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| Subject | Date Asked |
| RAPE!!! | 2/2/2012 |
| Q: I was raped at 12 years old and I found out I got pregnant by the guy. Does he have rights to see ... A: I am so sorry for what you have been through. I'm presuming you are still a minor . . . You need to ... | |
| PLEASE HELP ME | 12/1/2011 |
| Q: i am a 31 yo. man,combat vet. and i recieved a traumatic brain injury among other things. ni married ... A: Please hear me and please respond to me. My direct e-mail is: liz@kdliz.com. You trusted someone ... | |
| Fathers rights against Statutory Rape | 11/17/2011 |
| Q: I had a question. Let me tell you a little about my story to began. I have a 16 year old daughter ... A: Jorge, I've seen cases like you described, where undocumented money doesn't count as support. I ... | |
| divorce | 11/17/2011 |
| Q: i am wanting suggestions on what to do if my wife is a stay at home mom and an alchoholic with 3 ... A: For the sake of your children, take all the information you have to an attorney, and follow their ... | |
| Fathers rights against Statutory Rape | 11/15/2011 |
| Q: I had a question. Let me tell you a little about my story to began. I have a 16 year old daughter ... A: I am sorry for what you are going through. Let me help sort this out a bit, if I can. First, I ... | |
| child support | 9/22/2011 |
| Q: I had a job for certain amount time making a good amount of money then was out work a couple of ... A: State laws vary regarding child support and family law, but many states have a re-evaluation time in ... | |
| child support | 9/21/2011 |
| Q: Many years ago a girlfriend and I brought a little girl into this world. We tried to be together ... A: I am not sure what happens with "friend of the court" situations years later. Let's face it, people ... | |
| what do you think of child support ? | 9/11/2011 |
| Q: I know you get asked questions about this a lot but recently I've heard some debate on this subject. ... A: I do have some ideas regarding child support. First, as to the notion that men are tricked by women ... | |
| Child Support/divorce | 7/1/2011 |
| Q: Let me thank you in advance for reading question. Two things. My sister and I are thinking about ... A: I have given this a great deal of thought, because you listed several very large and potentially ... | |
| child support/ marriage | 6/14/2011 |
| Q: My fiance has a child with a previous woman (That lives in Alabama) she is threatening to put him on ... A: In most states, and I presume the US Virgin Islands are included, the child support assessed for ... | |
| Kids bedtime routine = Spousal frustration | 5/13/2011 |
| Q: My Wife and I are at odds about our 4-year-old daughters bedtime routine, and the frustration is ... A: Your question really troubled me. If you were divorced, I could assist you regarding your rights, ... | |
| My wife lied and got a tro | 5/9/2011 |
| Q: My soon to be ex- wife was told a bunch of lies about me to her atty and they filed a T.R.O with ... A: I have given serious consideration to your situation. I cannot find a solution other than the one ... | |
| Child placement/support | 4/27/2011 |
| Q: I live in Wisconsin.I have been divorced for 8 years. We have 2 children together, 8 and 10. Our ... A: I have heard of several situations since the economy has changed that just don't adhere to old ... | |
| Child support | 4/9/2011 |
| Q: My ex is around 3 months pregnant and plans to claim she doesn't know who the father is to get ... A: The states vary on the percentage of income for child support, but most states do assess the income ... | |
| Child support | 4/1/2011 |
| Q: My ex is around 3 months pregnant and plans to claim she doesn't know who the father is to get ... A: I presume by your question, you are the father, even if she plans to claim unknown. The financial ... | |
| Adoption | 3/8/2011 |
| Q: my son's girlfriend is pregnaunt, and he doesn't feel ready to be a father, when he expressed this ... A: Unfortunately, he doesn't have many choices at this point. If the young lady keeps the baby, he ... | |
| Child support and Visitation rights. | 2/22/2011 |
| Q: My husband (of 3 days) has a child with another woman before we got together. He is paying $440 a ... A: If your husband was not married to this woman, then I am thinking, and it's just a feeling, that ... | |
| Child Support | 2/21/2011 |
| Q: a few months ago a young man showed up at my grandparent's house in Louisiana looking for my uncle. ... A: I am hesitant to give you an absolute answer, because people find ways to do all sorts of things. I ... | |
| visitation | 2/3/2011 |
| Q: My son had autism and is 7. He is violent and destructive. Everytime he comes to my home it is ... A: I don't usually recommend further involvement in the system, but I think this situation does call ... | |
| Child support & visitation in Ga | 1/28/2011 |
| Q: I am 16 years old in High School. I am working a part time job for minimum wage. My ex-girlfriend ... A: The questions you are asking me would better be asked of a lawyer, but I can offer this much ... | |
| my rights | 12/22/2010 |
| Q: Okay well me and my ex recently split up we just had twins boy in september and since we broke up ... A: If she recently had the children, perhaps this is a passing situation that the two of you will be ... | |
| Visitation for my son | 10/5/2010 |
| Q: I havnt seen my son in almost two years, his mom is currently in prison and he is living with her ... A: Contact the child support division in your state or family services or whatever your state calls it, ... | |
| How to ease/alleviate the guilt of a father no longer seeing the unborn child's mother. | 5/28/2010 |
| Q: My friend's fiance's ex is pregnant? Let me explain the situation a little bit: My friend's fiance ... A: First, just between you and I, here is something to consider. The timing of the phone call ... | |
| child support during college | 5/10/2010 |
| Q: What are the laws for paying child support if your child is 18 and living in the dorm at an out of ... A: I am not an attorney, but I am familiar with a number of people in your particular situation. For ... | |
| Child support | 3/16/2010 |
| Q: Im suposed to be getting child support on my 3 year old daughter.I called ORS to see what was going ... A: Some states have a system in which the county or state makes the support collections and issues the ... | |
| my rights | 2/19/2010 |
| Q: i need help, i have a very controlling x girlfriend, i have a minor child we had while dating, im no ... A: Unless your wife has some sort of record as a child abuser or has threatened your ex-girlfriend, ... | |
| my rights | 2/19/2010 |
| Q: i need help, i have a very controlling x girlfriend, i have a minor child we had while dating, im no ... A: State laws vary in family court, and without a divorce decree, the rules of co-parenting usually ... | |
| restraining order rights | 1/21/2010 |
| Q: My ex girlfriend had a restraining order put forth against me not allowing me to pick up my ... A: The only thing I can suggest is that you make a police report and list the property as stolen. If ... | |
| Separated Non-biological Father | 12/22/2009 |
| Q: I started dating my ex in April 2009 while she was 5 months pregnant, only none of us knew at the ... A: If you are on the birth certificate, then you should be considered the legal father, regardless of ... | |
| Separated Non-biological Father | 12/22/2009 |
| Q: I started dating my ex in April 2009 while she was 5 months pregnant, only none of us knew at the ... A: I am not an attorney and I'm not sure if you have rights in this case or not. Is your name on the ... | |
| father's rights in texas/colorado | 12/5/2009 |
| Q: does signing a birth certificate at the time of birth constitute an adoption in the state of Texas? ... A: I am not an attorney and I am not sure all states are the same, but as far as I know, the legal ... | |
| Non-Biological father... | 11/10/2009 |
| Q: I recently went through a year long process of adopting my seven year old step-son. As far as he ... A: Talk with your attorney that handled the adoption. I think it's time to "pull out the big guns." ... | |
| Child Custody | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: My daughter just turned 4 and I have only spent about 12 months of her life with her because he mom ... A: I'm not an attorney and state laws really vary regarding family law. I wish I could offer you more, ... | |
| Alienating evil mother | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: I am currently dating a man who is one year into his divorce, which is still not finalized. We ... A: This happens more times than one can imagine. The only thing that can be done is to solicit court ... | |
| parental rights for non father | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: my ex boy friend signed the birth certificate knowing he may not be the father, if proved he's not ... A: I am not an attorney and family law does vary to a degree from state to state, but I have first hand ... | |
| Paternity and Custody in TN. | 10/17/2009 |
| Q: I was married in 1992 and divorced in 2008.My son was born in 1994.I pay child support and medical ... A: I am so sorry. This news must be devastating. Since you don't know for certain what the results ... | |
| child visitaion | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: My son has child support taken from his check for two of his children by two different women. Both ... A: Of course the very best advice I can give, would be for your son to seek counsel with an attorney ... | |
| Father's rights | 9/10/2009 |
| Q: My husband has a 4 year old daughter. Her mother has forged a letter from the Doctor stating that he ... A: You have quite a situation to contend with. I will say that drinking and driving is illegal in most ... | |
| Visitation Rights | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: I am currently 16 years of age. My girlfriend and I found out two days ago that she is pregnant. We ... A: I don't know your girlfriend's age, but I'm guessing she is also a minor. Although you may have ... | |
| rights for a father who doesnt pay child support? | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: My daughter is 9 and her real father is in and out of her life. I've never kept her away from him. ... A: Most states have a child support division that addresses this particular issue without court ... | |
| PATERNITY | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: . OK MY EX GIRL FRIEND FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT ON AUG 3 2008 AND THE ULTRASOUND SAID SHE WAS 4 ... A: As a rule, babies take 9 months from conception to birth. I'd say if she says you're not the ... | |
| visitation for jailed man | 4/21/2009 |
| Q: my brother and his "ex" have one child and one on the way. She and he have tried living together ... A: Of course you know, a cycle of abuse is almost like an addiction. The people are literally addicted ... | |
| restraining order | 4/4/2009 |
| Q: My brother has a restraining order on him from his wife, she moved out 2 years ago and won't give ... A: Restraining orders can be open to interpretation at the time of the circumstances. I think, your ... | |
| Child Support Question | 4/2/2009 |
| Q: I was involved with a female over 10yrs ago,and she got pregnant. She met another man when she was ... A: You are so right, this gets tricky. I am not saying this will happen 100% of the time, but usually ... | |
| Divorce | 4/2/2009 |
| Q: A mentally disabled friend of mine recently was divorced. He recieves a disability pension of ... A: Contact the provider of the disability pension and ask if there are any resources available. Your ... | |
| Contesting my last name | 3/31/2009 |
| Q: My ex wife kept my last name when we divorced and is now having a child that is not mine. Can I ... A: As far as I know, most states have similar laws regarding the recording of births. Mothers choose ... | |
| College Student Pregnancy | 3/27/2009 |
| Q: I just spoke with my son tonight and he hesitantly informed me he (18 YOA) got his girlfriend ... A: I believe his responsibilities will be financial and possibly insurance. I will not say this with ... | |
| my rights as a father | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend an i of five years are going through some problems we recently just had a baby boy who ... A: Rights regarding children, are usually determined in a divorce decree, and without a marriage, you ... | |
| custody | 3/3/2009 |
| Q: My Boyfriend is divorced. We live in Canada. He has shared custody of his two boys. One that is his ... A: You can't stop someone from doing something heartless, but what a person can do, is take the ... | |
| legal custody | 2/14/2009 |
| Q: My ex is taking me to court for Sole Legal Custody. We have Joint Physical custody. I am a Golf ... A: I'm not sure that ignoring the large envelope will do anything but keep you from knowing what is in ... | |
| non biological father raised child since birth... | 2/11/2009 |
| Q: I have raised and bonded tremendously with my son for over 1 year now (since birth). My girlfriend ... A: I am sorry for what you are going through. If your name is on the birth certificate, you probably ... | |
| family funeral | 2/8/2009 |
| Q: my brother just died, his wife is insane, and won't allow any members of my family to participate in ... A: His wife is the official next of kin. I have no idea what you are trying to get overturned, but if ... | |
| Support | 1/22/2009 |
| Q: I have now have two legitimate children from my marriage. Currently, I pay over $500/month to an ... A: I am not an attorney, but usually a man's added expenses are not grounds for seeking a reduction in ... | |
| Men's Rights | 12/13/2008 |
| Q: My Question(s) – At what point am I within my rights, legally and / or morally, to reduce child ... A: The wording of the agreed upon order is a bit tricky. The way you explained it to me, is you ... | |
| wrongful imprisonment | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: I had a warrant out for my arrest for late child support... on Monday afternoon I paid the the ... A: I am not an attorney and I don't think this fits the category of "wrongful imprisonment" but you ... | |
| non-custodial father's right of visitations | 11/14/2008 |
| Q: I am asking this question for a good male friend of mine. He has lived with his girlfriend for five ... A: Your friend really needs to get all this legally documented. I'm guessing if she ever went after ... | |
| fathers rights | 11/7/2008 |
| Q: my wife is threatening to leave our relationship. we have two boys 11 and 7. She says she is going ... A: My advice to you is to immediately seek legal counsel. I wouldn't divulge this information to your ... | |
| wife wants joint custody | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: my ex and I divorced in 1997. we shared a lawyer and worked out everything, including her paying me ... A: I'm not an attorney and I'm not sure what could "come back to bite" you. The two of you have made ... | |
| My son's rights to say how his child is raised | 11/3/2008 |
| Q: My 18 year old son has had a beautiful son with a 17 year old lovely girl. They lived with us while ... A: Your son is a legal adult and although I am not an attorney I do believe most states would consider ... | |
| Parental rights | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: I live in Nebraska. My husband and I are considering divorce. I am 7 months pregnant. He wants to ... A: State laws vary, and Nebraska has some interesting legislation regarding responsibility for ... | |
| Sitcoms | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: I want to know what is you r view on sitcoms where when show husband is beaten by wife it shown as ... A: I take a very dim view of what I know about sitcoms. Actually, I haven't owned a TV for years, ... | |
| my rights | 9/3/2008 |
| Q: i was just wondering if you know my rights if my ex wants to change my childs last name to her new ... A: I am not an attorney. If she's talking about her new husband adopting your child, you'd have to ... | |
| Ex girl friend's baby | 8/22/2008 |
| Q: "If a man sex with his girl friend and some how they broke up after a year his ex-girl friend came ... A: I'm not sure what was not clear in my first response. Intent has nothing to do with the fact there ... | |
| Ex girl friend's baby | 8/21/2008 |
| Q: "If a man sex with his girl friend and some how they broke up after a year his ex-girl friend came ... A: If a man father's a child, either by intent or accident, he is still the father. If the woman made ... | |
| succubus | 6/27/2008 |
| Q: Usually I am the one answering the questions on this site, but this time it is myu turn to do the ... A: Right now, there is no divorce pending, and your name is on the birth certificate, so you have just ... | |
| Custody | 5/22/2008 |
| Q: I recently got married with my wife in September 2007, we had our baby in January 2008. We have ... A: I'm guessing, by the circumstances you have described, that the two of you are pretty young. You ... | |
| custody | 5/18/2008 |
| Q: I have recently been given custody of my 14yr old son after not seeing him for many years. His ... A: I am not sure that I would start custody proceedings right now, but someone needs to know she has ... | |
| child support | 5/7/2008 |
| Q: (California) I am currently receiving SSDI. And getting child benefit for my daughter. If I am ... A: I do not know California's laws specifically, and I'm not an attorney, but usually father's are ... | |
| How do we handle this? | 5/2/2008 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 mos, he has two children from two different women. They both ... A: I am not an attorney and this situation may warrant legal counsel, but I can suggest these things. ... | |
| After we break up and she want to keep all my stuff | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: I have been in an abusive relationship for the past two years and I need help. Well we been together ... A: Although I read concern in your correspondence, I am not sure what you want me to address. Are you ... | |
| X-Wife problems | 4/28/2008 |
| Q: . I hope you can help. I've been divorced for 2 years and after the 1st year my x took me back to ... A: Check with your county clerk. Most states do not allow for annual reconsideration of child support. ... | |
| child support | 4/17/2008 |
| Q: I've been paying child support since day one and now she wants to take me to court saying that ... A: I don't know what state you are in, but I can share some basic information. Child support is ... | |
| dealing with my x | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: question is, i have been seperated from my x for about four years now. we have a son that is going ... A: She filed for full custody and only was awarded joint custody. I am not an attorney, but it sounds ... | |
| My husbands rights as a father | 3/28/2008 |
| Q: Im so very new to this and im not sure where to start and no one has offered any help. I am married ... A: If your husband pays support, he has rights. If he isn't paying support, this may open a can of ... | |
| child entitlements | 2/26/2008 |
| Q: i have a daughter with my ex-girlfriend who i would like to see a lot more of and would like to know ... A: When there was no marriage, there are no visitation and support rules in a divorce, so it really ... | |
| Visitation Allowance for father | 2/20/2008 |
| Q: Me and my ex-fiancee split Jan. 1. We haven't reached any custody agreements as of yet. She has ... A: I am not an attorney and laws are still somewhat undefined when there is not an actual divorce to ... | |
| my kids | 1/7/2008 |
| Q: was with a woman who was unsure if i was the father of her unborn child well the baby was born and ... A: If you really want your children in your life, you are going to have to be a stable, providing ... | |
| My boyfriend's ex wife. | 12/26/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating a man for almost 3 yrs now, he has two children ages 16 & 13. The divorce papers ... A: I hear what you are saying, but it is your boyfriend's choice to allow this. If he is going to ... | |
| father's rights | 12/15/2007 |
| Q: sorry if I'm directing this enquiry to the wrong place but I can't find anyone to answer my ... A: I'll do the best I can to answer your question, although you probably won't like the answer any ... | |
| Father can't find his son | 11/21/2007 |
| Q: I am in dire need of some advice. My husband is planning to hire an investigator to locate his son. ... A: I am not an attorney and you certainly have presented many variables, but I think I can help narrow ... | |
| child support | 11/15/2007 |
| Q: can a father lose his visitation rights for not paying child support? A: Designated visitation rights are usually determined by the court and not a casual agreement between ... | |
| Parental Alienation | 11/12/2007 |
| Q: My husband has no relationship with his sons. His ex filed for divorce when his boys were 10 & 8. ... A: I am always saddened to hear about parents that drive a wedge between the children and the ... | |
| Child support/Lawyers | 11/12/2007 |
| Q: I know your knowledge about this law is limited, but from what you do know, whats the difference in ... A: In most states, child support is based upon a man's income. Different states have different ... | |
| child support | 11/5/2007 |
| Q: i am currently getting a divorce and have to pay child support for 3 kids and maintance. My ... A: I am not an attorney, but I believe most states do concur in this matter. You are getting a divorce ... | |
| Visitation rights | 11/4/2007 |
| Q: Recently my husbands daughter has been wanting to visit, there are no visitation set up in the ... A: I am not an attorney and I don't reside in Kentucky, so my knowledge is limited. Many states do ... | |
| Physical custody | 10/27/2007 |
| Q: My husband has shared physical and joint legal custody of his daughter (not from a marriage). He has ... A: I am not an attorney, and child custody issues can be strained. Since the child isn't staying with ... | |
| separation | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: 5.About 4 months ago my partner started chatting on msn with other guys and exchanging mobile ... A: I am not an attorney and I certainly do not know about laws in other countries, other than some ... | |
| Birth certificates | 10/15/2007 |
| Q: I have a situation. Here are the facts. Had sex with a female, Jan 6, 2007. I did not ejaculate in ... A: At this point since you have not been officially named, you really have no reason to inquire of the ... | |
| my wife left and took my son | 10/10/2007 |
| Q: my wife left me for the second time in four months and is using my 10 month old son as a tool to ... A: I am not an attorney or a psychologist, but it does sound like you are being manipulated. I'm a ... | |
| help to find out about my daughter | 10/10/2007 |
| Q: My husband is divorced and has a 13 year old daughter she is out of control, been locked up for 3 ... A: I am not an attorney and different states address family law in varying ways, but the welfare of the ... | |
| similar | 10/8/2007 |
| Q: I've been in a long term relationship with a man who has a child. His child and I get along ... A: I am not an attorney and state laws do differ. If he and his daughter's mother were never married, ... | |
| help | 9/21/2007 |
| Q: Do i have any rights in NJ in a divorce. i went to a lawyer he told me that she would get half the ... A: I am not an attorney and I am not at all familiar with family laws in NJ, but, it sounds like you ... | |
| May have gotten a thai girl here on visa pregnant | 9/20/2007 |
| Q: The background story: I had sexual relations with a Thai girl who is here in US on a visa. I fear ... A: If she is pregnant from and encounter with you, and she gives birth, then you will be a father for ... | |
| Her mother hates me! | 9/20/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend, 21, and I, 20, have been together just over 4 years. He has a 3 year old daughter and ... A: You have explained to me that you have been with this child's father for 4 years, and the child is ... | |
| not able to see my son | 9/19/2007 |
| Q: how can i see or set up some kind of arrangements to see my son. Its been over 3 years, i never saw ... A: If you can reach and speak with his mother, then do that. Perhaps the two of you can come to some ... | |
| ex's fifth | 9/17/2007 |
| Q: I am struggling to maintain a relationship with my 9 y/o daughter. Unfortunately, she lives 800 ... A: I cannot tell you what is normal behavior for any human being, as we all demonstrate many "abnormal" ... | |
| child support. | 9/14/2007 |
| Q: I am a 31yr old man with 5 children. I pay child support for all of them. I have a full and part ... A: I am glad to hear that you are paying your child support, so many father's don't. I was very ... | |
| am not sure what to do in th case about the X wife | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: I meet my soon to be husband almost 6 years ago. I have never been married lived with someone who ... A: It is not you and you don't need to "just blow it off." Her phone calls are disruptive and she ... | |
| Father's girlfriend is pushing to see the child. | 9/10/2007 |
| Q: My son's father has only seen his son 5 times in the year since his birth. He wanted nothing to do ... A: I am not an attorney and I don't have any idea what the arrangements are between you and your son's ... | |
| Child naming rights | 8/16/2007 |
| Q: My wife and I seperated, with plans of getting a divorce. Shortly after seperation, she found out ... A: I am so sorry for this situation. I am more than willing to be supportive for what you are going ... | |
| Child naming rights | 8/15/2007 |
| Q: My wife and I seperated, with plans of getting a divorce. Shortly after seperation, she found out ... A: I am not an attorney and I am not familiar with family law in the state of Virginia, but all states ... | |
| divorce laws | 8/14/2007 |
| Q: I have been in court for 6 years. my wife is on her 5th lawyer. she has not reported to the last 3 ... A: I am not an attorney and state laws do vary in the matter of divorce, but . . . SIX YEARS is a very ... | |
| shared parenting | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: i was just wondering me and my ex the mother get a long with joint cutody of my son and i have him ... A: I am not an attorney, but unless your ex has something specific against you, for this change in her ... | |
| men's rights | 5/31/2007 |
| Q: I have a friend who has recently been convicted of 1 count misdemeanor battery and 1 count ... A: I am not an attorney and I am not familiar with California law, but I do think if the divorce is ... | |
| tpo/child placement | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: my grandson has been placed in my custody,because a tpo was placed against his father,he had custody ... A: I am not an attorney and state laws vary, but I do have some information that may help. In our ... | |
| child custody | 5/24/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend has a 6 year old daughter that he has not seen for 10 months. Her mother stopped ... A: I am sorry for the trouble your boyfriend has been caused. Many women are jealous of the new woman. ... | |
| 13 years | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: I RECENTLY RECEIVE A LETTER ABOUT PATERNITY AND COURT ABOUT A WOMEN 13 YEARS AGO I MIGHT OF GOT ... A: I'm still not an attorney, but this is what I am aware of. If you agree to something and don't go ... | |
| Day- care | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: If a father cant afford 2 pay child support and day care expenses. Yet the mother works part-time ... A: James, I am not an attorney and state laws do differ, but I can offer this. She probably doesn't ... | |
| paternity rights? | 5/22/2007 |
| Q: I am an American, and my baby is an American. The father is not and does not live in the country. He ... A: If you have not listed a father and there is no American father, then I am not sure that anything ... | |
| Fatherhood Rights | 5/21/2007 |
| Q: My son and his live-in girlfriend of over 7 years had a baby boy between them. Unfortunately, her ... A: I am not an attorney and state laws do vary, but if your son is named as the baby's father, then he ... | |
| 13 years | 5/20/2007 |
| Q: I RECENTLY RECEIVE A LETTER ABOUT PATERNITY AND COURT ABOUT A WOMEN 13 YEARS AGO I MIGHT OF GOT ... A: I am not an attorney and this is a legal matter. If you are the father of her child, then you are. ... | |
| Rights as a father | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: Alright, so my fiancee Albert has a two year old child Jocelyn with a girl named Sheila, she is the ... A: If you and Albert are going to have a future, it will include his child. If he is already far ... | |
| No say | 5/5/2007 |
| Q: My fiance and I live with her parents because I work a relatively low income, full time job, in ... A: I'm sorry, I have a real problem with people being totally dependant and making more people. ... | |
| Name Change | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: going thru divorce which she initiated and i didnt want but now what her to change her name back to ... A: I am not an attorney and state laws do differ, but I believe when a woman changes her name at the ... | |
| question about my rights as a father | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: My problem is that i got my x-girlfriend pregnant and then she left me in her third month because i ... A: I'm going to be very blunt here. Your problem is not your ex-girlfriend, it's you. You need to ... | |
| Matrimony anullment? | 1/10/2007 |
| Q: could you please explain what is the whole process of nullfying a civil wedding? how much it would ... A: If you are seeking to have a marriage annulled, it still requires legal documents and filing. I am ... | |
| My rights in court | 1/9/2007 |
| Q: At present my wife is has taken me to court with an application for Ancillary relief. She has ... A: Didn't the two of you have some sort of joint records prior to the divorce that you can produce? I ... | |
| Shrinking rights of men ... | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: Kindred: I was amazed to see you as an allexpert in this area. This is an area that jas been very ... A: Scripture is very clear regarding the rights and responsibilities of both genders and America is ... | |
| child support | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: I have 2 kids to a previous relationship and 1 of them i have never seen. I have been contacted by ... A: I am no attorney, but I can share what I do know. State laws vary to some extent, but they are ... | |
| termination of guardianship | 11/12/2006 |
| Q: My wife and I lived in separate residences and shared our daughter with her having her the majority ... A: I am not an attorney, so I cannot give legal advice, but I can offer some "input." I don't know if ... | |
| Male rape | 11/11/2006 |
| Q: I am sorry to be troubling you as I am not sure if this is in your area of expertise. I asked ... A: Both genders can be and have been sexually abused. Being forced to do something against your will ... | |
| child support | 11/9/2006 |
| Q: i have custody of both my children 2 boys 16 and 17. i am no longer paying child support but there ... A: I cannot give you five reasons why you shouldn't receive child support, but I can give you a few ... | |
| paternity | 9/18/2006 |
| Q: I have been involved with a married woman for several years. During this time, she had a child that ... A: That is a state issue, that varies from state to state. In our state, the father is the person the ... | |
| Temporary Restraining Order | 9/12/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend is dealing with a crazy ex. She has filed two TPOs on him since they broke up. I am ... A: I doubt that a $4000.00 attorney will change the restraining order, but since I am not an attorney, ... | |
| sighning away my rights | 9/9/2006 |
| Q: I have a 7 year old daughter, she lives far away. She has her mom and a guy she calls dad. I havent ... A: Although state laws differ and I am no attorney, I think I can shed a bit of light on your ... | |
| Curious | 8/28/2006 |
| Q: Beisinger, Is it better for the man to place himself on child support rather than the ... A: Please let me introduce myself. I am Mrs. Beisinger or just Kindred, is fine. Although you may be ... | |
| Manipulative X Wife | 8/20/2006 |
| Q: Please anyone help us! My husband and I have been married just over 1 year. He has two children ... A: Before my husband and I got married, [we were both divorced more than once] I told him I didn't feel ... | |
| My rights | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: I have a 4 yrs old daughter, who lives in Ms. with her mother to whom I pay child support to. I was ... A: This is a legal matter. Even if the mother were to be agreeable, it is two different states and a ... | |
| Seperated | 8/3/2006 |
| Q: I have been seperated for most of the last 12 Months from my wife of 16 years. I am confused as hell ... A: A bad marriage "until death do you part" does kind of equate with something terminal, but . . . ... | |
| child custody | 8/2/2006 |
| Q: I have a 5 month old daughter, I haven't seen her but I am filing for custody. What can I do to ... A: Your information is very brief, so I will keep my response the same. I don't know why you haven't ... | |
| What is in the child's best interest ? | 7/28/2006 |
| Q: Last year over one million American families were falsely accused of child abuse! The abuse of ... A: Alvarado, I don't really think this is a question, but I will address your statement. I do not ... | |
| signing over custody | 7/3/2006 |
| Q: I will try to keep our history brief. My husband and I have been pursuing custody of his son for ... A: I would have to agree with you. What you are suggesting does not sound unethical - it sounds like ... | |
| naming my child after divorce | 5/12/2006 |
| Q: My wife and I just were divorced last month. I left her but she is getting married next month ... A: Our state begins every divorce proceeding with the woman swearing she is not now pregnant, so I do ... | |
| paternity | 5/12/2006 |
| Q: My husband and I were going to court for full custody of his son. One week before the court date, we ... A: This is an unusual situation, but it does happen. I am sure he could start some sort of proceeding ... | |
| Paternity/Men's Rights | 5/12/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. From the start I was aware that he could ... A: I am not an attorney and I am not familiar with Illinois law, but I have a couple of suggestions. ... | |
| Back owed money for AFDC | 4/18/2006 |
| Q: I have a question that is in regards to AFDC back owed money that my Boyfriend has been paying to ... A: Although I do not know many of the details regarding your Boyfriend, I can tell you what I have ... | |
| Dear madam, I have recently... | 4/4/2006 |
| Q: I have recently attended a gender educational proggramme on campus and an issue was raised about ... A: When I receive questions, I have two choices, to answer, or to say, it is out of my area. I didn't ... | |
| "If you really love me, that shouldn't matter." | 3/2/2006 |
| Q: It was about 3 months ago when I was saying good-bye to my former girlfriend before leaving on a ... A: As a woman, let me shed some light on this for you. Women want men to be honest and say what they ... | |
| why | 2/22/2006 |
| Q: WHY DO MEN HIDE THEIR LEFT HAND (WEDDING RING) IN THEIR POCKET WHEN TALKING TO ME? MAYBE I'M CRAZY ... A: If this is a general rule in your interaction with men, I have three possibilities. One is, some ... | |
| Martin Luther King, Jr. | 2/22/2006 |
| Q: I am currently doing a research paper on Martin Luther King, Jr. and I am looking for someone ... A: I will do the best I can in giving you some answers. I will qualify my answers with this statement. ... | |
| Test of character | 2/15/2006 |
| Q: Here's a hypothetical situation I came up after hearing about many reality t.v. shows about men ... A: I can give you one woman's perspective. I know that money is not everything and I can say without a ... | |
| What can I do? | 1/29/2006 |
| Q: I have been married for 4 and a half years. I decided to get a divorce on the grounds of how I am ... A: Please forgive the delay. I have been attempting to give you an answer since Monday, but have been ... | |
| Question from Future Step-Mom | 11/28/2005 |
| Q: I would like to begin by saying that I understand you are not a lawyer, and this is something of a ... A: It sounds like you are going to be a wonderful step-mom and he sounds like a fortunate little boy to ... | |
| eviction? | 11/1/2005 |
| Q: My common law wife of three years gave me a notice of eviction six weeks after our second boy was ... A: I am a bit etchy on the time factor. I don't fully understand the chronological framework that you ... | |
| i'm in new york can child... | 5/20/2005 |
| Q: i'm in new york can child support be applied retroactively even on the non costodial parent who ahs ... A: Each state law differs to degree from the other states, but child support is required when paternity ... | |
| son living with me | 4/5/2005 |
| Q: ..my question is probably a popular one...I am a 42 y/o father of two teens...1 son age 15...1 ... A: Although state laws vary, your 15 year old son would be heard by a judge regarding custodial parent. ... | |
| fathering a foreign baby | 3/28/2005 |
| Q: i am english and my girlfriend is thai, she is now pregnant and i am trying to find out as much ... A: I have done some checking on line. Each country has it's own regulations regarding these ... | |
| MY SON'S RIGHTS AS A FATHER | 3/19/2005 |
| Q: MY SON AND DAUGHTER IN LAW JUST HAD A BABY GIRL SHE CAME ALMOST 4WEEKS EARLY ,, SO IT WAS 2 DAYS ... A: I see that you are an upset mom, but your solution would not eliminate your son's father-in-law from ... | |
| womans rights | 2/2/2005 |
| Q: my name is stephanie i am doing a school project. How do you feel about womans rights and how is ... A: I feel that "women's rights" the ERA, have actually robbed women of their G~d given rights. I ... | |
| incom taxes | 1/21/2005 |
| Q: im divorced i pay my child support and have her every other wk . can i clam her as a dependent on my ... A: There should be something written in the decree. Usually the father can claim the dependent ... | |
| seperation,kids | 12/8/2004 |
| Q: sorry to be a pain but there is 1 more Q if you can help we have lived in a rented council hose for ... A: Mike, You are not being a pain at all. The fact that both names are on the lease, but you have ... | |
| seperation,kids | 12/8/2004 |
| Q: my long term girlfriend has been having an affair for 8 months with another girl we have 3 young ... A: I wish I could give you an absolute answer, but I don't have one. As you know, each state differs ... | |
| We need help | 11/13/2004 |
| Q: first I would like to give you a little history, I will try to be brief. My husband and I have been ... A: The children need to be with their father or family right now, more than ever. Who would contest ... | |
| Accused of Abuse | 10/25/2004 |
| Q: Ok, let me paint the picture. My exwife and I are disabled and have a son 4 years old. We were ... A: I cannot advise you legally, and I am in a different state, but I think I can at least offer some ... | |
| Shared Physical Custody of Children | 7/26/2004 |
| Q: Do you know of someone who can answer my question on shared custody? My attorney isn't too familar ... A: The laws vary from state to state, and I am not an attorney, so I cannot give you advice. If your ... | |
| Shared Physical Custody of Children | 7/23/2004 |
| Q: My wife and I are going through a divorce. I never wanted this to happen, but my wife insists that I ... A: Each state is different. If you are still living in the house, don't leave. You will really have ... | |
| women who want men | 6/25/2004 |
| Q: please i need a sweden divorcee can u give me the contacts of swedden wemen who want blackmen either ... A: If you are looking for a genuine relationship, why is geography important? And why in the world, ... | |
| custody issues | 6/16/2004 |
| Q: I am having a struggle with getting my husband to sign the settlement agreement for our divorce, he ... A: This legal and physical custody are a new twist in the legal gridlock of divorce. I believe an ... | |
| my rights | 6/11/2004 |
| Q: Good morning, My name is Tony, and I am in the process of getting a divorce. We share a daughter ... A: If you are in the middle of divorce proceedings, then let the lawyers handle it. You cannot call, ... | |
| Not sure you can help | 4/13/2004 |
| Q: If my husband owes child support (a debt) can liens be placed on my property for it? Thanks. A: Laws vary from state to state. And joint property is different than property only in your name ... | |
| questions | 4/5/2004 |
| Q: You know i am realy surprised when you say that in this world men are discounted and ... A: I, also am a woman and not "everyone" sees that women have less freedom than men. Although you have ... | |
| Thank You | 3/19/2004 |
| Q: We had been married for 30 years when she decided she wasn't happy and moved out. Our two children ... A: I don't usually recommend this, but for your own best interest, have an attorney give you their ... | |
| Father's right to visitation - what's best for child though? | 3/18/2004 |
| Q: Massachusettts law has set a standard for visitations as every other weekend, one night a week ... A: Your son is two years old. He will adjust to whatever his parents establish and keep stable. While ... | |
| Divorce | 3/18/2004 |
| Q: My wife left me 2 years ago and has never filed for divorce. She has not helped with any property ... A: Since you will need an attorney to file for a divorce, I would suggest that you simply ask him the ... | |
| shared custody | 3/8/2004 |
| Q: I am a loveing father of 2 little girls ages 2 and 5yrs old.I work in Maintaince at TRW on 2nd ... A: Although I am not sure what information I can offer, I do want to let you know that I am not just ... | |
| Rights | 2/20/2004 |
| Q: I've had a child with someone in which I have not been married to and will never mary, is there ... A: I cannot give legal advice, nor can I speak regarding each state. Fathers (married or unmarried) do ... | |
| WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS | 12/18/2003 |
| Q: WHEN MY LITTLE GIRL WAS ONLY SEVERAL MONTHS OLD MY WIFE AND I SEPERATED ON VERY UGLY TERMS, THE LAST ... A: I'm sure this is not comforting advice, but I would recommend that you ask an attorney. As state ... | |
| Wrongful imprisonment and slander by an old girlfriend | 11/30/2003 |
| Q: My ex turned psycho on me and not only caused me to be fired from my job. But kicked me out of ... A: Ryan, I know everything sounds all mixed up and crazy here. So first, may I suggest a calming and ... | |
Men`s Rights
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Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger
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Expertise
I can answer questions regarding G~d given rights of men. As a woman, I can answer many questions regarding the destructiveness of feminism, both to men and women. I cannot answer what it is to be a man in a time in this world in which men have been discounted and disrespected.
Experience
minister, counseled men regarding divorce, 'abuse accusations,' court ordered, anger management. Actually was removed from YWCA volunteer list for my belief in the Bible and support of men, rather than feminism.
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