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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| teen incest | 2/5/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: I was molested and almost raped by my uncle about a year and a half ago. I am now in high school. I ... A: Kate, I'm sorry to hear of your sexual assault experience, as well as your inability to be able to ... | ||
| My wife's childhood | 2/4/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: When my wife was 7 years old her 8 year old brother forced her to have sexual intercourse with her ... A: Pete, while technically your wife suffered from an "incest" experience, sex play between siblings is ... | ||
| Confused and scared | 1/24/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: Okay well I am 18 years old n going to have my first born son..things have no been easy specially ... A: Well, this is certainly a challenging circumstance for you all. Your father might be suffering from ... | ||
| Was this abuse? | 1/22/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: I am 44 years old. When I was young my Stepdad touched me innapropriatley. The first time I ... A: Melissa, Once you have spoken your truth to your mother and she deflects the subject or claims not ... | ||
| father molested my daughter | 1/17/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: My father molested my 17 year old daughter and has the attitude it can all be worked out. My mother ... A: Lee, Alcoholics can justify and manipulate people in many ways, just to make themselves seem not ... | ||
| Cousin Molested Me | 1/16/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: From the age of 10 to 13 my cousin, who is the same age as me, molested me. He would sleep over ... A: Rebecca, when these kinds of situations come up in families, it triggers a lot of personal issues ... | ||
| Sex | 1/11/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: I lost my virginity a year ago and me and my current boyfriend are going to have sex but I was ... A: Tiffany, I think you need to go back and study anatomy and sex education. Here are a lot of ... | ||
| What is wrong with me? | 1/4/2012 | William Silver |
| Q: I am a 22 year old african american man My first sexual experience was with my younger cousin when ... A: Michael, you seem to be having a pretty intense sexual experience in your young life. Perhaps, ... | ||
| how do i forgive my x husband that molsted my child | 12/31/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: hello we are about to close out 2011 n go into 2012 my daughter months ago told me she had something ... A: Yolanda, I understand how angry you are about these revelations and how badly you feel about not ... | ||
| Abuse? | 12/28/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: Well, right now I am 17 years old and living with a relative. A few years ago, I was spending the ... A: James, I am not clear about the age of the events or the age span between the two of you, but ... | ||
| Molested | 12/22/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: . Well. Where do I start? Im 17, still living with both my parents. Most people dont remember their ... A: Bella, I am sorry to hear of your long history of abuse and that you feel out of control of your ... | ||
| Fear | 12/14/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I have a rather intense fear of a certain movie, the wizard of oz.. Even typing the name was a ... A: Astrid, It seems pretty clear that you saw the movie as a very young child and certain segments ... | ||
| incest | 12/13/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: something that i recently came to know bout is that fathers sometimes fall in love with their ... A: Neeru, I can't say that I am an "expert" in incest relationships, but there are many complicated ... | ||
| Pedophilia issues and self hate | 12/12/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: As I was searching the internet for help, I found that there was someone here who asked for help ... A: the_unknown Your natural sexual curiosity at 14, is pretty normal for most young adolescents/teens. ... | ||
| blackmail n harrasement | 12/8/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: im 22 and my ex-bf is 25.i was in a relationship with him since 5yrs.we got physical too and on one ... A: Megha, blackmail is a matter for the police authorities. I know it is embarrassing and shameful, but ... | ||
| Molestation | 12/6/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I have always had a kind of bad family situation. My mom is well I guess the closest word to ... A: Veronica, It certainly seems that your mind-body has some unresolved trauma issues, related to ... | ||
| molestation | 11/29/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I am a women of 32 years married with kids.My childhood was pathetic.I have been sexually abused by ... A: Sumi, I am saddened to hear about your life of sexual abuse, especially at the hands of your father. ... | ||
| child sexual abuse issues | 11/28/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: Is there a legal way to address child sexual abuse after the 10 year statute of limitations set down ... A: Leo, I'm sorry to hear about your struggles in being heard and having the sexual abuse crimes ... | ||
| How do I tell him? | 11/22/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months, we are both 15 and sophomores in high ... A: Chloe... Tell your parents and have them contact Richie's parents to let them know what happened. ... | ||
| Father Asked to Feel My Breasts | 10/29/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I have always been sort of uncomfortable around my father. I never knew why. When I was a toddler, ... A: Jennette, Even at 12, you have the strength and wisdom not to be swayed by "offers" of gifts to ... | ||
| So many things. | 10/22/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I was taken into Social Services care from age 13, they had been involved with us as a family from ... A: Leanne, Drugs were your attempt to escape from the continuing traumas of your life at home. Growing ... | ||
| Why didn't men smell girls? | 10/18/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I was born on March 15th of 1947 in London, UK. I don't remember my biological parents but I was ... A: I guess it would depend on where they were putting their noses, wouldn't it? Were they smelling ... | ||
| Why didn't men smell girls? | 10/17/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I was born on March 15th of 1947 in London, UK. I don't remember my biological parents but I was ... A: Charlotte, Well, I have never heard of this before. I don't think it is common practice in the US, ... | ||
| I think I was sexually abused as a child | 10/15/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I have just turned 16 and have had some pretty tough times over the last 5 years of high school. I ... A: Melissa, our mind-body systems store pretty much all the experiences that we have had from day one. ... | ||
| molestation | 10/12/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I spent the night at my cousins house about a year ago. I took the floor and he took the bed. I woke ... A: Ashley, exact legal definitions vary, but there are numerous sites that have a fairly complete ... | ||
| Molested at age 12 by another female | 10/8/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I was molested by an older woman, that I really cared a lot for, from the time I was 12 until I was ... A: Krista, Your friend needs/needed some serious therapy. Her own sexual desires overshadowed your own ... | ||
| molestation or experimenting | 10/5/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: When I was around the ages of 6 or 7 my older brother who is 7 years older than I used to take me to ... A: Bob, my vote is that he was too old to be "experimenting" with a young child of 6-7. Teens, moving ... | ||
| help me plz | 9/30/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: Okay this has been hurting me inside for a while and explain to me is this horrible or normal or ... A: Mellia, I think the difference in age and maturity between you two had you "playing" with a ... | ||
| husband touched my daughter | 9/29/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: Let me start by saying i am in no way gonna try to excuse what he did...my 10 year old very well ... A: Brittany, I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's molestation experience, which has revealed your ... | ||
| Molested by brother | 9/21/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I was molested by my 14 year old brother when i was 8. I only remember a few times of the incident ... A: Jenna, all the feelings and associated negativity that you are experiencing is the residue of ... | ||
| Why? | 9/20/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: Why do I feel so nasty after all these years? How do I stop these feelings when it comes to my past ... A: Tracy, all the "nasty" feelings and associated negativity that you are experiencing is the residue ... | ||
| What if it's the teenage who's inappropriate with an uncle? | 9/14/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: What if it's a teenager who's inappropriate with her uncle? She was sexually active before he came ... A: Anna, while hormonal teens can still play this "jail-bait" game, there are more advances in science ... | ||
| pedophiles are creeps that should die | 9/6/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: i think im a pedophile, iknow in my heart im not but i dont know, what are the clear signs that ... A: Lia, people are not "born" to be pedophiles or other sexual deviants. In most all cases, what they ... | ||
| Please help me. | 9/5/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: my name is Kaylee and im 15 years old. I live with my mom, step-dad, and my little sister. I have ... A: Kaylee Anne, I am sorry to hear of this horrible abuse of your sister. Many of the questions I ... | ||
| complaints from my 3yr grandaughter that grandpa hurt her | 9/2/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I need to know what if anything can be done to investigate my exhusband on accusations that he ... A: Pam, I am sorry to hear of this despicable crime on your 3 year old. I don't think there is a ... | ||
| Anti-relationships | 8/29/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: My mother and father used to have sex on the same bed as me, right next to me as I cried. This ... A: Jennifer, having sex with your child in the bed is pretty thoughtless, but it kind of a borderline ... | ||
| Don't know what to do with myself. | 8/28/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I'm a 19 year old female and what I'm about to tell you is something that I have never and will ... A: Xiomara, Sexual trauma in childhood leads to PTSD symptoms like you have described, sooner or ... | ||
| Childhood memory | 8/27/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: Hey there my name is john. Im in my late teens and recently i started remembering a few things that ... A: John, we all get acquainted with sex from someone or something, somehow in our lives. If we don't ... | ||
| 3 year old abused? | 8/26/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: My husband has a fear that my 3 year old son may have been sexually abused by a man. The reason ... A: An "instant reaction" behaviors often indicate some kind of traumatic association, so there may be ... | ||
| Sex Issues Because Of Childhood Sexual Abuse? | 8/25/2011 | William Silver |
| Q: I am a 20 year old female who is currently in a long term relationship with another woman. When I ... A: Kami, You don't "get over" sexual molestation/abuse when it happens in childhood, without effective ... | ||
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I can address all questions about physical, sexual, emotional trauma and how to eliminate the effects from your life. I specialize in assisting clients with a 1 to 3-hour session that can discharge all of the negative feelings around any type of emotionally based problem. I can direct you to some websites where you can download information to assist you and your loved ones with emotional problems. I can also assist directly on the phone or via email, in addition to personal sessions, here in San Diego, California. I am not a licensed therapist, lawyer or law enforcement officer.
I have been a holistic health therapist for a total of over 15 years, specializing in anxiety-phobia, trauma release work.
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TFT/EFT training, Cranio-Sacral Therapy, SHEN, Reiki, Hypnotherapy.

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