AboutDavid Carney Expertise This information is intended for adults. Please do not submit a question if you are under age 18. I can answer a variety of questions about masturbation for both males and females: When an individual is beginning to masturbate(especially females), there can be so many questions and some just need a few tips to get started. I also address special interest topics such as 'how can I make it feel better when I masturbate?', body movement and sounds that happen during masturbation, prolonged masturbation, extending the plateau phase, multiple orgasm, and improving intensity of orgasm. Dont be apprehensive about asking what you need to know. Recent statistics show that 75% of women and almost 100% of men masturbate by their 18th birthday. Masturbating is a normal part of growing and the experiences can be stimulating , refreshing, and satisfying for both males and females.
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Past/Present Clients I have been privileged to help both women and men via email and instant messaging
Masturbating is beneficial for both sexes. Females have more to gain from it than males. During masturbation females learn what it takes to satisfy their urges and cravings and find the sexual release their body needs.
I have helped many young ladies achieve their first orgasm.
One middle-age woman who was not sure she had ever experienced an orgasm, began to masturbate to orgasm 2 to 4 times a week after we worked together for about 2 months.
Another woman experienced her first episode of multiple orgasm as she experimented with the exercises and assignments given her.
Some have been helped to build up to more intensely satisfying orgasms, or simply to make it feel better, to learn to get extreme sexual pleasure during their time of relaxing and personal enjoyment, even if there is no orgasm; its OK. Maybe I can help you make it feel good. Let me try.
Question i am 18 yrs old now .. from age of 15 i have been masturbating. i did not knew lots about that in those periods i did nearly 3 times a day.later around 17 i tried to stop it. but my efforts were in vain. but still i controlled my self to twice 2 week . for past one week i hav stopped.now for past one year i had buzzing in my ears . now (for few months)a slight head ache. then i came to know that these side effects are due to over masturbation. now i have decided to stop. will my activities for past 3 years affect my sex life in my 30s and above. wil my buzzing in ears stop if i stop masturbating . is there i have to fear about these buzzing in ears . the slight head ache is also occurring a very few times only. i hav decided to stop masturbating for atlest one month . so that it would become a practice later that i masturbate less . very very less. is this adviceable . please give me a solution for my confussed mind.
Answer Hello Sir, thank you for your question. It is not so bad that you masturbated 3 times per day from age 15 to 17. I think you must have found a great deal of satisfaction. For younger males and females I usually recommend they masturbte once each day if they feel the need. Some reach orgasm as many as 5 times on some days, and others once a week or not at all.
Masturbating is a personal preference and a very personal act. Some sites are now advising that complete privacy is not needed for every act of masturbation. Intense pleasure can be almost overwhelming when it is shared with another person or persons, whether male or female.
Since you feel the masturbation is causing difficulties for you, I believe your decision to stimulate your genitals less frequently is a wise one. However, my belief is that what you have done(masturbating excessively) in your teens will not cause you sexual problems later in life. It may help you to know what you personally need to be satisfied sexually. My advice is that you masturbate when you feel the need, but learn to control your ejaculation. Learn to masturbate slowly for the pleasure you get while holding your testicles and squeezing and stroking your erect sensitive penis. Make it feel good, but dont ejaculate every time. It is an achievable goal.
