| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Sexual Abuse | 11/21/2009 | William Silver |
Q: My friends daughter (who was nine years old at the time of the incident) was sexually abused by her ...
A: Janie... Not knowing all the details, I have to cover several fronts here.... First, realize that ...
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| my neice & her father | 11/20/2009 | William Silver |
Q: My niece is a little over 2 yrs. old she got a bladder infection (she is still in diapers) She would ...
A: Michelle, there are numerous websites devoted to child molestation/abuse. Here is just one of them: ...
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| Tramatic memory repression | 11/19/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I don't know the correct terms for this defense mechanism. Forgive me for that. When I was about ...
A: I apologize for taking so long in answering you. I had to leave town suddenly to see about my ...
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| incest and sexual addiction | 11/18/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: Every Friday evening and Saturday afternoon my parents would go out. My brother had to babysit me if ...
A: Same thing happened with my brother at nights because I had to sleep in the same bed with him and ...
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| 6 year old child | 11/17/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I have a 6 year old daughter who was molested/raped by my nephew. Recently she has been waking up ...
A: Malin, Most "therapy" is slow and tedious and depends on some cognitive interaction between ...
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| molestation | 11/16/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I am a 44 y/O female, a male member of my family who is approx. 9 years younger than me is having ...
A: Belinda.... I guess the ages of both of you, when this occurred, would give me a little more to go ...
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| the unspeakable | 11/13/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I have recently found out my niece has been molested by my step-nephew (my sister step son) for the ...
A: No, the psychiatrist does not have a legal obligation to report the crime. Everything that is said ...
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| Was my friend molested ? | 11/13/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: My friend told me that she thought she was molested by her step dad. She said it started when she ...
A: I Looked up molest in the thesauras just for the fun of it even though I knew before I did that it ...
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| My sons | 11/11/2009 | William Silver |
Q: Alright let me start a few years back. I left my husband over seven years ago and when I did he ...
A: Judith, there are numerous signs of child molestation to be observed. You can read through the list ...
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| Confused about the past... | 11/8/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I am 20 years old, married and have a new born baby. I've been wondering lately if something from ...
A: A true relationship is not supposed to keep anything from each other. When you think your baby is ...
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| Confused about the past... | 11/8/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I am 20 years old, married and have a new born baby. I've been wondering lately if something from ...
A: God never puts more on us than we can take for the moment. You have just had a wonderful new baby ...
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| signs of child molestation | 11/8/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: My son is about to turn 5 and started pre-k in Sept. He loves his school and friends. He is an ...
A: You are right and your administrator are both right. It is not normal though that he masturbate ...
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| Molested...please help need to know something | 11/8/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I am almost 20 years old. And things got out of hand with a girlfriend of mine. Which was okay i ...
A: Kassie, NO means NO in most languages. Is this going to happen again with this guy or not? If you ...
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| Does my girlfriend have attchment disorder? | 11/7/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: my girlfriend and i have been going out for 11 months. we are both 18, and we plan to get married ...
A: You're battling multiple personality disorder. Sometime she's your girlfriend, other times she's the ...
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| Anabella my 4yr old daughter has been complaining of pain in her vagina | 11/7/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I was taking her a bath last night and she was crying that her peepee was hurting her. earlier that ...
A: Esther, your first priority is to have your daughter seen my a medical expert in childhood sexual ...
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| bad judgement | 11/5/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: my name is brad I have a 11 year old daughter Kaylee. Recently I made the worse judgement call a ...
A: Brad, If you think you are going to keep it from happening again, you must be made of steel. I just ...
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| overreaction?? | 11/5/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: Today after picking my 3 year old from his fathers house, 15 minutes into the ride my lil boy tells ...
A: You are definitely not over reacting! I don't know how you held yourself together to get all that ...
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| Forgiving myself. | 11/5/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I can recall being molested by family friends (children), when I was a small girl. I didnt know that ...
A: It was not your fault, but the fault of the family friends that molested you and tried to make you ...
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| bad judgement | 11/5/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: my name is brad I have a 11 year old daughter Kaylee. Recently I made the worse judgement call a ...
A: You know she can never come back to live with you. It will just start all over again no matter how ...
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| afraid for our child | 11/3/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: last night my sister in law came over to our house to tell us something very disturbing. she said ...
A: Something about the entire situation sounds erroneous to me. A family never goes that long without ...
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| Concerned Mom | 10/28/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: "I have a 2 and 1/2 year old. I have this weird feeling that she has been molested. A few months ago ...
A: It so tragic for little ones like her. Unfortunately, no a two year old would not be trying to put ...
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| after molested certain body parts hold bad memories | 10/28/2009 | William Silver |
Q: My twin daughters were molested by their cousin who was their age from about 10-12 years old. He ...
A: Gina, I'm sorry to hear of these residual trauma-related episodes. The mind-body does record ...
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| Legal matters | 10/27/2009 | William Silver |
Q: my friend Jessica was molested by her brother many years ago. She never reported it, because she was ...
A: Christo, I can't comment on the legalities of your country, concerning the reporting of rape and ...
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| My 5 year old says she was molested by her father. | 10/27/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: Ok, when my daughter was 2 and a half i was putting her panties on and she pointed at her vagina ...
A: By all means, go somewhere else. Girls that are 5 years old just don't think up stuff like that. ...
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| bad judgement | 10/26/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: my name is brad I have a 11 year old daughter Kaylee. Recently I made the worse judgement call a ...
A: Yes, you do need help. If family and children services found out, they would put you in jail and ...
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| Could I have been molested? | 10/26/2009 | Christine Taylor |
Q: Christine, I think I could have been molested by my nephew, probably between the age of 2 and 4. I ...
A: Charlene, I am very sorry but I can not answer the question 'could I have been molested?'. My first ...
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| I think I was molested | 10/25/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I am 16 now. When I was around 11 years old I started remembering details of me being molested by a ...
A: Sam, When children are molested it does upset the mind-body balance and the trauma stays resident ...
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| question | 10/24/2009 | William Silver |
Q: When I confronted him he said he pulled it out and she did it with the bear. I really don't no how I ...
A: Tiara... welcome to the real world of parenting! Somehow parents are really not prepared for the ...
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| Self Blame | 10/23/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I was sexually abused more than 20 years ago when I was around 8 years old and I still struggle with ...
A: Tracy.... First of all, know that it wasn't your fault. At 8 years of age, you have little control ...
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| Teacher touched me | 10/22/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: First of all, I was molested once in my life, when I was in the 7th grade. My class was in gym ...
A: Unfortunately, "NO". My question, "WHY DIDN'T YOU DO SOMETHING THEN?" It is your word against his ...
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| Granddaughter | 10/22/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I babysit my 2 1/2 yr old Granddaughter weekly, and today she said some things that alarmed me. When ...
A: Obviously, it is disturbing her tremendously to see him in the nude and obviously he is calling his ...
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| worthless | 10/22/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: k. so i'm 41 and my man is 66 and my daughter is 16. i am with him because he was nice to me and ...
A: When you marry a man for the wrong reason, it never goes right. He married you to take care of him. ...
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| Sam's story | 10/20/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: the one asked the I'm not sure question. In answer to your question yes I've had this dream for four ...
A: It is hard to know how to help much without more information. As I said before, if these dreams ...
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| Pending investigation | 10/20/2009 | William Silver |
Q: My 3 year old daughter's doctor will be contacting child services tomorrow on suspicion of ...
A: Roxanne, It may well be that her complaints are due to a chemical burn scenario from the shampoo and ...
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| I can't remember anything | 10/20/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: This is really hard to talk about. I forced myself into believing i imagined it and maybe i did... ...
A: I'm sure there are things that she caught you doing that she questioned when you were younger, like ...
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| three year old | 10/20/2009 | Christine Taylor |
Q: Chistine, I too was abused as a child and would like to present you with a situation involving my ...
A: Phyllis, My first reaction is to have her checked at the doctor again. It maybe that the infection ...
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| I'm not sure | 10/19/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I'm 16 years old and have a hard secret to bear. I'm afraid to tell anyone because I seriously don't ...
A: Have these dreams been going on for four years now? Some of the time, that is all these are, just ...
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| i was molested ! | 10/19/2009 | William Silver |
Q: I was molested when i was five by my great grandfather (my moms dad).My mother was also molested by ...
A: Kelley, I am sorry to hear your sad story of molestation and lack of support from your mother. She ...
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| I can't remember anything | 10/19/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: This is really hard to talk about. I forced myself into believing i imagined it and maybe i did... ...
A: If he was arrested for child molestation after you were there at their day care, unfortuanately, you ...
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| touching my breasts | 10/16/2009 | Sarah Harrison |
Q: I have a question about molestion because I think my father may have/be molesting me. I can give you ...
A: I just had to write back and tell you how proud I am of you. Since your answer is not private, you ...
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