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Expertise
I can address all questions about physical, sexual, emotional trauma and how to eliminate the effects from your life. I specialize in assisting clients with a 1 to 3-hour session that can discharge all of the negative feelings around any type of emotionally based problem. I can direct you to some websites where you can download information to assist you and your loved ones with emotional problems. I can also assist directly on the phone or via email, in addition to personal sessions, here in San Diego, California. I am not a licensed therapist, lawyer or law enforcement officer.

Experience
I have been a holistic health therapist for a total of over 15 years, specializing in anxiety-phobia, trauma release work.

Education/Credentials
TFT/EFT training, Cranio-Sacral Therapy, SHEN, Reiki, Hypnotherapy.

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Molestation - after molested certain body parts hold bad memories

Expert: William Silver - 10/28/2009

Question
My twin daughters were molested by their cousin who was their age from about 10-12 years old. He would make one perform sexual acts while the other had to stand and watch and count to 30.
As a consequence they have lots of memories of both watching and performing. One of my girls has a spot on her back that when touched sends her right back to the molestation. They are now 16 and struggling to regain their life and have healthy dating relationships. What would you suggest about helping her relieve some of the strong memories attached to that part of her back? Her current boyfriend touched her back unknowing her strong memories of her molestation and she began to cry. He felt really bad and she got really angry at everything because she said, "it is just not fair! I want a life and I want to be free with my boyfriend!" She is very upset and is struggling to know what to do to relieve some of these memories and to begin to take back her back!! Any suggestions?

Answer
Gina, I'm sorry to hear of these residual trauma-related episodes. The mind-body does record everything in our lives and then tries to sort out and heal the bad parts. With sexual trauma, this is seldom successful without some specific healing work/therapy.

If you look through the many success stories at www.emofree.com I think that you will see how this unique and effective healing technique can work for your girls (and you, if you wish). EFT has amazing effects in neutralizing PTSD symptoms, like those that your daughter exhibits. This is a self-help technique that can be used for the rest of your lives, in times of crisis and trauma and just to help you regain your center again, after some upsets.

There is a free EFT manual download on the site and a list of practitioners who are available to assist. In cases where people are isolated from practitioners, the process can be coached over the phone just as effectively as in person.

I know this will benefit all of you, so please give it a try and see the magic happen right before your eyes!

Best wishes,

William Silver
www.back2balance.com

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