AboutSarah Harrison Expertise I am an expert and counselor on experts.com too. I am aware and have been through it all. I can answer your questions on being molested by my father, brother and how it feels as an adult to have dissociative identity disorder (DID) and post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). I can also answer questions on being in SAA, Sex Addicts Anonymous, AA, Alcoholics Anonymous, being married several times as I tried to run from all my fears, including getting lost on the road and yet I still would strike out to find a man even if I did get lost. There's not anything I can imagine that I wouldn't try to answer!
Experience When I was fifty-nine years of age, I experienced an incorporation with Dr. William Tollefson, the gentleman that developed incorporation therapy. Now my three altars and I are one system instead of four of us fighting against each other. On top of the molestations of childhood, I was raped repeatedly in college by three men and left to die. I stayed in basically an abusive marriage for 26 years even though I was the one that was educated, six years of college.
Organizations: United Methodist's Women's Group, Epiphany, Faith Partner's, Emmaus Walk Publications: Sarah Harrison has written several articles for the Women's Institute for Incorporation Therapy's monthly newsletter as well as articles for spiritual magazines. She has just recently published her own true tragedy of sexual abuse entitled, "You Love Your Daddy, Don't You?" Go to www.incestvictim.com to view the website and order her book. Education/Credentials: Master's in Education, Specialist's in Education, Specialist's in Administration.
Awards and Honors: Teacher of the Year, on the Board of the Finance Committee for Gwinnett Co. Board of Ed. for seven years, CASA volunteer in Forsyth Co. for four years.
Past/Present Clients: Women's group at Birmingham United Methodist Church in Alpharetta, GA and Epiphany at Columbia, SC. I want to start engaging in speaking conferences for other women's groups as soon as possible now that my book is published.
Question I was molested by my father when i was 9-12 and i accidently told on him wen i was talking to a friend of mine. I read that you are an adult and you were molested so im asking you how i can get over what my father did so i can live my life to the fullest? I dont want to be emo until the day i die but I dont know how to stop it. Could you tell me?
Answer Dear Hannah,
How old are you? It was not an accident that you told on him! He should have been told on!!!!
Tell me more. It is hard to get over a father molesting you. You have to understand that it was not your fault. He was the bad guy (perpetrator) and you were the victim. Most likely you will have to have some counseling to get over it. The hardest kind to get over is when the mom knows that it is happening and does nothing to protect you.
Are you grown and away from both of them now? I hope so. Your dad needs to be reported to the authorities so that he will not bother other innocent children.
Tell me more and maybe I can give you more advice.
Blessings,
Sarah
