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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| why did he | 12/18/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: he was coming in though the door and whistle a short whistle and then did another whistle I was busy ... A: Well, he must have needed his jacket and since your jacket was on top of his, he had to put your ... | ||
| why | 11/27/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: why do guys bump girls arms with their elbow? what does it mean? does he like me is he ... A: He may like you but not be able to strike a more private conversation due to work restrictions, or ... | ||
| what doe s his language mean | 11/21/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: and is smiling and is looking up at the ceiling and talking what does this mean? A: He put his hand on your shoulder to get your attention. He smiled because he likes you, and he ... | ||
| Does he like me? | 11/8/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I have a big crush on this boy, what bothers me is that he says he's not quite over his ex, and if ... A: It seems like he's flirting with you, and often for guys, with a new relationship, they finally move ... | ||
| Body Language | 9/14/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I have a question about body language. For a long time now I have developed a sensitive awareness to ... A: That everyone mirrors you is your interpretation. There isn't such a wide range of gestures a person ... | ||
| Does my ex still have feelings for me based on what he did? | 8/9/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: My boyfriend broke up with me a little over a month ago. Not because of anything I did, but because ... A: OK, Gabby, so just to add to my previous reply, at 17 a guy really needs a lot of encouragement from ... | ||
| Help me | 7/26/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am 25 year old tutor. I have students in the ages of 6 to 18 . I am single and I want one of my ... A: Dilo, I am not even sure if this is real. You are 25 and you want a girl who is 13??? Can you not ... | ||
| What message could she be sending? | 7/14/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I have this friend that I have been quite taken with for a long time. We've known eachother for ... A: I definitely did not say that you should stop talking to her. It all depends on you. If you are able ... | ||
| What message could she be sending? | 7/10/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I have this friend that I have been quite taken with for a long time. We've known eachother for ... A: No, of course these signals are not "just friends" signals, and you are very right to be confused. ... | ||
| what do we mean | 5/28/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: and then he looks at the ground in front of him and smiles what does this mean and also if you go ... A: Chemistry, that's what's happening between the two of you. BUT... while you may have a romantic ... | ||
| Body language by an off-limits individual | 3/12/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am a 21 year old, U.S. college student. I have a professor that is quite attractive. He is married ... A: You're probably not wrong, and he may be flirting with you, perhaps even subconsciously. So if I ... | ||
| confused | 2/11/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: i have been married for about a year now and i love my marriage. I dont have any problems with it. ... A: You're hoping that I will say that it's OK, but deep inside you, the answer is clear. You know it is ... | ||
| Dilated pupils indicate attraction, so do constricted pupils indicate the opposite? | 2/6/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I know that when someone's pupils dilate, that is an indication of attraction, assuming that they ... A: Dilated pupils can result also from medical conditions, or with some people the ... | ||
| Jacq's short/one single child/eldest question | 1/15/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: Current Crush(CC) We met through a trainee program. I immediately found him attractive, we got on ... A: Sorry for the delay. It seems the gf is very much in the picture, whether in practice or otherwise ... | ||
| I've read that body language between friends is often a lot like body language between friends... | 1/11/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am 20 years old in the United States. I've read that the body language people show when they are ... A: Assuming you are the man who has the female friend, for you the only way to tell is by asking her ... | ||
| confused! | 1/6/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I've known this guy for 2 years and its very confusing. I was married to an abusive mand for 15 ... A: Yes, you're confused and need clarity. Most of all you need to start respecting yourself. This guy ... | ||
| holding hands? | 1/4/2011 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: Recently, my boyfriend of 5 months started to insist on holding my hands during sex and I was ... A: I think it's just his way to bond with you during sex. Many people like to have eye contact when ... | ||
| Need to Confirm | 12/28/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am trying to figure out whether or not someone is interested in me. He is usually a talkative man ... A: Yes, he is definitely interested in you, and the fact he doesn't talk much does not contradict his ... | ||
| Expressing through his body language. | 12/22/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am so attracted to this man and I feel that he is attracted to me. I am a pretty girl and use to ... A: OK, Alison. ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU WANT TO GET OUT OF THIS STORY. From my experience women very ... | ||
| Dr.confusing | 12/19/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am a female living in Berkeley, California. A few months ago, I had to get an oral surgery. A few ... A: I get lots of questions from women about the doctors treating them. Remember, beyond the medical ... | ||
| Body Language | 12/9/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I work with a guy. I am at least 10 years older than him. Over the last few months he has started ... A: You're not inventing anything. The guy sends you (probably unaware) all the signals he is interested ... | ||
| Body Language: touching keys | 12/4/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: There is this woman I know and whenever she is talking, whether to me or another group of people, ... A: D ? Whenever a person plays with keys, pen, or any other object they're holding or is near them - ... | ||
| figuring out if this is a relationship | 11/27/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I (22) need some feedback on the intentions of this guy (23) ive been dating for the last 4 months. ... A: OK, Sophia, it's good you shared this. I see where you're coming from. But you have good instincts ... | ||
| figuring out if this is a relationship | 11/25/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I (22) need some feedback on the intentions of this guy (23) ive been dating for the last 4 months. ... A: I forgot to mention something important to you to know. You asked in your subject title if this is a ... | ||
| From her actions is she interested? | 11/20/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I recently graduated, and I went on a retreat as a leader. My sister who is 2 years younger came ... A: Oh yeah, the girl likes you for sure. She was not only flirting with you but actually made some ... | ||
| His body language? | 11/16/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I'm wondering about this guy that I know.He is my brother in law,he's in a relationship & I'm not.I ... A: Let's start from the end. ...And if you knew for sure that his body language meant he was ... | ||
| Just wondering... | 11/10/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: Sometime ago my exgirlfriend and I broke up. Our breakup was diplomatic but I cant help but think ... A: You may be looking for approval for your behavior. It will help you in life in all areas to give ... | ||
| Just wondering... | 11/9/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: Sometime ago my exgirlfriend and I broke up. Our breakup was diplomatic but I cant help but think ... A: I will start from the end... Say she did love you and still cared for you -- would you leave your ... | ||
| BREAKUP KISS | 11/9/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: MY EXGIRLFRIEND RECENTLY BROKE UP WITH ME AND BEFORE I LEFT HER HOUSE SHE GAVE ME A LONG KISS. SHE ... A: It's very OK to have all those feelings of anger right now, provided you don't dwell on them for too ... | ||
| BREAKUP KISS | 11/8/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: MY EXGIRLFRIEND RECENTLY BROKE UP WITH ME AND BEFORE I LEFT HER HOUSE SHE GAVE ME A LONG KISS. SHE ... A: Sometimes we know the answers deep inside us; we just don't want to hear them. You know very well ... | ||
| never thought this would happen | 11/8/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I met a guy at my work in this tiny office building. We only work there 1-2 days a week, for 4 hour ... A: The truth you DON'T really know this man well enough, and attraction may drive you to make premature ... | ||
| BREAKUP KISS | 11/6/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: MY EXGIRLFRIEND RECENTLY BROKE UP WITH ME AND BEFORE I LEFT HER HOUSE SHE GAVE ME A LONG KISS. SHE ... A: It means she doesn't know what she wants! No wonder you feel confused. She sent you a double ... | ||
| His body language, does he like me? | 10/29/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: Theres this guy in my school who is so amazing i totally like him. But i just don't know if he likes ... A: Overcoming your shyness is always good. But let him do the asking, and make the next move. Be ... | ||
| His body language, does he like me? | 10/28/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: Theres this guy in my school who is so amazing i totally like him. But i just don't know if he likes ... A: I must say you have a good sense of what body language is! You know that eye contact and a smile are ... | ||
| body language | 10/19/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I'm 37 and live in the US. My female colleague has a habit of leaning back in her desk chair when ... A: No, she's not being flirtatious. When someone is interested in you, they will lean towards you, not ... | ||
| Is she attracted to me? body langauge | 10/14/2010 | Dating Coach Irene |
| Q: I am in college and there is this girl in my class who is attractive. She was in my class last ... A: Yes, she is attracted to you, and she is letting you know she is! The eyes are the windows to the ... | ||
| how do i get him | 8/26/2009 | Briddick Webb |
| Q: I really like this guy...but he has a steady girlfriend that he has been dating for a year. The girl ... A: Be extremely approachable and friendly. Put yourself in places where he is going to be. Start a ... | ||
| Sex | 8/4/2009 | Briddick Webb |
| Q: When you get your girlfriend all horny and she ready for sex how to keep her beggin for more A: A lot of guys get this wrong. They go straight for the penetration and neglect to warm up the ... | ||
| Is my former academic advisor attracted to me? | 4/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I am extremely attracted to a man 15 years my senior. He was my academic advisor/counselor at a ... A: I think you're "reaching" a little bit with signs of interest from him, but on a good note I didn't ... | ||
| Guys | 4/13/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: Me and a guy have been together for a while now, we cant see eachother (personal), but we ... A: More likely than not he is ignoring you, or not paying attention to you when other women have ... | ||
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