Hi, I am a single mum to my 12 year old daughter Steph and noticed she is developing sexually.  In our garden we have one of those rope swings and often I see her on it with the rope right against her crotch and she squeezes away, her eyes shut sometimes, is she getting to orgasm doing this/

Janice, children are sexually aware and sensitive, even as youngsters. As your daughter moves into puberty and beyond, she will be feeling a lot of sensitivity in her genital region.

She may or may not be having an orgasm, but she probably is feeling some sexual pleasure in the process. I hope you have had a good talk with her about sexuality and what's coming up in her life in that regard.

She's not a little girl anymore, so time to have the woman-to-woman talk soon...

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