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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Confused. | 1/1/2012 | Marshall Niles |
| Q: In order for this situation to make sense heres a little bit of the back story... So last year I ... A: Hey Angie:) i hope you're doing okay. I can understand that this musta been pretty stressful for ... | ||
| is he teasing or being serious? | 7/28/2011 | Marshall Niles |
| Q: Heres my situation. I've been dating a single father whos older than me for almost 10 months now. We ... A: im so sorry for the late reply. I was out of country and had no internet because i was travelling ... | ||
| who blew off who first? | 7/17/2011 | Marshall Niles |
| Q: I have a guy friend,my classmate throughout my schooling and bench mate in grade9.We shared good ... A: Boy, you both are running around like chicken with their heads chopped off! alright, lets slow down ... | ||
| Is she messing with me? | 7/15/2011 | Marshall Niles |
| Q: Ok so when I was in the Air Force I met this girl and we became really good friends. We've known ... A: Hey Kristopher, Hope youre doing well. Looks like you pretty much answered your own questions. I ... | ||
| No I want him... | 7/1/2011 | Marshall Niles |
| Q: I'm a software developer/trainer. At the risk of bragging I am excellent at my job. I am smart, ... A: Hey jade. you're welcome, though id shy away from calling it "tough love":), however, lets look at ... | ||
| No I want him... | 6/27/2011 | Marshall Niles |
| Q: I'm a software developer/trainer. At the risk of bragging I am excellent at my job. I am smart, ... A: Jade Jade Jade!! (Thats a ake up call with your name AS the ringtone)..time to snap back into ... | ||
| Dating | 5/25/2011 | (Dear) Abby |
| Q: I have been communicating with this girl for over 3 months via text. We both leave in different ... A: It sounds like she's the kind of girl who "likes a chase". Once you keep on showing your interest ... | ||
| I'm confusing | 5/25/2011 | (Dear) Abby |
| Q: My ex on and off boyfriend of 4 years is confusing me. we both working fulltime and was very busy so ... A: Jessica, You know it's really funny, because I have gone through something very similiar with ... | ||
| Does this girl possibly like me ? | 5/24/2011 | (Dear) Abby |
| Q: I'm a guy at university & hav liked this girl i see in the library. For months we would just make ... A: Well Daniel, Thinking back on the fact about the guy she was holding hands with, it is a ... | ||
| Does this girl possibly like me ? | 5/20/2011 | (Dear) Abby |
| Q: I'm a guy at university & hav liked this girl i see in the library. For months we would just make ... A: Daniel, It sounds like she may have been a little intimidated when you walked up to her and ... | ||
| Dating | 5/20/2011 | (Dear) Abby |
| Q: I have been communicating with this girl for over 3 months via text. We both leave in different ... A: Branny, It seems this girls is either very confused, or simply is trying to avoid any kind of ... | ||
| Future Proposal? | 3/31/2011 | Jan Harrell, PhD |
| Q: I been seeing this guy for a long time and he happens to be a dear friend of mine. He has a hard ... A: Allison - I have no idea what he meant by that. But the very fact that both you and I are ... | ||
| Is she messing with my head? | 3/20/2011 | Jan Harrell, PhD |
| Q: I have known this girl for five years and we were really close friends, I have always had feelings ... A: Luke - I think your inviting her to talk was absolutely the right and best thing you could have ... | ||
| question | 3/19/2011 | Jan Harrell, PhD |
| Q: Alright so I am wondering what the psychological reasons are behind this guy I am seeing. I knew ... A: KItty, Here are my thoughts on what you've written... I have to start with a little bit of ... | ||
| long term relation ship ended | 3/17/2011 | Jan Harrell, PhD |
| Q: So basically I will give you a quick rundown of our relationship past til now. Started off okay but ... A: Brandon, There's just no way to know what's going on in her, or what will happen. The most you can ... | ||
| long term relation ship ended | 3/14/2011 | Jan Harrell, PhD |
| Q: So basically I will give you a quick rundown of our relationship past til now. Started off okay but ... A: I have worked with a lot of people who have been in a similar situation. IF both of you are willing ... | ||
| is he interested? | 4/18/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: I've been seeing a guy the last month or so. We've gone on a few dates, and had a few sleepovers- no ... A: I would say he's more or less just stringing you along. I wouldn't call him flaky since technically ... | ||
| bullying case | 4/16/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: I'm a 33 year old female medical student. There was another 29 year old female medical student who ... A: You definitely did the right thing! The way this woman is acting is completely unprofessional, I ... | ||
| what to do when an ex makes contact?? | 3/28/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: In Janurary my bf ended bcuz he didnt have time for me, or feel as if he wasnt a "good" guy and that ... A: I doubt any of this is because he needs an ego boost. It really sounds like he has been thinking ... | ||
| Serious Mind Games?? | 3/26/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: my situation is a little...weird at best so here goes. Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after 3 ... A: To be honest with you there is not much you can do on your end. I don't mean to be rude, but it ... | ||
| Are girls interested in me ? | 3/16/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: I went to a Persian festival party last night and during the time there, i noticed many girls ... A: The girls may have been checking you out. If people have told you that you were good looking then ... | ||
| is he playing a mind game? or can i get him? | 3/15/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: Well, i fancy a lot this guy that lives in my building, he lives just in front of me. So, i was ... A: I actually think you have a pretty good chance of getting with him. Up until the last few times of ... | ||
| Is she for real | 3/10/2010 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
| Q: Here it is, My roommate gets a call from a woman who was recently kicked out of her home. She has ... A: Honestly I am surprised you guys are dealing with this drama considering that both of those girls ... | ||
| Mind Games | 10/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I forgot to mention one important detail. A couple months after the last time we saw each other, my ... A: Re-read your follow-up question to me and tell me what you think. I'll tell you what I think -- ... | ||
| Playing mind games..or his feelings are true, or both? | 10/22/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: Ok so this guy knows I like him, I asked him out like 6 months ago and he rejected it by saying its ... A: You're getting played. He's either an attention whore or he likes to know that you are a viable ... | ||
| Mind Games | 10/21/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I forgot to mention one important detail. A couple months after the last time we saw each other, my ... A: She's a chick who doesn't know what she wants - the key to a girl like this is not being patient and ... | ||
| Mind Games | 10/20/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: Met a girl last year. But I was in another relationship that was on the rocks and I was in the ... A: First understand something, a girl spilling her guts out to you isn't a sign of interest -- its a ... | ||
| giving space. | 10/16/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: okay. thank you for taking a look at my question. i feel like this is a very common situation so ... A: The key is understanding that you always have to keep each other's INTEREST level in each other ... | ||
| Girl I've been dating all of a sudden isn't interested | 10/8/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: So I've been seeing this girl for about two months now. Everything was going great; we started with ... A: Andy, Do you know what happens to guys who put all their cards on the table before a winner is ... | ||
| Interest | 10/6/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: Hey My gf broke up with me after 2 months of long distance for a shitty reason (says her work makes ... A: If she broke up with you for any reason, it means her interest level in you is lower than yours is ... | ||
| Harsh women, who don't know how to be loved | 9/29/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I recently got officially let go by my girlfriend for lunching with two coworkers she dislikes. She ... A: She probably wasn't really ready for the long term future with you and got scared off by the ... | ||
| just want to have some fun. | 9/28/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: so this is not an e-mail about trying to figure someone out. i want to know your advice about how to ... A: I'm going to be blunt with you since I want to help you as quickly and effectively as possible -- by ... | ||
| How should I proceed? | 9/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: Met this girl a couple months back, and instantly clicked. Anytime we were in the same room we spent ... A: You're setting yourself up for failure if you "wait" for a girl. What you really need to do is ... | ||
| Female Companionship | 9/24/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I have been seeing a guy most of this year. We wasn't serious, it was just casual and I developed ... A: He was just teasing you because you hurt him by hooking up with one of his friends. Friendly ... | ||
| Is this mind games? | 9/16/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: i really need to know what is happening to my life.I had a relationship for 3 years with a man who I ... A: Marsha, Marsha, Marsha ... The reason you went back is because even though he is NUTS, he knows ... | ||
| I'm confused... | 9/2/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I have this guy friend. he broke up with his girlfriend back in May. they had 6 month relationship. ... A: Its pretty common for guys to "push away" and be mean to girls who they know are romantically ... | ||
| how do i get him | 8/26/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I really like this guy...but he has a steady girlfriend that he has been dating for a year. The girl ... A: The key to a seduction is focusing on ATTRACTION, and understanding what will attract him to you. ... | ||
| ex-gf troubles | 8/25/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: How's it going man, hopefully you can understand this better than I can. I dated this girl for ... A: Hey DJ, The answer to both of your questions is the same: YES!!! Yes you should forget about this ... | ||
| break up? | 8/24/2009 | The Interesting Man |
| Q: I too have a similar question of one that has already been asked. Is my boyfriend trying to break up ... A: Even if he's not trying to break up with you, his interest level is definitely waning. You have two ... | ||
| Is she leading me on or just being nice? | 8/11/2009 | Anisa |
| Q: I like this girl a lot who's 29, I'm 26. I see her once every week for some team sport activity. I ... A: I can see where her behavior is frustrating to you. The fact that you have asked her out and she has ... | ||
Marshall Niles
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
Counseling was something i started in YMCA, New Delhi as a volunteer,..and after having studied many situations and people, and having analyzed to a point where i was over the top..i believe that having a third person outlook is a sensible guideline into resolving issues....Thats why those people are called counselors..because they see what the other two don't.
Experience
i involve myself in arts and sciences,... studying human nature is like a second life to me, and i forever find myself questioning why people do what they do. Its a interesting situation really!
Publications
http://www.articlesbase.com/destinations-articles/the-hajj-of-the-modern-traveler-southern-turkey-3971969.html
Education/Credentials
High school Graduate, Diploma in performing arts, Degree in English (Honors)and Currently Doing a Bachelors in Psychology at Concordia University, Montreal
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