masturbate | 7/11/2006 |
| Q: I am 25 years old and have been having sex for 8 months now. I have yet to orgasm as I still can not ... A: yes I can help you, dont lose the pocket rocket. WE will use it later. Has it ever helped you? ... | |
| anal masturbation | 7/7/2006 |
| Q: Is stretching your anal open dangerous by using Butt Plugs and dildoes. I have ejaculated without ... A: How long have you been inserting objects into your anus? It probably depends on how often you use ... | |
| did i cum? | 7/6/2006 |
| Q: my boyfriend was fingering me and i had the sensation that i had to pee but it still felt good and ... A: To answer your question, o yes it can build up to that in 2 days or 1 day sometimes. Thank you for ... | |
| did i cum? | 7/4/2006 |
| Q: my boyfriend was fingering me and i had the sensation that i had to pee but it still felt good and ... A: Delicia, tell me more about the sensations you felt. Did you make any noises in your throat? Did ... | |
| anal masturbation | 7/4/2006 |
| Q: i was wrighting to ask, well you see im straight and everything but ive heard that if i stimulate my ... A: get a biginner size butt plug or use a female douche pipe, but you ned to put a condom on it. just ... | |
| Stories and Toys | 7/4/2006 |
| Q: Hey. I am a young female. Do you know a sight where you can get the best erotic stories for free, ... A: You can use google to look up masturbation or sex stories. There are lots of things you can use if ... | |
| anal masturbation objects | 6/27/2006 |
| Q: I masturbate alot and I got curios adout anal masterbation.Can you give me a list of things to ... A: You can use the female vibrators and dildos. Get a beginners butt plug, anal beads, or use ... | |
| Masturbation frequency. | 6/27/2006 |
| Q: I will, try and give you details about it. Its actually not as bad as it may sound. But what someone ... A: This so important when determining what course of action you should take with your masturbation. I ... | |
| Sex | 6/26/2006 |
| Q: Okay well, I put a name of the song as my name because I'm shy, I don't know why. I'm not sure if ... A: You need to stop having sex with her. Learn to keep it in your pants or she will be prgnant very ... | |
| Masturbation frequency. | 6/25/2006 |
| Q: I'm 20 years old, and have been masturbating for the last 3 and a half years or so. I masturbate ... A: Santosh, I dont want you to worry about your masturbation frequency. I will try to help you. Let ... | |
| Muscle | 6/22/2006 |
| Q: My question is quite simple. Does doing this action of ejactulation cause someone to lose muscle ... A: Mitchell, this is debated often and my take on it is this. The sex act with orgasm and ejaculation ... | |
| masturbation and sex | 6/18/2006 |
| Q: when you masturbate and have sex, do you lose muscle building protiens?and do you lose eneregy? if ... A: When you ejaculate the semem contains proteins, but this is a natural part of being a male. It ... | |
| Masturbation | 6/15/2006 |
| Q: i am a frequent masturbator from the age of 13. i masturbate once almost daily. Usually seeing some ... A: Yes, you are probably experiencing premature ejaculation. The key word is 'relax' RELAX BEFORE YOU ... | |
| Time before ejaculation. | 6/15/2006 |
| Q: so this quesiton may be a bit funny. I masterbate, and I have noticed that I can maintain the ... A: Yes, you need to relax more. Do Kegel exercises. Read some of my answers about masturbating. As ... | |
| How to restrain myself from masturbating. | 6/12/2006 |
| Q: I'm aware of the fact that masturbation is a perfectly healthy sexual activity for teenage boys. ... A: you are asking a question that many young men want to ask. The best deterrent I know of is to ... | |
| Masturbate | 6/9/2006 |
| Q: i am a male my name John , I am 15 year old i am started doing masturbation since the age of 14 , ... A: John, you asked for my advice and I will give it. Because of your young age I suggest you talk to ... | |
| masturbation techniques? | 6/6/2006 |
| Q: I am 17, and started masturbating last year. I do get orgasm's just by using my fingers. I do not ... A: I would love for you to send me your comments. I want to know how you are doing. Feel free to use ... | |
| Squirting cum | 6/5/2006 |
| Q: Male, When i reach orgams or cumming, my cum just won't squirting out just like in some websites ... A: If you are ejaculating with orgasm after only 10 to 20 seconds, you need to relax more and enjoy ... | |
| masturbation | 6/4/2006 |
| Q: I masturbate a lot and its like an addiction, i cant seem to stop. I think ive done it so much that ... A: Jake, I found your original question. One thing I can suggest is that you try to figure out what is ... | |
| masturbation | 5/31/2006 |
| Q: i am 22yrs old.i maturbate 2-3 times a day.right from teenage till today,i have been masturbating ... A: I understand what you are saying aobut masturbating laying face-down on the bed thrusting into the ... | |
| Is too much of masturbation decreases the penis. | 5/26/2006 |
| Q: there, I masturbate once a day, i even have galfriend.so one day she said that my penis is little ... A: Karthik, dont worry. Your penis may have been a little smaller because it was overworked. In other ... | |
| mastubation | 5/22/2006 |
| Q: how do u mastubate properly to get an orgasm? A: I need a little more information. I will be happy to give you some information to help you ... | |
| Desensitizing lotions | 5/19/2006 |
| Q: I have masturbated with a desensitizing lotion a few times recently. It is great in that I can ... A: Brian, it sounds like you are enjoying the extra time you have to feel the pleasurable sensations of ... | |
| Orgasm and such | 5/17/2006 |
| Q: I am 14 years old. I think I may be a lesbian or bi sexual.. I get turned on while watching lesbian ... A: NIcole, I will give you many tips and I will help you make your experience last longer when you are ... | |
| Too Young? | 5/10/2006 |
| Q: Okay, this is really embarrasing, but do you think 12 is too young to start masturbating? Thanks A: Marie, not everyone begins to masturbate at the same age. There are many factors. Some girls do ... | |
| umm hi | 4/27/2006 |
| Q: yeh thanks alot ill consider cutting down to once a day or around 5 times a week or something , but ... A: Physically, there will be no long-term effect. It is not so unusual for an adolescent to masturbate ... | |
| Why haven't I gotten my period? | 4/4/2006 |
| Q: Followup To Question -Hello my name is Lindsey, this is quite embarressing but i figure its getting ... A: While I dont know how big around the shampoo bottle was, I wonder if what you did was to finish ... | |
| Why haven't I gotten my period? | 4/3/2006 |
| Q: Followup To Question - Hello my name is Lindsey, this is quite embarressing but i figure its ... A: Lindsey, I dont believe you injured your cervix when you pushed the object far up into your vagina. ... | |
| Why haven't I gotten my period? | 3/31/2006 |
| Q: this is quite embarressing but i figure its getting around to that time and i'm getting worried. I ... A: Lindsey, I am trying to answer you as quickly as possible because I sense this is a very important ... | |
| Why haven't I gotten my period? | 3/30/2006 |
| Q: this is quite embarressing but i figure its getting around to that time and i'm getting worried. I ... A: Lindsey, your question is really about 3 different issues. I want to address them individually, but ... | |
| need to know | 3/22/2006 |
| Q: i m suffering from phonomena it is the first time to me to disclose it , this phenomena i suffering ... A: After hearing what you have to say, I know I am not qualified to give the help you need. If you ... | |
Masturbation
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I can answer a variety of questions about masturbation. When an individual is beginning to masturbate(especially females), there can be so many questions and some just need a few tips to get started. I also address special interest topics such as 'how can I make it feel better when I masturbate?', body movement and sounds that happen during masturbation, prolonged masturbation, extending the plateau phase, multiple orgasm, and improving intensity of orgasm. Dont be apprehensive about asking what you need to know. Recent statistics show that 75% of women and almost 100% of men masturbate by their 18th birthday. Masturbating is a normal part of growing and the experiences can be stimulating , refreshing, and satisfying for both males and females. You will find a link below to a video that explains and illustrates female masturbation. It is tastefully done and each action and feeling is explained in detail. Since it is illustrated, of course there is nudity. It is, however, presented in a professional manner and the demonstration is actual masturbation, not poronographic exaggerations or profanity. I am pleased with the presentation and hope you will view it if you choose to learn more, and if you are not offended by the nude female body. http://www.xvideos.com/video683837/female_masturbation_instruction
Experience
10+ years teaching individuals and answering questions specific to anatomy, masturbation and orgasm.
Please be as clear and detailed as you can with your question.
Education/Credentials
Instruction in Alternative medicine and extensive research in specialized sex therapy, orgasm enhacement, and masturbation tecniques that lead to intense sexual release with emphasis on satisfaction for females.
Past/Present Clients
I have been privileged to help many women and a few men via email and instant messaging
Masturbating is beneficial. Females have more to gain from it than males. During masturbation females learn what it takes to satisfy their urges and cravings and find the sexual release their body needs.
I have helped many young ladies achieve their first orgasm.
One middle-age woman who was not sure she had ever experienced an orgasm, began to masturbate to orgasm 2 to 4 times a week after we worked together for a while.
In several cases, a woman experienced her first episode of multiple orgasms while experimenting with the exercises and assignments given her. Recently, 2 women were able to release more completly as they found the body-wracking pleasure and excitement of gspot orgasm.
Some have been helped to build up to more intensely satisfying orgasms, or simply to make it feel better, to learn to get extreme sexual pleasure during their time of relaxing and personal enjoyment, even if there is no orgasm; its OK. Maybe I can help you get more sexual pleasure and satisfaction.
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