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I am an expert and counselor on experts.com too. I am aware and have been through it all. I can answer your questions on being molested by my father, brother and how it feels as an adult to have dissociative identity disorder (DID) and post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). I can also answer questions on being in SAA, Sex Addicts Anonymous, AA, Alcoholics Anonymous, being married several times as I tried to run from all my fears, including getting lost on the road and yet I still would strike out to find a man even if I did get lost. There's not anything I can imagine that I wouldn't try to answer!

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When I was fifty-nine years of age, I experienced an incorporation with Dr. William Tollefson, the gentleman that developed incorporation therapy. Now my three altars and I are one system instead of four of us fighting against each other. On top of the molestations of childhood, I was raped repeatedly in college by three men and left to die. I stayed in basically an abusive marriage for 26 years even though I was the one that was educated, six years of college. Organizations: United Methodist's Women's Group, Epiphany, Faith Partner's, Emmaus Walk Publications: Sarah Harrison has written several articles for the Women's Institute for Incorporation Therapy's monthly newsletter as well as articles for spiritual magazines. She has just recently published her own true tragedy of sexual abuse entitled, "You Love Your Daddy, Don't You?" Go to www.incestvictim.com to view the website and order her book. Education/Credentials: Master's in Education, Specialist's in Education, Specialist's in Administration. Awards and Honors: Teacher of the Year, on the Board of the Finance Committee for Gwinnett Co. Board of Ed. for seven years, CASA volunteer in Forsyth Co. for four years. Past/Present Clients: Women's group at Birmingham United Methodist Church in Alpharetta, GA and Epiphany at Columbia, SC. I want to start engaging in speaking conferences for other women's groups as soon as possible now that my book is published.

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Molestation - overreaction??

Expert: Sarah Harrison - 11/5/2009

Question
Dear Sarah,

Today after picking my 3 year old from his fathers house, 15 minutes into the ride my lil boy tells me "mommy I can make my peanut bigger and bigger and hard jus like daddy" myself: "what do u mean baby?" Son: "we make them handsome"
Myself: " how do u make them handsome"
Son "we touch them and blow (he proceeded to blow as if putting out a candle) he went on to tell me daddy was "nekid" and he bit down on daddy like a sandwich and daddy peed in my mouth. I'm absolutely sick to my stomach over this. I have filed a police report although when the officer came to see him my son was afraid and hid under the table and would only talk about transformers. The officer then asked me if he often makes up stories. This is the first my son has told me anything like this. I am following up with a restraining order and an emergency custody order but am I overeacting? I always swore if my children ever came to me I would side with them no matter what. Is it normal for a 3yr old to describe what my baby told me today? I'm asking because I didn't grow up in a safe home and want to obtain feedback from a more experienced source.

Thank you for your time.

Answer
Dear Danae,
You are definitely not over reacting! I don't know how you held yourself together to get all that done. Just remember if this ever happens again and you can still try it, get a tape recorder and tape the conversation with him. Small children are always afraid to speak out in public. That is why they try to not put them on the stand in court. You still need to do this for court. Buy a tape recorder, have it running in some inconspicuos place where he can't see it and then tell him you want him to tell you the entire story again before he forgets it. It's ashame that you need to do it, but it is the only way that you will prove that the father is unfit.

Your son did not make this up. He is too young to think up stuff like that. It really happened. I'm so sorry for him. It is terrible for him. He might have ill affects from it down the road.

God bless you for what you have done for your son.
Sarah

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