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About William Silver
Expertise
I can address all questions about physical, sexual, emotional trauma and how to eliminate the effects from your life. I specialize in assisting clients with a 1 to 3-hour session that can discharge all of the negative feelings around any type of emotionally based problem. I can direct you to some websites where you can download information to assist you and your loved ones with emotional problems. I can also assist directly on the phone or via email, in addition to personal sessions, here in San Diego, California. I am not a licensed therapist, lawyer or law enforcement officer.

Experience
I have been a holistic health therapist for a total of over 15 years, specializing in anxiety-phobia, trauma release work.

Education/Credentials
TFT/EFT training, Cranio-Sacral Therapy, SHEN, Reiki, Hypnotherapy.

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Molestation - question

Expert: William Silver - 10/24/2009

Question
Hello my five year old daughter came to me saying that my ten year old son told her to touch his private parts he pulled it out and rubbed it on her back.When I confronted him he said he pulled it out and she did it with the bear. I really don't no how I should react to it. I talked to them about sexual stuff before this happened.I'm so lost please help me!!!!!

Answer
Tiara... welcome to the real world of parenting! Somehow parents are really not prepared for the eventual actual events of sexual activities of their children. Pretty much a universal problem, however, so don't feel too bad about it. I do recommend that parents read through sites like this:

http://www.ejhs.org/volume3/Haroian/body.htm

Good for your daughter to report the event. Your preparation talk seems to have been effective there. Your son seems to be in denial, having been caught and reported by his little sister. This is a good time to review the rules, once again. You really can't just tell them once and let it go, they need reminding and careful coaching as they grow.

To help you keep on an even keel, try learning EFT from the www.emofree.com website download. This is a quick and easy technique to learn and to teach to your children when they are suffering from a stressful episode in their lives.

You must be a role model of being centered and truthful for your children. EFT can help you get that center back quickly and will help your children release any traumas that they experience, which could affect them later in life.

I hope this is helpful for you all,

William Silver

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