Expert: Michael Carleon - 10/1/2009

Question
Hello. I am 12 and only in the Seventh Grade, but I know about fetishes/sex/etc. Anyway, I have had a tickle fetish for tickling girls my age (which I haven't actually done) for as long as I can remember. Only my sister knows. Now that I'm in 7th Grade and I have some other emotional pressure setting in, I find that, because I like to draw, drawing pictures and comics that involve women getting tickled erotic, but at the same time relaxing. I find myself drawing images of girls being tickled and for them begging for it to stop. I don't feel that guilty about this, but I wonder if this is sadistic and wrong. I know most people who have these fetishes enjoy being tickled, and when they say "stop" it means stop. But I just don't know what to do about this. Please help me.

Answer
Hello 7th grader,

Seems you are highly matured for your age and are experiencing the beginning of adult hood.  This is totally normal, do not think in anyway that this is wrong.  Best thing to do, is continue doing what you are doing and things will work out for you.  Be sure that when you do start making moves on girls, that you should try explaining your fetish to them, I am sure they will more than likely enjoy it =]

Keep your mind on school first, then enjoy in the tickling fetish thoughts for after school and homework.