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| Mind Games | 10/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I forgot to mention one important detail. A couple months after the last time we saw each other, my ...
A: Re-read your follow-up question to me and tell me what you think. I'll tell you what I think -- ...
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| Playing mind games..or his feelings are true, or both? | 10/22/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: Ok so this guy knows I like him, I asked him out like 6 months ago and he rejected it by saying its ...
A: You're getting played. He's either an attention whore or he likes to know that you are a viable ...
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| Mind Games | 10/21/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I forgot to mention one important detail. A couple months after the last time we saw each other, my ...
A: She's a chick who doesn't know what she wants - the key to a girl like this is not being patient and ...
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| Mind Games | 10/20/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: Met a girl last year. But I was in another relationship that was on the rocks and I was in the ...
A: First understand something, a girl spilling her guts out to you isn't a sign of interest -- its a ...
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| giving space. | 10/16/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: okay. thank you for taking a look at my question. i feel like this is a very common situation so ...
A: The key is understanding that you always have to keep each other's INTEREST level in each other ...
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| Girl I've been dating all of a sudden isn't interested | 10/8/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: So I've been seeing this girl for about two months now. Everything was going great; we started with ...
A: Andy, Do you know what happens to guys who put all their cards on the table before a winner is ...
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| Interest | 10/6/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: Hey My gf broke up with me after 2 months of long distance for a shitty reason (says her work makes ...
A: If she broke up with you for any reason, it means her interest level in you is lower than yours is ...
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| Harsh women, who don't know how to be loved | 9/29/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I recently got officially let go by my girlfriend for lunching with two coworkers she dislikes. She ...
A: She probably wasn't really ready for the long term future with you and got scared off by the ...
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| just want to have some fun. | 9/28/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: so this is not an e-mail about trying to figure someone out. i want to know your advice about how to ...
A: I'm going to be blunt with you since I want to help you as quickly and effectively as possible -- by ...
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| How should I proceed? | 9/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: Met this girl a couple months back, and instantly clicked. Anytime we were in the same room we spent ...
A: You're setting yourself up for failure if you "wait" for a girl. What you really need to do is ...
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| Female Companionship | 9/24/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I have been seeing a guy most of this year. We wasn't serious, it was just casual and I developed ...
A: He was just teasing you because you hurt him by hooking up with one of his friends. Friendly ...
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| Is this mind games? | 9/16/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: i really need to know what is happening to my life.I had a relationship for 3 years with a man who I ...
A: Marsha, Marsha, Marsha ... The reason you went back is because even though he is NUTS, he knows ...
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| I'm confused... | 9/2/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I have this guy friend. he broke up with his girlfriend back in May. they had 6 month relationship. ...
A: Its pretty common for guys to "push away" and be mean to girls who they know are romantically ...
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| how do i get him | 8/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I really like this guy...but he has a steady girlfriend that he has been dating for a year. The girl ...
A: The key to a seduction is focusing on ATTRACTION, and understanding what will attract him to you. ...
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| ex-gf troubles | 8/25/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: How's it going man, hopefully you can understand this better than I can. I dated this girl for ...
A: Hey DJ, The answer to both of your questions is the same: YES!!! Yes you should forget about this ...
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| break up? | 8/24/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I too have a similar question of one that has already been asked. Is my boyfriend trying to break up ...
A: Even if he's not trying to break up with you, his interest level is definitely waning. You have two ...
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| Is she leading me on or just being nice? | 8/11/2009 | Anisa |
Q: I like this girl a lot who's 29, I'm 26. I see her once every week for some team sport activity. I ...
A: I can see where her behavior is frustrating to you. The fact that you have asked her out and she has ...
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| she didn't call | 8/3/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: you may remember me: http://www.allexperts.com/user.cgi?m=6&catID=2120&qID=4751922 I cut her, she ...
A: The point of not calling a woman for a period of time is to understand what her interest level in ...
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| I cant figure him out | 7/27/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: So i basically been dating this guy since MAY. We never made it official but was just dating. We ...
A: You're getting played. He could have lost interest for a number of reasons -- it could be simply ...
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| I want her to want me | 7/24/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I met this girl about 2 years ago, and it was the first girl I really liked and wanted to be with. ...
A: Yes, you need to cut her off completely. If after a week or two she is calling you like crazy, then ...
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| I want her to want me | 7/18/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I met this girl about 2 years ago, and it was the first girl I really liked and wanted to be with. ...
A: For at least a week or two you shouldn't answer her calls at all. When she finally does reach you ...
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| mind games | 7/17/2009 | Anisa |
Q: I had been writing to this girl overseas and I finaly established a relationship last winter. I had ...
A: I don't think she's stupid, I think she is quite confused about her feelings for you. She loves the ...
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| I want her to want me | 7/17/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I met this girl about 2 years ago, and it was the first girl I really liked and wanted to be with. ...
A: Read what you just told me a couple of times: "I think she is young (23) and she needs to have fun, ...
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| Boyfriend. | 7/16/2009 | Anisa |
Q: I am only fifteen, I know I'm young. I have had my boyfriend for almost two years. I do love him. ...
A: No problem, Tori. Well, as I said earlier, men behave this way at any age in their life. Trust me, ...
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| Did I do something wrong? Is he playing games? | 7/9/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I couldn't help but notice you are in expert in many areas (mind games, how to attract the man of ...
A: Angela, Based on the end result of the night it sounds like you were more into him than he was into ...
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| Anonymous gifts | 7/9/2009 | Anisa |
Q: Okay, here's a question I would bet you've never received. I'm so confused in my life. I'm married ...
A: I do not think it's mean what you do. Actually, it's rather thoughtful, and I'm sure these women ...
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| being attacked? | 7/8/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I need some advice. This keeps happening to me. 99% of the people I meet are totally nice to me. ...
A: Well there are a few options that you have. First of all you need to talk to them. I'm not exactly ...
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| confused | 7/8/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: so i'm seeing this guy, a good friend hooked us up we have only been seeing each other for about ...
A: I'm not exactly sure if I understand your question so if I miss something in my response then please ...
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| is my ex playing mind games or does he want me back in his own time? | 7/6/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: i was with my ex for 4 years we moved in with his mother and things started going down hill. I felt ...
A: What's up Elizabeth, Actions speak louder than words sweetness, based on what you've told me he's ...
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| Confused by love | 7/6/2009 | Anisa |
Q: Is it possible for someone to be in love with you but not want a relationship? My ex boyfriend says ...
A: Men and women are biologically different in the sense that men are "doers" and women are "talkers". ...
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| ignored | 7/3/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: There is this guy in my class who always ignores me. He's a beautiful jock with abs. when we are ...
A: I really do not get the sense that this guy likes you and I wouldn't really try to assume that he ...
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| Is she messing with me? or is she scared of liking me? | 6/29/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: So, I've known this girl for about 20-21 years (I'm 21). She dated my cousin back when I was 13 and ...
A: I think you need to just go ahead and officially ask her out. You sent me another message but I ...
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| confused/frustrated | 6/22/2009 | Anisa |
Q: why am i constantly fantasizing about my divorce lawyer when i'm in the process of getting a divorce ...
A: It is perfectly ok to fantasize about another man, considering you are a few steps away from ...
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| What are we? | 6/20/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I'm 20 years old. For a month now, I've been seeing a guy my age. I stay over about every other ...
A: Yes, I definitely cannot tell you what the status of your relationship with this guy is but it seems ...
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| feelings for a man with no emotions | 6/19/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I have been dating this guy for three months almost. We only go out on Friday and talk on the phone ...
A: Well I wouldn't jump to conclusions and say that he has no emotions. The best thing you can do is ...
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| i need advise | 5/2/2009 | Marc Niles |
Q: This girl and i were together but then she dumped me and i wanna get back together but i don't know ...
A: hey jeremy.. im sorry you guys broke up..its hard..yes. however its nice that you wanna get back ...
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| stay or break it off | 4/22/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I am 42, he is 48, I got a place to life, a career, good income, car and I am independed. He is ...
A: What's up Petra, It sounds like you're getting taken for granted by the object of your affection. ...
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| Mind Games. | 4/16/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I'm not sure you can help me, but I am just a little confused. There is this guy who I like, and he ...
A: Hey Anastasia, I'm going to go on the assumption that you want honest help -- basically both men ...
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| The Wife's Flirtation | 4/8/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I hope things are well with you. Here is the situation I'm writing about. There is a married couple ...
A: What's up William, The reason she is flirting with you like this is because she is having trouble ...
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| is he still in love or playing with me? | 4/7/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I met a guy named Jay a week before I got married. We were madly in love, he showed me so much ...
A: He's toying with you and doesn't take you seriously. How do you make someone realize that they'll ...
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